FabSwingers.com forum: What’s your reason

By *iker Jack OP Man
28 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

What’s your reason for being on fab?

To get meets?

Escapism?

To engage with like minded people?

To just look at the photos and videos?

Or any other reason?

Me personally I have been on and off here for years. Met some amazing people socially.

I don’t use it to meet as much now.

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By *parkle1974Woman
28 weeks ago

Leeds

Mostly to keep in touch with a couple of old friends.

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By *naswingdressWoman
28 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Anthropological research. My Alma mater appreciates my contributions 🎓

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
28 weeks ago

Tamworth

A mix of finding out about events, connecting with people who are going and staying in touch with people I've met.

I love the forums too so it's about the randomness and arsing about here.

I maintain a level of unwaivering optimism that one day I'll find a FWB through here but... yeah.

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By *dam1971Man
28 weeks ago

Bedford

I don’t know, it’s all been some dreadful mistake and I’m trapped here now.

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By *naswingdressWoman
28 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I don’t know, it’s all been some dreadful mistake and I’m trapped here now.

https://youtu.be/BciS5krYL80?si=A_q9WF2xt7OENdVg

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By *he KakapoMan
28 weeks ago

A nice rock

Initially to get meets.

Now it's more of a boredom filler with bits of sexy time thrown in as a filler

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
28 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

At 50 I wanted (maybe needed) to tell myself I wasn’t a complete write off just yet.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
28 weeks ago

Newmill

Just whatever comes of it, really. I'm here for the vibes and the good times. Made a lot of great new friends on the forums since I rejoined.

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By *olfandtazCouple
28 weeks ago

Bristol

Just to add something to our sex life's, still finding that out now

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By *affron40Woman
28 weeks ago

manchester

Socialising with lovely people I’ve met over the years.

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By *orthern_nudieMan
28 weeks ago

leeds

Meet likeminded people. Nudists, kinky freaks and people who like to explore

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By *ell GwynnWoman
28 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Social events, forum, making connections, occasionally having sex with some of those connections.

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By *mmacdheelsTV/TS
28 weeks ago

France, And sometimes in

Here purely to get meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I had hoped it would be to meet lovely like-minded people, for lovely go-with-the-flow sex! But when it turns into a military operation and a competition to see who orgasms the most...I'd rather be f***ing celibate!!

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I initially just wanted no strings sex (yeah, yeah typical single guy) but I don't think I anticipated it playing as big a role in my life as it has

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I’m still trying to figure what this website is about.

Baseball?

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

It arrange meets with like minded people…

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
28 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Just for the forums now

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
28 weeks ago

somewhere

This place changed my life almost 9 years ago, I've tried leaving but fab will always have my heart, especially the forums x

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By *elix SightedMan
28 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I googled fab garden play equipment and ended up here. Found the forums and forgot to leave.

Accidentally shagged some people.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
28 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"I’m still trying to figure what this website is about.

Baseball? "

I’ve seen balls mentioned a lot in my local area status updates so you might be onto something

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By *lik and PaulCouple
28 weeks ago

cahoots

Mainly to keep in touch with people we know from the lifestyle.

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By *hunky GentMan
28 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm just here for giggles

And blue underwear.

But I won't say no to a blowjob (from a woman)

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By *hilloutMan
28 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Escapism

Interaction

Forging connections with like minded people.

Have memorable encounters and create many happy memories 😊😈

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
28 weeks ago

Manchester

I'm here to get to know men who could become fwb. I also like the forums and it's easier to know about events happening. I obviously also like to take and share sexy photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Expanding my experience’s, meet and chat with likeminded people

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By *mily36CWoman
28 weeks ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

To get to the bottom of what Sydney University is up to!!??

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
28 weeks ago

The Continental

Get ma wang wet.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
28 weeks ago

Trowbridge

"What’s your reason for being on fab?

To get meets?

Escapism?

To engage with like minded people?

To just look at the photos and videos?

Yes

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By *lex46TV/TS
28 weeks ago

Near Wells

To meet and find out what clubs to attend.

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By *avrick180Man
28 weeks ago

Pontypool

To make friends and possibly have meets

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
28 weeks ago

Maidstone

Sex. With hot guys. And to look at hot guys. And to chat to hot guys...I could have just said hot guys...

