FabSwingers.com forum: 🤔😜 YES or NO 🤔😜

By *hillout OP Man
29 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Please state YES or NO if a meet (social or otherwise) has come about from someone having messaged you first.

NO in my case

Over to you 😁

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By *olfandtazCouple
29 weeks ago

Bristol

Yes

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By *asterMeliodasMan
29 weeks ago

Newmill

Not yet.

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By *eliWoman
29 weeks ago

Yeaaah boi.

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By *ipsforlipsMan
29 weeks ago

Midlands

Yes

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By *.hrisMan
29 weeks ago

Bath

Yes, the only meets (on old profile) were from people messaging me first.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
29 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple
29 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

Yes

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By *d mirerMan
29 weeks ago

lost

Yes

More than once

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By *hunky GentMan
29 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

No.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
29 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Yes

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By *aizyWoman
29 weeks ago

west midlands

Yes

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
29 weeks ago

Perpignan and cap

Yes

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
29 weeks ago

West Bromwich

YES

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Yes

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
29 weeks ago

Tamworth

Yes

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
29 weeks ago

Ends

God years ago now but yes

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By *hillout OP Man
29 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Seems I'm clearly in the minority camp so far 😅

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By *luebell888Woman
29 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Yes

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By *ussy whisperer1000Man
29 weeks ago

west mids

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By *illy IdolMan
29 weeks ago

Midlands

YES'

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By *apperMystiqueMan
29 weeks ago

Glasgow East

Yes

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By *lynJMan
29 weeks ago

Morden

Yes

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By *unkym34Man
29 weeks ago

London

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

No women message?!!!!

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By *issBlackedCouple
29 weeks ago

Glasgow

Nope

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By *limBobStretchedPantsMan
29 weeks ago

Newcastle

Yes

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By *uff_Butler85Man
29 weeks ago

Chester

Nope

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By *xFoxyStoatxxWoman
29 weeks ago

Somewhere

Yes

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
29 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

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By *weetiepie99Woman
29 weeks ago

cardiff

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Yes - in all my cases

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By *alandNitaCouple
29 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Yes

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By *hillout OP Man
29 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Nope

I feel your pain brother

Give it time. You've not been here long. I'm sure that'll change 😁

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
29 weeks ago

London

YES

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By *ob6474Man
29 weeks ago

telford

Yes

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By *maginitivemindMan
29 weeks ago

east mids

Yea

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By *ffervescentMan
29 weeks ago

winfrith

yes

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By *lym4realCouple
29 weeks ago

plymouth

yes...

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By *ustJ69Man
29 weeks ago

Warrington

No.

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By *hillout OP Man
29 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

29:9 in favour of YES so far

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By *altandPepper24Couple
29 weeks ago

Liverpool

I think it’s a lot easier for couples with a bi partner you can literally put a status up of what you’re looking for and women reply but single men are competing with 1000s of other single men

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By *hillout OP Man
29 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I think it’s a lot easier for couples with a bi partner you can literally put a status up of what you’re looking for and women reply but single men are competing with 1000s of other single men "

So is it a YES or NO from your end?

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
29 weeks ago

Essex

Yes.

Not that it really matters. Someone has to message first ….

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By *hunky GentMan
29 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Thinking about it;

It nearly happened - she didn't turn up.

Does that count?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
29 weeks ago

Reading

Yes in every case

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By *ripfillMan
29 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Yes …

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Yes, but pre turning 50, lol

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By *cedGemWoman
29 weeks ago

your dreams

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Yes.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
29 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes

Mrs

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29 weeks ago

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By *vaRose43Woman
29 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Yes

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
29 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

Yes but only on one occasion when we posted a meet at ours, it was late in the evening and very unexpected inbox followed by her being at our a hour later

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By *orningGlory555Man
29 weeks ago

Wells

It’s very rare I get messaged first, and if I do it usually a forum message lol

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By *ustamanMan
29 weeks ago

weymouth

Nope

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By *ad NannaWoman
29 weeks ago

East London

YES 😁

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By *ell GwynnWoman
29 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

YES

But it's more likely to be me messaging first tbh.

