FabSwingers.com forum: message introductions

By *ustyDawn OP Woman
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

Why do guys think it's acceptable to send a dick pic as a first message?

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By *arla SwingerWoman
15 weeks ago

Somewhere

Some men are very proud of their penis and want to share it with the world

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By *ohntall123Man
15 weeks ago

Biggleswade

"Why do guys think it's acceptable to send a dick pic as a first message? "

I spoke about this earlier to someone I have no idea tbh

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
15 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Don't know, ask them

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By *ohntall123Man
15 weeks ago

Biggleswade

"Don't know, ask them"

Hahaha

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By *ustyDawn OP Woman
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Don't know, ask them"

Good idea never thought of that oh wait a minute is that not what my post was about lol

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By *ohntall123Man
15 weeks ago

Biggleswade

"Don't know, ask them

Good idea never thought of that oh wait a minute is that not what my post was about lol"

👏👏

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
15 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

"Don't know, ask them

Good idea never thought of that oh wait a minute is that not what my post was about lol"

Well you asked the question, I answered

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By *ustyDawn OP Woman
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Don't know, ask them

Good idea never thought of that oh wait a minute is that not what my post was about lol

Well you asked the question, I answered "

Yeah I asked the question but you more or less replied with the same question lol

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By *mmaleiaWoman
15 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

Because they think you’re going to come clamp your lips around it, I mean, how can anybody resist their prized possession …, just put it back to unread & delete, they’ll know you ignored it, then they’ll do a post in the forums moaning that no one is genuine & all the women here are fake because they don’t want their magnificent cock

It’s an age old debate, or you could report it, as it is illegal, but nothing will get done about it here

Have I just about covered it? I’ve not had a coffee yet …

Sorry lovely, happens all the time here #LeSigh

It’s an age old problem

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
15 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

"Don't know, ask them

Good idea never thought of that oh wait a minute is that not what my post was about lol

Well you asked the question, I answered

Yeah I asked the question but you more or less replied with the same question lol"

Will whoever sent the pics respond on the thread though? That's what I meant by saying 'ask them'

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By *ohntall123Man
15 weeks ago

Biggleswade

Sorry all for the claps I thought it was a jokey thing but feel a tit now tbh . Anyone that sends one is strange tbh if they think it will work

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By *langieBMan
15 weeks ago

Cleator Moor

Not a clue...

Maybe they've never truly grew up... Or they think that by seeing it the person receiving it will lose all self control...

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By *AYENCouple
15 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

"Why do guys think it's acceptable to send a dick pic as a first message? "

They really don't care if it's acceptable or not, just the thought that you've seen their cock gives them enough of a buzz for their next wank - sad but true. Block, delete and forget them. K.

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By *aomilatteCouple
15 weeks ago

Midlands

We got sent videos of a Man masturbating, him having sex with a Women (no doubt she'd be horrified we were sent it), and his phone number. We declined the offer to meet.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
15 weeks ago

somewhere

I'm guessing it's like any "ad" you wanna see the goods first and I'm guessing those people who send dick pics in their first message probably just assume it's wall to wall sex? Like "I've shown you my penis, now use it!".

I hate dick pics in the first message

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By *avexxMan
15 weeks ago

cheshire

ive no idea why guys do this tbh.. sad really

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
15 weeks ago

Leeds

Because they think with their cock alone, they for whatever odd reason thinks everyone wants to see if then sulks when you state you don't.

These people are an easy filter if they think all women want to see their cock they know zero about women & likely the same in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"Why do guys think it's acceptable to send a dick pic as a first message? "

Ask em!

I’m no psychologist, but ibreckon they’re just hoping to catch someone really horny that just wants dick!

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By *ozzybear1981Man
15 weeks ago

preston

Does this work?

Should I try this approach?

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"Does this work?

Should I try this approach?

It could only work as a study if many men joined in and sent many messages.

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By *ozzybear1981Man
15 weeks ago

preston

"Does this work?

Should I try this approach?

It could only work as a study if many men joined in and sent many messages.

I feel the Sydney university would approve funding for this research too

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By *WB85Man
15 weeks ago

Staffordshire

People presume that a sex orientated lifestyle just wants that kind of image.

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By *ddie1966Man
15 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I don't

I won't

I never will.

