FabSwingers.com forum: How big is too big?

By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

…for face sitting…used to love my size 18 FWB face sitting and smothering me. Played recently with a woman of size 20+ but she wouldn’t because she was worried about it.

I’m an absolute BBW SSBBW worshiper so asking the larger ladies what do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

You'd like this member

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/ssbbw-read_profile!

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By *naswingdressWoman
19 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's not something I'm comfortable doing at any size.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

It's not me that gets suffocated under my fat arse so I have no issue with it. 🤣🤣

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By *d mirerMan
19 weeks ago

lost

I have a big face !

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By *aximus74Woman
19 weeks ago

Manchester

I'm very paranoid about doing.. don't mind standing over the man if he's lay with his head over the bed though

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By *hunky GentMan
19 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Tip of the day - have a snorkel handy.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
19 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

It’s not a weight issue for me, it’s that I’m too sub

I get on top of his face and then I don’t know what to do - am I meant to wriggle on him, ride him, stay stock still? It’s never felt pleasurable on my pussy, and I can’t cum without some element of restraint so I’m too “free” to get a sense of enjoyment from it. So I just stay there until he tells me I can get off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"I'm very paranoid about doing.. don't mind standing over the man if he's lay with his head over the bed though "

Yes this is what we’ve done in the past but there’s something quite erotic about feeling more weight and pressure whilst performing oral…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"It’s not a weight issue for me, it’s that I’m too sub

I hadn’t thought of it like that!

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By *hunky GentMan
19 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
19 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm not bragging, but my tongue is long enough that she can hover over my face, not sit hard on it.

Breathing is easier that way.

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By *JcuriousCouple
19 weeks ago

Derby

"It's not me that gets suffocated under my fat arse so I have no issue with it. 🤣🤣"

😂 😂 This made me laugh way too hard hahahaha

Miss S x

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By *lackhrnyMan
19 weeks ago

Sheffield

"…for face sitting…used to love my size 18 FWB face sitting and smothering me. Played recently with a woman of size 20+ but she wouldn’t because she was worried about it.

I’m an absolute BBW SSBBW worshiper so asking the larger ladies what do you think?"

I'm not a larger lady, but as a man who absolutely LOVES full figured women, there's really no such thing as too big!

Just angle yourself so that I can still breathe and I'm good! Sit away 😆

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
19 weeks ago

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Give you that ghetto D, girl, no limit.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
19 weeks ago

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There’s no limit baby

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
19 weeks ago

Maidstone

Who am I to argue if someone has a deathwish??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"Who am I to argue if someone has a deathwish??"

Hahaha 😍😍

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
19 weeks ago

n/a

"Who am I to argue if someone has a deathwish??"

I mean best way to die I suppose?

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By *hunky GentMan
19 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Who am I to argue if someone has a deathwish??"

I'll accept that challenge

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By *igBearnessMan
19 weeks ago

Richmond

We all have sex by consent, if I say plant your arse on my face then that's my decision, I have completed the risk assessment, just do it lmao

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
19 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"We all have sex by consent, if I say plant your arse on my face then that's my decision, I have completed the risk assessment, just do it lmao "

Completed the risk assessment

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By *hunky GentMan
19 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"We all have sex by consent, if I say plant your arse on my face then that's my decision, I have completed the risk assessment, just do it lmao "

A hard hat and safety goggles?

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By *mmaleiaWoman
19 weeks ago

Trowbridge

"Who am I to argue if someone has a deathwish??"

^this

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
19 weeks ago

Always on the move

To quote Futurama...

DEATH BY SNOO SNOO!

Bring it on

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By *herry delightWoman
19 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I love feeling of a head pressed beneath me. It's such a dominant thing to sit on a persons face demanding pleasure. Their entire world, each breath, the feel of a tapping on my leg to pull up for a couple of seconds, but then right back down. Their entire world, each breath, reduced to serving me.

So shut up and take a deep breath and put your tongue to work because I not getting off until I have cum .

