FabSwingers.com forum: How do you find people on fab?

By *rishb26 OP Man
29 weeks ago

kilkenny

Hey everyone, curious to know how do you guys find people on here? I usually go through the most fab’d pictures and videos, but I’m curious do people have preferences or ways they prefer finding people?

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By *asterMeliodasMan
29 weeks ago

Newmill

Generally local searches and "who's near". But most of the people I've connected with so far (mostly platonic with some potential exceptions) have been via forum interactions.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
29 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I prefer showing up to clubs and meeting people there.

Though there's some lovely people in the forums and I've been happy to meet some of them at the group socials 💜

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By *rishb26 OP Man
29 weeks ago

kilkenny

With forum interactions, do you usually look for particular kinds of posts or just whatever you feel like? I’m hoping to get talking to more people over time

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By *rishb26 OP Man
29 weeks ago

kilkenny

Who’s near is tough for me being from a rural area. So I’m jealous to say the least! Haha

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
29 weeks ago

Leeds

I prefer to meet people at the organised socials although we've been lucky to meet some great people off the forums and general searches.

Mrs

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By *ir tootMan
29 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"I prefer showing up to clubs and meeting people there.

Though there's some lovely people in the forums and I've been happy to meet some of them at the group socials 💜"

That's probably how I'm gonna meet people, most of the people near burton seem inactive.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
29 weeks ago

Newmill

"Who’s near is tough for me being from a rural area. So I’m jealous to say the least! Haha"

I live in the middle of the arse end of nowhere; believe me, I feel you on that. :P

As for the forum interactions, I just kinda participate in whatever topics interest me. I enjoy doing the forum games and have made quite a few friends from them.

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By *rishb26 OP Man
29 weeks ago

kilkenny

Nice one, maybe I’ll try join in a bit more on the forums!

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By *olfandtazCouple
29 weeks ago

Bristol

We have made a few friends in the chatrooms, we will get around to meeting them all at some point or another but it works for us

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By *he KakapoMan
29 weeks ago

A nice rock

Forums mainly I find its the best way of seeing if someone is compatible with me.

Or a local search if I'm actively looking for meets which...meh...

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By *rishb26 OP Man
29 weeks ago

kilkenny

The chat rooms are very interesting. Little difficult to use when using a phone like I do for on here. Seems very fun I’d love to get on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

They magically appear in my box, somehow catch my intrigue, send me soaring further into intrigue enough to warrant a coffee social.

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By *ad NannaWoman
29 weeks ago

East London

I open my filters, pick a profile pic and sift through the masses of messages.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
29 weeks ago

Ends

Most of my sexual encounters are from the forums. But I do also do searches and message people that are what I’m looking for. Just way less successful that way.

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
29 weeks ago

Always on the move

Searches, near me, rarely forums to be honest. The people I lust after in forums are either a million miles way, or have the gift of sight

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By *vaRose43Woman
29 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Ooh all sorts of different ways

From messages I’ve received, searches I’ve done, forum posts and even one social was from being at the same event

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

My method has been forums mainly.

Socials also, but only more recently. Previously I was the mushroom at the dark corner of the room. Scared.

Never used search feature here to find a list of people. Couldn’t bring myself to do it. Not engaging or entertaining enough, and certainly not going do use the two worded approaches. I have Decorum and self respect.

Albeit, I think that I might be in the process of change confidence wise.

Chad Thundercock

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By *ir tootMan
29 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

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By *eliWoman
29 weeks ago

I don't find them because I'm never actively looking if that makes sense?

I like friendships first. Where we're both equally as engaged with each other, asking questions, learning. And then sometimes they take a different direction and I find myself thinking about them undressed. Kissing them. I think I'm a bit weird though.

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By *ir tootMan
29 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"My method has been forums mainly.

Socials also, but only more recently. Previously I was the mushroom at the dark corner of the room. Scared.

Albeit, I think that I might be in the process of change confidence wise.

Chad Thundercock "

Same here on the confidence part I've improved so much, now if only I could put some effort into my bio and pics!

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By *rishb26 OP Man
29 weeks ago

kilkenny

Definitely the most natural way for sure. I haven’t got the chance to meet many on here, still trying to naturally meet like you said.

