FabSwingers.com forum: The C word

By *nplainsight200 OP Man
17 weeks ago

portsmotuh

For the love of all things, if you have any suspicions that something isn’t right then go get yourself checked out.

Had some terrible news today but hopefully all will be ok with the right treatment.

This isn’t a pity post but just a heads up not to let things linger.

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By *nplainsight200 OP Man
17 weeks ago

portsmotuh

On the plus side, it’s nearly the weekend!

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By *vaRose43Woman
17 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I’m going to assume you don’t mean Chlamydia 😉

In all seriousness though I hope all goes well for you. I’m 7 years post mine and was lucky it was just minor surgery.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Good luck hope all works out

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By *nplainsight200 OP Man
17 weeks ago

portsmotuh

"I’m going to assume you don’t mean Chlamydia 😉

In all seriousness though I hope all goes well for you. I’m 7 years post mine and was lucky it was just minor surgery.

Thank you. Specialists think it will be ok. Glad you’re doing ok

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By *nplainsight200 OP Man
17 weeks ago

portsmotuh

"Good luck hope all works out

Thank you x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
17 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

My first thought was Cunt

My second was Christmas

My third is Cancer

One of them is a swear word ( not here it seems )

The others are okay to say out loud and in fact saying it out loud is beneficial ..... so Christmas everyone..... it's on the way

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By *ozzybear1981Man
17 weeks ago

preston

You’ll beat this OP.

Keep thinking positive and you’ve got this pal ☺️

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By *olfandtazCouple
17 weeks ago

Bristol

Hopefully it won't be to complicated for you OP and a simple op and meds will resolve it for you.

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By *C44Man
17 weeks ago

Newbourne

"For the love of all things, if you have any suspicions that something isn’t right then go get yourself checked out.

Had some terrible news today but hopefully all will be ok with the right treatment.

This isn’t a pity post but just a heads up not to let things linger.

Wishing you an easy journey and all the strength in the world. Keep your head up

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By *B69Woman
17 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Sending positive vibes to you OP

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By *luebell888Woman
17 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Sorry to hear your news. Stay strong.x

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By *idssissyTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Birmingham

Speedy recovery OP

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By *issmorganWoman
17 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Sorry for your bad news op

Sending a big hug to you and hope it can be sorted out x

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By *heGateKeeperMan
17 weeks ago

Stratford

The NHS is amazing and will help you get through this OP 💖

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By *nplainsight200 OP Man
17 weeks ago

portsmotuh

Thanks to all of you for your kind words and messages. Means a lot x

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
17 weeks ago

Tamworth

Sorry to hear and speedy recovery OP. Such an important message to share.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
17 weeks ago

Southampton

"Thanks to all of you for your kind words and messages. Means a lot x"

😘😘

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By *erry bull1Man
17 weeks ago

doncaster

I’ve been there

I had throat cancer and was treated with chemo and radio therapy

All in all 18 months before I was up and about properly

All clear now and living a normal life

Thank you NHS

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By *affron40Woman
17 weeks ago

manchester

Great message and hope you have a speedy recovery x

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By *erry bull1Man
17 weeks ago

doncaster

"Great message and hope you have a speedy recovery x"
thank you x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

"You’ll beat this OP.

Why are people always told to beat cancer ? Are you told to beat pneumonia, measles or any other disease? Then what if you don't beat cancer and you die? Are you at fault because you didn't fight hard enough to beat it ?

I was married 25 years when my husband died of cancer age 50. Sadly he couldn't beat it, however hard he tried. Does that make him a failure ? A loser because he didn't fight hard enough ? As hard as he tried he couldn't beat it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
17 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Thanks for sharing Sally.

People mean well but it's an illness not an Olympic event.

I feel the same when people are 'heroised' during or after suffering. They had no choice.

I do really get where you are coming from

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

East Sussex

"You’ll beat this OP.

Similarly when people with cancer are told to 'stay strong '. The pressure that puts on someone.

Your husband wasn't a loser

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By *ookie46Woman
17 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Hope the treatment goes well OP

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By *ilverBaerMan
17 weeks ago

Near Camborne

" heads up not to let things linger."

Fingers crossed for you.

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By *opinovMan
17 weeks ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

That's weird. I've had a bit of a day full of this too.

From one to another, I hope you make a good recovery.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Thank you NiceCouple and Granny Crumpet for your supportive messages. Much appreciated.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

I was recently diagnosed with cervical cancer. A surgeon removed my cervix, ovaries, Fallopian tubes and uterus. A biopsy last month shows I am now cancer free. I didn't beat cancer. The NHS did it all for me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I was recently diagnosed with cervical cancer. A surgeon removed my cervix, ovaries, Fallopian tubes and uterus. A biopsy last month shows I am now cancer free. I didn't beat cancer. The NHS did it all for me. "

That's good.

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By *ShyButNotShyCouple
17 weeks ago

Stafford

I agree. Just had it confirmed last week. After putting off going to docs for months.

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By *akedMMan
17 weeks ago

Witney

All the best Op hope it goes well

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By *vaRose43Woman
17 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

"I agree. Just had it confirmed last week. After putting off going to docs for months. "

Sorry to hear that for you too, going for a speedy recovery for you xx

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17 weeks ago

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
17 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

I thought I may have breast cancer last year. So did the G.P. and the hospital suspected. I won't describe the symptoms or the pain and concern.

I went through all the rig marole and testing and mammogramming and lubing and other examinations and was pronounced clear.

Turned out to be an inner infection. Don't ask me how. No idea....... Anti biotics and some rest and presto.

I've never had a mammogram for good reasons i'll keep to myself - but I don't go to routine checks as I don't believe in 'learned helplessness' and sl@vish obedience to NHS good intention.

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By *iker JackMan
17 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I lost my wife to cancer. 10 years after the all clear it came back, type 2 stage 4.

I do normal need and never have wanted sympathy what I want to say is live life to the full, tell your loved ones you love them and for fucks sake we all know our bodies better than anyone else so if you think something is wrong then seek advice

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
17 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Couldn't agree more with 'if YOU think there's something wrong then get advice' ....... even the slightest suspicion

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