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By *ersona101 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Letchworth

I've decided to refresh my profile text. Just because what was there was out of date and it needed a definite tidy up.

But as usual, I'm now having the hardest time writing a new one.

Don't know if it should have too much information or too little. Being too detailed might put off those that I could still get on well with.

And I don't want it looking like a sex CV.

There are certain things I like to do that numerous woman over the years have said I'm good at, but if I put that it just sounds like bragging and people would think it bullshit anyway.

I like to put in some humour, but do people then think it's not a serious profile.

So many questions!

Any thoughts or tips and hints out there?

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By *arla SwingerWoman
15 weeks ago

Somewhere

Just write whatever you want

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago


"I've decided to refresh my profile text. Just because what was there was out of date and it needed a definite tidy up.

But as usual, I'm now having the hardest time writing a new one.

Don't know if it should have too much information or too little. Being too detailed might put off those that I could still get on well with.

And I don't want it looking like a sex CV.

There are certain things I like to do that numerous woman over the years have said I'm good at, but if I put that it just sounds like bragging and people would think it bullshit anyway.

I like to put in some humour, but do people then think it's not a serious profile.

So many questions!

Any thoughts or tips and hints out there?"

Copy mine (and have no luck whatsoever)

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago


"Just write whatever you want "

Sound advice. Though some guys need to take less of that advice, since a lot of what they want often isn’t what the recipient wants

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By *arla SwingerWoman
15 weeks ago

Somewhere


"Just write whatever you want

Sound advice. Though some guys need to take less of that advice, since a lot of what they want often isn’t what the recipient wants "

Best both know that from the off though

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By *allySlinkyWoman
15 weeks ago

Leeds

Could you put some of the old stuff back on until you think of something new to write ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
15 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If people are put off by you putting more detail, then you're not compatible and it's best to get it out of the way than waste time.

Same for if they don't get your sense of humour.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
15 weeks ago

Newmill

I went down the humour route. Being funny is one of my best qualities, so there seemed little point in not putting that forward in my bio. The important thing is that it reflects you and communicates what you want to get across to potential matches.

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By *ompovatorX24Man
15 weeks ago

Wembley

I just had sex and it felt good

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By *YDB75Man
15 weeks ago

East Yorkie

Ive tried witty and jokey…didnt work

I tried honesty and bluntness…didnt work

Tried staight to the point…didnt work.

Then realised nothing really works if ya dont appeal to anyone and do people even read them

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
15 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Chatgtp it 🤣🤣🤣

Mr

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By *naswingdressWoman
15 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think a decent template is:

who am I?

What/ who am I looking for?

what do I have to offer?

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By *ersona101 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Letchworth


"Chatgtp it 🤣🤣🤣

Mr"

LOL!

I just might 😁

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By *ersona101 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Letchworth


"Could you put some of the old stuff back on until you think of something new to write ?"

I don't save the old stuff and of course soon as I think it needs to change I go and delete what was there!🤦‍♂️

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By *ersona101 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Letchworth


"I think a decent template is:

who am I?

What/ who am I looking for?

what do I have to offer?"

Thx x

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By *8on33Man
15 weeks ago

winfrith


"I've decided to refresh my profile text. Just because what was there was out of date and it needed a definite tidy up.

But as usual, I'm now having the hardest time writing a new one.

Don't know if it should have too much information or too little. Being too detailed might put off those that I could still get on well with.

And I don't want it looking like a sex CV.

There are certain things I like to do that numerous woman over the years have said I'm good at, but if I put that it just sounds like bragging and people would think it bullshit anyway.

I like to put in some humour, but do people then think it's not a serious profile.

So many questions!

Any thoughts or tips and hints out there?"
You can never have too much text.

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By *r John WickMan
15 weeks ago

The Continental

Write what you like.

You’ll never please everybody.

And if you started to write a profile from others suggestions…..you’re not describing you. You’re just writing what others wanna see.

Be yourself, own it.

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By *ersona101 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Letchworth

Thanks for all of your replies

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By *imples24Man
15 weeks ago

tamworth

Do people even read profiles?!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
15 weeks ago

Leeds


"Do people even read profiles?!"

I do

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By *imples24Man
15 weeks ago

tamworth


"Do people even read profiles?!

I do"

Me too but from what I’ve read and gather a lot don’t and from messages I’ve receive they definitely haven’t read mine lol

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By *punk n gushCouple
15 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

Looks OK to me

Mrs

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By *ersona101 OP   Man
14 weeks ago

Letchworth


"Looks OK to me

Mrs "

Thx

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