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Is anyone who actually likes soft swing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago

We're finding it hard work to find others into soft swing only. Would you be happy to just soft swing?

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

We’re more than happy to soft swing

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By *ools and the brainCouple
23 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

We were soft swing only for a number of years, unfortunately people expect all or nothing today.

There's definitely people out there who will but saying and doing are two different things, and as we know people will say anything to get to the bedroom in the hopes that people will change their minds in the heat of the moment.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
23 weeks ago

Newmill

I'd definitely be happy to.

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By *otCouple3737Couple
23 weeks ago

York/Hull

We're soft swing only in a couples meet

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By *otCouple3737Couple
23 weeks ago

York/Hull

Yes 💯 spot on

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By *aomilatteCouple
23 weeks ago

Midlands


"We're finding it hard work to find others into soft swing only. Would you be happy to just soft swing?"

There are many couples and singles more than happy with soft swing. You may be best trying some club nights as you're one of many who find it hard work on here.

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By *.hrisMan
23 weeks ago

Bath

I thoroughly enjoy 'soft swing'

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By *icecouple561Couple
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23 weeks ago

East Sussex

Yes that's all we do now.

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By *ral loving manMan
23 weeks ago

Tidworth

I to enjoy soft swing very much

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By *aomilatteCouple
23 weeks ago

Midlands

First person to say it's like going in a cake shop to look but not buy a cake gets an actual cream cake

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By *ilverfox for youMan
23 weeks ago

Hull

Totally .a voyeur thing .a meeting shouldn’t be full sex if you don’t wish

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By *olfandtazCouple
23 weeks ago

Bristol

We are happy to soft swing

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

It's the only way for us. ☺️ And most people are very respectful of our boundaries xx

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By *axim3840Man
23 weeks ago

Hackney

What defines soft swing?

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By *ewnmaturesCouple
23 weeks ago

fife

We love soft swinging with others- its our main thing here

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
23 weeks ago

Manchester Area


"We're finding it hard work to find others into soft swing only. Would you be happy to just soft swing?"

Soft swing couple here

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By *axim3840Man
23 weeks ago

Hackney

I’m not in a couple I’m a single guy… I’m sure I am happy with soft swing as I am happy with full blown swinging

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
23 weeks ago

Manchester Area


"First person to say it's like going in a cake shop to look but not buy a cake gets an actual cream cake "

Couple of cream donuts please 🤤

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By *ie n MashCouple
23 weeks ago

Back in Malice

Soft swing only for us, and have been lucky that this has not been an issue for anyone we have played with. And if it had been? We would have merrily moved on elsewhere.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
23 weeks ago

Leeds

I think if I ever got over my dislike of other penis we'd be soft swap to start with too.

Mrs

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
23 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

We're soft swap only and have been from the very beginning. No desire to progress to full swap, despite being told when we first started that we would!

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By *emdomCouple2024Couple
23 weeks ago

dudley

Couple that's happy to soft swing here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

A kiss and fumble? Sign me up…

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By *unclp2011Couple
23 weeks ago

Irwin

We still soft swap if a couple wants to

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By *partharmonyCouple
23 weeks ago

Ruislip


"We're finding it hard work to find others into soft swing only. Would you be happy to just soft swing?"

We've not actually tried it but it sounds lots of fun to us.

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By *partharmonyCouple
23 weeks ago

Ruislip

I think it would be beneficial to you to specify in your profile that you are only looking for soft swing. It will help when others are looking for that too and find your profile.

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By *batMan
23 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I’m actively working on getting someone to watch a Gf and I fucking.

No touching, just watching us. Of course, they can wank as much as they want!!!

Gbat

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By *ilthycouple24Couple
23 weeks ago

Glasgow

What's everyone's definition of soft swing tho may mean differe. To each

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"What's everyone's definition of soft swing tho may mean differe. To each "

For me ideally when I ask couples about Soft swing, I’m up for Oral Only type fun. No penetration. Being a voyeur is also good

More than happy for soft swing couples or even soft fun with singles

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"What's everyone's definition of soft swing tho may mean differe. To each "

A fumble at the most. No oral, just touching and kissing.

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By *rills and SwoonCouple
23 weeks ago

Stroud

We are into many things, but being exhibitionists and voyeurs, soft swing is also fun for us. Always happy to respect any limits. (And we would expect the same obvs!)

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
23 weeks ago

Stoke

Nope.... Soft swing is like buying a Macdonalds and just licking it 🤷‍♂️

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
23 weeks ago

Wolvo

On the occasions i meet couples, i Much prefer soft play. I found full play stressful and unsatisfying. Im happier now only doing soft stuff.

