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"They're no better than anyone else on the site. " Let’s be honest, forum users are way better than everyone else on the site | |||
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"Yes, way beneath me. But I’ll happily negotiate for a new Submissive. 👀🎉💋❤️🌹 " Looking for a sub? Have you tried subway? I’ll leave now | |||
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"They're no better than anyone else on the site. Let’s be honest, forum users are way better than everyone else on the site" You're messy today. Here for it. | |||
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"They're no better than anyone else on the site. Let’s be honest, forum users are way better than everyone else on the site" All of them? 🤔🤔🤦♂️😂😂😂 | |||
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"They're no better than anyone else on the site. Let’s be honest, forum users are way better than everyone else on the site You're messy today. Here for it. " 😈 | |||
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"They're no better than anyone else on the site. Let’s be honest, forum users are way better than everyone else on the site All of them? 🤔🤔🤦♂️😂😂😂" We’re better than every single other member. I don’t make the rules | |||
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"I think thinking in leagues is stupid. I like who I like. It rarely has any known basis in their perceived popularity or attractiveness by conventional standards. Sometimes, they like me back. Awesome. Sometimes, they don't. Not awesome. But also fuck all to do with leagues 💜" No but like, Rihanna is out of my league. | |||
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"Honestly? Fuck the notion of popularity, it's bollocks. Fuck the idea of leagues. It's also bollocks. There are some people who won't be interested in me, forum users, and that's cool. I'm a chubby, very mixed race woman with a marmite voice. I like the forum users (including ones who haven't posted in years) who like me back. That's all I worry about. " You’re literally my type. But like leagues are real! It sucks but it’s real shit. If I saw Uma from love island walking down the street, she’s like clearly out of my league. That’s ok though like that’s just life  | |||
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"No… they’re just playing a different sport altogether 🤪" “ENTERTAIN ME FORUM MONKEYS!” | |||
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"All of them, including the people that messages “how’d you?”" How’s you messages are thoughtful compared to ‘nice tits’ | |||
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"No but like, Rihanna is out of my league. " Why? Maybe she likes cute, poor, unknown boys in England. She already has fame and money, why would she need more? You don't know. | |||
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"Because of looks? Or popularity? Is it like secondary school? Do you say secondary school?" I wouldn't know. I'm never spontaneously contacted by someone I haven't engaged with before. If I see someone I fancy, I'll usually message them spontaneously or off the back of a thread and see if anything develops. Sometimes yes, sometimes no. | |||
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"No but like, Rihanna is out of my league. Why? Maybe she likes cute, poor, unknown boys in England. She already has fame and money, why would she need more? You don't know." Well her bf is one of the most attractive men in the world. So like… I dunno I just have a hunch | |||
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"No but like, Rihanna is out of my league. Why? Maybe she likes cute, poor, unknown boys in England. She already has fame and money, why would she need more? You don't know. Well her bf is one of the most attractive men in the world. So like… I dunno I just have a hunch "Also, I’m Stephen Pickle. I’m not unknown. | |||
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"All of them, including the people that messages “how’d you?” How’s you messages are thoughtful compared to ‘nice tits’" I feel the same way about those messages as you do about monogamous people  | |||
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"All of them, including the people that messages “how’d you?” How’s you messages are thoughtful compared to ‘nice tits’ I feel the same way about those messages as you do about monogamous people "
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"Honestly? Fuck the notion of popularity, it's bollocks. Fuck the idea of leagues. It's also bollocks. There are some people who won't be interested in me, forum users, and that's cool. I'm a chubby, very mixed race woman with a marmite voice. I like the forum users (including ones who haven't posted in years) who like me back. That's all I worry about. You’re literally my type. But like leagues are real! It sucks but it’s real shit. If I saw Uma from love island walking down the street, she’s like clearly out of my league. That’s ok though like that’s just life "I don't believe in leagues though. I think that people are attracted to what they're attracted to and sometimes it's you and sometimes it isn't. Let's pretend I believed in leagues. You're saying that I'm your league but Uma isn't? So I'm a lower league by that reasoning. Let me get a mop for between my thighs. | |||