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By *ltrMan
29 weeks ago

sheffield

Yes social then fun

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By *unch XXXMan
29 weeks ago

liverpool

Never 😢

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By *ackonceagain1777Couple
29 weeks ago

West Mids

Yes all of ours

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By *aTina HeadTurnerWoman
29 weeks ago

Not in UK currently

Yes

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By *rastarMan
29 weeks ago

london

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Yes.

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By *tms1xCouple
29 weeks ago

Chelmsford

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
29 weeks ago

Next Door

Yes.

And I've had sent messages and they have turned into meets/socials. It hasn't happened very often

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By *adyKarmennTVTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Dublin

Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeees!!

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By *olvespairCouple
29 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Yes

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By *xiled BikerMan
29 weeks ago

Glasgow

Yes

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By *orphia2003Woman
29 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Yes, many times.

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By *oxy jWoman
29 weeks ago

somerset

tes yes yessssssss

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By *ucka39Man
29 weeks ago

Newcastle

Yes, when I joined then it just continued

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By *mmaleiaWoman
29 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Yes, a few times

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By *he MinionMan
29 weeks ago

Yes it has happened.

Hoping it will happen again soon with someone who messaged recently, very unexpectedly 🤞

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By *isterGreyMan
29 weeks ago

Exeter

Yes

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By *ozzybear1981Man
29 weeks ago

preston

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By *ozzybear1981Man
29 weeks ago

preston

Oh hell yeah 😁😁😁😃😃😃

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By *ommy2125Man
29 weeks ago

newport

Yes

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By *JcuriousCouple
29 weeks ago

Derby

Yes

Miss S x

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
29 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Yes. And currently sat in Starbucks waiting for her to give me the green light that she is 'ready'.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Central

Yes, many

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By *B69Woman
29 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Yes

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By *lubchuckerMan
29 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Nope

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By *ayRyuMan
29 weeks ago

Harrogate

Yes

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By *ister SmoothMan
29 weeks ago

Bramhall

Yes

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
29 weeks ago

Always on the move

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Yes

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By *ootnootboopCouple
29 weeks ago

Cheshire

Yes

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By *allipygousMan
29 weeks ago

Leicester

Yes

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By *ir-March-a-lotMan
29 weeks ago

london

Yes

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By *hillout OP Man
29 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

67:17 in favour of YES thus far.

More lopsided than I expected...

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By *obandruthCouple
29 weeks ago

wolverhampton

Yes.

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By *ima7893Man
29 weeks ago

Cardiff

Yes - but it’s been several years!

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By *ake_or_deathMan
29 weeks ago

Manchester

Yes.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Chichester

yes

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By *ffervescentMan
29 weeks ago

winfrith

yes

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By *andT2023Couple
29 weeks ago

in the middle

Yes

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By *evil-AngelWoman
29 weeks ago

...

Yes

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By *rowneyedgirlWoman
29 weeks ago

Central belt

Yes

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By *hillout OP Man
29 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Hmmm...I wonder what is it I've been doing wrong all these years?🤷‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Yes

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By *affron40Woman
29 weeks ago

manchester

Yes

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By *tarbeckCouple
29 weeks ago

york

Yes

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By *hillout OP Man
29 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

78:17 for YES. Even more lopsided.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
29 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We have boobs on our profile - of course yes 😛

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By *ynamicnatureMan
29 weeks ago

Doncaster

Yes,

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By *ssexboys23Couple (MM)
29 weeks ago

witham

Yes!

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By *onnyBgoodXXXMan
29 weeks ago

NEWCASTLE UPON TYNE

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By *ittlebirdWoman
29 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Yes

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By *usicman1982Man
29 weeks ago

Coalisland

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
29 weeks ago

Bromley

Yes

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By *alico_KittyWoman
29 weeks ago

Kittys Lane

Yes

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By *lueeyedchapMan
29 weeks ago

Nottingham

Nope. 😭

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By *hillout OP Man
29 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Nope. 😭"

I feel your pain too 😉

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By *hillout OP Man
29 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Current count 83:19 in favour of YES. Lots of happy, lucky people 😁

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
29 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

Yes .. I never message first lol

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By *usurrusCouple
29 weeks ago

North West.

Yes. Plenty of times.

