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"Exactly what the last 2 people have said, couples are terrible too. Most never bother mentioning who's writing. " true | |||
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"As the male half of the couple I get to read and see what guys put and I think majority of you guys would get somewhere if. 1 you was just polite. 2 you actually can hold a conversation. And 3 if she's not looking for a meet right now doesn't mean she's not interested just means that some people like to talk first specially if it's a one on one meet there's got to be some kind of trust there beforehand specially if your expecting a hotel meet or house. Just a tip there are plenty of couples that are looking for single guys single women and the biggest thing I've noticed is it's like there's an expectation for a meet right now... I'm probably going to get hate for this post" Your posting an opinion based on your own experience. Nothing wrong with that. The advice offered is basically common sense and courtesy that any well grounded person would heed. I don't have any experience whatsoever with couples as I've always been a lone wolf, but friends who have frequently mentioned couples can be every bit as bad as single men. Good and bad apples exist everywhere. | |||
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"My tip to single men… keep doing what you’re doing. I’d rather speak to the real you than a fake version based on what you think will get you a piece of my wife." Can I have a piece of your wife? | |||
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"My tip to single men… keep doing what you’re doing. I’d rather speak to the real you than a fake version based on what you think will get you a piece of my wife. Can I have a piece of your wife?" Which piece? | |||
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"Not so much hate. But……it’s largely pointless because the guys that you aim the post at…..don’t read the forums. " oh but they do the messages i get from guys on these forums are just as shite as those who dont so the guys of the forum are no different ... some not all before you all start moaning  | |||
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"One that really pisses Mr off is assuming their taking to the female of the couple with degrading talk. No respect and instantly blocked." Nice tits 😂 | |||
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"My tip to single men… keep doing what you’re doing. I’d rather speak to the real you than a fake version based on what you think will get you a piece of my wife. Can I have a piece of your wife? Which piece?" Which pieces are available? | |||
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"My tip to single men… keep doing what you’re doing. I’d rather speak to the real you than a fake version based on what you think will get you a piece of my wife. Can I have a piece of your wife? Which piece? Which pieces are available?" Toes, the female equivalent of a gooch and left armpit. | |||
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"My tip to single men… keep doing what you’re doing. I’d rather speak to the real you than a fake version based on what you think will get you a piece of my wife. Can I have a piece of your wife? Which piece? Which pieces are available? Toes, the female equivalent of a gooch and left armpit." I'll take the left armpit if it's still going? | |||
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"As the male half of the couple I get to read and see what guys put and I think majority of you guys would get somewhere if. 1 you was just polite. 2 you actually can hold a conversation. And 3 if she's not looking for a meet right now doesn't mean she's not interested just means that some people like to talk first specially if it's a one on one meet there's got to be some kind of trust there beforehand specially if your expecting a hotel meet or house. Just a tip there are plenty of couples that are looking for single guys single women and the biggest thing I've noticed is it's like there's an expectation for a meet right now... I'm probably going to get hate for this post" Thanks for that information,but I'm as honest as the day is 24 hrs long, that is how I was bought up, I think maybe my age is against me too ? Even though I dont feel or been told I dont look it ? As I've sent mail to quite a fe single & couples but not got any replies, maybe this site is not for me ? | |||
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"My tip to single men… keep doing what you’re doing. I’d rather speak to the real you than a fake version based on what you think will get you a piece of my wife. Can I have a piece of your wife? Which piece? Which pieces are available? Toes, the female equivalent of a gooch and left armpit. I'll take the left armpit if it's still going?" I’ll tell her to go shave. | |||
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"My tip to single men… keep doing what you’re doing. I’d rather speak to the real you than a fake version based on what you think will get you a piece of my wife. Can I have a piece of your wife? Which piece? Which pieces are available? Toes, the female equivalent of a gooch and left armpit. I'll take the left armpit if it's still going? I’ll tell her to go shave." You diamond  | |||
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"Oooh… another chance to share my vast experience and wisdom. A lot of couples, single men and women for that matter are their own filter for you. If they smell like cheese, look like cheese, feel like cheese then the chances are… the milks gone sour." If the milk turns out to be sour, I ain’t the kinda pussy to drink it… do you know what I mean? | |||
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"Oooh… another chance to share my vast experience and wisdom. A lot of couples, single men and women for that matter are their own filter for you. If they smell like cheese, look like cheese, feel like cheese then the chances are… the milks gone sour. If the milk turns out to be sour, I ain’t the kinda pussy to drink it… do you know what I mean?" Everybody stop getting shot. | |||
