FabSwingers.com forum: Fussiness

By *heekyCharm OP Man
25 weeks ago

Colne

Are you fussy about what someone's pussy or cock looks like? And if so why?

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Yes

If it doesn't appeal to me visually I'm not going to go there.

Easiest way to explain it

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I guess I am, I love giving oral and love spending time down there, so would therefore want to like what I see, we all have preferences and that’s absolutely fine

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
25 weeks ago

The Continental

Yes.

Why? Because I can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I guess I am, I love giving oral and love spending time down there, so would therefore want to like what I see, we all have preferences and that’s absolutely fine

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
25 weeks ago

Wirral.

I can't say it's ever crossed my mind. Cocks are all different. If I like the guy and we're getting naked, it's fine by me.

The only thing that would turn me off is if it wasn't clean.....

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
25 weeks ago

Ends

Lol honestly no. Like, they’re genitals. Genitals are not pretty things. People have what they have and I’m going down regardless of looks. Hygiene however…

Besides, I would probably be attracted to the person for so many reasons- I’m not going to get icked out because their genitals don’t look a certain way. 🥴

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By *vaRose43Woman
25 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Kind of… cocks come in all shapes and sizes but it still needs to appeal to me

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By *rHotNottsMan
25 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Yes.

Why? Because I can be."

Why do people say this a lot on here about all kinds of things. Outside of fab I never come across people explaining why they like or dislike something ‘because they can’

Does it mean they don’t know why ? Or don’t wish to answer but need to join in

Anyway Yes, I would hypothetically although never seen an ugly on one here.

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By *olfandtazCouple
25 weeks ago

Bristol

Wise man once said

"If the restraunt isn't 5 star, don't expect me to eat there"

Not only does it have to look good, it has to be clean and ready to go

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By *ayHaychMan
25 weeks ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

To be honest for many “unappealing” pictures I’ve seen, it’s just how the picture has been taken.

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By *heekyCharm OP Man
25 weeks ago

Colne

"Yes

If it doesn't appeal to me visually I'm not going to go there.

Easiest way to explain it "

How do you know until the big reveal though?

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By *lack beauty 35Woman
25 weeks ago

West midlands

Yes why would you want to suck or play with something that doesn't look appealing

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
25 weeks ago

North West

I've not experienced a situation where I've been off-put by the penis. I do select penis owners carefully though.

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By *vaRose43Woman
25 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

"Yes

If it doesn't appeal to me visually I'm not going to go there.

Easiest way to explain it

How do you know until the big reveal though? "

Sometimes you don’t, but in those cases I’ve already built a connection with the person and the appearance of their appendage is much less important

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By *heekyCharm OP Man
25 weeks ago

Colne

"Yes

If it doesn't appeal to me visually I'm not going to go there.

Easiest way to explain it

How do you know until the big reveal though?

Sometimes you don’t, but in those cases I’ve already built a connection with the person and the appearance of their appendage is much less important "

This is a great answer, it shows some real genuine character. Thanks for replying.

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By *ou only live onceMan
25 weeks ago

London

This is where Fab 'spoils us'. I guess we can all be fussy as we like what we see or we don't.

But in Ye Olden Times you wouldn't know what someone's bits looked like until you saw them in the flesh, and I never had cause to halt proceedings as I didn't like what I saw. Maybe others did.

Some people don't have those pics on their profile, and I wouldn't insist on seeing them if I liked everything else about a person, so maybe I'm not fussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

It never used to bother me what people or their genitals looked like, that was Until I saw myself in the mirror a few weeks ago.

The resplendent view of my overly masculine body, my healthy sized penis, the sexy body attached to it, I then felt a wave of sadness sweep over me.

Not every one can be as blessed or genetically lucky. ‘I’ve won the lottery, and so have those that ride upon me ’ I thought to myself. How lucky they are. I began to kiss my reflection, with that open mouthed tongue kissing technique I have,… always a winner! 🥇

I then WOKE in cold sweats; realising I was dreaming, it was fecking nightmare, I had major trouser trauma which in reality was barely recognisable at all to any potential bystander, I was playing & touching myself, whilst at the same time, it was the dog was licking my face, and the other passengers on the bus were visibly concerned! I’ll take a different bus next time!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
25 weeks ago

Leeds

No not really if I like the person their genitals alone are unlikely to put me off.

I mean unless they are green, gunky and stinky.

Mrs

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By *aterbottle42Man
25 weeks ago

virgin, looking for a good first experience.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
25 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

"No not really if I like the person their genitals alone are unlikely to put me off.

I mean unless they are green, gunky and stinky.

Mrs "

1000% this🤢

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"Yes

If it doesn't appeal to me visually I'm not going to go there.

Easiest way to explain it

How do you know until the big reveal though? "

Because sometimes when a man likes a woman and a woman likes a man, they have naughty conversations which lead to naughty reveals.

