FabSwingers.com forum: What do you find appealing and likeable in a person

By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I am not talking about sexual attraction. I am referring to that moment when you feel you connected with somebody.

WHat is it that makes you take an instant like in somebody?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice genuine smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A true sincere great big smile ....you can tell the fake sneers ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty and Intelligence

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

Sense of humour..more so in a woman.

Openness

Genuine

Able to laugh at themselves/not take themselves seriously

Kind

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Humility

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I love a "warm " facial expression. Somebody who seems to care in want of a better word. Somebody who does not take him or herself too seriously so I gues a certain amount of humility perhaps?

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Humility"
SNAP

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By *r and mrs willingCouple
over a year ago

SOUTH WEST & WALES

Without hesitation - intelligence.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Individuality & Style

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

What about the sense of that the person is at ease, comfortable with themselves?

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By *r and mrs willingCouple
over a year ago

SOUTH WEST & WALES

"What about the sense of that the person is at ease, comfortable with themselves? "

Very attractive but very rare .

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"What about the sense of that the person is at ease, comfortable with themselves?

Very attractive but very rare . "

Was just thinking that that is something I find appealing. It is not so mcuh about how goodlooking somebody is but more about how confident they are with who they are if that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't always describe why I like someone but I can tell within the first couple of minutes.

I am a very talkative and chatty person but I'm not at ease with people I don't like or connect to, I am conscious of every word I speak, but if I'm at ease then I'm instantly chatty and its as if I've known them a while.

I was at ease and I believe quite talkative when I met you Aprodite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to make each other laugh...and that magic moment where you just have to look at each other...and both your faces light up !! Maybe im being unrealistic !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big tits and a hairy snatch. Works for me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big tits and a hairy snatch. Works for me!!! "

shallow

honest though.

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The eyes really do it for me. I love blue or green eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour and confidence x

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always starts with.humour for me, I like to smile and laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes.........I love 'em

Mental stimulation is important to me so I find someone who is articulate and able to converse attractive. Also if you both connect and feel you can share a silence without it feeling awkward....you're onto a winner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest eyes

Warm smile

Sense of humour

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Someone who is genuinely interested, warm and friendly, happy and smiley.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honest eyes

Warm smile

Sense of humour"

This

Plus a laid back outlook on lfe, patience - oh - and a wazza pair of jugs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not sure I could quantify as it is just one of those things with many factors involved whether you click or not with another person.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Honest eyes

Warm smile

Sense of humour

This

Plus a laid back outlook on lfe, patience - oh - and a wazza pair of jugs!

......on a lady.....

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Honesty and smiling eyes (2 if them are always good)

Consideration and chemistry.

Its that certain something that a person has that you connect with. X

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

A inner warmth that shines though, humor, ability to listen, ability to talk, to know when to laugh, a kindness to all. The list is rather long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I could figure out precisely what it is that 'makes the connection', be nice to know what to look for.

I've instantly connected with people, some of those I am still friends with 21 years + later, others not so much but it doesn't happen all too often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone that smiles with their eyes, witty and intelligent too. And who also gets my sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone that smiles with their eyes, witty and intelligent too. And who also gets my sense of humour

We're all doomed then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone that smiles with their eyes, witty and intelligent too. And who also gets my sense of humour

We're all doomed then

Some get it some don't !! Them that don't are doomed I tell ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good sense of humour is a good start. Humility and not taking life too seriously. Someone who knows when to listen and when to put me in my place and someone who I can just chill out with, have a drink, chat and the occasional kebab!

Basically someone easy going...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A good sense of humour is a good start. Humility and not taking life too seriously. Someone who knows when to listen and when to put me in my place and someone who I can just chill out with, have a drink, chat and the occasional kebab!

Basically someone easy going..."

I'm easy

and is that a Chicken Kebab with Garlic Mayo ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically someone easy going...

I'm easy

and is that a Chicken Kebab with Garlic Mayo ?

Fancy a shish and a shag?!

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By *ondonpride69Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Someone who takes care in there apperance, the ability to hold a conversation not about sex, a cute smile, honesty, humility. The list is endless...............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically someone easy going...

I'm easy

and is that a Chicken Kebab with Garlic Mayo ?

Fancy a shish and a shag?!

Can I have the Shish after, I'm no good on a full stomach

I get motion sickness

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By *eaverfeverCouple
over a year ago

nr Manchester

[Removed by poster at 10/04/13 09:18:10]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good sense of humour for me if they can make me laugh its a start...also like a nice smile and relaxed nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 10/04/13 09:18:10]"

Sorry did someone say something? As I typed this looks like not

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By *eaverfeverCouple
over a year ago

nr Manchester

Sense of humour a must.

Prob a different thread but can't stand people who lie about anything and everything .

People who waffle utter shite or those that talk over you!!!!

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By *eaverfeverCouple
over a year ago

nr Manchester

"[Removed by poster at 10/04/13 09:18:10]

Sorry did someone say something? As I typed this looks like not

Lol . I missed somthing out!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality and a good sense of humour with intelligence always a bonus lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self confidence, without being pompous or arrogant. A sense of humour, intelligence and a filthy mind at the right time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Warmth, sense if humour and someone who can look me in the eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A quiet confidence

An honest, integral personlity, so attractive when people are honest about their weakness

Being knowledgable on a subject, so sexy when someone knows what they are talking about and do it with passion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty and a great sense of humour

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Sense of humour and compashion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone who is laid back, not too serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sense of humour,

An honest smile,

But its the twinkle in a guys eyes that hooks me every time!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Being 5' 9" on the ground

and

6' 5" on his wallet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worldly wise, intellegent, compassionate, and a similar sense of humor, independent and outgoing personality.

Hold on a minute.... I have just described my partner...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality.

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