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By *laytime_13 OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Lincs

Someone addresses you by your name, in/during conversation? Normal, non-fab conversation?

Or how about in the bedroom (or wherever your play preferences take you) is it a turn on to hear your name or no thanks?

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By *ir tootMan
23 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"Someone addresses you by your name, in/during conversation? Normal, non-fab conversation?

Or how about in the bedroom (or wherever your play preferences take you) is it a turn on to hear your name or no thanks?"

Prefer my real name in real life unless there teasing me,

I don't think tootuspootus works in the bedroom though

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
23 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

With a fab meet it’s always a bit of a relief if they call me by my real name rather than “trixie”, shows they actually bothered to listen to me

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
23 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Some people saying my name is wonderful. Other people saying my name is jarring and uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

On fab no!! I made the mistake of telling one guy years ago and he still calls me by it in messages and I don't know why but it really bothers me.

In normal life it's fine, I just don't like guys off here knowing and using it.

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By *eliWoman
23 weeks ago

It's situational.

There's a handful of people I feel comfortable hearing them use my real name. And if that's during sex, used the right way? I melt.

Most people from here call me Meli and I'm fine with that.

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By *usty kayCouple
23 weeks ago

Burnham

I actually love my name being used in the bedroom. At least I know I'm not a number and it's me they are thinking if lol

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By *ir tootMan
23 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"I actually love my name being used in the bedroom. At least I know I'm not a number and it's me they are thinking if lol

Yeah i don't think they should ever be mixed, unless your into some weird fabbing roleplay.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
23 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I'm a bit funny about this. In a previous customer facing job I had to wear a name badge, and if a stranger used it when addressing me it felt like a mini violation. I didn't know their name and it felt like they had power over me. That probably sounds insane

If someone I'm very familiar with uses my real name it's fine, so long as they're not one of those types who uses it in every sentence. I find that a bit odd.

If someone I'm very intimate with uses my name in bed it feels utterly amazing.

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By *929Man
23 weeks ago

bedlington

Because only mainly my parents called me by my first name for most my life it feels weird hearing it especially on the bedroom haha

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
23 weeks ago

North West

Most people we've met from here don't know my real name. It's really unusual so that's a privacy thing for me. I'm happy to be addressed as Mrs KC or KC at socials. If it comes to the Sex, I'll be on first-name trust terms so hopefully they won't call me that during sex

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By *oubleswing2019Man
23 weeks ago

Colchester

In a professional work environment I prefer my title and last name.

However I have worked in places where everyone used their first name, and that felt too informal for me. I did not like it one bit.

In the bedroom, I don't like any name being used. The only time I get called a name in the bedroom is when I have "earned one" by a play partner. That comes over over time.

I don't demand titles from new submissives, I'm not that sort of dom.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
23 weeks ago

Newmill

I think if I meet someone and they call me Meliodas I'll be too busy laughing at how bizarre it feels to do much else useful. :P

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I'm a bit funny about this. In a previous customer facing job I had to wear a name badge, and if a stranger used it when addressing me it felt like a mini violation. I didn't know their name and it felt like they had power over me. That probably sounds insane

If someone I'm very familiar with uses my real name it's fine, so long as they're not one of those types who uses it in every sentence. I find that a bit odd.

If someone I'm very intimate with uses my name in bed it feels utterly amazing.

Not insane at all... I hate when people address me by my first name without asking.

But when the right person whispers it...

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By *onkeynutWoman
23 weeks ago

somewhere

In my previous job they changed things and had our names showing as first names instead of the usual surname. I hated it, luckily it was soon reverted back to surnames.

If someone uses it in conversation I quite like it. I love it being used in the bedroom, just makes me

for some reason

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
23 weeks ago

North West

Oh I missed the bit about work. First names at work, from everyone. I do like being called "Professor" but it's not accurate

I've learned to respond to most things at work (from the non-staff quotient). Sir. Miss. Ma'am. Professor. Teacher. Mrs X. [Name]. I get it all

I don't LIKE being called Mrs X professionally.

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By *ust JuicyWoman
23 weeks ago

east london

Outside of fab I find it very strange for people not to use my name - only a couple of ppl on her know it and when we meet socially I’m happy for it to be used - had a fwb on here for many years who never used my name socially / in messages or during sex. I actually found it quite rude and offensive in the end it became a self worth thing

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By *hil most chillMan
23 weeks ago

South East & Europe

"On fab no!! I made the mistake of telling one guy years ago and he still calls me by it in messages and I don't know why but it really bothers me.

In normal life it's fine, I just don't like guys off here knowing and using it. "

Completely understand this. It feels like they're violating you or holding it over you when they use it, as on here that is very personal information. I try not to let my real name out the bag on here.

In real life if someone uses my real name in conversation it's fine.

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By *affron40Woman
23 weeks ago

manchester

Loads of people here know my real name and absolutely nobody uses it 🤣 if I’m having sex with someone I totally expect them to use my real name or it just feels kinda weird.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
23 weeks ago

Ends

I like it but weirdly, only my partners say it.

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By *eroLondonMan
23 weeks ago

Mayfair

Her name is really Marjorie... ^.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
23 weeks ago

North West

"I like it but weirdly, only my partners say it. "

🤔

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By *arley QuimWoman
23 weeks ago

Somewhere

I had a cpls meet a few years ago with an ex fwb. I'd completely forgotten I hadn't said my real name, so the guy kept using my Fab name (a different one). Totally threw me, and it felt too late at that stage to make the correction

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
23 weeks ago

Ends

"I like it but weirdly, only my partners say it.

🤔"

👀

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
23 weeks ago

North West

"I like it but weirdly, only my partners say it.

🤔

👀

I like saying names beginning with S in the throes of passion

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Yes, it makes me feel like an individual

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By *hunky GentMan
23 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I tend to tell fab friends my real name at some point.

But some still call me CG or Chunky.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

No one has ever called me wonko

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
23 weeks ago

Leeds

It’s just a name, I have many, insults, nicknames, real names, profile names, call me what you want.

The mr

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By *emboy AlexMan
23 weeks ago

Chadderton, Manchester

I love it when people address me by my name so yeah!

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Very few people call me by my name. It’s rare, and I do like it when they do.

I like other names too… especially when I’m balls deep in her 😏

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By *d mirerMan
23 weeks ago

lost

On a personal level I like it when people use my name , work contacts using it is just a formality . Most of my friends use variations of it , I’ve had many nicknames !

Being used intimately I feel really quite warming .

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