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" Is the old addage true. To keep your man, keep your man happy in bed. " I don’t think that applies on here it’s a swinging site! To keep your man, keep your man happy in bed with other women. | |||
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"I sometimes wonder if a partner suddenly wasn't able to walk any more would the other partner go on walks with someone else or adapt their activities so they could do a similar thing together. " I guess it depends on if walks are an important and integral component of their relationship or if one of them feels less of a person without a walk… I’m not sure that the parallel works in this case | |||
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"She's in fucking pain. What horrible sexist nonsense." Taking the cheating out of the equation (because that's inexcusable), what's the solution here? Is it all about her and he should just put up and shut up? Should he have walked away? Should they have had a private discussion and made an agreement? I ask because it's estimated anywhere between 25% or 50% of marriage's are sexless, divorces rates are at the highest levels ever and depression rates are going through the roof and intimacy or lack of is playing a big factor. So if one party is highly sexed and the other isn't for whatever reason, what's the solution? | |||
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"His partner is poorly. That should be his priority . Not getting his end away x " So they both have to suffer? How about if the poorly partner doesn’t want to see their partner suffer due to their illness? | |||
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"There are plenty of women doing this too. Most womens magazines and feminazi rags like the guardian encourage it. So let’s blaming men and putting them down." Doesn’t it apply to either partner though? Either one could be the poorly one and the other have sexual needs. | |||
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"I sometimes wonder if a partner suddenly wasn't able to walk any more would the other partner go on walks with someone else or adapt their activities so they could do a similar thing together. I guess it depends on if walks are an important and integral component of their relationship or if one of them feels less of a person without a walk… I’m not sure that the parallel works in this case" But walks could be an integral part of one partner’s life. Should he have to never walk again? Should she be forced to? Neither is right. One person is always left unhappy. Adding a walking partner just seems an obvious solution to me. And I stress the point ***TO ME***. I think to keep 2 people happy, both need to compromise and be happy. I also appreciate massively that I’m an unemotional and very black and white character - which isn’t standard. | |||
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"I sometimes wonder if a partner suddenly wasn't able to walk any more would the other partner go on walks with someone else or adapt their activities so they could do a similar thing together. I guess it depends on if walks are an important and integral component of their relationship or if one of them feels less of a person without a walk… I’m not sure that the parallel works in this case But walks could be an integral part of one partner’s life. Should he have to never walk again? Should she be forced to? Neither is right. One person is always left unhappy. Adding a walking partner just seems an obvious solution to me. And I stress the point ***TO ME***. I think to keep 2 people happy, both need to compromise and be happy. I also appreciate massively that I’m an unemotional and very black and white character - which isn’t standard. " That's what I was getting at. | |||
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"In sickness and in health, no? I don't think you need to be married for that to be true in a LTR. " In permanent sickness and incapacity and don't have your physical needs met at all whilst your partner is living, which could be decades. Yep, seems reasonable to me... | |||
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"She's in fucking pain. What horrible sexist nonsense. Taking the cheating out of the equation (because that's inexcusable), what's the solution here? Is it all about her and he should just put up and shut up? Should he have walked away? Should they have had a private discussion and made an agreement? I ask because it's estimated anywhere between 25% or 50% of marriage's are sexless, divorces rates are at the highest levels ever and depression rates are going through the roof and intimacy or lack of is playing a big factor. So if one party is highly sexed and the other isn't for whatever reason, what's the solution? " Break 👏 up 👏 | |||
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"In sickness and in health, no? I don't think you need to be married for that to be true in a LTR. In permanent sickness and incapacity and don't have your physical needs met at all whilst your partner is living, which could be decades. Yep, seems reasonable to me..." I don't know this case, but there was nothing about permanent sickness and incapacity. But guess it depends on individual priorities. It's almost as if there's no one size fits all answer to a question like this... | |||
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"If we set aside Tom’s inimitable men v women presentation of the situation, isn’t this just another classic example of people having mismatched needs in a relationship? In which case, communication and compromise on both sides are key, but sometimes it just doesn’t work. Mrs TMN x" You're in my head today, Mrs TMN. I came on to say similar. Every relationship is unique. People change, needs change. Talking about it is the only way a relationship will survive such challenges, and even then it's not a given, and that's OK too. Also, not everyone is comfortable seeking sex outside of their relationship. I lost my libido due to depression during my marriage. Eventually I told my husband that he had my blessing to find sex and intimacy elsewhere, but he didn't want that. Eventually, we divorced for various reasons, not just lack of sex, and it was the right thing for both of us. | |||
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"If we set aside Tom’s inimitable men v women presentation of the situation, isn’t this just another classic example of people having mismatched needs in a relationship? In which case, communication and compromise on both sides are key, but sometimes it just doesn’t work. Mrs TMN x" Leave poor Tom out of this .. | |||
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"If we set aside Tom’s inimitable men v women presentation of the situation, isn’t this just another classic example of people having mismatched needs in a relationship? In which case, communication and compromise on both sides are key, but sometimes it just doesn’t work. Mrs TMN x Leave poor Tom out of this .." It’s your thread, Tom, and your presentation of the topic. | |||
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"She's in fucking pain. What horrible sexist nonsense." Why do you need to be racist? | |||
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"She's in fucking pain. What horrible sexist nonsense. Why do you need to be racist? " What in the name of arse was racist about the quoted comment? | |||
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"She's in fucking pain. What horrible sexist nonsense. Why do you need to be racist? What in the name of arse was racist about the quoted comment?" Were you flying a flag whilst typing this, so right wing Mr | |||
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"The male of the species mostly wants many mates. Look at the animal kingdom. Most males are programmed to have lots of females. It's just nature" My oh says I’m more than enough for any man! I’m not sure that he was complimenting me though. | |||
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