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"I will never again meet a Forum user with intentions of anything beyond a social. I prefer non forum users, and they’ve been in my league. Take that as you may. " I take that as one or two will now pretend to leave the forums 😆 | |||
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"No but like, Rihanna is out of my league. Why? Maybe she likes cute, poor, unknown boys in England. She already has fame and money, why would she need more? You don't know. Well her bf is one of the most attractive men in the world. So like… I dunno I just have a hunch "Yeah, but fillet steak is great but sometimes you just fancy a sausage roll. Stay positive | |||
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"All of them, including the people that messages “how’d you?” How’s you messages are thoughtful compared to ‘nice tits’ I feel the same way about those messages as you do about monogamous people
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Monogamous people"We can’t help it you know? Same way I was born pansexual | |||
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"Leagues only exist in your head. Have you seen how many people are punching? Back yourself." I watch a who’s punching series on TikTok. It cracks me up 
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"Do you say secondary school?" They call it high school in Scotland, y’know. | |||
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"Leagues only exist in your head. Have you seen how many people are punching? Back yourself. I watch a who’s punching series on TikTok. It cracks me up
Leagues are real bro. The premier league is real. "I look like Shrek and I’d still back myself to win the treble. | |||
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"Honestly? Fuck the notion of popularity, it's bollocks. Fuck the idea of leagues. It's also bollocks. There are some people who won't be interested in me, forum users, and that's cool. I'm a chubby, very mixed race woman with a marmite voice. I like the forum users (including ones who haven't posted in years) who like me back. That's all I worry about. You’re literally my type. But like leagues are real! It sucks but it’s real shit. If I saw Uma from love island walking down the street, she’s like clearly out of my league. That’s ok though like that’s just life
I don't believe in leagues though. I think that people are attracted to what they're attracted to and sometimes it's you and sometimes it isn't.
Let's pretend I believed in leagues. You're saying that I'm your league but Uma isn't? So I'm a lower league by that reasoning.
Let me get a mop for between my thighs.
"You’re out of my league too, Meli. But Uma is a minor celeb. I think popularity like that plays a part. Like with the Rihanna thing init. They’re like famous enough to have the pick of the bunch. What the hell am I bringing to the table | |||
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"Honestly? Fuck the notion of popularity, it's bollocks. Fuck the idea of leagues. It's also bollocks. There are some people who won't be interested in me, forum users, and that's cool. I'm a chubby, very mixed race woman with a marmite voice. I like the forum users (including ones who haven't posted in years) who like me back. That's all I worry about. You’re literally my type. But like leagues are real! It sucks but it’s real shit. If I saw Uma from love island walking down the street, she’s like clearly out of my league. That’s ok though like that’s just life
I don't believe in leagues though. I think that people are attracted to what they're attracted to and sometimes it's you and sometimes it isn't.
Let's pretend I believed in leagues. You're saying that I'm your league but Uma isn't? So I'm a lower league by that reasoning.
Let me get a mop for between my thighs.
You’re out of my league too, Meli.
But Uma is a minor celeb. I think popularity like that plays a part. Like with the Rihanna thing init. They’re like famous enough to have the pick of the bunch. What the hell am I bringing to the table "It sounds self deprecating but it’s not. I know I’m sexy af | |||
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"Leagues only exist in your head. Have you seen how many people are punching? Back yourself. I watch a who’s punching series on TikTok. It cracks me up
Leagues are real bro. The premier league is real.
I look like Shrek and I’d still back myself to win the treble."I also might have to become what I hate and download TikTok. I feel like I’m missing out. | |||
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"Leagues only exist in your head. Have you seen how many people are punching? Back yourself. I watch a who’s punching series on TikTok. It cracks me up
Leagues are real bro. The premier league is real.
I look like Shrek and I’d still back myself to win the treble."Newcastle fans ^ | |||
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"Do you say secondary school? They call it high school in Scotland, y’know." I know!!! And the years are different. They have highers or something? WEIRD!!! | |||
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"Leagues only exist in your head. Have you seen how many people are punching? Back yourself. I watch a who’s punching series on TikTok. It cracks me up
Leagues are real bro. The premier league is real.