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
28 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Because I'm having the time of my life

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By *ittlebirdWoman
28 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I like it here 🤷‍♂️

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By *unthum62Man
28 weeks ago

Benidorm

It is a distraction to the real world and if anything else comes of it, great

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By *riar BelisseWoman
28 weeks ago

On Holibobs

To meet friends old and new at organised socials

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

To get blocked by as many people as possible

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By *imples24Man
28 weeks ago

tamworth

To have some genuine meets hopefully but also enjoying the forums which didn’t think I would

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"What’s your reason for being on fab?

I followed a friend here and then became addicted.

The Forum keeps me here.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"To get blocked by as many people as possible

How's that going?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
28 weeks ago

North West

To meet new people

To show off a bit

To have the Sex sometimes

To chat shit

Usual sorts of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Exhibitionism.. Taking nice photos... Knowledge +curiosity.

The anonymity and freedom to express myself with no judgement or anyone telling me what / how i feel.

I feel free in fab

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By *illy IdolMan
28 weeks ago

Midlands

"Exhibitionism.. Taking nice photos... Knowledge +curiosity.

The anonymity and freedom to express myself with no judgement or anyone telling me what / how i feel.

I feel free in fab

I'll tell you what, the beauty of a woman is her heart, attitude and mind...

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By *oubleswing2019Man
28 weeks ago

Colchester

To meet folks who are considering dipping their toes in to fetish-based play. Perhaps they bought the "pink handcuffs" from Anne Summers, and it sparked an idea that there are others who know a bit more about this sort of playstyle, and they'd like to know more. I educate and signpost folks where appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Was talking to someone and they recommend fab. I’d give it a try for meet as a single guy…. Which went great 🥲🌝

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

We popped back in to see what we had been missing since we left.

We've met some nice new people so it was worth the effort

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By *amanthabWoman
28 weeks ago

Somewhere

"We popped back in to see what we had been missing since we left.

We've met some nice new people so it was worth the effort

Exactly the above for me also.

Also missed the forum chats

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By *ucka39Man
28 weeks ago

Newcastle

Keep in contact with friends and make some more like minded obviously

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By *ambo116Man
28 weeks ago

ilfracombe

Wanna meet new people mainly

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Here mainly for the daily rejections to keep my ego in check

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Because I enjoy fucking but don't want any kind of a relationship.

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By *aseylee324Couple
28 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

To amuse myself at the expense of others

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By *ad NannaWoman
28 weeks ago

East London

I came for the cake recipes. Stayed for the sex.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
28 weeks ago

Ends

"I came for the cake recipes. Stayed for the sex."
I’m here in the hope that one day I’ll get to bang _ad nanna

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By *ynamicnatureMan
28 weeks ago

Doncaster

Apart from just wanting to get out there and have a good time in general, I had no idea what to expect when I found fab.

For me it feels like the door to a whole new world has been opened and I haven't felt so free in a long bloody time.

I feel like a born again virgin and I'm loving it,🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Mainly to show off pics and use the forums as we are so far away from most.

Have found the forums fun for the last 8 years or so but, like most other social media, things have turned a little nasty at times.

We sadly have encountered the 'clique' on here recently who pile in on a post with a herd mentality and who think they are oh so clever so considering stepping back from the forums.

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By *a LunaWoman
28 weeks ago

South Wales

For the sex between relationships.

I’ve now realised casual sex is NOT for me and currently I have no desire for a relationship.

So mostly just here to admire the male form

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
28 weeks ago

East Sussex

Escapism mostly nowadays.

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By *hagTonightMan
28 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I mostly just use it for the forum, it is comedy gold

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By *assy LassieWoman
28 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

A husband!

🤣🤣🤣 kidding!

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By *odgerMan
28 weeks ago

Coventry(ish)London

To waste as much time as I possibly can

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By *YDB75Man
28 weeks ago

East Yorkie

Escape from real life stuff

And to do things people wouldnt expect from me if it was ever found out

Abit of danger excitement

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By *illie fitMan
28 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Not to meet, to try and improve my typing skills with one finger

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By *vaRose43Woman
28 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

"What’s your reason for being on fab?

To get meets?

Escapism?

To engage with like minded people?

To just look at the photos and videos?

Pretty much

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By *ozzybear1981Man
28 weeks ago

preston

"What’s your reason for being on fab?

To get meets?