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
19 weeks ago

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"I love feeling of a head pressed beneath me. It's such a dominant thing to sit on a persons face demanding pleasure. Their entire world, each breath, the feel of a tapping on my leg to pull up for a couple of seconds, but then right back down. Their entire world, each breath, reduced to serving me.

So shut up and take a deep breath and put your tongue to work because I not getting off until I have cum . "

Yes ma’am. 🫡

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By *oodiesCoupleCouple
19 weeks ago

Leicestershire

"It's not me that gets suffocated under my fat arse so I have no issue with it. 🤣🤣

😂 😂 This made me laugh way too hard hahahaha

Miss S x"

Me too! Love a good sense of humour 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"It’s not a weight issue for me, it’s that I’m too sub

Think of it like one of those "Bucking Bronco" rides!

Ride and grind, ride and grind with the motion of it.

Get them to hold your thighs tight as you kneel either side of their face. Once you get into it and have a decent rhythm going you will feel them tighten their grip on you so you end up "forced" to stay in position.

Just remember to allow for breathing and watch out for any tapping out movements underneath you! 🤣🤣

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By *uliette500Woman
19 weeks ago

Hull

"It’s not a weight issue for me, it’s that I’m too sub

I feel exactly the same, as soon as anyone tells me to do what I want to them, I just freeze.

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By *hunky GentMan
19 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Yeeeee haaaa

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
19 weeks ago

Hell

I’ve never had anyone ask me not to sit on their face due to my weight 🤣 if it ever happens I’ll report back

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By *ittlebirdWoman
19 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I say go for your life. If you both want to do it.

It’s not my thing at all 🌈

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By *essTTWoman
19 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'm a fattie and love face sitting

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
19 weeks ago

Ends

"I'm a fattie and love face sitting "

🫶🏾🫶🏾

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
19 weeks ago

Ayrshire

If your going to dive for any length of time then you need to practice breathing techniques and use of a snorkel, but only if your good at it!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
19 weeks ago

North West

" If your going to dive for any length of time then you need to practice breathing techniques and use of a snorkel, but only if your good at it!

It's okay, men can breathe through their ears

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
19 weeks ago

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I wrote in my bio (IYKYK) ‘Confident face sitters/ riders - I want to hear from you’ and I meant it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"I'm a fattie and love face sitting "

So many gorgeous women on this thread!!!

😍😍😍

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
19 weeks ago

Ayrshire

(points at crotch) "THIS BIG!"

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By *essTTWoman
19 weeks ago

Birmingham

There's no right or wrong answer tbh. If doing it makes someone uncomfortable then it makes them uncomfortable

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By *essTTWoman
19 weeks ago

Birmingham

"(points at crotch) "THIS BIG!"

Did you read the first post?

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By *nnCeeWoman
19 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"It’s not a weight issue for me, it’s that I’m too sub

I always thought I was too big, but also what you said, poster.

I've never been sure what you're supposed to do once there!!

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By *eliWoman
19 weeks ago

When it's big enough they don't feel comfortable.

It's not something I'm *really in to* but I'd like to try it with someone who was a) really in to my and b) really in to the act itself.

It's not something I'd want to do with everyone or on every naughty playdate.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
19 weeks ago

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"When it's big enough they don't feel comfortable.

It's not something I'm *really in to* but I'd like to try it with someone who was a) really in to my and b) really in to the act itself.

It's not something I'd want to do with everyone or on every naughty playdate."

Bet.

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By *r Spank HarderMan
19 weeks ago

London

Sit on my face to wake me up 😅 what a wonderful way to start the day 😇🫣

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By *emidemiWoman
19 weeks ago

basingstoke

I can absolutely 100% confidently say, that I will never do this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"I can absolutely 100% confidently say, that I will never do this

Is that because it’s not enjoyable for you personally or for other reasons?

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By *aximus74Woman
19 weeks ago

Manchester

"It’s not a weight issue for me, it’s that I’m too sub

Totally understand this!

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By *aximus74Woman
19 weeks ago

Manchester

"I'm very paranoid about doing.. don't mind standing over the man if he's lay with his head over the bed though

Yes this is what we’ve done in the past but there’s something quite erotic about feeling more weight and pressure whilst performing

oral…"

I just get really paranoid thinking I'm hurting them or they can't breathe

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By *nnCeeWoman
19 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"I just get really paranoid thinking I'm hurting them or they can't breathe "

I guess if they stop licking/stop moving they probably can't breathe...