I look like Shrek and I’d still back myself to win the treble.
Newcastle fans ^"Top 4 easy this season | |||
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"Leagues only exist in your head. Have you seen how many people are punching? Back yourself. I watch a who’s punching series on TikTok. It cracks me up
Leagues are real bro. The premier league is real. "The premier league consists of sportsmen who are good at football. They don’t hang around the sidelines wondering if the ref likes them. They play the game. Sometimes they win, sometimes they lose. But they still play and believe that they’re worth their paycheck. Some are primadonnas Some are cheats Some are team players Some play better with a few select players…. That’s the only league relevance to me. | |||
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"No but like, Rihanna is out of my league. Why? Maybe she likes cute, poor, unknown boys in England. She already has fame and money, why would she need more? You don't know. Well her bf is one of the most attractive men in the world. So like… I dunno I just have a hunch "So? One of my partners is the same height as me in heels so probably like 6ft6. Just because he's in the top whatever percentile for something doesn't mean my little 5ft3 shortstack is out of his league with me. Dating a gymbro adonis doesn't mean I don't also love a dad bod or beanpole. Dating someone doesn't mean they're automatically my absolute ideal and that anyone who isn't greater than them in every single direction isn't worth my time 💜 | |||
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"No. I call it big school. Everyone is big compared to me 🤷♂️" Concur - I went to big school and then went to University | |||
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"This thread is a bit contentious. Ooops. 😈" Move it to politics 😂 | |||
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"Leagues only exist in your head. Have you seen how many people are punching? Back yourself. I watch a who’s punching series on TikTok. It cracks me up
Leagues are real bro. The premier league is real.
I look like Shrek and I’d still back myself to win the treble.
Newcastle fans ^
Top 4 easy this season "Howe about nah | |||
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"Honestly? Fuck the notion of popularity, it's bollocks. Fuck the idea of leagues. It's also bollocks. There are some people who won't be interested in me, forum users, and that's cool. I'm a chubby, very mixed race woman with a marmite voice. I like the forum users (including ones who haven't posted in years) who like me back. That's all I worry about. You’re literally my type. But like leagues are real! It sucks but it’s real shit. If I saw Uma from love island walking down the street, she’s like clearly out of my league. That’s ok though like that’s just life
I don't believe in leagues though. I think that people are attracted to what they're attracted to and sometimes it's you and sometimes it isn't.
Let's pretend I believed in leagues. You're saying that I'm your league but Uma isn't? So I'm a lower league by that reasoning.
Let me get a mop for between my thighs.
You’re out of my league too, Meli.
But Uma is a minor celeb. I think popularity like that plays a part. Like with the Rihanna thing init. They’re like famous enough to have the pick of the bunch. What the hell am I bringing to the table
It sounds self deprecating but it’s not. I know I’m sexy af"So that means there's forum famous people? Who is in that list? I won't say bollocks again by the way. | |||
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"No, they’re no different to anyone else on fab… and generally going to be much more polite if the answer is no Shoot your shot, life is too short to be wondering what if " Right I’ll DM you later | |||
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"No. I call it big school. Everyone is big compared to me 🤷♂️ Concur - I went to big school and then went to University " Which is odd because no one ever said "I'm at little school" lol | |||
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"Honestly? Fuck the notion of popularity, it's bollocks. Fuck the idea of leagues. It's also bollocks. There are some people who won't be interested in me, forum users, and that's cool. I'm a chubby, very mixed race woman with a marmite voice. I like the forum users (including ones who haven't posted in years) who like me back. That's all I worry about. You’re literally my type. But like leagues are real! It sucks but it’s real shit. If I saw Uma from love island walking down the street, she’s like clearly out of my league. That’s ok though like that’s just life
I don't believe in leagues though. I think that people are attracted to what they're attracted to and sometimes it's you and sometimes it isn't.
Let's pretend I believed in leagues. You're saying that I'm your league but Uma isn't? So I'm a lower league by that reasoning.
Let me get a mop for between my thighs.
You’re out of my league too, Meli.
