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"Maybe it's your experience of men on here that have put you off other penis OP? " Agree. And perhaps all the other men make you feel like you love what you have a lot more. Totally normal for some people | |||
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"Not really no. I wouldn't say I'm desensitised to it - if it's a photo of someone I'm attracted to I'm still going to find them attractive. Maybe it's your experience of men on here that have put you off other penis OP? " It's very possible, there are some good eggs but my experience of men here isn't the best overall. Mrs | |||
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"Maybe it's your experience of men on here that have put you off other penis OP? Agree. And perhaps all the other men make you feel like you love what you have a lot more. Totally normal for some people " I definitely feel this too! Mrs | |||
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"Not at all. I already wasn't interested in strangers' genitals. No amount of oversaturation of dick pics on here could make me not long to ch0ke on my favourite penii 💜" I get this side too, it's definitely not put me off "all" as I still enjoy the Mr but it's had an effect on even wanting to get to know another man/man half of couple here. Totally agree genitals alone have never been a turn on. Mrs | |||
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 nope, doubt I'll ever tire of seeing those   | |||
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"Genitals maybe, but a decent ass nope, doubt I'll ever tire of seeing those "Ass, as in 'Nice arse', any time but arse as in anus, no. | |||
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"I wasn't necessarily meaning close ups just the general seeing sexy pics everyday." It’s the same as porn. If you watch too much porn, not sure what too much is, you can become desensitised to it | |||
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Yes and no.
I have no feelings in seeing stuff from people I don’t know, but anyone a might fancy… maybe a get a little aroused 😏
But I can appreciate a strangers picture if it looks sexy, it’s just that it doesn’t do anything more than make me fab it.
I’ve even started to try and fab the photos on the lingerie pages of the catalog now | |||
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"I wasn't necessarily meaning close ups just the general seeing sexy pics everyday." Oh no that doesn't put me off. So few of them are actually sexy to me they're just an image of a body. | |||
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"Seeing vag/cock/arse on a daily basis? Like I'm guessing if you work at subway you wouldn't fancy one after work.... Do you become a little immune? I've lost any interest in other penis since joining here, is it just me? Mrs " No, though a photo of a vag may be... stretching it a bit 🫣 | |||
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"I prefer the subtle images - would prefer not to be faced with someone's profile picture of their genitals as I gulp my coffee in the morning. It's quite different if you are actually hooking up with that person and are about to bump uglies." The main reason I changed my profile pic back was so that people not involved in the contest thread don't have to see it. | |||
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"I wasn't necessarily meaning close ups just the general seeing sexy pics everyday." Not really if it’s sexy. I guess I’m interested in good pics, people taking a risk, doing different things and stimulating interest. Same angle, different bra and panties, maybe not so much | |||
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"Yep it makes me Indifferent to pics of them and I'll happily swipe past those profiles now" Sorry  | |||
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"Yep it makes me Indifferent to pics of them and I'll happily swipe past those profiles now Sorry "You did prewarn us though | |||
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"I have cock and vag blindness. I reckon I could see people on the bus with it all hanging out and not even notice. Things like that have never sparked erotic desire in me and continuous exposure hasn't changed that. " Hahaha great comment!. If I'm lost in an intriguing thread and I come across a comment with the user's pic a hardened penis or gaping vahjsheen I can't help but skip it, its like walking in on a friend or relative sitting on the toilet, the last thing I'd want to do is stand there staring lol but I guess after doing it long enough one will get used to it and I hope I do I've probably missed some really good comments. x | |||
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"I prefer the subtle images - would prefer not to be faced with someone's profile picture of their genitals as I gulp my coffee in the morning. It's quite different if you are actually hooking up with that person and are about to bump uglies. The main reason I changed my profile pic back was so that people not involved in the contest thread don't have to see it." Thanks Near Keith still makes me chuckle (especially after a thread where two Forumites said that they could not have sex with a man whose name was Keith).  | |||
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"I prefer the subtle images - would prefer not to be faced with someone's profile picture of their genitals as I gulp my coffee in the morning. It's quite different if you are actually hooking up with that person and are about to bump uglies. The main reason I changed my profile pic back was so that people not involved in the contest thread don't have to see it." Damn, you lied - the dick has reappeared! | |||
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"I prefer the subtle images - would prefer not to be faced with someone's profile picture of their genitals as I gulp my coffee in the morning. It's quite different if you are actually hooking up with that person and are about to bump uglies. The main reason I changed my profile pic back was so that people not involved in the contest thread don't have to see it. Damn, you lied - the dick has reappeared!" I did post a comment saying I'd changed it back and put an apology in my status instead! | |||
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"I'm not sure if it would 'put me off' the whole person or pursuit BUT I have a growing loathing of public genital avatars.... We don't make conversation with genitals as a rule so why on here? Some of them are downright repulsive and repugnant ..... never mind the 'put you offs' " I'm debating changing mine back again because this still feels wrong. XD | |||
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"I'm not sure if it would 'put me off' the whole person or pursuit BUT I have a growing loathing of public genital avatars.... We don't make conversation with genitals as a rule so why on here? Some of them are downright repulsive and repugnant ..... never mind the 'put you offs' " I'm with you on this I can't hold a conversation with a cock or a vagina. Mrs | |||
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"I'm not sure if it would 'put me off' the whole person or pursuit BUT I have a growing loathing of public genital avatars.... We don't make conversation with genitals as a rule so why on here? Some of them are downright repulsive and repugnant ..... never mind the 'put you offs' " I agree with Granny... I just don't want to see them.. all of the time! I honestly think men would do much better if they kept them private. | |||
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"I'm not sure if it would 'put me off' the whole person or pursuit BUT I have a growing loathing of public genital avatars.... We don't make conversation with genitals as a rule so why on here? Some of them are downright repulsive and repugnant ..... never mind the 'put you offs' " Absolutely THIS…either go with the default no picture or upload a proper face shot to your avatar! In reply to the question no, but then again I only ever go looking for the type of person that attracts me so I guess that helps | |||
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"I'm not sure if it would 'put me off' the whole person or pursuit BUT I have a growing loathing of public genital avatars.... We don't make conversation with genitals as a rule so why on here? Some of them are downright repulsive and repugnant ..... never mind the 'put you offs' I agree with Granny... I just don't want to see them.. all of the time! I honestly think men would do much better if they kept them private." I usually have mine friends only, which they'll be going back to after this contest thing. | |||
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"I’m completely desensitised to dick and pussy pics. I even know what would be C’s preferred choice now…although sending it in a message, that usually I have to open, isn’t going to work well at all. I went to a social the other day and I actually said to someone I remember what your nipples look like but had never seen her face until in front of me 🤷🏻♂️ K" There is something awfully bizarre about interacting socially with someone you've already seen naked in photos, isn't there? | |||
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