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"Oooh… another chance to share my vast experience and wisdom. A lot of couples, single men and women for that matter are their own filter for you. If they smell like cheese, look like cheese, feel like cheese then the chances are… the milks gone sour. If the milk turns out to be sour, I ain’t the kinda pussy to drink it… do you know what I mean? Everybody stop getting shot." I’m glad you got the reference or people would start to think I’m a bit weird | |||
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"As the male half of the couple I get to read and see what guys put and I think majority of you guys would get somewhere if. 1 you was just polite. 2 you actually can hold a conversation. And 3 if she's not looking for a meet right now doesn't mean she's not interested just means that some people like to talk first specially if it's a one on one meet there's got to be some kind of trust there beforehand specially if your expecting a hotel meet or house. Just a tip there are plenty of couples that are looking for single guys single women and the biggest thing I've noticed is it's like there's an expectation for a meet right now... I'm probably going to get hate for this post Thanks for that information,but I'm as honest as the day is 24 hrs long, that is how I was bought up, I think maybe my age is against me too ? Even though I dont feel or been told I dont look it ? As I've sent mail to quite a fe single & couples but not got any replies, maybe this site is not for me ? " It's all about preference, for the majority possibly but luck hamg in there  | |||
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"Oooh… another chance to share my vast experience and wisdom. A lot of couples, single men and women for that matter are their own filter for you. If they smell like cheese, look like cheese, feel like cheese then the chances are… the milks gone sour. If the milk turns out to be sour, I ain’t the kinda pussy to drink it… do you know what I mean? Everybody stop getting shot. I’m glad you got the reference or people would start to think I’m a bit weird "It’s the word start that worries me. | |||
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"One that really pisses Mr off is assuming their taking to the female of the couple with degrading talk. No respect and instantly blocked. Nice tits 😂" Thanks | |||
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"I seem to crash and burn in 99% of the messages I send, mainly because I haven't attached a face pic on the fisrt text, I get it's nice to see who you're chatting with, but discretion is a must for me and my career, I need mutual trust too before exposing myself publicly. So it's hard for most single men attempting to speak with women. Despite being straight, it's mainly men approaching me and they're just blunt and predatory. " What makes you so sure it's the lack of face pic? Are you choosing to message profiles that state they want a face pic in the first message? | |||
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"As the male half of the couple I get to read and see what guys put and I think majority of you guys would get somewhere if. 1 you was just polite. 2 you actually can hold a conversation. And 3 if she's not looking for a meet right now doesn't mean she's not interested just means that some people like to talk first specially if it's a one on one meet there's got to be some kind of trust there beforehand specially if your expecting a hotel meet or house. Just a tip there are plenty of couples that are looking for single guys single women and the biggest thing I've noticed is it's like there's an expectation for a meet right now... I'm probably going to get hate for this post Thanks for that information,but I'm as honest as the day is 24 hrs long, that is how I was bought up, I think maybe my age is against me too ? Even though I dont feel or been told I dont look it ? As I've sent mail to quite a fe single & couples but not got any replies, maybe this site is not for me ? It's all about preference, for the majority possibly but luck hamg in there "But as we are all different our preferences are not always going to be on the right wave length maybe 1 or 2 but not every thing !!! But thanks I'd still try but . . . . . . . . . . | |||
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"My tip to single men… keep doing what you’re doing. I’d rather speak to the real you than a fake version based on what you think will get you a piece of my wife. Can I have a piece of your wife? Which piece? Which pieces are available? Toes, the female equivalent of a gooch and left armpit. I'll take the left armpit if it's still going? I’ll tell her to go shave. You diamond "Dammit! Beaten to the beat bit 
Ok, pop her tootsies in a jiffy envelope and I’ll turn them into a small puppet show. | |||
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"I know the sentiment behind this, but I can't help but feel a little pissed off at the idea of being talked down to in how to engage women and couples in a way that's completely reductive of problems that can be faced in here. So I'll just say, I hope your advice helps someone OP "I'm just glad there are people around to help me tie my shoelaces. Life's very hard. | |||
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"Fair point, I can only presume to be honest, as they never state why. My messages either go unread or just get deleted. So in all honesty I have no idea." What do you think you're doing right in your messages that would warrant a response then? | |||
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"I know the sentiment behind this, but I can't help but feel a little pissed off at the idea of being talked down to in how to engage women and couples in a way that's completely reductive of problems that can be faced in here. So I'll just say, I hope your advice helps someone OP
I'm just glad there are people around to help me tie my shoelaces. Life's very hard."I’ve got two words for you dude. Vel crow | |||
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"I know the sentiment behind this, but I can't help but feel a little pissed off at the idea of being talked down to in how to engage women and couples in a way that's completely reductive of problems that can be faced in here. So I'll just say, I hope your advice helps someone OP
I'm just glad there are people around to help me tie my shoelaces. Life's very hard.