But Uma is a minor celeb. I think popularity like that plays a part. Like with the Rihanna thing init. They’re like famous enough to have the pick of the bunch. What the hell am I bringing to the table
It sounds self deprecating but it’s not. I know I’m sexy af
So that means there's forum famous people? Who is in that list?
I won't say bollocks again by the way. "YOU 🫵🏾 | |||
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"This thread is a bit contentious. Ooops. 😈 You started it, so I’m not surprised I’m not always this controversial. "LIAR 💜 | |||
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"This thread is a bit contentious. Ooops. 😈 Move it to politics 😂" Yes. 😈 Yes 🙂↕️😈 | |||
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"This thread is a bit contentious. Ooops. 😈 You started it, so I’m not surprised I’m not always this controversial.
LIAR 💜"Ok look, I didn’t MEAN for it to be controversial. I was only thinking about someone out of my league and then bam. | |||
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"Leagues only exist in your head. Have you seen how many people are punching? Back yourself. I watch a who’s punching series on TikTok. It cracks me up
Leagues are real bro. The premier league is real.
I look like Shrek and I’d still back myself to win the treble.
Newcastle fans ^
Top 4 easy this season
Howe about nah "Isak top scorer, Gordon most assists and Jason Tindall on the wind up. That is the formula for success. | |||
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"This thread is a bit contentious. Ooops. 😈 You started it, so I’m not surprised I’m not always this controversial.
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"No but like, Rihanna is out of my league. " Rihanna is in my veris, y’know. | |||
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"No but like, Rihanna is out of my league. Rihanna is in my veris, y’know." YOU CYANNOT TRICK ME | |||
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"Rihanna is in my veris, y’know.*" *Mentioned in them. It’s near enough, right? | |||
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"🤢 🫵🏾" Stop pointing that lil' cute hand at me. I'm going to ask a dear friend if my "popul...🤢 couldn't finish typing it... meant he thought I was out of his league. Or if it's just the messy thoughts of a brat.  | |||
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"🤢 🫵🏾 Stop pointing that lil' cute hand at me. I'm going to ask a dear friend if my "popul...🤢 couldn't finish typing it... meant he thought I was out of his league. Or if it's just the messy thoughts of a brat. "I am a brat. Impossible to tame. But ask and come back to me | |||
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"Because of looks? Or popularity? Is it like secondary school? Do you say secondary school?" Don't be daft. Forum users are just ordinary people. | |||
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"Because of looks? Or popularity? Is it like secondary school? Do you say secondary school? Don't be daft. Forum users are just ordinary people." Except you. You’re a bit of a big deal | |||
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"This thread is a bit contentious. Ooops. 😈 You started it, so I’m not surprised I’m not always this controversial.
LIAR 💜
Ok look, I didn’t MEAN for it to be controversial. I was only thinking about someone out of my league and then bam. "Dangit Pickle. People who think they're leagues above other people they don't dont even know have an unpleasant and arrogant attitude as far as I'm concerned. People who tell me I'm out of their league are projecting that sort of shitty attitude onto me, and I don't like that. I know how I look. I'm often told I could have any man I wanted, and honestly it has rarely been proven an incorrect assumption. I don't care how someone looks or how much they make or how popular or whatever they are. I care about how they make me feel. And if the first thing they do is make me feel like they think I'm an asshole, then I'm out 💜 | |||
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"Because of looks? Or popularity? Is it like secondary school? Do you say secondary school? Don't be daft. Forum users are just ordinary people. Except you. You’re a bit of a big deal "Not at all, I am just the same as everyone else here. | |||
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"Because of looks? Or popularity? Is it like secondary school? Do you say secondary school? Don't be daft. Forum users are just ordinary people. Except you. You’re a bit of a big deal
Not at all, I am just the same as everyone else here."But everyone else here is a big deal as they are forum users  xx | |||
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"This thread is a bit contentious. Ooops. 😈 You started it, so I’m not surprised I’m not always this controversial.
LIAR 💜
Ok look, I didn’t MEAN for it to be controversial. I was only thinking about someone out of my league and then bam.
Dangit Pickle.
People who think they're leagues above other people they don't dont even know have an unpleasant and arrogant attitude as far as I'm concerned.