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By *WB85Man
23 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"Nope.... Soft swing is like buying a Macdonalds and just licking it 🤷‍♂️"

Hahaha. That's brilliant

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By *riar BelisseWoman
23 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

I like borrowing husbands who are Into soft swinging, and I stick to the boundaries

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"What's everyone's definition of soft swing tho may mean differe. To each "

We class soft swing foreplay oral, kissing, caressing, touching etc without any penetration.

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By *punk n gushCouple
23 weeks ago

deal

We are happy to do either soft or full swap you can have as much fun if not more fun from playing

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"Nope.... Soft swing is like buying a Macdonalds and just licking it 🤷‍♂️"

But who in their right mind would buy such rubbish?

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By *ssexmale69Man
23 weeks ago

Canvey Island

Ok, I’m relatively new to all of this. What exactly is soft swing?

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"Ok, I’m relatively new to all of this. What exactly is soft swing?"

Not going the whole way!

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
23 weeks ago

Middle England

Happy with soft swing; seems like there are quite a few of us. If only we could get together some time!

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"We're finding it hard work to find others into soft swing only. Would you be happy to just soft swing?"
it’s very hard work

But as we are a predominantly ffm couple

We find soft swap with couples appealing

Ohh local to

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
23 weeks ago

Stoke


"Nope.... Soft swing is like buying a Macdonalds and just licking it 🤷‍♂️

But who in their right mind would buy such rubbish?"

We do

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"Nope.... Soft swing is like buying a Macdonalds and just licking it 🤷‍♂️

But who in their right mind would buy such rubbish?

We do "

Big Mac?

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"Ok, I’m relatively new to all of this. What exactly is soft swing?

Not going the whole way!"

Or maybe it’s not going the hole way, who knows ?

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
23 weeks ago

Stoke


"Nope.... Soft swing is like buying a Macdonalds and just licking it 🤷‍♂️

But who in their right mind would buy such rubbish?

We do

Big Mac?"

Always 😋

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
23 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

if that suits our visitors...up to them really. Happy to go with the flow.

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By *ka OMBMan
23 weeks ago

Wigan/Warrington/St Helens ish

I’ve always been happy to soft swing. Looking back, many meets have been this way x

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By *oughnutandDanishCouple
23 weeks ago

Ware, Hertfordshire

We are happy soft swinging xx

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By *ittlebirdWoman
23 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I’m afraid not OP. Not when I was swinging as a single anyway. But there are plenty that are 🌈

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

On my to do list

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By *aughtyThreesomeCouple
23 weeks ago

Kent

Absolutely 😚 soft swing can be a whole lot of fun 🥵😈💦

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By *hekidd69Man
23 weeks ago

Lane End

Well I joined this site to try new stuff and soft swing is now on my to do list. Sounds like it could be a whole lot of fun, especially with a couple.

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By *alhamCoupleCouple
23 weeks ago

London


"We're finding it hard work to find others into soft swing only. Would you be happy to just soft swing?"

We would be happy with that as we are taking baby steps into the Scene.

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By *ripfillMan
23 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

There is a theme in this thread which echos my view too

Soft swing is wonderful especially if your asked to join a threesome

It’s a great way to start it’s very horny and it’s where trust starts in the actual room

It’s very horny to watch and solo play at the same time

Eventually as trust is gained the soft play can become more intense but may. It be necessary and that’s fine too.

Just being close by the smells the action noises it’s wonderful

Don’t knock it it’s amazing 🤩 being part of that

Bond is priceless

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By *neeyedwillieMan
23 weeks ago

Darlington


"We're finding it hard work to find others into soft swing only. Would you be happy to just soft swing?"

If you want to soft swing on fab or even through social events, you are really stuck to just finding others who want the same thing which becomes a numbers game. You could speak to a multitude of people and not find what you want.

BUT...

If you go to a club, club rules apply and at any good if not all clubs there's a "no touching with out permission" bot to mention respecting boundaries and limitations.

There's plenty of soft swing couples who do clubs. My wife and I are a cuckqean couple. No intrest in other men, just women. At clubs we either find other women to join OR just soft play with other couples and we have no issues.

You just need to find the right club and night for you is all. If youre willing to try them that is.

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By *alandNitaCouple
23 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"We're finding it hard work to find others into soft swing only. Would you be happy to just soft swing?"