I’ve got two words for you dude.
Vel crow"Could you say that again, but more slowly... | |||
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"My tip to single men… keep doing what you’re doing. I’d rather speak to the real you than a fake version based on what you think will get you a piece of my wife. Can I have a piece of your wife? Which piece? Which pieces are available? Toes, the female equivalent of a gooch and left armpit. I'll take the left armpit if it's still going? I’ll tell her to go shave." Is the gooch still available? I don't want to share at the same time as Willy because I'll get the giggles. | |||
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"My tip to single men… keep doing what you’re doing. I’d rather speak to the real you than a fake version based on what you think will get you a piece of my wife. Can I have a piece of your wife? Which piece? Which pieces are available? Toes, the female equivalent of a gooch and left armpit. I'll take the left armpit if it's still going? I’ll tell her to go shave. Is the gooch still available? I don't want to share at the same time as Willy because I'll get the giggles."  | |||
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"I know the sentiment behind this, but I can't help but feel a little pissed off at the idea of being talked down to in how to engage women and couples in a way that's completely reductive of problems that can be faced in here. So I'll just say, I hope your advice helps someone OP
I'm just glad there are people around to help me tie my shoelaces. Life's very hard.
I’ve got two words for you dude.
Vel crow
Could you say that again, but more slowly..."Fuck it, come here, I won’t double knot so you’ll be ok to take them back off on your own. | |||
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"Oooh… another chance to share my vast experience and wisdom. A lot of couples, single men and women for that matter are their own filter for you. If they smell like cheese, look like cheese, feel like cheese then the chances are… the milks gone sour. If the milk turns out to be sour, I ain’t the kinda pussy to drink it… do you know what I mean? Everybody stop getting shot. I’m glad you got the reference or people would start to think I’m a bit weird
It’s the word start that worries me."Fairs | |||
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"My tip to single men… keep doing what you’re doing. I’d rather speak to the real you than a fake version based on what you think will get you a piece of my wife. Can I have a piece of your wife? Which piece? Which pieces are available? Toes, the female equivalent of a gooch and left armpit. I'll take the left armpit if it's still going? I’ll tell her to go shave. You diamond
Dammit! Beaten to the beat bit
Ok, pop her tootsies in a jiffy envelope and I’ll turn them into a small puppet show."Punch and Judy has really went downhill. | |||
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"My tip to single men… keep doing what you’re doing. I’d rather speak to the real you than a fake version based on what you think will get you a piece of my wife. Can I have a piece of your wife? Which piece? Which pieces are available? Toes, the female equivalent of a gooch and left armpit. I'll take the left armpit if it's still going? I’ll tell her to go shave. Is the gooch still available? I don't want to share at the same time as Willy because I'll get the giggles." She’s not happy she has to shave again. | |||
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"Just being me! Politely say hello, asking what they're into, not just sexual, despite this being the app for that, just seem whatever angle single men take luck determines the responses that do eventually get a reply. " Do their profiles not already tell you what they're into? Luck has very little to do with anything. | |||
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"My tip to single men… keep doing what you’re doing. I’d rather speak to the real you than a fake version based on what you think will get you a piece of my wife. Can I have a piece of your wife? Which piece? Which pieces are available? Toes, the female equivalent of a gooch and left armpit. I'll take the left armpit if it's still going? I’ll tell her to go shave. Is the gooch still available? I don't want to share at the same time as Willy because I'll get the giggles. She’s not happy she has to shave again." Good. I had a social months ago and saw gooch hairs. I never went back. I am pleased to report there were no signs of clegnuts, dangleberries or winnits. Please ask her to do the same. | |||
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"Just being me! Politely say hello, asking what they're into, not just sexual, despite this being the app for that, just seem whatever angle single men take luck determines the responses that do eventually get a reply. Do their profiles not already tell you what they're into? Luck has very little to do with anything." Not all of them, some just state the obvious and other don't say anything other than " text me" There's no rhyme or reason, just sheer ratio imbalance I'm guessing. Even the women that say they're clearing their inboxes due to mass numbers. I won't beg and certainly won't bombard someone. Texts can be interpretative depending on the mood you're in when reading them. | |||
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"My tip to single men… keep doing what you’re doing. I’d rather speak to the real you than a fake version based on what you think will get you a piece of my wife. Can I have a piece of your wife? Which piece? Which pieces are available? Toes, the female equivalent of a gooch and left armpit." To think you have domain over pieces of your wife is disturbing! | |||