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By *ira2024Woman
29 weeks ago

Yes

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By *igi25Woman
29 weeks ago

worcs

Yes most of mine

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By *rAndMrsLilCouple
29 weeks ago

Barnsley

Yes

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By *igboro01Man
29 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Yes

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By *elix SightedMan
29 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Unbelievably, it’s about to happen

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By *indergirlWoman
29 weeks ago

somewhere, someplace

Yes

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By *reya73Woman
29 weeks ago

Whitley Bay

Yes!

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By *reya73Woman
29 weeks ago

Whitley Bay

Oh wait I read it as me having messaged first.

Yes and yes.. Both

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By *outhern77Man
29 weeks ago

Birmingham

Nope

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By *eparated_galWoman
29 weeks ago

Salford

Yes

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By *cflirtyMan
29 weeks ago

Hampshire

Oh Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Nooo

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By *mily300Woman
29 weeks ago

Nottingham

Yes

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By *viatrixWoman
29 weeks ago

Redhill

YES.

Pretty much all of my meets.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
29 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Yes

But never the other way round - I've never yet met anyone that I messaged first.

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By *airyboxMan
29 weeks ago

sheffield

Perhaps whose asking??

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By *hillout OP Man
29 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Yes. Plenty of times. "

No surprise with a profile like yours 😁

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
29 weeks ago

Cannock

Yes

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By *hesblokeMan
29 weeks ago

Derbyshire village

Yes

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
29 weeks ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

Yes

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By *itandfilthy1240Couple
29 weeks ago

Liverpool

Tes

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By *ilthycouple24Couple
29 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *ozzybear1981Man
29 weeks ago

preston

Does a wink count OP? 🫣

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By *ilthycouple24Couple
29 weeks ago

Glasgow

Yeah we misunderstood and deleted

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
29 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"YES. Pretty much all of my meets.

Mine too.

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By *oby 69Man
29 weeks ago

stockport

Nope

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By *r99mr99Man
29 weeks ago

Ealing

Yes

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By *sacambsMan
29 weeks ago

Huntingdon

Yes...

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By *rlowslungMan
29 weeks ago

Warwick

YES

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By *odgerMan
29 weeks ago

Coventry(ish)London

Yes...only had a few women contact me first but the result has always been good

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By *orthern_nudieMan
29 weeks ago

leeds

A few times yes

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
29 weeks ago

Home

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Not yet…

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By *younaughty2Man
29 weeks ago

preston

Yes

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By *uckman000Man
29 weeks ago

cheshire

Not. Yet

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By *yrone69xMan
29 weeks ago

carnforth

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By *rishVikingMan
29 weeks ago

Shankill

Nope

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By *otwifeHusband888Couple
29 weeks ago

Within touching distance

Yes

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By *-jonMan
29 weeks ago

London

Yep

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By *hillout OP Man
29 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Current count 110:28 in favour of YES.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Yes to socials and meets

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
29 weeks ago

Always on the move

"Current count 110:28 in favour of YES."

I'm in that NO count. And looking through, it appears to have a Yes, I need to be female, a couple, or have a 6 pack. So..I'm off to the gym 😂

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By *aytime78Man
29 weeks ago

Huddersfield

yes and inbox is open wink wink

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By *endalshaggersCouple
29 weeks ago

Lake District

Not yet although plenty try

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By *omRachCouple
29 weeks ago

Wirral

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Yes….even though we have no pictures on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Yep

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By *eah BabyCouple
29 weeks ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Yes

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By *angler 321Man
29 weeks ago

Hereford

Yes

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By *fterDark20Man
29 weeks ago

Swindon

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By *andsomeunitMan
29 weeks ago

Birmingham

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By *leasureman247Man
29 weeks ago

Ashford

That’s a No from me

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By *allwirral995Man
29 weeks ago

wirral

YES

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By *andKCouple
29 weeks ago

Wrea Green

Yes, many

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By *erandHerManCouple
29 weeks ago

Swindon

Yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Do people send messages lol

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By *hillout OP Man
29 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Final count is 121:34 in favour of YES.

I'm actually surprised at the number of yes answers. Now feel as if I've been missing out on something here

It would be a welcome change being chased as opposed to always doing the chasing...ah well.

Thank you all for your participation

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