We're very happy to just go with the flow. We've had some awesome nights with soft swing couples.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Soft play is good for us x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
23 weeks ago

cahoots

We are soft swing only.

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By *un guy300Man
23 weeks ago

Carmarthen

Would be happy to, as a single guy and as a couple, it is all part of the fun

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By *WeePurpleDragon.Couple
23 weeks ago

East Lothian

were happy to as well.xx

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By *indy777Couple
23 weeks ago

Hampshire

Glad someone asked the question. It’s created a handy little list!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
23 weeks ago

Wherever

I would be more than happy but was never able to find anyone else who would be interested.

I’d like to attend a soft swing party as well.

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By *evonFbsCouple
23 weeks ago

SIDMOUTH


"What's everyone's definition of soft swing tho may mean differe. To each

We class soft swing foreplay oral, kissing, caressing, touching etc without any penetration."

Exactly this for us

Bi fem foursome fun but only penetration with own partner

Had no issues so far and enjoyed our encounters

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By *elboy1978Man
23 weeks ago

Jarrow

I like soft play

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By *orthcoupleCouple
23 weeks ago

Newcastle

Our first swinging experience was in a club where we planned 100% soft swing at most,...... well needless to say that planning didn't last long!!!

Since then we have flit between soft and full...

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By *ammymacMan
23 weeks ago

darlington

My wife and I used to enjoy same room sex with a couple of friends without swapping partners and visiting a sauna to watch and be watched which we would define as soft swinging.

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
23 weeks ago

Leicester

For a long time we were soft swing only when playing with other couples. Although we have now done some full swap play if it feels right at the time, we still really enjoy soft play

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By *ubikslongswordMan
23 weeks ago

Rubiksville


"First person to say it's like going in a cake shop to look but not buy a cake gets an actual cream cake "

Not a cream pie then?

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By *ngelLordCouple
23 weeks ago

Newport

We never expect anything on our meets but like to go with the flow if it's just for soft or full as long as everyone is happy

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By *indy777Couple
23 weeks ago

Hampshire

Surely there’s a better term than ‘soft swing’ though!

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By *onny DangerousMan
23 weeks ago

Nowhere Town Aycliffe

Soft swing can be of great benefit. Slowing down allows you more time to get your posture right and keep the club head in the correct position for the shot you want to play. Instead of trying to blast the ball as far as possible.

What you may lose in yardage, you make up for in consistency.

You did mean golf right?

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
23 weeks ago

Stoke


"Surely there’s a better term than ‘soft swing’ though! "

Think it's based on 'porn' terminology, like hard and soft porn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"Ok, I’m relatively new to all of this. What exactly is soft swing?"

Soft swing is in our opinion foreplay without penetration.

Just fooling around but still being able to cum.

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By *oomlMan
23 weeks ago

Fareham

I love soft swing.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
23 weeks ago

Coventry

We don't have any objectives with how something goes down. We just love sharing a hot time and experience with people however it works out naturally. It's different everytime. For us 95% of the time it's soft swing and We've had some absolutely amazing times and memories.

We are ourselves most of the time are a soft swing couple. On occasion with the right people and circumstances we naturally flow to hard swap. More so these days. But we would never enter into something on the basis there is an expectation of hard swap. We've not really found that this is a problem with others. I think most (like us) are not so concerned about the technically of who gets to penetrant who as long as we all get to share a hot time together and have some fun.

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
23 weeks ago

Leicester


"We don't have any objectives with how something goes down. We just love sharing a hot time and experience with people however it works out naturally. It's different everytime. For us 95% of the time it's soft swing and We've had some absolutely amazing times and memories.

We are ourselves most of the time are a soft swing couple. On occasion with the right people and circumstances we naturally flow to hard swap. More so these days. But we would never enter into something on the basis there is an expectation of hard swap. We've not really found that this is a problem with others. I think most (like us) are not so concerned about the technically of who gets to penetrant who as long as we all get to share a hot time together and have some fun. "

Very well put

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By *weetCherryWoman
23 weeks ago

London

It was my favourite when I was a couple. Enjoyed many other things of course, but soft swing or same room swing were my favourites

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By *rogressivepairCouple
23 weeks ago

Derby

We had a look at your profile. You say you only want to meet single women. I think this could be the problem with soft swap only - too many factors filtering out potential matches.

What is the other female really going to get out of a meet with you - other than giving and receiving oral with one or both of you?

We are soft swap only (as it stands), we considered how any threesome (FFM or MMF) would work for all concerned if soft only. It’s obvious that the 3rd party would only get to watch and give and receive oral - male or female.