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"My tip to single men… keep doing what you’re doing. I’d rather speak to the real you than a fake version based on what you think will get you a piece of my wife. Can I have a piece of your wife? Which piece? Which pieces are available? Toes, the female equivalent of a gooch and left armpit. To think you have domain over pieces of your wife is disturbing!" To think you think he actually does is even more! | |||
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"My tip to single men… keep doing what you’re doing. I’d rather speak to the real you than a fake version based on what you think will get you a piece of my wife. Can I have a piece of your wife? Which piece? Which pieces are available? Toes, the female equivalent of a gooch and left armpit. To think you have domain over pieces of your wife is disturbing! To think you think he actually does is even more! "To think you think he thinks what was I saying? Oh ya can I have a toe | |||
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"Not all of them, some just state the obvious and other don't say anything other than " text me" There's no rhyme or reason, just sheer ratio imbalance I'm guessing. Even the women that say they're clearing their inboxes due to mass numbers. I won't beg and certainly won't bombard someone. Texts can be interpretative depending on the mood you're in when reading them." I guess they must have really good pictures then if there's nothing of interest in the profile text and you're still reaching out. I get 30-100 messages on an average day. I don't have the time to deal with all of them. But there are ones that stand out amongst the drudgery of small talk and asking questions already answered. | |||
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"Not all of them, some just state the obvious and other don't say anything other than " text me" There's no rhyme or reason, just sheer ratio imbalance I'm guessing. Even the women that say they're clearing their inboxes due to mass numbers. I won't beg and certainly won't bombard someone. Texts can be interpretative depending on the mood you're in when reading them. I guess they must have really good pictures then if there's nothing of interest in the profile text and you're still reaching out. I get 30-100 messages on an average day. I don't have the time to deal with all of them. But there are ones that stand out amongst the drudgery of small talk and asking questions already answered." What’s it like living in Carlisle? | |||
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"And there's the issue I'm highlighting, most women on here must be averaging 30-100 a day, I get 1 or 2 a week and it's always of gay or bi men trying their luck ha ha. If I do get a response from women or the occasional couple, they ask for a face pic from the get go, and as I've mentioned, discretion is a must for me, even when we've gotten past the photo, the male half usually says the women can't make it but they're still intrigued..... just a different tactical move to get some action off the back of being a "couple" , so that's where the texting stops." So don't message couples? My point was that amongst the drivel, it's easy to discern who is actually interested in me, and is of interest to me. What are you doing to actually spark an interest or connection? | |||
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" So don't message couples? My point was that amongst the drivel, it's easy to discern who is actually interested in me, and is of interest to me. What are you doing to actually spark an interest or connection?" Ha ha, other than the introduction of "Hello" or Amazing pictures" what else is there to spark an interest? I'm clearly missing something, Humour is usually misunderstood or simply never read before deleting. I'm open to suggestions, but everyone is different so what works for one, offensive to another. | |||
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" So don't message couples? My point was that amongst the drivel, it's easy to discern who is actually interested in me, and is of interest to me. What are you doing to actually spark an interest or connection? Ha ha, other than the introduction of "Hello" or Amazing pictures" what else is there to spark an interest? I'm clearly missing something, Humour is usually misunderstood or simply never read before deleting. I'm open to suggestions, but everyone is different so what works for one, offensive to another. " I've found humour (however shitty) gets the best results. But then I don't use that approach because I think it will get results I use it because it entertains me. So might not be the best approach for everyone. | |||
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" So don't message couples? My point was that amongst the drivel, it's easy to discern who is actually interested in me, and is of interest to me. What are you doing to actually spark an interest or connection? Ha ha, other than the introduction of "Hello" or Amazing pictures" what else is there to spark an interest? I'm clearly missing something, Humour is usually misunderstood or simply never read before deleting. I'm open to suggestions, but everyone is different so what works for one, offensive to another. " I mean, if that's how you feel about messaging people then that's how you feel. So be it. | |||
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"I’ve stopped messaging first altogether now and I’m finding it hard to trust who’s genuine, who isn’t etc. I know I know, people will say “but verifications help” but there’s an awful lot on here now gaming the system and it erodes trust. " Good luck with that strategy buddy. | |||
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"I’ve stopped messaging first altogether now and I’m finding it hard to trust who’s genuine, who isn’t etc. I know I know, people will say “but verifications help” but there’s an awful lot on here now gaming the system and it erodes trust. Good luck with that strategy buddy." 🤷♂️ | |||
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