Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
 | Back to forum list |
| Back to The Lounge |
| Jump to newest |  |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"so this is my first time posting a conversation topic so forgive me if you've discussed this before...BUT I'M FRUSTRATED! People often complain that they don't get responses to messages.....especially the men. ...which I appreciate......so...when nescessary I will try and send a polite no ta/ im busy/not meeting etc...especially if the message requests a response one way or the other. ..As a result it often opens up a dialogue which I never wanted in the first place...or I get blasted for rreplying in thr first place especially if i reiterate that i'm not interested! Ya see my problem...Damned if I do...damned if I don't. Advice please..._oxoxo" Say thank you for your interest, even in the face of a polite no thank you. I find it flattering that my lack of pic/pic of my smile/pic of my feet (put in what ever is appropriate) has so affected you that you are insistent in meeting me even though I find I have completely no interest in you. Clearly, my opinion in the matter is an irrelevance to you or you would not show such an astonishing lack of self-esteem by practically begging me. I do hope you find what you are looking for, as it is not me. Then block the bugger. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"so this is my first time posting a conversation topic so forgive me if you've discussed this before...BUT I'M FRUSTRATED! People often complain that they don't get responses to messages.....especially the men. ...which I appreciate......so...when nescessary I will try and send a polite no ta/ im busy/not meeting etc...especially if the message requests a response one way or the other. ..As a result it often opens up a dialogue which I never wanted in the first place...or I get blasted for rreplying in thr first place especially if i reiterate that i'm not interested! Ya see my problem...Damned if I do...damned if I don't. Advice please..._oxoxo Say thank you for your interest, even in the face of a polite no thank you. I find it flattering that my lack of pic/pic of my smile/pic of my feet (put in what ever is appropriate) has so affected you that you are insistent in meeting me even though I find I have completely no interest in you. Clearly, my opinion in the matter is an irrelevance to you or you would not show such an astonishing lack of self-esteem by practically begging me. I do hope you find what you are looking for, as it is not me. Then block the bugger." | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"so this is my first time posting a conversation topic so forgive me if you've discussed this before...BUT I'M FRUSTRATED! People often complain that they don't get responses to messages.....especially the men. ...which I appreciate......so...when nescessary I will try and send a polite no ta/ im busy/not meeting etc...especially if the message requests a response one way or the other. ..As a result it often opens up a dialogue which I never wanted in the first place...or I get blasted for rreplying in thr first place especially if i reiterate that i'm not interested! Ya see my problem...Damned if I do...damned if I don't. Advice please..._oxoxo Say thank you for your interest, even in the face of a polite no thank you. I find it flattering that my lack of pic/pic of my smile/pic of my feet (put in what ever is appropriate) has so affected you that you are insistent in meeting me even though I find I have completely no interest in you. Clearly, my opinion in the matter is an irrelevance to you or you would not show such an astonishing lack of self-esteem by practically begging me. I do hope you find what you are looking for, as it is not me. Then block the bugger." i think i'll cut and paste that response...lol | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ignore and block"  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think I'd be glad to get a message back saying thanks but no thanks - no hard feelings kinda thing. But a lot of people don't handle the rejection very well - and sadly to say - it's mostly males that have an issue with it most of the time (from what I've read!). I think if I were female (haha - there's a thought!) I'd probably just read and delete and save myself the hassle and accompanying abuse. That's my take on it anyway " | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"A polite *sorry but you are not my type but good luck and hope you have fun" If they wanna argue block em! " | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"As an unhappily married guy I'm on here searching and I can assure you, I e mail people, politely, and sometimes get a reply saying, sorry don't do married, or I just get deleted messages without being blocked. I take it on the chin! And move on like those pressing the delete button do! Have fun and don't worry x" cheers | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Post new Message to Thread |
| back to top |  |