I still stand by my original comment, if a person's bits don't appeal to me visually be that male or female I'm not going to lie and make out they do for me. I'll change the direction of where things are going and stop it politely without causing any hurt or offence to the other person.

I'm not going to suddenly shout how hideous it looks and run away.

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By *heekyCharm OP Man
25 weeks ago

Colne

"It never used to bother me what people or their genitals looked like, that was Until I saw myself in the mirror a few weeks ago.

The resplendent view of my overly masculine body, my healthy sized penis, the sexy body attached to it, I then felt a wave of sadness sweep over me.

Pahahaha!! Amazing !

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By *WB85Man
25 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Of course we are.....

You wouldn't eat something that didn't look tasty would you.

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By *heekyCharm OP Man
25 weeks ago

Colne

"No not really if I like the person their genitals alone are unlikely to put me off.

I mean unless they are green, gunky and stinky.

Mrs "

The key here: never meet the green goblin. Or The Hulk.

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By *heekyCharm OP Man
25 weeks ago

Colne

"Yes

If it doesn't appeal to me visually I'm not going to go there.

Easiest way to explain it

How do you know until the big reveal though?

Because sometimes when a man likes a woman and a woman likes a man, they have naughty conversations which lead to naughty reveals.

I'm not going to suddenly shout how hideous it looks and run away.

Again that's a really compassionate way to handle things. You're ace. X

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By *bi HaiveMan
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25 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Are you fussy about what someone's pussy or cock looks like? And if so why? "

I don't eat food that looks unappetising. So yes.

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By *iberius61Man
25 weeks ago

Pontefract

I hooked up with a girl I hadn't seen for a few years, as I went down on her I remember thinking I recognise that pussy

just seemed an odd thought that had never occurred to me.

Answer to your question, I think I'd say somewhat, but it's not a show stopper, just some are neater than others.

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By *YDB75Man
25 weeks ago

East Yorkie

To be honest and not to cause offence but if it looks like a flattened ham and salad cream sarnie then im not going there.

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By *heekyCharm OP Man
25 weeks ago

Colne

"To be honest and not to cause offence but if it looks like a flattened ham and salad cream sarnie then im not going there. "

Get rid of the salad cream though... that'd be OK wouldn't it?

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By *mmaleiaWoman
25 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Not really, if I like somebody, I’ll work with what I’ve got

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By *weetiepie99Woman
25 weeks ago

cardiff

No, as long as I like the person and obviously all clean and hygienic of course. I wouldn't ask off here to see someone's genitals before the sex. I find it so shallow.

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By *erfHerder74Man
25 weeks ago

Inverclyde

If I fancy the man their cock shape or size is perfect

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By *ady LickWoman
25 weeks ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm more fussy re someone's face than their genitals tbh. On here I will usually see pics of what's on offer so if they've got a nice face I'm not too bothered with how the cock looks, unless there is loads of hair, or it looks sore!

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Fussy? It’s a strange way to say .., I think you are lovely and really attracted to you but damn your pussy looks like a muddy puddle so I’m going to go my way and you go yours…

If I fancy them, I’m not going to body shaming them.

If I fancy them, I fancy ALL of them.

🔥

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By *asterMeliodasMan
25 weeks ago

Newmill

My only real concern is hygiene. As long as everything is clean and fresh I'm good.

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By *uliette500Woman
25 weeks ago

Hull

"I guess I am, I love giving oral and love spending time down there, so would therefore want to like what I see, we all have preferences and that’s absolutely fine "

So say you met someone in a bar not from fab etc.

You get on well, you are really attracted to each other, it gets a bit sexy, you go back to yous, hers a hotel etc. She gets her kit off and you don't like the look of her bits are you honestly going to say no thanks not for me you've got an ugly pussy??

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By *JcuriousCouple
25 weeks ago

Derby

Yes, some just don't appeal to me in the slightest and if that happens I'm not going there 🙂

Miss S x

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By *ir tootMan
25 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"I guess I am, I love giving oral and love spending time down there, so would therefore want to like what I see, we all have preferences and that’s absolutely fine

So say you met someone in a bar not from fab etc.

Only way I'm stopping is if it's smells like its not been washed in ages, or it's err green?

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By *hunky GentMan
25 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

So long as it doesn't resemble a blue waffle I think I'm OK with it.

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By *imples24Man
25 weeks ago

tamworth

Have to say yes some look better than others #desingervagina lol

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By *ir tootMan
25 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"So long as it doesn't resemble a blue waffle I think I'm OK with it.

Yeah aslong as it's hygienic then it's fun times!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
25 weeks ago

Tamworth

As others have said, for me it’s about being clean and hygienic.

A person is more than their genitals and I can’t think what about appearance would put me off. Granted, some are more appealing but I can’t say I’ve ever thought nope not for me so far.

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