FabSwingers.com forum: If you don’t orgasm during sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are you disappointed?

Do you finish yourself off later?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. There’s a lot more to sex than just having an orgasm. I love sex for the all round pleasure. Not cumming doesn’t take any of the pleasure you’ve shared away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope. There’s a lot more to sex than just having an orgasm. I love sex for the all round pleasure. Not cumming doesn’t take any of the pleasure you’ve shared away "

Agreed!

Do you finish yourself off though ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I orgasm EVERY time. Sometimes there is someone there with me too !

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincs

I’ve had a few FFM sessions where I’ve not finished. Concentrating on someone else’s pleasure is pretty damn hot and I enjoy it just the same.

You can lose the intensity once you’ve orgasmed so it’s good, sometimes, to not.

I get more than my fair share of orgasms anyway…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I orgasm EVERY time. Sometimes there is someone there with me too ! "

Ah you are funny

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By *usurrusCouple
over a year ago

North West.

Went through a stage when the meds I was on affected my ability to finish. It was somewhat frustrating - all sorted now though

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
over a year ago

Warwick and Coventry

"Are you disappointed?

Do you finish yourself off later? "

Just whack one out to Emmerdale

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

If the sex was good then it's not a big deal.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I very much prefer to cum but if for whatever reason it fails to materialise, it’s not the end of the world.

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By *airyboxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I love it when I can’t cum but am still rock hard and enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you disappointed?

Do you finish yourself off later?

Just whack one out to Emmerdale

Mr "

If Moira is on screen then it’s easy peasy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Went through a stage when the meds I was on affected my ability to finish. It was somewhat frustrating - all sorted now though

I’ve been there for years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not disappointed at all

Depends what you mean by "later".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not disappointed at all

Depends what you mean by "later". "

When you go home or they go home

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"I’ve had a few FFM sessions where I’ve not finished. Concentrating on someone else’s pleasure is pretty damn hot and I enjoy it just the same.

You can lose the intensity once you’ve orgasmed so it’s good, sometimes, to not.

I get more than my fair share of orgasms anyway…

He's had his fair share of FFM's^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve had a few FFM sessions where I’ve not finished. Concentrating on someone else’s pleasure is pretty damn hot and I enjoy it just the same.

You can lose the intensity once you’ve orgasmed so it’s good, sometimes, to not.

I get more than my fair share of orgasms anyway…

He's had his fair share of FFM's^^"

He’s a dog. Woof.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you disappointed?

Do you finish yourself off later? "

Yes and yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not disappointed at all

Depends what you mean by "later".

When you go home or they go home"

If it was thoroughly enjoyable, then I'd be replaying the experience over in my head and "finishing myself off" anyway, orgasm or no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not disappointed at all

Depends what you mean by "later".

When you go home or they go home

If it was thoroughly enjoyable, then I'd be replaying the experience over in my head and "finishing myself off" anyway, orgasm or no. "

I. Want. You.

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By *issBehavexxxWoman
over a year ago

essex

Never disappointed I enjoy the whole experience regardless and no if we’ve had a good time I don’t need to finish myself off it’s never been the main goal for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is such a deep question.

I’ve had sex where I’ve cum quite quickly & that was it…. But then it’s continued and it’s been…. To be honest… boring, sore & quite unfulfilling.

Then I’ve had sessions that have been fun, with multiple peaks, not quite getting there… but so very very hot. And the only reason we’ve stopped is pure exhaustion.

And I’ve had a mixture of the 2.

Orgasms are great. But quite short lived sometimes.

If I’m left unfulfilled it’s not lack of orgasm that does it, so I won’t be wanting to “finish” off.

I will however wank over the good ones for weeks afterwards.

I’m not sure that answers the question 🤣

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By *olfandtazCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

It doesn't bother me if I cum or not, for me it's about the experience rather than the climax

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By *cLovin2Man
over a year ago

London

In the rare event I can't finish, I just go to sleep and have another go later in the morning.

