FabSwingers.com forum: I wish I knew you wanted me

By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
16 weeks ago

Ends

What do you wish you knew before joining fab?

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By *obilebottomMan
16 weeks ago

All over

The lingo

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By *odgerMooreMan
16 weeks ago

Fulwood

I wish I knew how abhorrent some of the behaviour is on here. I still constantly sit aghast at some of the stories I hear from people I chat with. I worry that one day I will say awww that’s fab for you - not be horrified.

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By *YDB75Man
16 weeks ago

East Yorkie

How hard it would be not fitting the ideal criteria

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By *viatrixWoman
16 weeks ago

Redhill

I wish I had known about it sooner.

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By *imply DeeWoman
16 weeks ago

Wherever

I just wish I joined sooner.

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By *ymClassDropoutMan
16 weeks ago

Berkshire

I wish I had been a female.

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By *imply DeeWoman
16 weeks ago

Wherever

"I wish I had known about it sooner.

Snap!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
16 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

This weekends Euromillions numbers.....

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

"What do you wish you knew before joining fab?"

That the Forum's were fun and many of the people on here are highly entertaining (others are as annoying as my EBT, complete dickheads, but as with my EBT I can find them humorous). Having initially joined Fab around 2013 I did not discover/understand the Lounge until around 2019 and now it is what brings me back after each UNLOS break.

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By *ynamicnatureMan
16 weeks ago

Doncaster

"I wish I had known about it sooner.

Me too,😁

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By *weetiepie99Woman
16 weeks ago

cardiff

That you aren't supposed to have opinions that people disagree with, or you will find yourself blocked (sob sob) from them

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By *olfandtazCouple
16 weeks ago

Bristol

"This weekends Euromillions numbers....."

Sorry bud, it's mine this weekend. I could do alot with 56 million

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By *hilloutMan
16 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I wish I had known about it sooner.

Winning answer! Close thread 😁

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By *odgerMooreMan
16 weeks ago

Fulwood

"That you aren't supposed to have opinions that people disagree with, or you will find yourself blocked (sob sob) from them"

Saves disagreeing with them on a meet when you find they’re incompatible I guess x

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By *mmaleiaWoman
16 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

That finding somebody you’re a) attracted to & b) that lives near would be so hard

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By *herry delightWoman
16 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I wish I had known about it sooner and how much fun sex is, I wish I knew how much I was missing out on.

What I have learned is to have a think skin.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
16 weeks ago

cardiff

"That you aren't supposed to have opinions that people disagree with, or you will find yourself blocked (sob sob) from them

Saves disagreeing with them on a meet when you find they’re incompatible I guess x"

Funnily enough, it tends to be from women, not men

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
16 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

That having sex with people outside of our marriage would bring us closer as a couple. I know, vom.

That I would make friends on here.

Mrs TMN x

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By *urbo TedMan
16 weeks ago

Stansted

That if I pressed up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A I would get the special mode...

Ah wait that was Mario on the NES.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
16 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

"That you aren't supposed to have opinions that people disagree with, or you will find yourself blocked (sob sob) from them"

Aye

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By *hilloutMan
16 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"That if I pressed up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A I would get the special mode...

Ah wait that was Mario on the NES. "

That was the Konami code! Wasn't it B,A twice at the end?🤔😂

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By *NewBNWOMan
16 weeks ago

back

"That finding somebody you’re a) attracted to & b) that lives near would be so hard"

Rule of thumb is if they're any good they're going to be far away

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By *hrista BellendWoman
16 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

About the high ratio of fab single married men on here, could have spent my time differently on here in the first year

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By *urbo TedMan
16 weeks ago

Stansted

"That if I pressed up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A I would get the special mode...

Ah wait that was Mario on the NES.

That was the Konami code! Wasn't it B,A twice at the end?🤔😂"

It was

, it may have been start button as well. Good recall sir

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

"What do you wish you knew before joining fab?"

The realisation that all I thought in my life to be true, was in fact a lie. The social masks people wear annd a new view on an inauthentic society, that doesn’t embrace the truth; which is we have all been living a lie (in a Morpheus voice). Here you learn the truth about society and people.

The things I have learned both good & bad about trust, honesty, dishonesty, disingenuousness, the crazy bewitching power of people, the alluring nature of validation, confidence, growth, sadness, rejection, overcoming change, power of finding motivation, stoicism and moving on.

Only now, am I truly learning. The true impact this whole journey on FAB has had on my life.

When I leave - will I be back because I need validation? Maybe, maybe not.

