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By *orthman OP   Man
28 weeks ago

Kendal

Does anyone else reminisce about past encounters or relationships when you simply didn't realise how lucky you were?

For me I think my sense of the erotic was just not sufficiently well developed in my twenties. I had a girlfriend, M, who worked in the same office as me. M was a real lapsed Catholic - her mother would have been mortified had she known that she was on the pill and that we were fucking.

Her underwear of choice was stockings and suspenders, usually navy blue and worn under demure long skirts-floaty enough in the summer to be sightly translucent. Her particular kink was to go commando on the days when we had fucked in the morning, because, and I quote, "I like the feeling of your spunk sliding down my leg - it makes me think of you". She would give me a knowing glance when we passed in the corridor. Even better, she shared all her secrets with a close friend A with whom she worked and I would get a dirty grin from her too as they passed by together.

I took it all a bit for granted at the time, but in my dotage I often think about just how charged that scenario was.

Of course we have long since lost touch, and I wonder if her later partners were fortunate enough to experience the same. Maybe some lucky sod still does, somewhere out there. Maybe he's even reading this.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
28 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Nah.

Why pine for the past? It's been, it's gone, the joy of the moment was for that moment.

Enjoy the present, plan the future to be even more of what brings you joy.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
28 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

By all means enjoy your memories. Cherish them. Wank over them, if you like. But don’t compare them to today. And look to the future, like Prey says.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
28 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I enjoyed the past… even the shit bits. Because life is a journey. Not all of it can be chocolate and kittens.

But I love it all the same 😘

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By *asterMeliodasMan
28 weeks ago

Newmill


"I enjoyed the past… even the shit bits. Because life is a journey. Not all of it can be chocolate and kittens.

But I love it all the same 😘"

A fair amount of it *can* be chocolate and kittens, though.

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By *ealitybitesMan
28 weeks ago

Belfast

I have huge gaps in my experience as a teen and young man as a direct result of being a carer from the age of 12.

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 25.

That caused lots of issues later in life because I always felt I missed out on so much and as such had wasted most of my youth. There were never opportunities missed, just the entirety of all those years.

I don't dwell on it anymore though because I've had experiences that no one else can claim.

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By *elix SightedMan
28 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"Does anyone else reminisce about past encounters or relationships when you simply didn't realise how lucky you were?

For me I think my sense of the erotic was just not sufficiently well developed in my twenties. I had a girlfriend, M, who worked in the same office as me. M was a real lapsed Catholic - her mother would have been mortified had she known that she was on the pill and that we were fucking.

Her underwear of choice was stockings and suspenders, usually navy blue and worn under demure long skirts-floaty enough in the summer to be sightly translucent. Her particular kink was to go commando on the days when we had fucked in the morning, because, and I quote, "I like the feeling of your spunk sliding down my leg - it makes me think of you". She would give me a knowing glance when we passed in the corridor. Even better, she shared all her secrets with a close friend A with whom she worked and I would get a dirty grin from her too as they passed by together.

I took it all a bit for granted at the time, but in my dotage I often think about just how charged that scenario was.

Of course we have long since lost touch, and I wonder if her later partners were fortunate enough to experience the same. Maybe some lucky sod still does, somewhere out there. Maybe he's even reading this.

"

She is an absolute blast!! Still dresses like that and has that same knowing look.

Sorry.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
28 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"I enjoyed the past… even the shit bits. Because life is a journey. Not all of it can be chocolate and kittens.

But I love it all the same 😘

A fair amount of it *can* be chocolate and kittens, though."

Absofuckinglutely ♥️

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Life is pre determined from cradle to grave so you have to deal with the cards dealt

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By *orthman OP   Man
28 weeks ago

Kendal


" She is an absolute blast!! Still dresses like that and has that same knowing look.

Sorry."

Do send her my love. I didn't know she had a thing for younger guys. She must be ...what..60 by now?

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