If we get together with some couples for soft swap, then everyone is still going to have full sex - with their own partner. There can be loads of oral and touching going on between couples throughout too.

Our conclusion is that threesomes almost certainly require full swapping for it to be equitable - so they aren’t on our to do list.

Why don’t you open your preferences to couples? There are plenty of soft swap couples around. You could even tempt us!?

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By *iberius61Man
23 weeks ago

Pontefract


"First person to say it's like going in a cake shop to look but not buy a cake..."

I do that all the time now, I have decided that virtually all cakes look way more appetising than they taste, so basically a complete waste of calories

As for soft swing, I enjoy everything from just watching to full participation, with various elements of soft swing in between.

Are there people who talk the talk but don't walk the walk? Sure, same as any lines, not everyone respects them. I'd recommend always a social first...but we're all adults here, so my recommendation counts for nothing

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By *herrybakewellCouple
23 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"We had a look at your profile. You say you only want to meet single women. I think this could be the problem with soft swap only - too many factors filtering out potential matches.

What is the other female really going to get out of a meet with you - other than giving and receiving oral with one or both of you?

We are soft swap only (as it stands), we considered how any threesome (FFM or MMF) would work for all concerned if soft only. It’s obvious that the 3rd party would only get to watch and give and receive oral - male or female.

If we get together with some couples for soft swap, then everyone is still going to have full sex - with their own partner. There can be loads of oral and touching going on between couples throughout too.

Our conclusion is that threesomes almost certainly require full swapping for it to be equitable - so they aren’t on our to do list.

Why don’t you open your preferences to couples? There are plenty of soft swap couples around. You could even tempt us!?"

Totally agree with this comment.

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By *nn_JamesCouple
23 weeks ago

Berkshire / South Bucks

As per your profile:

Did an Advanced Search on Welwyn Garden City for a Female, within your age range, who enjoys soft swing, within 20 miles of you who can accommodate and it came up with 91 verified profiles.

Perhaps its where your not looking...

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By *allipygousMan
23 weeks ago

Leicester

I wonder how many soft swing encounters are non intentional

Anyway, I've done soft swing and given the choice I'd rather not, but, if it involves kissing that's a whole different matter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
22 weeks ago


"As per your profile:

Did an Advanced Search on Welwyn Garden City for a Female, within your age range, who enjoys soft swing, within 20 miles of you who can accommodate and it came up with 91 verified profiles.

Perhaps its where your not looking..."

Hi R here as not on as much as L thank you ☺️ yes as we both travelling together also like not be to far away with having other commitments though age range open more like make lots friends to

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

We like it, same room but watching each other is so horny

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
22 weeks ago

Epsom

Hard core soft swingers here ..😏

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

100%

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
22 weeks ago

Coventry


"We had a look at your profile. You say you only want to meet single women. I think this could be the problem with soft swap only - too many factors filtering out potential matches.

What is the other female really going to get out of a meet with you - other than giving and receiving oral with one or both of you?

We are soft swap only (as it stands), we considered how any threesome (FFM or MMF) would work for all concerned if soft only. It’s obvious that the 3rd party would only get to watch and give and receive oral - male or female.

If we get together with some couples for soft swap, then everyone is still going to have full sex - with their own partner. There can be loads of oral and touching going on between couples throughout too.

Our conclusion is that threesomes almost certainly require full swapping for it to be equitable - so they aren’t on our to do list.

Why don’t you open your preferences to couples? There are plenty of soft swap couples around. You could even tempt us!?"

From experience with regards FMF situation it doesn't need to be full swap. A couple and single lady can share a really hot and mutually pleasurable time together without the male having vaginal intercorse with the single female. There are plenty of others ways to get off together and share something together without this specific sexual act. A lot of what is hot (to us) is not the specific sexual acts but the chemistry and how it all flows for everyone. I say this from the perspective that soft swap is everything bar below waist penetrative sex. But lots of kissing, touch, tongues, fingers, cuddles and mutual attention on everyone. I'd say if your boundaries are more restrictive as a couple than this then yes maybe that may be more limiting.

But from experience we've had some very mutually hot 3somes that have been (by our definition) soft swap. Hard swap or soft swap for us is something that's very specific to who we are with rather than an objective. We just like to share hot times with the right people.

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By *rHotNottsMan
22 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

This used to be a big thing I remember when I first joined lots of soft swap and same room couples, is it not a big thing anymore ?

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By *entfootloverMan
22 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

Very interesting take. Soft swinging has its merits, especially when kissing is allowed!