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By *rishb26 OP Man
29 weeks ago

kilkenny

Thank you chad thundercock! Fantastic name.

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By *rishb26 OP Man
29 weeks ago

kilkenny

"I don't find them because I'm never actively looking if that makes sense?

Definitely the most natural way for sure. I haven’t got the chance to meet many on here, still trying to naturally meet like you said. Replied in forum without a quote there a few times lol

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By *JcuriousCouple
29 weeks ago

Derby

We've found people from a search, they've found us, cams, clubs, fourms and hot page(s)

Miss S x

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
29 weeks ago

Ends

"I don't find them because I'm never actively looking if that makes sense?

Meli… This is so real

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
29 weeks ago

Tamworth

I’ve got chatting to a lot of people through the Lounge.

I also keep an eye on the event threads and meets when I’m going to one. I usually create a meet so others can find me too.

I have various saved searches I look through regularly.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Maidstone

"Thank you chad thundercock! Fantastic name."

I've just read the meaning of The Kakapo. Made me chuckle.

Speaking of that, why don't you move from rural Ireland to the great London and South East?

I don't have to look for Fabbers. They cum to me from right across London and the "Home Counties".

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By *ittlebirdWoman
29 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I don’t really look for them OP. I like to make friends through the forum and organised socials and go from there. Fab really can be a great social place for like minded people. In my experience. ♥️

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By *hesubtlegentMan
29 weeks ago

surrey

Mixture but I use who’s near, check new pics, see who looked at me. See who fabbed my pics etc. my first meet came about because I sent her a wink…

More recently, I’ve met women at group socials and arranged a one to one social at a later date and go from there.

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By *a LunaWoman
29 weeks ago

South Wales

I tended to meet locally. I’ve only met one person from the forums and that wasn’t intentional.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
29 weeks ago

Reading

I suspect a lot of people do the same and are then surprised to not get a reply.

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By *hilloutMan
29 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

My geographical location rules out searching for anyone local.

It's usually been through forum interaction, attending group socials or the occasional club outing.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"Thank you chad thundercock! Fantastic name."

My mum had great foresight! 😂🤣😂🤣🍺🍻

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By *he KakapoMan
29 weeks ago

A nice rock

"Thank you chad thundercock! Fantastic name.

My mum had great foresight! 😂🤣😂🤣🍺🍻"

Wait... Chad Thundercock is a first name?

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By *tsJustKateWoman
29 weeks ago

London

"Hey everyone, curious to know how do you guys find people on here? I usually go through the most fab’d pictures and videos, but I’m curious do people have preferences or ways they prefer finding people?"

I never go looking, they come to me!

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By *rBobbMan
29 weeks ago

Birmingham

Lets just say it started with an Ooofft. The rest is history

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
29 weeks ago

Essex

"Thank you chad thundercock! Fantastic name.

My mum had great foresight! 😂🤣😂🤣🍺🍻"

Was her foresight inspired by your great foreskin?

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By *ife NinjaMan
29 weeks ago

Dunfermline

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By *ife NinjaMan
29 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Water divining works for me. Gets to the wettest first

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By *WB85Man
29 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I don't....that's my huge issue lol.

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By *affron40Woman
29 weeks ago

manchester

I don’t look anymore. Just meet people through organised socials or if they’re within a few miles I will happily do brews. It’s always been friendship first.

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By *ookie46Woman
29 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"I don’t look anymore. Just meet people through organised socials or if they’re within a few miles I will happily do brews. It’s always been friendship first."

This 👍🏻

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By *iscean_dreamMan
29 weeks ago

Llanelli

Social events and parties mostly, it's the best way I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Wait for them to message with a decent message and profile.

If we don't delete and block then there may be a meet in the future if the stars align.

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By *ongAndThick123Man
29 weeks ago

Leeds

Side note - I’ve noticed that since fab updated the “local updates” feature I seem to get significantly less messages. It’s flawed because many many people don’t put “men” in the looking for field, due to reasons of discretion.

So they’ve made it harder to now find people in passing

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By *ake_or_deathMan
29 weeks ago

Manchester

Down the back of the sofa cushions. Every time I look there's another person from Fab down there.