People who tell me I'm out of their league are projecting that sort of shitty attitude onto me, and I don't like that.
I know how I look. I'm often told I could have any man I wanted, and honestly it has rarely been proven an incorrect assumption.
I don't care how someone looks or how much they make or how popular or whatever they are. I care about how they make me feel. And if the first thing they do is make me feel like they think I'm an asshole, then I'm out 💜"This is beautifully put Prey. I'm hoping that my post above didn't come across as arrogant. 😬 It's more that I'm finally really happy and confident in who I am and how I look and it's fucking glorious. | |||
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"Off the new topic of leagues and on the first topic which I’ve now forgotten because I now want a Topic What about people who post once in a blue moon … are we just a little better than the non forum folk … or a little worse as we can’t make our minds up ? Xx" Better. Way better than the rest | |||
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"We’re all National League here. Nobody’s Premier League. " True but I believe I’m league 1 | |||
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"We’re all National League here. Nobody’s Premier League. " Bloody hell I'm the Johnstone paint cup 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"We’re all National League here. Nobody’s Premier League. Bloody hell I'm the Johnstone paint cup 🤣🤣🤣" Stop it 🤣 as an Everton fan I’m not familiar with all this trophy talk. I’ll just get confused. | |||
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"This is beautifully put Prey. I'm hoping that my post above didn't come across as arrogant. 😬 It's more that I'm finally really happy and confident in who I am and how I look and it's fucking glorious. " Thank you. I hate saying it. I know I have a pretty high aesthetic appeal to a larger than average amount of people. And I love the way I look. But talking about it just tends to make people feel the need to try and tear me down. How very dare someone have confidence, that's a threat to our masculinity or own sense of attractiveness. Burn the witch! I think you're hot as fuck Julie 💜 | |||
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"We’re all National League here. Nobody’s Premier League. Bloody hell I'm the Johnstone paint cup 🤣🤣🤣 Stop it 🤣 as an Everton fan I’m not familiar with all this trophy talk. I’ll just get confused. " Apologies I meant whatever League is right at the bottom 🤣🤣 .. maybe I am best off comparing myself to things that dwell at the bottom of the ocean | |||
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LIAR 💜
Ok look, I didn’t MEAN for it to be controversial. I was only thinking about someone out of my league and then bam.
Dangit Pickle.
People who think they're leagues above other people they don't dont even know have an unpleasant and arrogant attitude as far as I'm concerned.
People who tell me I'm out of their league are projecting that sort of shitty attitude onto me, and I don't like that.
I know how I look. I'm often told I could have any man I wanted, and honestly it has rarely been proven an incorrect assumption.
I don't care how someone looks or how much they make or how popular or whatever they are. I care about how they make me feel. And if the first thing they do is make me feel like they think I'm an asshole, then I'm out 💜"Prey I know you’re right but the thinking in leagues is internalised shit that’s hard to unthink. I didn’t do this thread intending to make people feel sad😂 so I do apologise if I have. But my thinking that people are out of my league does come from an internalised pov that you have to be a certain level of attraction and/ or social status to be desirable to some. I think generally society has reflected that but I think it’s changing more these days. The idea that I do or don’t stand a chance with someone is more about me than about them and its not projecting an attitude onto them, it’s not projecting an idea about yourself (positive it negative). Anyway I’m waffling but my question was only meant to be simple and light hearted. I don’t want to be deep all the time. I’m deep allll the time. You know? | |||
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"I say high school because secondary school was the secondary expression growing up. My catchment school was P*** H*** High" Like summer heights high | |||
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"There is always popularity on here due to looks/personality. And there will always be those who are attracted to it and then they create leagues in their own minds. As for people who are out of my league? Doesn't exist there's just people who like me and those who don't. " You’re extremely smart and pretty (for those who have seen your face) and have great tits. I’d say you’re in a high league | |||
