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"Yes but it's never worth it " Never. But I do it anyway 🤪🤪 | |||
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"Nah. I message. If it goes nowhere - I move on. " Actually I retract that. There is one person. | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. " We shouldn't because it wouldn't go anywhere, or they're not right for us? | |||
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"I do. I like having that little crush energy going on now and again 💜" Girl, I’m talking about exes  | |||
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"To quote Byoung… 079 me  "What a throwback banger. You’re my people | |||
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"I do. I like having that little crush energy going on now and again 💜 Girl, I’m talking about exes "Ohhh... Then no. If I class someone as an ex then I've already decided that the sex isn't worth the rest of what they bring to my life. I have plenty of sex available with people that give me more butterflies than strife 💜 | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. We shouldn't because it wouldn't go anywhere, or they're not right for us?" either. Or both | |||
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"I do. I like having that little crush energy going on now and again 💜 Girl, I’m talking about exes
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Then no.
If I class someone as an ex then I've already decided that the sex isn't worth the rest of what they bring to my life.
I have plenty of sex available with people that give me more butterflies than strife 💜"Oh, we’re talking about exes. It wasn’t clear. Ignore my poetic license above. | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. We shouldn't because it wouldn't go anywhere, or they're not right for us? either. Or both" OK. Yes. Then my rational brain takes over and stops me 😁 | |||
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"To quote Byoung… 079 me
What a throwback banger.
You’re my people"To be fair if we’re talking about exes do not 079 me… I don’t want no scrub! | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. " Yes, of course, and they are out of my league. | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. Yes, of course, and they are out of my league. " What makes you think that? Or that there are leagues at all? | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. Yes, of course, and they are out of my league. What makes you think that? Or that there are leagues at all?" There are leagues. I did a thread and the entire forum agreed. | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. Yes, of course, and they are out of my league. What makes you think that? Or that there are leagues at all? There are leagues. I did a thread and the entire forum agreed. " I'm not sure we have the same definition of "the entire forum", Steve.  | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. Yes, of course, and they are out of my league. What makes you think that? Or that there are leagues at all? There are leagues. I did a thread and the entire forum agreed. I'm not sure we have the same definition of "the entire forum", Steve. "😂😂😂😂 | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. Yes, of course, and they are out of my league. What makes you think that? Or that there are leagues at all? There are leagues. I did a thread and the entire forum agreed. " No. No they didn't. | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. Yes, of course, and they are out of my league. What makes you think that? Or that there are leagues at all? There are leagues. I did a thread and the entire forum agreed. No. No they didn't." We can agree to disagree on that Prey | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. Yes, of course, and they are out of my league. What makes you think that? Or that there are leagues at all? There are leagues. I did a thread and the entire forum agreed. " "Is She really going out with him? Is she really going to take him home tonight?" | |||
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"No I don't. There are people I'd enjoy just chatting with but I don't message because I don't want them to feel obliged to respond" Do you think your status as a mod creates hierarchy in relationships you develop on here? | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. " YEEEEES…… tempted to message so many times. But I know I won’t get a reply and I will be 🤡. So that stops me! 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. Yes, of course, and they are out of my league. What makes you think that? Or that there are leagues at all? There are leagues. I did a thread and the entire forum agreed. "Is She really going out with him? Is she really going to take him home tonight?" "They can do so much better. They deserve so much better. (I’m kidding btw) | |||
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"No I don't. There are people I'd enjoy just chatting with but I don't message because I don't want them to feel obliged to respond Do you think your status as a mod creates hierarchy in relationships you develop on here?" Only with some people on the forum but very few that I've noticed. The rest of the site doesn't even know  | |||
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"No I don't. There are people I'd enjoy just chatting with but I don't message because I don't want them to feel obliged to respond Do you think your status as a mod creates hierarchy in relationships you develop on here? Only with some people on the forum but very few that I've noticed. The rest of the site doesn't even know "Yeah because you don’t put it in your bio who you are? I would 😂 | |||
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"No I don't. There are people I'd enjoy just chatting with but I don't message because I don't want them to feel obliged to respond Do you think your status as a mod creates hierarchy in relationships you develop on here? Only with some people on the forum but very few that I've noticed. The rest of the site doesn't even know
Yeah because you don’t put it in your bio who you are? I would 😂" surely you've seen the furore that's created by the word professional, imagine if we put 'forum mod' 🤣🤣 | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. Yes, of course, and they are out of my league. What makes you think that? Or that there are leagues at all? There are leagues. I did a thread and the entire forum agreed. No. No they didn't. We can agree to disagree on that Prey " Nah, agreeing to disagree means I respect your right to the opinion that the whole forum agreed. I was there. I'm part of the forum. I disagreed and I was not the only one. You can agree to disagree on opinions, but it's a fact that the entire forum did not agree 💜 | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. Yes, of course, and they are out of my league. What makes you think that? Or that there are leagues at all? There are leagues. I did a thread and the entire forum agreed. No. No they didn't." I’m 💯 with Prey on this. Lots of people… including me … agreed there aren’t leagues. Only those people create for themselves. Which isn’t the same thing. Ever 😘 | |||
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"No I don't. There are people I'd enjoy just chatting with but I don't message because I don't want them to feel obliged to respond Do you think your status as a mod creates hierarchy in relationships you develop on here? Only with some people on the forum but very few that I've noticed. The rest of the site doesn't even know
