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By *eavensent78 OP   Couple
over a year ago

west mids

After being here a fair few months still struggling to get a conversation out of people never mind anything else our profile is well presented (we think) lol and we have been verified a few times can anyone see where the problem is xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After being here a fair few months still struggling to get a conversation out of people never mind anything else our profile is well presented (we think) lol and we have been verified a few times can anyone see where the problem is xxx "

Being a very sexy cpl may put some ppl off xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're fishing in a very small pool, and there are a lot of other rods??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say anyone is punching above their weight on here, attraction comes in many formats and what is attractive to one may not be to another.

I think you just need patience and make sure you have your filters in place to help prevent time wasters and people you would not be attracted to.

Also are you searching or just waiting for messages?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Join the 100's of other couples only meeting women.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see any problems

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I can't see anything wrong with your profile at all....

Get searching....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not looking for single guys or MF couple's. As already stated that will limit you as a couple.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paragraphs.

And your headline reads a bit moody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After being here a fair few months still struggling to get a conversation out of people never mind anything else our profile is well presented (we think) lol and we have been verified a few times can anyone see where the problem is xxx "

People like who they like you can't force them to chat with you or message you. Just as you are not looking for single men others are not looking for this or that in others too so don't let it bother you and accept more won't want to meet than will for most people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're fishing in a very small pool, and there are a lot of other rods??"

Yep - you've blocked single males, some 65-70% of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a couple of people have pointed out. You only after another woman. Most of the single bi women on here are fakes. Try broadening your horizons to a couple maybe or is the willy envy a problem? x

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Ok.....

"If you are one of the lucky few who we want to be friends with....."

"Due to such high demand we now have MSN and Skype set up.."

Should they count themselves lucky??

High demand?

You have a high demand of women wanting to talk to you and you think this is a problem??

Or are you adding others that you dont want to have fun with??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or is this...

Oooh look at me????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or is this...

Oooh look at me???? "

Just what I was wondering... but, to be fair to the OP....

You're looking for a very small 'pool' of opportunity in FF cpls and single women, to be honest. That could be one reason.

And, although your profile is well written in terms of grammar etc, and appears to 'do the job', I was left wondering what it is you are actually looking for..? It says everything, but says nothing - if that makes any sense.

Maybe set out a few things you'd like to get into or try, or things you've done as a couple and have found you're into? And please split it into paragraphs - bit too much like one long sentence at the mo.

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By *eavensent78 OP   Couple
over a year ago

west mids


"Ok.....

"If you are one of the lucky few who we want to be friends with....."

"Due to such high demand we now have MSN and Skype set up.."

Should they count themselves lucky??

High demand?

You have a high demand of women wanting to talk to you and you think this is a problem??

Or are you adding others that you dont want to have fun with??

"

When we 1st joining fab alot of ppl was asking for msn/Skype hence high demand these ppl then turned out to not have a cam or cam was broken or was never on when we was on

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

you're only looking for single women. The real ones make up a very small percentage of FAB and the young real ones who meet couples makes up the smallest percentage of fab going.

You wont get many meets because of the above regardless of how well presented your profile is and pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might also want to try including a few more pics of the male half, because presumably these women you're looking to meet will probably need to find him attractive too, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not posted on a thread before, but funnily enough last night did a search for ff couple looking for anything, there were only 32 within a 100 mile radius and most hadn't been online for over 6 months, so it's no wonder ur having trouble with such a small target

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

On a positive note for you.... if not me.

I never got as far as the pics, the profile did exactly what you wanted it to do; it put me off reading any further.

Seriously though, (and before anyone says it i know my profile is crap ); it is hard to read without paragraphs and spacing, so maybe that would get people to read more.

Like people have said, you are looking for what 80% of Fab is looking for, and only maybe 10% of Fab actually is.

Even a lot of the single Bi ladies are only looking for single bi ladies !

There are a lot of sexy couples on Fab who enjoy 'soft swing' and FF contact rather than mf swapping; maybe that is a road to go down if your quest for the holy grail that is a single bi femme falters.

Good luck and have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest i'm a single bi woman on here and have recently changed my settings to wanting to only meet couples (bored of men at the min)... I get ziltch mail now men are off limits....

We do exist I promise you!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

More pictures of the male half. I personally wouldn't be interested in just a cock shot.

It would be nice if you made it clear what role a bi fem is to play. Am I there to play with the female half whilst the husband wanks, then get banished to another room while you have sex? Or is it a proper 3sum with every one involved equally?

Whilst most don't need every boundary outlined on a profile, I wouldn't want to waste my time chatting to you to find that I'm there for a live porn in your bedroom with no hope of getting cock at some point.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

i didn't read all previous replies so sorry if this has been said but ....

you are looking for women.

so.....that will be women that fancy both YOU and your partner

Women that want to share

Women that come in your age range......

Good luck with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read your profile and headline is a bit moody sounding and why the capitals? Im not looking for couples but if I was would want to see pics of the guy and not necessarily his cock. That can be in private and no face pics of female either. Im not bi either but just saying thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

goodlooking folk seem to turn most off onhere

i think they think well it wouldnt happen off here so adopt the same frame onhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After being here a fair few months still struggling to get a conversation out of people never mind anything else our profile is well presented (we think) lol and we have been verified a few times can anyone see where the problem is xxx "

1) You dont say what you are into

2) You dont say what you are looking for from your meets

3) You dont show pics of the guy or of you both together.

If you have been sending messages to others have you sent face pics of you both?

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