If you fail at first, try, try, try, again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is such a deep question.

I’ve had sex where I’ve cum quite quickly & that was it…. But then it’s continued and it’s been…. To be honest… boring, sore & quite unfulfilling.

Then I’ve had sessions that have been fun, with multiple peaks, not quite getting there… but so very very hot. And the only reason we’ve stopped is pure exhaustion.

And I’ve had a mixture of the 2.

Orgasms are great. But quite short lived sometimes.

If I’m left unfulfilled it’s not lack of orgasm that does it, so I won’t be wanting to “finish” off.

I will however wank over the good ones for weeks afterwards.

I’m not sure that answers the question 🤣"

It does

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By *hat Couple Over ThereCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Mrs isn't disappointed but she has her doxy wand plugged in just in case

She isn't struggling ATM as she's on here quite alot getting her all hot and wet.. so she's Cummings quite quick atm

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I don't always cum, no. I don't finish myself off either cos if it ain't happening with the sexy time, then nothing I do will make it different.

It's a very random thing, my orgasm. It's less easy cum and more easy go sometimes

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

I enjoy all of the feelings. I dont always need to cum myself .

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
over a year ago

cannock

"Went through a stage when the meds I was on affected my ability to finish. It was somewhat frustrating - all sorted now though

I (male half) went through this when on meds a few years ago too, frustrating to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not disappointed at all

Depends what you mean by "later".

When you go home or they go home"

No, I do take care of myself right there next to them.

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By *Silver-Man
over a year ago

North Wales

Doesn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not disappointed at all

Depends what you mean by "later".

When you go home or they go home

No, I do take care of myself right there next to them. "

Omg Bella?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not disappointed at all

Depends what you mean by "later".

When you go home or they go home

No, I do take care of myself right there next to them.

Omg Bella?

☹️☹️☹️

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Are you disappointed?

Do you finish yourself off later? "

It depends. If it's because they were a selfish lover, then yeah I'd be disappointed that I'd made a bad choice. And would probably be so ew about it that I'd not be in the mood to 'finish myself off later'. But if I've had a generally fun time and it just...didn't happen... well no big deal, and yes I'd probably have a wank afterwards reliving the fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you disappointed?

Do you finish yourself off later? "

Being the experienced swordsman I am now in my old age 😜😂 it doesn’t bother me at all.

Her orgasm is more important to me. With age u become less selfish (some of us). I can finish myself off later but the challenge is to make her cum! Be the guy who gives her that intense leg shaking “omg fuck I’m gonna cum, orgasm”. Make her daydream of you when she’s fucking her husband later when you gone 😈

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By *ompovatorX24Man
over a year ago

Feltham

I'm having issues ejaculations in my gfs throat when she gives me a bj.what can I do

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Nah.

If I didn't cum it was a conscious choice. And I'll bask in that frustration and need until I see the person I intend to resolve it for me 💜

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By *ompovatorX24Man
over a year ago

Feltham

"Nah.

If I didn't cum it was a conscious choice. And I'll bask in that frustration and need until I see the person I intend to resolve it for me 💜"

But I said,to her that I can't cum because of,stress

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Nah.

If I didn't cum it was a conscious choice. And I'll bask in that frustration and need until I see the person I intend to resolve it for me 💜

But I said,to her that I can't cum because of,stress"

.... What.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens when my rsi kicks in

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By *uskWandererMan
over a year ago

Ormskirk

I've not before, not through any fault of who I was with. I'd made sure she'd got her fill but she was disappointed I hadn't and that did make me feel bad

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"Are you disappointed?

Do you finish yourself off later? "

Are you speaking to the ladies or just gentlemen on this site?

Can be a tad different.

Men can orgasm by shagging a hole in a fence, ladies not so much.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you disappointed? "

No, cos we rend to have another bout later.

"Do you finish yourself off later? "

No (see above)

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By *ompovatorX24Man
over a year ago

Feltham

"It happens when my rsi kicks in

What's rsi

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

It depends on the kind of sex, for example if I am pegging someone then I might not cum, but I am not disappointed.