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"Prey I know you’re right but the thinking in leagues is internalised shit that’s hard to unthink. I didn’t do this thread intending to make people feel sad😂 so I do apologise if I have. But my thinking that people are out of my league does come from an internalised pov that you have to be a certain level of attraction and/ or social status to be desirable to some. I think generally society has reflected that but I think it’s changing more these days. The idea that I do or don’t stand a chance with someone is more about me than about them and its not projecting an attitude onto them, it’s not projecting an idea about yourself (positive it negative). Anyway I’m waffling but my question was only meant to be simple and light hearted. I don’t want to be deep all the time. I’m deep allll the time. You know?" How about you get deep in my, wait, no no tangents. You gotta learn to unthink the stupid internalised things though. I realised a few years ago that having been raised by an incredibly racist scouse woman and living in almost entirely white areas most of my life that certain phrases and concepts of behaviour would come to my mind on seeing people of colour. Consciously, I was of course very aware that there's absolutely no difference between us except skintone, but I'd never confronted those terms that just lingered unchecked from my upbringing. Accepting that as internalised shit and just accepting it did not seem an appropriate way to continue. I spent most of my life thinking I was ugly. It's not even that long since I spent years thinking a beautiful creature was just being friendly and talked like that to everyone because he was absolutely too fucking pretty to be interested in a weird hot mess like me. When he finally asked me on a date I took weeks to even consider it wasn't a joke or prank. That idea took a lot of confronting to get past. But I managed it 💜 | |||
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"Prey I know you’re right but the thinking in leagues is internalised shit that’s hard to unthink. I didn’t do this thread intending to make people feel sad😂 so I do apologise if I have. But my thinking that people are out of my league does come from an internalised pov that you have to be a certain level of attraction and/ or social status to be desirable to some. I think generally society has reflected that but I think it’s changing more these days. The idea that I do or don’t stand a chance with someone is more about me than about them and its not projecting an attitude onto them, it’s not projecting an idea about yourself (positive it negative). Anyway I’m waffling but my question was only meant to be simple and light hearted. I don’t want to be deep all the time. I’m deep allll the time. You know? How about you get deep in my, wait, no no tangents. You gotta learn to unthink the stupid internalised things though. I realised a few years ago that having been raised by an incredibly racist scouse woman and living in almost entirely white areas most of my life that certain phrases and concepts of behaviour would come to my mind on seeing people of colour. Consciously, I was of course very aware that there's absolutely no difference between us except skintone, but I'd never confronted those terms that just lingered unchecked from my upbringing. Accepting that as internalised shit and just accepting it did not seem an appropriate way to continue. I spent most of my life thinking I was ugly. It's not even that long since I spent years thinking a beautiful creature was just being friendly and talked like that to everyone because he was absolutely too fucking pretty to be interested in a weird hot mess like me. When he finally asked me on a date I took weeks to even consider it wasn't a joke or prank. That idea took a lot of confronting to get past. But I managed it 💜" You’re a stunning person 😍❤️ | |||
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"There is always popularity on here due to looks/personality. And there will always be those who are attracted to it and then they create leagues in their own minds. As for people who are out of my league? Doesn't exist there's just people who like me and those who don't. You’re extremely smart and pretty (for those who have seen your face) and have great tits. I’d say you’re in a high league Do you have leagues? Do people get promoted and relegated? Are there play offs between forumites to achieve promotion? You've opened a can of 🐛 in my mind now 😁 I can’t really confirm too much but there’s definitely relegation and promotion.
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"There is always popularity on here due to looks/personality. And there will always be those who are attracted to it and then they create leagues in their own minds. As for people who are out of my league? Doesn't exist there's just people who like me and those who don't. You’re extremely smart and pretty (for those who have seen your face) and have great tits. I’d say you’re in a high league Do you have leagues? Do people get promoted and relegated? Are there play offs between forumites to achieve promotion? You've opened a can of 🐛 in my mind now 😁 I can’t really confirm too much but there’s definitely relegation and promotion.
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"It's 100% like high school in more ways than one 😂 Yes, many are way out of my league 💁 doesn't stop me trying my luck though. " In some ways it's worse than high school. I think some people peak around 15 and don't realise that personal development is supposed to continue | |||
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"There is always popularity on here due to looks/personality. And there will always be those who are attracted to it and then they create leagues in their own minds. As for people who are out of my league? Doesn't exist there's just people who like me and those who don't. You’re extremely smart and pretty (for those who have seen your face) and have great tits. I’d say you’re in a high league Do you have leagues? Do people get promoted and relegated? Are there play offs between forumites to achieve promotion? You've opened a can of 🐛 in my mind now 😁 I can’t really confirm too much but there’s definitely relegation and promotion.
