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Flirting - what is it to you?

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By *ake_or_death OP   Man
16 weeks ago

Manchester

The other day I saw a clip of a woman saying that people should flirt more as it's basically a way of being playful and playfulness is fun and healthy. I agree with those comments on playfulness but does everyone see flirting in that way?

Do you see flirting as something fun and harmless or is it something with more intent behind it for you?

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By *ogerroger69Man
16 weeks ago

West Yorks

With me it’s both

I’m friendly but there’s intent behind it

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By *ilthycouple24Couple
16 weeks ago

Glasgow


"The other day I saw a clip of a woman saying that people should flirt more as it's basically a way of being playful and playfulness is fun and healthy. I agree with those comments on playfulness but does everyone see flirting in that way?

Do you see flirting as something fun and harmless or is it something with more intent behind it for you? "

To us it's nothing if we flirt with you we don't expect nothing we don't think it's going go somewhere he'll we are so socially awkward that even when we are flirting and could go somewhere we miss the hidden jokes and sometimes just walk away Ralph wigmum style

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By *ake_or_death OP   Man
16 weeks ago

Manchester


"The other day I saw a clip of a woman saying that people should flirt more as it's basically a way of being playful and playfulness is fun and healthy. I agree with those comments on playfulness but does everyone see flirting in that way?

Do you see flirting as something fun and harmless or is it something with more intent behind it for you?

To us it's nothing if we flirt with you we don't expect nothing we don't think it's going go somewhere he'll we are so socially awkward that even when we are flirting and could go somewhere we miss the hidden jokes and sometimes just walk away Ralph wigmum style "

I feel your pain. I am often oblivious to being flirted with

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By *ilthycouple24Couple
16 weeks ago

Glasgow


"The other day I saw a clip of a woman saying that people should flirt more as it's basically a way of being playful and playfulness is fun and healthy. I agree with those comments on playfulness but does everyone see flirting in that way?

Do you see flirting as something fun and harmless or is it something with more intent behind it for you?

To us it's nothing if we flirt with you we don't expect nothing we don't think it's going go somewhere he'll we are so socially awkward that even when we are flirting and could go somewhere we miss the hidden jokes and sometimes just walk away Ralph wigmum style

I feel your pain. I am often oblivious to being flirted with "

I dno now couple we flirted with could have wanted or intended for it to go somewhere we just get to a stage where we so dumb that our brains say thoughts of lines that would just end the flirting entirely so we just go with the flow ..

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By *erfHerder74Man
16 weeks ago

Greenock

I’m on the spectrum so flirting means nothing, I don’t see it. Being direct to me that you fancy me then maybe I’d see a flirt

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
16 weeks ago

Leeds

I can't flirt for shit not do I realise if anyone is trying to flirt with me.

Mrs

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
16 weeks ago

North West

It depends. I don't realise what I'm doing is being taken as flirting sometimes. Sometimes I'm just being nice and friendly and it gets misinterpreted.

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By *hilloutMan
16 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I see it as fun and harmless, though it depends on how it's done.

It becomes more and can begin having a motive if I see signs of interest beginning to manifest.

I don't think it's something that can be well taught or learned. You either 'get it' or you don't.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
16 weeks ago

Ends

Depends on the person. Depends on the context.

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By *ake_or_death OP   Man
16 weeks ago

Manchester


"I’m on the spectrum so flirting means nothing, I don’t see it. Being direct to me that you fancy me then maybe I’d see a flirt"

Yeah I think neurodiversity can be a definite factor here.

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By *oo..Woman
16 weeks ago

Boo's World

Various

I'm a friendly flirt

Sexual flirt

And apparently I flirt with people when I don't even realise I'm doing it.

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By *host63Man
16 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

With ti. Toc me too and other platforms yiu have to be so careful these days

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By *ake_or_death OP   Man
16 weeks ago

Manchester


"With ti. Toc me too and other platforms yiu have to be so careful these days"

I think you have to be respectful, but that should always have been the case.

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