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By *oupkinks OP   Couple
16 weeks ago

Bolton

How do other couples with kids manage to free up time to play with limited help?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
16 weeks ago

North West

We don't, generally. Hence why we don't meet much.

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By *usty kayWoman
16 weeks ago

Burnham

We don't. Before kids we didn't meet alone, a couple of years in and we realised that was really going to be the only way we got to live this lifestyle

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By *eordieJeansCouple
16 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We arrange a babysitter, book a hotel, arrange a club night for the babysitter to cancel and leave us frustrated. Honestly it’s hard enough to get a couple of hours for a date never mind anything else.

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By *olfandtazCouple
16 weeks ago

Bristol

We get every other weekend kid free, that's when we play.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
16 weeks ago

North West


"We arrange a babysitter, book a hotel, arrange a club night for the babysitter to cancel and leave us frustrated. Honestly it’s hard enough to get a couple of hours for a date never mind anything else."

We took a day of annual leave last week and paid for a holiday club for our daughter, just so we could go to the cinema together

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By *eordieJeansCouple
16 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"We arrange a babysitter, book a hotel, arrange a club night for the babysitter to cancel and leave us frustrated. Honestly it’s hard enough to get a couple of hours for a date never mind anything else.

We took a day of annual leave last week and paid for a holiday club for our daughter, just so we could go to the cinema together "

We did that when the kids were at school and the school rang and said our youngest was throwing up. It’s like we’re not meant to have any time together.

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By *ortyairCouple
16 weeks ago

Wallasey

We have four kids, and as we like to play in hotels, we would play when we knew our kids were having sleepover with family.

Obviously got easier when they were old enough to look after themselves but then the questions would start. You'd think they were the parents at times.

It's still hard nowadays because they all have partners and kids of their own, so we never know when someone's doing something we should be attending, so it's still tricky at times haha.

Vickie x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
16 weeks ago

North West


"We have four kids, and as we like to play in hotels, we would play when we knew our kids were having sleepover with family.

Obviously got easier when they were old enough to look after themselves but then the questions would start. You'd think they were the parents at times.

It's still hard nowadays because they all have partners and kids of their own, so we never know when someone's doing something we should be attending, so it's still tricky at times haha.

Vickie x"

We don't have family to have our daughter for sleepovers or really any childcare. It's just how things are.....

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By *entBarryUKMan
16 weeks ago

Ashford

Bedrooms with locks.

Just kidding, we just wait till they fell asleep, or got a babysitter in.

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By *ortyairCouple
16 weeks ago

Wallasey


"We have four kids, and as we like to play in hotels, we would play when we knew our kids were having sleepover with family.

Obviously got easier when they were old enough to look after themselves but then the questions would start. You'd think they were the parents at times.

It's still hard nowadays because they all have partners and kids of their own, so we never know when someone's doing something we should be attending, so it's still tricky at times haha.

Vickie x

We don't have family to have our daughter for sleepovers or really any childcare. It's just how things are....."
We were very lucky in that regard, our brothers and sisters all had kids around the same age so we'd send ours over to them one weekend only to have to mind theirs the next. Swings and roundabouts haha. Don't know how we'd manage without the help we recieved, we were very lucky.

Mrs x

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
16 weeks ago

Ends

My partner and I met separately.

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By *i-Guy-75Man
16 weeks ago

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Lost count the amount of parties we been invited too and had to stay out late

Weddings

Birthdays

Aniversary

Retirement

Work doos

List goes one

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
16 weeks ago

Sunderland

Well mostly we've failed spectacularly in this regard.

But then we did chose to live some where with no family close by so there is no easy child care for weekends away. But on the plus side we have no family living close by... so swings and roundabouts.

Well roundabouts. No swings because of aforementioned child care 🤣

Mr

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By *oupkinks OP   Couple
16 weeks ago

Bolton

This is us atm

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By *oupkinks OP   Couple
16 weeks ago

Bolton

😂

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By *eyeYCouple
16 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"How do other couples with kids manage to free up time to play with limited help? "

With difficulty! Feel your pain and have missed multiple party and meet invites due to that. 😕

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
16 weeks ago

Manchester


"My partner and I met separately. "

Pretty much that!

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By *irty_little_blondeWoman
16 weeks ago

Manchester

It’s particularly hard when going to a club and you can’t have your phone. I keep having to go to the locker to check for any phone calls or messages

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
16 weeks ago

Manchester


"It’s particularly hard when going to a club and you can’t have your phone. I keep having to go to the locker to check for any phone calls or messages "

Yes! I just find that if they're left with a babysitter, I can't really enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

We tend too meet when we can get a babysitter but have had the odd 3sum/4sum after bedtime 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

We got round it a few times by Ellen meeting couples on her own but this stopped after a meet where she felt she'd been regarded as a free pr0stitute.

We arranged a babysitter a couple of times but it felt weird discussing where we were off to etc. plus the need to keep checking our phones in case there'd been an issue.

So most our meets were limited to the few times the kids went to stay with family. We probably over compensated whenever we got out

Of course all along we thought we'd make up for it once the kids grew up and left home. Except by the time that happened we realised we'd grown old and can't much be arsed

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By *vaRose43Woman
11 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Day meets in hotels

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
11 weeks ago

Sheffield

Not a couple but it’s difficult. I just try to plan a club night in for a decent event. X

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By *electableicecreamMan
11 weeks ago

The West

I'm not a couple but a single parent.

I often have day time meets when the kids are at school or I get a babysitter of an evening and go out for a few hours locally.

I generally don't do hotels or clubs so keep it to hosting or being hosted.

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By *lirty_dirtyCouple
11 weeks ago

Lingfield

This can be a real problem and there's no perfect solution for us but when possible, and usually daytimes, we'll go to a club or pre arranged meet but in the evenings we mostly meet solo. We have both found it an incredible turn on for Jane to meet guys whilst Mr is looking after home life. Particularly when he gets a video sent of Jane riding some guys cock

Mr doesn't meet single women out of personal preference, even though Mrs keeps suggesting it would be very hot. Instead he meets other guys solo, often at gay saunas etc.

It works for us

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By *weetiepie99Woman
11 weeks ago

cardiff

It's all about priorities really

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By *r John WickMan
11 weeks ago

The Continental

I’m in a lucky position of both Mrs Wick and I Fab flying solo. So all we have to do is make sure the sex diaries don’t clash, unless we’re having a go on each other.

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By *atandjayCouple
11 weeks ago

Brighton

It’s tricky as hell

Get so many messages from people who don’t seem to understand we have work and family commitments and then get disappointed

Thankfully a lot of cool swingers who understand life can be hectic

This is our escape from the norm and not our everyday routine

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