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By *ou345Woman
29 weeks ago

Derby

"I don't....that's my huge issue lol. "

Ahem....

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By *WB85Man
29 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"I don't....that's my huge issue lol.

Ahem....

#hiding.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I don’t… people on fab find me

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By *lueeyedchapMan
29 weeks ago

Nottingham

Send out hundreds of copy/paste messages a day and hope for a reply. 🤞

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By *neeyedwillieMan
29 weeks ago

Darlington

I go to clubs and social events, meet them for real then add them on here.

Cant beat the old fashioned was of interacting.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
29 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Usually by posting C’s boobs 🤷🏻‍♂️

My *charm at socials

*piss taking 👀

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By *onnyBgoodXXXMan
29 weeks ago

NEWCASTLE UPON TYNE

Stockings, all about the Stockings.

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By *ucka39Man
29 weeks ago

Newcastle

By using the vast amount of the site this includes the meet section, photos, chat rooms, forums.

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By *naswingdressWoman
29 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I look for signs of intelligence.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
29 weeks ago

Stratford

They find me

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
29 weeks ago

manchester

Use the search function

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By *riar BelisseWoman
29 weeks ago

Bliss

Strategically worded status, pictures and profile blurb for what I am looking for, then I start hunting and sifting

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By *onnyBgoodXXXMan
29 weeks ago

NEWCASTLE UPON TYNE

Stalking the forum

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
29 weeks ago

peterborough

I never go looking, they come to me!"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"I look for signs of intelligence."

Found any decent alien life forms so far?

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By *hunky GentMan
29 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I just shout out;

WHO WANTS ME FIRST?

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By *eys2023Man
29 weeks ago

London

Socials and clubs always good

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
29 weeks ago

Sheffield

Clubs for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Filter by tit size

Moobs aren’t classed as tits BTW

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
29 weeks ago

The last house on the left…

"Filter by tit size

Moobs aren’t classed as tits BTW"

Oh snap. Me too

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By *hunky GentMan
29 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Filter by tit size

Moobs aren’t classed as tits BTW"

Woohoo.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
29 weeks ago

Maidstone

I message those I like the look of. Works for me.

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By *naswingdressWoman
29 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I look for signs of intelligence.

Found any decent alien life forms so far?

Alas

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
29 weeks ago

Bromley

Socials and clubs are a great place after being polite and coherent other forums. I always check my spelling and grammar, including apostrophes etc 🙃

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

They find me

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By *he Silver FuxMan
29 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

I don’t find people. I have an agent* do it for me.

*a pimp

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By *HUSH-Man
29 weeks ago

London

Some via the forum and a few from replies to my messages.

Others have found me and usually fabbed or winked. One in particular I’d like to get to know more as we’ve had some back and forth on the forums but her filters currently don’t allow men to message her.

*curses them filters

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By *eys2023Man
29 weeks ago

London

Hello

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By *JcuriousCouple
29 weeks ago

Derby

"I just shout out;

WHO WANTS ME FIRST?

The one in the blue underwear you'd take first

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I go down the drinks isle at the supermarket

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
29 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Mohammed doesn't go to the mountain

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I go to the car park at the back of Kwik save…always some beauties there

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
29 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"I go to the car park at the back of Kwik save…always some beauties there "

I didn't know Kwik Same was still going 🤣🤣

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By *Silver-Man
29 weeks ago

Mold

I don't search for people, can't be asked anymore. It's all the same old same old

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"I don't search for people, can't be asked anymore. It's all the same old same old"

I concur!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
29 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"I go to the car park at the back of Kwik save…always some beauties there "

I didn't know Kwik Same was still going 🤣🤣

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
29 weeks ago

somewhere

People find me lol. I never message first, rarely if I do and even then it's been only to compliment someone, there was a forum user (no longer around these parts or changed their name) who had a brilliant username and profile, that was an exception to my "not messaging first"

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By *eah BabyCouple
29 weeks ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

I wouldn’t have thought this would be a successful way as surely those people will have a zillion messages in their inbox

We are lazy fabbers these days, kind of right place at the right time if someone messages that takes our fancy, planning is not our strong point anymore

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