And that *might* be the time to hop off...

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By *hunky GentMan
19 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I just get really paranoid thinking I'm hurting them or they can't breathe

I guess if they stop licking/stop moving they probably can't breathe...

And that *might* be the time to hop off...

I'd be fine.

My tongue has a mind of its own.

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By *heBelladonnaWoman
17 weeks ago

A dazzling place you never knew

"I can absolutely 100% confidently say, that I will never do this

My exact view is this, and it has nothing to do with my size. I hate face sitting and 69 equally.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
17 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

I love sitting on a face (size 24) and love my face sat on too

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By *dam1971Man
17 weeks ago

Bedford

A bit like BDSM, you just need to agree things beforehand.

Two taps on the thigh means go harder, one tap on the thigh means lift up for a second, no taps on the thigh means you probably missed the one tap earlier.

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By *reative-mindMan
17 weeks ago

Exeter

I'm always worried about this and getting booted in the head.

Any tips would be nice

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By *inkyguy7924Man
17 weeks ago

Maidstone

I love the way a big girl feels when she's sitting on my face, thick thighs squeezing my head tight. And those seconds when they relax and sit right down on my face and I struggle to breath. That makes me so hard

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think as long as everyone is happy and survives, then no one is too big

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
17 weeks ago

Wherever

Not such thing as too big when it’s confidently done, considering both parties are equally into each other.

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By *tongue_4_bbwsMan
17 weeks ago

Bewdley

It's only an issue when they're a squirter too... Unless you have a waterboarding kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

The last time I was in this position (even though we'd known each other a few years, and I had lost weight), I still felt awkward being sat fully on his face. So instead of straddling him on both knees, I rested on only one knee, so I had better control of how much weight I placed on him. That being said, in the end he did take hold of my buttocks and pull me all the way in to his face

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
17 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

Before I opened this thread I genuinely thought it was about cock size lol.. I used to be a size 24 and I wouldn't face sit then.. I'd have smothered him.. But as he is now my ex... Maybe I should have done

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By *ake_or_deathMan
17 weeks ago

Manchester

I think it's less about size as angle and position. I've done this with slender women and curvier women and it really turns me on. My preference is for a woman to be facing my head rather than my feet, and if a woman is unsure about it, or if it's not quite working for some reason with her directly on my face she could always lean back a little, steady herself on her hands, and give me a little more room.

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By *utdoorfun7474Couple
17 weeks ago

armagh

Pussy is good and the area around is fun. More area more fun

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By *enelope2UWoman
17 weeks ago

Fife

I can stand and he's got free access so no point in needing to face sit him. Lucky and cursed at the same time.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
17 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Nope. I’m not making jokes about this one.

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By *hunky GentMan
17 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I do like to kneel behind while she's bent over.

Any volunteers?

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By *herry delightWoman
17 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

My theory is suffocate or drown I don't care as long as I am cumming.

I hate 69, honestly I prefer face sitting xx

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By *otguy555Man
17 weeks ago

Bristol

My wife has a pretty big ass for her size. She does worry sometimes when she sits on my face but like the other post says she doesn't care if I drown or suffocate as long as I keep licking her holes

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"My theory is suffocate or drown I don't care as long as I am cumming.

I hate 69, honestly I prefer face sitting xx

Face sitting is the only way to go x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
17 weeks ago

Reading

It's also super uncomfortable so no thanks.

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By *ib.Man
17 weeks ago

Hampshire

Pass.

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By *vaRose43Woman
17 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Meh. If you die you die

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
17 weeks ago

n/a

"Meh. If you die you die "

that's the spirit!

I spat out my walnut and coffeecake. 🤣🤣

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
17 weeks ago

n/a

On a serious note i dont care how big the ass is, aslong as it's done by someone who knows what there doing suffocate me please.

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By *hunky GentMan
17 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Meh. If you die you die "

Ok Drako

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