I've always been told, ask and you will receive.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex

I asked a guy why he had so many pictures of his cock in his profile and he said it was because the idea of people looking at it turned him on.

I guess they send pictures for the same reason sometimes. Also I think they think women are visually aroused by it.

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By *rpeggioCouple
15 weeks ago

Baughurst

Have you actually asked them, OP?

I mean, instead of blocking straightaway or ignoring, why not ask them? A blunt why question? Yes I get you don't want to engage with them, but probably the best way to get answers, then you block them.

Here, you'll only get answers from those that do not do it or feel puzzled like you do.

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
15 weeks ago

Cheshire

Just been through our inbox an opened up a few that had sent pics. Surprise surprise dick pics galore so I have asked why they sent a dick pic in a first message. Still waiting on a reply from any of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I honestly think that some men are so in love with their own self, that they believe putting their prized dick in someone’s inbox will result in the recipient swooning and gagging to have their lips around it.

To be fair, my friend Tim used to just walk around bars in his late teens, asking every woman he met “would you like to suck my dick”. Eventually, one did. Maybe many of the men on here are Tim in disguise.

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By *imples24Man
15 weeks ago

tamworth

Personally I don’t do that, but I genuinely believe the person sending it thinks it’s amazing and you ladies are going to think the same and no way you can resist and turn down one the size of that. The question is do you get many people sending you small ones?

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By *ife NinjaMan
15 weeks ago

Dunfermline

They're pretty ugly bits of kit. I have one in friends, but it is what it is

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

East Sussex

We don't get many at all. In fact it's quite rare

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"Does this work?

Should I try this approach?

It could only work as a study if many men joined in and sent many messages.

I feel the Sydney university would approve funding for this research too"

Paper title - Showing people what you’ve got Down Under!

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By *allipygousMan
15 weeks ago

Leicester

"Why do guys think it's acceptable to send a dick pic as a first message? "

Because there are many single female profiles, some that appear to be genuine too, that demand a dick pic be sent with the first message. Part of the elimination process I guess, and of course what one woman wants, they all want.

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By *hinstrapMan
15 weeks ago

Barnsley

I do t think it's the ideal opening content. It takes alsorts I guess.

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By *rhugesMan
15 weeks ago

Cardiff

I think this is hilarious, apparently women don't like dick pics but you go into their profiles and 99% have legs spread with their fanny's on display lol

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By *allipygousMan
15 weeks ago

Leicester

"I think this is hilarious, apparently women don't like dick pics but you go into their profiles and 99% have legs spread with their fanny's on display lol"

I'm the advocate of the devil here. The question was about dick pics in first messages, not the overall picture content of a profile. But, in the interest of parity, has any chap received a picture of a ladies vagina in a first message from a single woman's or couple's profile?

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
15 weeks ago

Cheshire

Still waiting for anyone to reply as to why.

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By *hilloutMan
15 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

The reason, I think, is because the shield and the anonymity of being online encourages people to lower their behaviour to a more crude and uninhibited state.

After all, how many men would come up to someone in real life with their cock hanging out to say hi?

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By *urry BlokeMan
15 weeks ago

Stalybridge

There's nothing on your profile that suggests you DON'T want them

That, in itself, is an open door to many

You must also consider that many here are not swingers, they are people looking for a shag

They assume that part of your interest here is in sexual organs

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By *ersona101Man
15 weeks ago

Letchworth

Because for some they like to show you who's making all the decisions for them!

Don't get me wrong, I do have pics that are a bit spicy, but I only send them if it's been requested.

I never send them unsolicited.

I do send a face pic, and for some they probably think a photo of a big dick! 😁

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"Still waiting for anyone to reply as to why."

Quite a few comments have given a view on why

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By *enelope2UWoman
15 weeks ago

Fife

"Why do guys think it's acceptable to send a dick pic as a first message? "

Because some women have busted tunnels for a pussy and can't feel anything.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
15 weeks ago

Reading

Because men think women are as impressed with visual material as they are and I think it turbs them on having a woman look at it.

Instablock from me.

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By *issmorganWoman
15 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Because they want you to see it, even if you don't want to.

Or some men say well it's a sex site, even if it is, just a cock pic would never persuade me to meet someone.The site is full of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I have no idea what works but I never send a dick pic

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