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By *affron40Woman
16 weeks ago

manchester

It’s a place where people can pretend to be whatever they want to be, not necessarily who they are. So tread carefully.

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By *artfordBlokeMan
16 weeks ago

Dartford

That I'd have to buy a new pretentiousometer, the old one didn't go as high as this site sometimes needs

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
16 weeks ago

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"That you aren't supposed to have opinions that people disagree with, or you will find yourself blocked (sob sob) from them"

I make new profiles and accounts block me before I have even come back to the forums to see their account.

And then I pour myself a glass of rum, I play Obsessed by Mariah Carey and I smile 🥃

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
16 weeks ago

Ends

"It’s a place where people can pretend to be whatever they want to be, not necessarily who they are. So tread carefully."

Meh. As long as you don’t give them the 3 digits on the back of your card you’ll be fine.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
16 weeks ago

Ends

I wish I knew people could get riled up by a 22 year old. 😂😂😂😂

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
16 weeks ago

Essex

I have enjoyed the journey to be honest. I’ve only had 2 bad experiences - that’s on me.

I wish I’d have known some things about me earlier… but fab has taught me some of those.

Sorry - I’m Susie Sunshine again.

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

"I wish I knew people could get riled up by a 22 year old. 😂😂😂😂"

It's not only 22 year olds, some people get quite stroppy with 60 years olds

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By *KTim61Man
16 weeks ago

Tipton

"I wish I had known about it sooner.

DITTO but I was on another site that unfortunately Closed down !!

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By *ipsforlipsMan
16 weeks ago

Midlands

The importance of remembering to ask for veris

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

"I have enjoyed the journey to be honest. I’ve only had 2 bad experiences - that’s on me.

I wish I’d have known some things about me earlier… but fab has taught me some of those.

Sorry - I’m Susie Sunshine again."

What have you done with Misty? She would never let anyone get the better of her, that club and spade are invaluable tools in her armoury!

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
16 weeks ago

Essex

"I have enjoyed the journey to be honest. I’ve only had 2 bad experiences - that’s on me.

I wish I’d have known some things about me earlier… but fab has taught me some of those.

Sorry - I’m Susie Sunshine again.

What have you done with Misty? She would never let anyone get the better of her, that club and spade are invaluable tools in her armoury! "

🤣🤣

Was early days. Pre club.

I do t make the same mistakes twice!

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By *naswingdressWoman
16 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6EhG9giKZvo

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
16 weeks ago

North West

I wish I'd realised how

a lot of people actually are.

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

How much of a lottery it is for single men.

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By *ixed_ManMan
16 weeks ago

tadworth

The amount of optimistic gay guys here

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By *eeper ThanMan
16 weeks ago

Dartford

"The amount of optimistic gay guys here

Sooo true or there are a lot of “straight “ guys for the turning on here 🤷🏻‍♂️

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By *weetiepie99Woman
16 weeks ago

cardiff

"That you aren't supposed to have opinions that people disagree with, or you will find yourself blocked (sob sob) from them

I make new profiles and accounts block me before I have even come back to the forums to see their account.

And then I pour myself a glass of rum, I play Obsessed by Mariah Carey and I smile 🥃"

Well same. I lose no sleep. They are not people I would ever interact with away from here. I usually pour a gin

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By *ust another WonkoMan
16 weeks ago

here and there

How much time I would waste here

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
16 weeks ago

Markfield

"What do you wish you knew before joining fab?"

Hmmm. Still thinking how to answer this.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
16 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I wish I'd been more aware of what catfishing is, and the extreme lengths a small number of people are prepared to go to in an attempt to make themselves appealing.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
16 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Nothing really. I joined with my eyes firmly open and my thick skin already in place. Nothing surprises me… or very little anyway. And I don’t get offended by the majority of it. Laughter at stupid idiotic behaviour is always good by me 👍🏻

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
16 weeks ago

Manchester

To be more careful from the beginning, just trust my gut feeling.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
16 weeks ago

Reading

How much fun it would be . Should have joined years ago.

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By *rHotNottsMan
16 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"How much fun it would be . Should have joined years ago. "

I said the same thing recently about Dubai , it’s not my idea of fun but I wish I maybe came here 20 years earlier I’d be a millionaire and retired now

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By *oodiesCoupleCouple
16 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"I just wish I joined sooner."

Take a bow! 🙌🙌🙌

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By *heseeker73Man
16 weeks ago

witney

I just wish I could meet some naughty people and share loads of fun 😁

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