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By *ilthycouple24Couple
52 weeks ago

Glasgow

No I like to hold mine in if male comes it ruins it yiu wanna go as long as u cam and have women come multiple times

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By *heGateKeeperMan
52 weeks ago

Stratford

Only if I feel she made no effort to get me off when I know I put in a ballon d’Or performance

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By *quirrel!Man
52 weeks ago

"Nah.

If I didn't cum it was a conscious choice. And I'll bask in that frustration and need until I see the person I intend to resolve it for me 💜"

I like it! Use that frustration for a bigger better O later!

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By *oeSurreyMan
52 weeks ago

Woking

"Went through a stage when the meds I was on affected my ability to finish. It was somewhat frustrating - all sorted now though

I had that problem, due to Fluoxetine, explained to GP I’m depressed and now I can’t cum! They changed medication. All good now

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By *erfHerder74Man
52 weeks ago

Inverclyde

I only orgasm if the man I’m with wants me too as I can be messy but I get satisfaction making the other orgasm and see and hear them happ and relaxed afterwards

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By *enelope2UWoman
52 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

I'd finish myself off but thankfully I can orgasm from sitting so I'm fortunate and cursed.

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By *ansoffateMan
52 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

What does that mean to finish yourself off? It's not like there won't be another orgasm. Unless it's the final orgasm of your life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
52 weeks ago

"What does that mean to finish yourself off? It's not like there won't be another orgasm. Unless it's the final orgasm of your life."

Yeah you die after you orgasm?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
52 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I always orgasmed from sex but if I hadn't it wouldn't of bothered me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
52 weeks ago

"I always orgasmed from sex but if I hadn't it wouldn't of bothered me"

You may still have sex again x

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I love the foreplay so much especially mutual oral I rarely climax through penetrative sex and yes once I’m home I relive that experience and finish myself off.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
52 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"I always orgasmed from sex but if I hadn't it wouldn't of bothered me

You may still have sex again x"
My boots are well and truelly hung up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
52 weeks ago

"I always orgasmed from sex but if I hadn't it wouldn't of bothered me

You may still have sex again xMy boots are well and truelly hung up"

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By *exyScientistsCouple
52 weeks ago

Castlebar

I don't always, but it doesn't bother me...as long as we are enjoying ourselves.

I do want the guy I'm with to cum, but if not that's OK too.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Are you disappointed?

Do you finish yourself off later? "

Nope, never disappointed. As long as the person I’m with is pleasured, loved and appreciated. 🌹

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
52 weeks ago

Chichester

"Are you disappointed?

Do you finish yourself off later? "

Sometimes I don’t cum. It’s fine with me as in often just enjoy good edging sessions anyway for hours

I’d prob just pull myself off once gone and goto sleep

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By (user no longer on site) OP
52 weeks ago

"Are you disappointed?

Do you finish yourself off later?

Nope, never disappointed. As long as the person I’m with is pleasured, loved and appreciated. 🌹"

I don’t love the women I’m sleeping with. No fucking way.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
52 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Nah , as long as fun was had

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Nah , as long as fun was had "

Wot she said.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
52 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Nah , as long as fun was had

Wot she said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
52 weeks ago

"Nah , as long as fun was had

Wot she said.

She’s extremely fun

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
52 weeks ago

Leeds

No I'm neve disappointed, it's like saying because you didn't cum from the foreplay your disappointed in it.

An orgasm isn't the be all & end all, I still have fun regardless of if I cum or not.

Mrs

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By *hilloutMan
52 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

It's rare for me to not climax during sex. When it doesn't happen it's usually because it's too hot😅🥵

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

~I rarely finish first time I meet. Never disappointed tho

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By *eliWoman
52 weeks ago

Never happened. That's not because I've been with incredible fingersmiths. It's just ridiculously easy for me to come.

I suppose it's why, in a weird way, I don't value or see orgasms as the be all and end all of great sex.

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