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When I get that feeling...

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By *ake_or_death OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Manchester

...I want sexual healing, as Marvin Gaye once sang.

Do you find sexual intimacy is a need beyond the simple pleasure of the act? Does it improve your mental health if you're being regularly intimate, and is there a difference if there's emotional intimacy too or is the physical act enough?

I find that if there's no sexual intimacy in my life for a while it does become a need rather than a want. And yes, I'm in the 'need' zone right now

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By *eordieJeansCouple
24 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I find the first few weeks have a negative impact on my mental state but the longer I go without the less I need it.

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By *ansoffateMan
24 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I get your point, but I think it's a bit of a catch 22 as the need becomes a barrier to forming the kind of connection which provides said feeling.

Although I've had a few dalliances where we've both succumbed to the proximal sensation.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
24 weeks ago

little house on the praire

No. My mental state has never been affected by how much or little sex I have

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
24 weeks ago

The Continental

With a six year old daughter…….Mrs Wick and I just grab it when we can. Don’t bother wasting time thinking too much about it.

She says, ‘I need dick’, I give it to her, sharpish.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
24 weeks ago

Reading

I need the emotional intimacy too. They need to feel like a friend.

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By *ake_or_death OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Manchester


"I get your point, but I think it's a bit of a catch 22 as the need becomes a barrier to forming the kind of connection which provides said feeling.

Although I've had a few dalliances where we've both succumbed to the proximal sensation."

'Need' was probably the wrong word - I don't mean you'd have sex with anyone regardless of whether you fancy them just because you're horny. I mean more that it becomes something you find yourself missing.

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By *ake_or_death OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Manchester


"I need the emotional intimacy too. They need to feel like a friend."

Yeah, same.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
24 weeks ago

North Yorkshire


"I need the emotional intimacy too. They need to feel like a friend."

Same. The physical act without the emotional intimacy feels like a less-than-satisfactory wank.

I go through phases. Sometimes I couldn't think of anything less appealing. Other times it feels vital to my wellbeing.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
24 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If I have people for the emotional intimacy, I'm happy for the hedonism of just physical intimacy.

When I'm lacking emotional intimacy in my life, I don't want any physical 💜

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
24 weeks ago

London

Intimacy is everything I am looking for here.

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