FabSwingers.com forum: Why do I bother

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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Sick of working all hours, only to be left feeling unappreciated and reminded of all the "benefits" people receive for doing sweet FA....

Since the coalition government were elected in (2010) things have spiralled south.... I no longer wish to feel a visitor in my own country.

Just a rant really, my apologies xx

Sick & tired of always feeling sick & tired. Spare me the "do something about it" speech as we all know its never that simple, abandoning family/friends & loved ones.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

So you don't want to do something about it?......Only you have the power to change your life I'm afraid.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if you are feeling low, maybe seek some professional help.

hope you feel better soon.

These are challenging times for many in work and not, hope things improve for them

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

So we just have to suffer your moaning about it?? Will get very boring very quickly!!!

The last place I worked you were treated as a number. My progression was halted by the site director because he didn't like me. I dud very little to change things but I accepted that because I chose to do nothing about it I had no right to contain about it yo other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The benefits others get don't impact directly on you so forget about them. They don't get that much anyway in most cases.

And the visitor in your own country is rubbish.

Population migration has happened, countries are no longer white only, they are made up of different races and nationalities, deal with it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Go for a motorbike ride, take your mind off it. Then do a swot analysis, very simple one, and you night realise you are better off than you think and realise. Also there was a thread on here about swingers ans motorbikes so get in in that. Re-evaluating doesn't mean major change. You can change little things and do it gradually. What's important to you?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

If you are that unhappy...quit!

Let someone who will appreciate the job take over....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whinging, moaning people is what's wrong with this country. Don't worry about what other people do or where they're from. You live in one of the best countries in the world. Could always be worse dude. Fact x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The benefits others get don't impact directly on you so forget about them. They don't get that much anyway in most cases.

And the visitor in your own country is rubbish.

Population migration has happened, countries are no longer white only, they are made up of different races and nationalities, deal with it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Sick of working all hours, only to be left feeling unappreciated and reminded of all the "benefits" people receive for doing sweet FA....

Since the coalition government were elected in (2010) things have spiralled south.... I no longer wish to feel a visitor in my own country.

Just a rant really, my apologies xx

Sick & tired of always feeling sick & tired. Spare me the "do something about it" speech as we all know its never that simple, abandoning family/friends & loved ones."

If you have a skill or trade look at possibly moving to Australia or New Zealand. We have friends who were in the same frame of mind as you and they love it down there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if you are feeling low, maybe seek some professional help.

hope you feel better soon.

These are challenging times for many in work and not, hope things improve for them

Cheers mate, best response,

Everyone knows this entire thread would be the other way round if it was a nicegirlk25 posting.

I'm feeling more and more that I don't belong here to be honest, it's sometimes a harsh bunch of keyboard warriors that bite at every given chance to make themselves feel better....

May just do them a favour and delete the account lol was only really interested in making new friends etc.

Peace & Love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes those evil bastards claiming benefits, they should all be burned at the stake. Get very sick of seeing this same argument all the time, ooooh i work so hard while all those lazy shirkers live the high life on benefits. Did it ever occur to anyone that maybe some have to live off benefits because they have to care for another family member, or they are disabled and can't work? Count yourself lucky you have a job and your health, there's a beautiful world out there just waiting to be experienced.

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