Escapism?

To engage with like minded people?

To just look at the photos and videos?

Pretty much "

Yep pretty much the same

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By *eliWoman
28 weeks ago

The forums.

Group socials.

To Tigger around thanks to... stuff. ❤️

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By *ngelLordCouple
28 weeks ago

Newport

We are here for what actually swinger lifestyle is and it's not what most people think it is unfortunately

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
28 weeks ago

Leeds

Our reasons have changed one the years, right now it's the socials & forums.

We aren't actively seeking to meet that doesn't mean we wouldn't if something pops up but right now there's more important things than meeting others.

Mrs

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By *viatrixWoman
28 weeks ago

Redhill

I think at present, it’s become a part of my “scroll-time”, when I need a break or some escapism from life.

I am too tired, social battery is mostly depleted and sex drive… what is a sex drive? 😂 so not interested in meets at all.

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By *RWoodyCouple
28 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

The forum engagements,

The escape from 'normal' life,

The company,

The fun,

The chats about things that you wouldn't want to discuss on other social media.

The prospects of future connections.

J x

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By *dmit-itMan
28 weeks ago

Bristol

I have met people on here and on others Connexions ' Swinging heathen so it does work but so hit or miss.

Now I prefer to meet bi-guys who want to see there partner take another cock. That's quite an exciting ride. One guy I meet here I have met his wife with him nothing sexually has happened yet.... it's a slow burner. He sucks me off whilst I tell him what I am going to do to his wife. I am taking and collecting them from the airport at the end of September. I refuse to take money but they are going to invite me around for a meal to say thank you. Meanwhile I carry on flirting low key, passing compliments. Sunday he sent me a text saying she's in the local Tesco. Bump into her start chatting her up. I was there in no time. Sadly she went to Lidl instead. However it shows how keen hw is. He says they talk about another cock but she's not that confident so we will see.

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By *hristopherd999Man
28 weeks ago

Brentwood

I'm on here looking for the occasional meet

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By *ilverfox for youMan
28 weeks ago

Hull

20yrs without sex !!!! Yes really .was hoping to meet a fwb but not that easy

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Looking for meets and browse pics

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By *ripfillMan
28 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

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By *elboy1978Man
28 weeks ago

Jarrow

Looking for meets being along time since I had sex

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By *exandcoffeeWoman
28 weeks ago

Stamford

To find a regular FWB as I don’t want a full relationship right now.

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By *ookie46Woman
28 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Organised group socials

Friendships

The Forums

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By *irty Boy-123Man
28 weeks ago

Aberdeen

To meet new people and to broaden my horizons.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
28 weeks ago

Coventry

Originally we both started on here as singles. Both single parents looking for fulfilment of desires, needs and adventures.

I know from a personal pov I was not only looking for sexaul connections but also to broaden my horizons, get a foot into the wider scene and explore scenarios involving 3 or more. I love that you share different experiences with different people. Its a beautiful thing. I wanted that variety without the judgement or norms of the vanilla world. I knew out there somewhere that there was people who see the world as I do. It was great to see others and understand my desires and outlook on sexual non-monogamy are OK. It was like coming home.

Now our use of Fab is manly to keep up to date with what's going on with clubs, parties and the wider scene. Keep in contact with freinds and acquaintances. And on occasion look out out for some local opportunity for mischief.

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By *ozzybear1981Man
28 weeks ago

preston

I’d say cake but nobody has brought me cake yet 🥺

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
28 weeks ago

Ends

Seriously: As per my bio (IYKYK) I would like to find someone local that is interested in a fwb dynamic at least but open to partners too. I have spent enough time fucking around with people that can’t or won’t meet me. Time to prioritise my real wants and not just getting my dick wet when I can.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
28 weeks ago

North West

Still looking for a FWB for me. To do stuff like go to foreign language films in arty-farty venues, have random adventures but also want to snuggle and fuck occasionally too. Also talk about and maybe even watch the footy while naked in bed.

People are too far away 😕

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
28 weeks ago

Ends

"Still looking for a FWB for me. To do stuff like go to foreign language films in arty-farty venues, have random adventures but also want to snuggle and fuck occasionally too. Also talk about and maybe even watch the footy while naked in bed.

