FabSwingers.com forum: If you don't orgasm

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

If you or your sexual partner don't orgasm/cum whilst having sex....

Do you feel like it was a waste of time or are you still satisfied?

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By *outhern77Man
17 weeks ago

Quinton

"If you or your sexual partner don't orgasm/cum whilst having sex....

Do you feel like it was a waste of time or are you still satisfied? "

Usually only happens to me but as long as She's satisfied then it's all good

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By *orMatureWomenAndCouplesMan
17 weeks ago

Ipswich

I quite often don’t cum, but as long as she has as many times as possible then I’m extremely happy

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By *ockdownlickdownMan
17 weeks ago

Crewe

Depends on the relationship with my partner. If there's a strong loving relationship it doesn't matter, if it's a playdate thing it sort of matters.

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By *ayd100Man
17 weeks ago

clitheroe

Wish I got the chance

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By *ockdownlickdownMan
17 weeks ago

Crewe

Damn I forgot the fab etiquette, let me try again..... I don't mind if I don't come, as long as she has had her world shaken at least 5 times. Strewth.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
17 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

It’s a race to the finish. If you can’t keep up, it’s your own fault ☺️

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By *ilverfox for youMan
17 weeks ago

Hull

Never happened to me but forplay is more important

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

"I quite often don’t cum, but as long as she has as many times as possible then I’m extremely happy "

What if she didn't though??

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

"Damn I forgot the fab etiquette, let me try again..... I don't mind if I don't come, as long as she has had her world shaken at least 5 times. Strewth."

What if her world isn't shaken though??

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By *ellinever70Woman
17 weeks ago

Ayrshire

No, I wouldn't feel it had been a waste of time

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Sometimes I like an evening of denial for me and worship for them.

I'm very easily stimulated. If I don't cum it's because that's a conscious choice.

Sometimes I know that something in their headspace is blocking them from reaching that peak. And while it's hard to process sometimes that that isn't a failing on my part, I do know it isn't.

Generally though, I prefer to be able to have that happy post orgasmic headspace together 💜

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By *rangesmartieWoman
17 weeks ago

Devon

I often don't, and I'm ok with that as long as I've enjoyed everything. It's all about the concert, not the big finish for me

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By *ozzybear1981Man
17 weeks ago

preston

I think with lots of foreplay it will add to it.

For me it’s about the mind being heightened, everything out of the window but the there and then.

I don’t think it’s ever happened where both haven’t been in the state of pure bliss and not both climaxed.

I’m hoping it never happens either 🫣

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By *eordieJeansCouple
17 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It’s only happened a couple of times and I wasn’t bothered at all. Yes, an orgasm is great but I enjoy every other bit of sex just as much. My partner at the time didn’t see it that way and thought I wasn’t turned on enough.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
17 weeks ago

Next Door

I've had very enjoyable sex but not had any orgasms, and it didn't bother me. He climax and that was horny.

So it wasn't a waste of my time.

I've also had an orgasm and the sex wasn't brilliant. I was just very horny and needed fucking. I left frustrated and not satisfied.

I went home and had a play. If felt those sort of meets are a waste of my time, with the prep/travel/time together

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By *ez669Man
17 weeks ago

East Kilbride

Its happened a few times to me when the partner involved has had 2 to 3 orgasms

Initially i find it frustrating but never show it, i find if i give it 5 to 10 mins amd go again ill reach my goal on the 2nd attempt

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By *hilloutMan
17 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

It's not just crossing the finish line but the journey that's enjoyable😁

Sometimes I don't finish, especially if the temperature is too hot🥵

Can't recall the last time a partner didn't get off during sex😈

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By *lowloadandgocoupleCouple
17 weeks ago

ferrybank

It depends how long you are in a relationship, as the male of the couple over all we will always cum in a session.

Not always the female.

When we have sex in the morning before work I will always cum, if she doesn't ill come back and finish off the job at lunch time.

I don't think it's a question of feeling bad but more of an awareness of satisfying your partner.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
17 weeks ago

Llanelli

If I don't cum then I'm not fully satisfied, it's like cooking a roast and then not eating it 😂

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Stockport

The anti-dep meds I'm on make it really really difficult for me to cum, and getting there can even be almost painful. I am trying to taper myself off the meds now though, so hopefully will regain better control over my body's responses there.

I do feel that I've failed if I'm unable to bring my bedmate(s) to a happy conclusion some way or other.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
17 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

A couple of threesomes I’ve not had an orgasm but I’ve loved giving attention to two ladies. Sometimes when the focus is not solely on each other it’s easier - plenty of stimulation and enjoyed it thoroughly…🥵

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I ask them why they couldn’t make me orgasm.

We then can come up with a plan of action. Maybe watch a few instructional videos and I’ll light some Yankee candles to get her in the mood to try again.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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17 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nope. Never bothered me or anyone (as far as I know) that I've met.

It happens.

Still fun anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"If you or your sexual partner don't orgasm/cum whilst having sex...."

Are you meant to cum?

Is she meant to orgasm?

Is it not just about burning calories?

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By *olfandtazCouple
17 weeks ago

Bristol

It doesn't bother me whether I cum or not, I get off on making her cum and we have enough toys to make sure that happens

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"If you or your sexual partner don't orgasm/cum whilst having sex....

Are you meant to cum?

Is she meant to orgasm?

Is it not just about burning calories?"

I think of it more as my only form of cardio 💜

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
17 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't cum every time & rarely with a new partner, it doesn't bother me in the slightest, the orgasm isn't the be all & end all, I still enjoy the sex, build up and foreplay regardless.

Mrs

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By *elix SightedMan
17 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"If you or your sexual partner don't orgasm/cum whilst having sex....

Do you feel like it was a waste of time or are you still satisfied? "

Hang on, women can cum too?? Where’s this important information been….?

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By *ornylee69Man
17 weeks ago

kirkcaldy

I feel bad if my partners don’t, it finding a balance of satisfaction both are good with. As long as it not regular then I know I will get it right next time

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By *kryanMan
17 weeks ago

everywhere

I like to meke them come as much as possible but i have on a few times not been able to cum, my question is can a lass fake squirting, all of my sexual seshions have always involved squirting and i dont normally come until after

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By * and R cple4Couple
17 weeks ago

swansea

Quite amusing how many off the men on the thread claim the women cum everytime some even multiple times.. How little they know

Sometimes I only feel like making my husband cum I'm still satisfied tho as I have done what I wanted to do. For me satisfaction comes from making others happy so regardless of if I cum I always feel satisfied.. X

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By *hunky GentMan
17 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

So long as she's satisfied then I'm happy.

I can always fake it.

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By *ust another WonkoMan
17 weeks ago

here and there

Some times my rsi kicks in and I have to stop

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"If you or your sexual partner don't orgasm/cum whilst having sex....

Are you meant to cum?

Is she meant to orgasm?

Is it not just about burning calories?

I think of it more as my only form of cardio 💜"

My pacemaker wouldn't cope

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"If you or your sexual partner don't orgasm/cum whilst having sex....

Do you feel like it was a waste of time or are you still satisfied?

Hang on, women can cum too?? Where’s this important information been….?

Narrator - Woody opens “Book of Sex!” And begins to read the contents.

Page 1 - Foreplay … skim reads

Page 2 - The Clit …. …. …. Looks for the page but seems to be missing as he can’t find it

Page 3 - The ladies Orgasm … Woody decides to return back to that one.

Page 4 - The BlowJob … Ahhh, tribally the juicy stuff!! He sits down gets himself comfortable and pours himself a stiff one….

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