Yeah because you don’t put it in your bio who you are? I would 😂
surely you've seen the furore that's created by the word professional, imagine if we put 'forum mod' 🤣🤣"Do it 😈 | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. Yes, of course, and they are out of my league. What makes you think that? Or that there are leagues at all? There are leagues. I did a thread and the entire forum agreed. No. No they didn't. We can agree to disagree on that Prey Nah, agreeing to disagree means I respect your right to the opinion that the whole forum agreed. I was there. I'm part of the forum. I disagreed and I was not the only one. You can agree to disagree on opinions, but it's a fact that the entire forum did not agree 💜" In your opinion 🤭😈 | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. Yes, of course, and they are out of my league. What makes you think that? Or that there are leagues at all? There are leagues. I did a thread and the entire forum agreed. No. No they didn't. I’m 💯 with Prey on this. Lots of people… including me … agreed there aren’t leagues. Only those people create for themselves. Which isn’t the same thing. Ever 😘" Nope. 😌 | |||
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"In your opinion 🤭😈" You are such a brat Pickle. You will absolutely not be getting a spanking for this behaviour 💜 | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. " na but we broke up once like 5 years ago and had to sneek to see each other because EVERYONE was done with our shit  | |||
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"In your opinion 🤭😈 You are such a brat Pickle. You will absolutely not be getting a spanking for this behaviour 💜" ☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️ Well that’s ruined the fun | |||
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"In your opinion 🤭😈 You are such a brat Pickle. You will absolutely not be getting a spanking for this behaviour 💜 ☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️ Well that’s ruined the fun " You think I don't know the game by now? 💋 | |||
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"In your opinion 🤭😈 You are such a brat Pickle. You will absolutely not be getting a spanking for this behaviour 💜" 💯 you were looking for one. It doesn’t work that way 🤣 | |||
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"In your opinion 🤭😈 You are such a brat Pickle. You will absolutely not be getting a spanking for this behaviour 💜 ☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️ Well that’s ruined the fun You think I don't know the game by now? 💋" But I wanna play it with you ☹️  | |||
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"In your opinion 🤭😈 You are such a brat Pickle. You will absolutely not be getting a spanking for this behaviour 💜 💯 you were looking for one. It doesn’t work that way 🤣" Oi, don’t be mean to me 😠 | |||
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"In your opinion 🤭😈 You are such a brat Pickle. You will absolutely not be getting a spanking for this behaviour 💜 ☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️ Well that’s ruined the fun You think I don't know the game by now? 💋 But I wanna play it with you ☹️ "It's not a game I play Pickle. You want me to spank you, you gotta ask nicely. I'm not rewarding bad behaviour with what you want 💜 | |||
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"In your opinion 🤭😈 You are such a brat Pickle. You will absolutely not be getting a spanking for this behaviour 💜 💯 you were looking for one. It doesn’t work that way 🤣 Oi, don’t be mean to me 😠 "Me? Mean? No darling. You’re just being a brat. Whatevs 🤣 | |||
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"That you always want to message (hit up 😉), even though you know you shouldn’t. " Yes, want to, but won't, because she is premier league, & I'm Lowland League. | |||
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"There are people I'd talk to a whole lot more if they were better at communicating "Same. But if I was better at communicating. | |||
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"There are people I'd talk to a whole lot more if they were better at communicating
Same. But if I was better at communicating. "That sounds like a you problem | |||
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"Nah …. " Nice to see you back | |||
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"I'm still in love with my ex (it's been 5 months) and he gets all kinds of messages from me. I know I shouldn't do it and yet here we are." Nothing wrong with having feelings for an ex, you just need to remember that you broke up for a reason. I occasionally think about the ex wife, and the things I miss about her. Then I remember why I left. And I am not going back there. Sometimes you just have to move on with your life. I know I could never be happy with her so that's the end of it. | |||
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"Nobody messages me 😂😂" Aahh ... now im sure thats not true x | |||
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"Nobody messages me 😂😂 Aahh ... now im sure thats not true x" Nope it’s true, I even have tumbles as a screen saver to add to the quietness of my phone 😂 | |||
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"Nobody messages me 😂😂 Aahh ... now im sure thats not true x Nope it’s true, I even have tumbles as a screen saver to add to the quietness of my phone 😂" Lol ... | |||
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"There’s someone from my past I frequently think about messaging. But the time he asked me if I wanted to hook up I panicked, realising that I’m not sure I could stand having sex with him without the affection and tenderness we used to have mixed in with the kink and orgasms. So, I don’t think I want sex with him specifically, I think I just miss the kind of sex and I had that with him" I understand this a lot | |||
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"There’s someone from my past I frequently think about messaging. But the time he asked me if I wanted to hook up I panicked, realising that I’m not sure I could stand having sex with him without the affection and tenderness we used to have mixed in with the kink and orgasms. So, I don’t think I want sex with him specifically, I think I just miss the kind of sex and I had that with him I understand this a lot" Sending you big hugs. It ended for a reason, someone (or some people) out there is waiting to offer you more, and then you’ll forget all about the ex x | |||
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"There’s someone from my past I frequently think about messaging. But the time he asked me if I wanted to hook up I panicked, realising that I’m not sure I could stand having sex with him without the affection and tenderness we used to have mixed in with the kink and orgasms. So, I don’t think I want sex with him specifically, I think I just miss the kind of sex and I had that with him I understand this a lot Sending you big hugs. It ended for a reason, someone (or some people) out there is waiting to offer you more, and then you’ll forget all about the ex x" Thank you | |||
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"Update: I messaged him yesterday. The ghosting is still going strong. I felt 🤡 🤡 🤡 🤣🤣🤣🤣" You’re not alone. I unblocked her. Then messaged her after this thread. She read it and didn’t reply. I’m proud of her. One of us needed to break the cycle | |||
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