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By *ikeanneCouple
22 weeks ago

Somerset, Dorset, Wiltshire Border

We are sure that many of you have met other couples at a club, and have had great fun without having fucked. We, due to health reasons can no longer full swap but everything else goes, including kissing. We find the experience is very sensual and just as fulfilling.

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By *b750Couple
22 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Yes love soft swing very erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I’d do a soft swing- I think it could be very erotic indeed!

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By *izzybicplCouple
3 weeks ago

wisbech

Soft swing definately works for us

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By *isser36Man
3 weeks ago

fylde Coast

Yes! Love soft swing! Loads of kissing and teasing, massage, mutual masterbation, theres so much you can do without full penetrative sex. it's sexy as fuck! I'd love to find someone just for this

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By *inceIlkestonMan
3 weeks ago

Ilkeston


"We're finding it hard work to find others into soft swing only. Would you be happy to just soft swing?"

Sure I spent much time with foreplay or soft play and it doesn't mean we can't cum does it?

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By *erfHerder74Man
3 weeks ago

Inverclyde

Swinging isn’t always about intercourse, as a single man I have met men on here who just take time, get naked kiss and cuddle. Sometimes even nap together.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Used to love it with my ex but found there were many different definitions of what a soft swing actually entailed. Fort some it was just same room fun, for others it was swap for 1st and 2nd base but 3rd and 4th with our own.

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By *adamm7406Man
3 weeks ago

leeds

As we are relatively new to the scene we are looking to soft swing or perhaps play with somebody in the same room

We are finding it difficult to find people who want to take it slow and steady. Happy to chat with anybody interested

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm half a couple and we're happy to swap partners for soft swinging only.

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By *xxMandLxxxCouple
3 weeks ago

Southampton

We're soft swing but only rule out actual penetration. We're happy with oral, masturbation, fingering, rimming, cum shots, bukkake etc.

We're more into enjoying other people in multiple ways than just simply fucking but it's personal choice.

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By *unTimeCoupleXXCouple
3 weeks ago

Huntingdon

Soft swing is ok but for me sucking cock or licking pussy is more intimate that full penetration 🤷‍♂️. So if I’m happy my missus sucking a cock or licking a pussy (she’s bi) anything else is ok

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By *izzybicplCouple
3 weeks ago

wisbech

It is actually very erotic doing just soft swing fun.

We love to watch another couple lick and suck each other while we are doing the same next to them so they can also watch us.

It is also very horny to watch your wifes hand wrap around another cock rubbing him sensually while his wife does the same to me and to see he rmouth open for himt o enter is just as mind blowing as his wife copies us.

If bisexual fun is on the cards then thats just as pleasurable for us all joining in making everyone happy

And ultimate eoritca is to watch them penetrate each other next to us as we watch them and they can also see us do the same. we know others want more but this all works for us

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By *eyeYCouple
3 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Bluntly we actually quite like it and in some cases it's the extent of what has happened, but the potential of overstepping boundaries 'in the moment' puts us off as we'd be mortified of we did 😘

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By *Wnewbies 40Couple
3 weeks ago

Morecambe

We are finding it hard too x

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
3 weeks ago

Tamworth

We only soft swing with couples. But we find one couples idea of soft swing can be different to others.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
2 weeks ago

Middle England


"We only soft swing with couples. But we find one couples idea of soft swing can be different to others. "

What's your definition?

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By *ornysquirtingcoupleCouple
2 days ago

somerset

We LOVE this

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By *nandwet69Couple
1 day ago

cwmbran

Love to soft swop but find everyone has a different view on it, we’ve hard it har do t navigate

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By *ccasional_LoversCouple
1 day ago

Peterborough

We are definitely not opposed to it. Sometimes it makes a really nice change.

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By *agnarXXXMan
1 day ago

edinburgh

Absolutely! I find that I can be far more erotic, and there’s a lot of fun can be had without swapping partners for PIV ‘poking’.

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By *ager 2 PleaseMan
1 day ago

Birmingham/midlands

I love a soft swing… all that play, touch, stroke, anticipation, mmm love love it

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By *herrybakewellCouple
1 day ago

Staffordshire

People's definitions of soft swing vary so much that I'd avoid it.

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By *viatrixWoman
1 day ago

Redhill

Soft swing has its time and irs place undoubtedly.

But if I’ve made the effort to build up rapport, there is mutual attraction and chemistry and again, effort to meet, I honestly want a big, gorgeous cock pounding me senseless. Sorry

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