People are too far away 😕"

Distance is a killer on here

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
28 weeks ago

North West

People are too far away 😕

Distance is a killer on here"

I saw a film the other day that you'd love. If you're interested, I'll message you the title.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
28 weeks ago

Ends

People are too far away 😕

Distance is a killer on here

I saw a film the other day that you'd love. If you're interested, I'll message you the title. "

Pop into my DM

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By *MFSMan
28 weeks ago

St Albans(ish)

Because online dating sites haven't worked for me and I can't be bothered with the BS any more. Finding a FWB (or two) would a good way to pass the time till I happen to bump into The One in the checkout queue at Sainsbury's.

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By *rHotNottsMan
28 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

To meet the ladies of course and not just for sex.

But also a little bit of escapism and fun (and occasional thought provoking conversations) in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

The socials

The friendships

And trying to keep a huge sex drive at bay! 🫣

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By *MFSMan
28 weeks ago

St Albans(ish)

"And trying to keep a huge sex drive at bay! 🫣"

I'm so sorry you have to deal with that.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
28 weeks ago

Ilkley

It's my main online shopping site.

No, wait. I listen to the music on here.

No that's not it either. The artificial intelligence interface? Better search results?

Colour scheme. I do like the colour scheme.

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By *andT2023Couple
28 weeks ago

in the middle

Fun

Escapism

Exploration

Meeting a few people ..

Making new friends

Maybe a FWB ?

Feeling like my views on enm etc are normal.

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By *erfHerder74Man
28 weeks ago

Inverclyde

For me, I like the conversation in forums and messages

To admire some of the members photos ( I’m not really bothered about the porn pictures or videos)

It would be nice to meet a man that’s open to talk about sex, doing sex or sometimes have a cuddle and kiss together without it getting awkward

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
28 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

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By *ffervescentMan
28 weeks ago

winfrith

I pressed the wrong button literally.

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By *ir tootMan
28 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Fun, lifes to short.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Exhibitionism.. Taking nice photos... Knowledge +curiosity.

The anonymity and freedom to express myself with no judgement or anyone telling me what / how i feel.

I feel free in fab

I'll tell you what, the beauty of a woman is her heart, attitude and mind..."

i adore that statement xx

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Mainly to show off pics and use the forums as we are so far away from most.

Have found the forums fun for the last 8 years or so but, like most other social media, things have turned a little nasty at times.

We sadly have encountered the 'clique' on here recently who pile in on a post with a herd mentality and who think they are oh so clever so considering stepping back from the forums."

When the fun stops, stop.... Not worth the MH hit xx

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Having been of and on here for years, it started purely as a sex thing.

Then it evolved into a social thing

After that it became an exploration thing.

Now it’s trying to have such magical moments that upon your death bed you’ll remember the lady who you had a fabulous flirty dinner with.

You’ll embrace the night of wild carnal lust in a club with a couple.

You’ll remember the jokes and people you met along the way

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Initially found this as I was looking to purchase a swing that was fabulous!

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

To meet interesting, intelligent articulate and attractive people and engage with them in hedonistic pleasure.

And to watch a million videos of sex doggie style.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
28 weeks ago

Ends

"Initially found this as I was looking to purchase a swing that was fabulous!

Cap of the day ^

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By *asterMeliodasMan
28 weeks ago

Newmill

"People are too far away 😕"

I swear that could be a tagline for a lot of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I’m here to spell check and get tips for cake recipes

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By *ubmissive guyMan
28 weeks ago

Liverpool

I'm a single guy, with low sex drive, just looking for something specific. But soon realised I was never going to find it here. Now I'm here in case I miss something .

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Initially found this as I was looking to purchase a swing that was fabulous!

Cap of the day ^"

Would I lie to you Steve?

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By *otcplmidsCouple
28 weeks ago

Warwick

Joined for meets and still, meet on here. But also because I like to see who is shagging who

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By *JcuriousCouple
28 weeks ago

Derby

To meet people, keep in touch with friends, see what clubs have got on to attend, fourms and occasionally dabble in the cams.

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Mainly to show off pics and use the forums as we are so far away from most.

Have found the forums fun for the last 8 years or so but, like most other social media, things have turned a little nasty at times.

We sadly have encountered the 'clique' on here recently who pile in on a post with a herd mentality and who think they are oh so clever so considering stepping back from the forums.

When the fun stops, stop.... Not worth the MH hit xx"

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