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"It's 100% like high school in more ways than one 😂 Yes, many are way out of my league 💁 doesn't stop me trying my luck though. " I'm like the geeky nerd that everyone ignores in the corner of the refectory | |||
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"I hate the whole idea of leagues, one of my bugbears on here. " You’re so out of my league it’s a joke | |||
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"I hate the whole idea of leagues, one of my bugbears on here. You’re so out of my league it’s a joke" My partner wants to know, are you and the pickle in different leagues or the same? | |||
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"I hate the whole idea of leagues, one of my bugbears on here. You’re so out of my league it’s a joke"  🤬 | |||
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"I hate the whole idea of leagues, one of my bugbears on here. You’re so out of my league it’s a joke 🤬" | |||
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"Ha ha 🤣 You love it "I'm charging it to the game. 🥳 | |||
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"Ha ha 🤣 You love it
I'm charging it to the game. 🥳"you’re so easy to love | |||
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"I don't know what league I'm officially in but I feel mid-tier. I only deal in leagues if talking about football or the depth of the sea, really. " That’s really quite deep. | |||
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"I don't know what league I'm officially in but I feel mid-tier. I only deal in leagues if talking about football or the depth of the sea, really. That’s really quite deep. "Off to Google how many leagues the Mariana trench is 🤓 | |||
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"I don't know what league I'm officially in but I feel mid-tier. I only deal in leagues if talking about football or the depth of the sea, really. That’s really quite deep.
Off to Google how many leagues the Mariana trench is 🤓"Nearly as deep as my affection for you beautiful ladies of fab.🥰 | |||
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"No but like, Rihanna is out of my league. Rihanna is in my veris, y’know." I didn't know you had met my wife | |||
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"No. And it's more like primary school sometimes rather than secondary." (Blows raspberry)  | |||
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"No I don’t believe in leagues, I rarely meet people who use the forums anyway" Same. I wouldn't want to shatter my imagination and fantasies. For the most part anyway 😉 | |||
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"I think just being a man automatically means almost all females are out of your league " I could flip it around and say most guys that I find attractive are well out of my league lol | |||
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"Honestly? Fuck the notion of popularity, it's bollocks. Fuck the idea of leagues. It's also bollocks. There are some people who won't be interested in me, forum users, and that's cool. I'm a chubby, very mixed race woman with a marmite voice. I like the forum users (including ones who haven't posted in years) who like me back. That's all I worry about. You’re literally my type. But like leagues are real! It sucks but it’s real shit. If I saw Uma from love island walking down the street, she’s like clearly out of my league. That’s ok though like that’s just life "It’s not true! How you perceive someone doesn’t change whether you are what they are looking for (or not). Do you also think unpopular users are below you & therefore easy to pull ? | |||
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"I will never again meet a Forum user with intentions of anything beyond a social. I prefer non forum users, and they’ve been in my league. Take that as you may. " Not even a midnight liaison | |||
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" Do you also think unpopular users are below you & therefore easy to pull ? I truly believe some think "oh I'm a popular forum guy, this woman should be honoured I'm contacting her"." Yup. *nods in agreement* | |||
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" Do you also think unpopular users are below you & therefore easy to pull ? I truly believe some think "oh I'm a popular forum guy, this woman should be honoured I'm contacting her"." My experience has been the opposite. Popular or most fabbed users very down to earth and tealky dislike the leagues thing and some of the types of attention it brings. | |||
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" Do you also think unpopular users are below you & therefore easy to pull ? I truly believe some think "oh I'm a popular forum guy, this woman should be honoured I'm contacting her". My experience has been the opposite. Popular or most fabbed users very down to earth and tealky dislike the leagues thing and some of the types of attention it brings. " Maybe the "popular women" are different🤷♀️ | |||
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