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By *iker Jack OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I have never seen a negative verification on here.

Like eBay do you think there should be

Positive

Neutral

Negative

Whilst it is all up to one persons perception of another person or persons do you think there should be the ability to say something.

If you receive a negative verification and decide not to display the content then surely people may assume it’s a positive verification?

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By *iss.ddWoman
25 weeks ago

Leeds + Newcastle

No, I think it would be far too open to abuse

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
25 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

I met someone years ago and I suggested we should both give each other joke anegative verification...that were so daft that no one would believe them..but they bottled out of doing it.. which was a shame..

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By *iker Jack OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"No, I think it would be far too open to abuse "

There would have to be a system in place and I’m not sure how it would work or be ratified

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By *aseylee324Couple
25 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows


"No, I think it would be far too open to abuse "

Agreed

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By *iker Jack OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"I met someone years ago and I suggested we should both give each other joke anegative verification...that were so daft that no one would believe them..but they bottled out of doing it.. which was a shame.."

But if you leave a negative feedback and don’t display the text then it will be automatically assumed it’s positive, a lot of profiles will say they’ll only meet verified people and we all assume it’s positive feedback

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
25 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Non positive verifications would not be posted and if it was a "summary" like 10 positive, 1 neutral, 1 negative, the summary would also not be displayed and if it was how would you know it wasn't a "joke" one like the poster above was thinking about doing? And also like other posters its open to abuse

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
25 weeks ago

chichester


"No, I think it would be far too open to abuse "

This

Fab is dealing with real people that have feelings. Not shitty man made items that are just tools / objects etc of no real meaning

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By *ffervescentMan
25 weeks ago

winfrith


"I have never seen a negative verification on here.

Like eBay do you think there should be

Positive

Neutral

Negative

Whilst it is all up to one persons perception of another person or persons do you think there should be the ability to say something.

If you receive a negative verification and decide not to display the content then surely people may assume it’s a positive verification?

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Why would anyone display a negative verification though ?

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By *iker Jack OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

So we are all assuming that all verifications are firstly real, also accurate and always positive

I’m just thinking that there are many reasons why something could not always be positive and would you not want to be aware of something before a potential meet

On eBay if neutral or negative feedback is left both sides have a right to answer it before it’s published.

I know it would be a lot of work for the admins which are voluntary but would people not feel safer if they knew any potential red flags before meeting

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
25 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

If you wanted to eat out and there was a verification from wayne and waynetta slob

telling you how wonderful the local greasy spoon was - would you book your night out there?

A verification only needs to verify that if you have said you are a 45 year old bloke with all your own teeth and hair then that is true.

Some of the explicit verifications on here aren't a good selling point either

People should make their own minds up

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
25 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"So we are all assuming that all verifications are firstly real, also accurate and always positive

I’m just thinking that there are many reasons why something could not always be positive and would you not want to be aware of something before a potential meet

On eBay if neutral or negative feedback is left both sides have a right to answer it before it’s published.

I know it would be a lot of work for the admins which are voluntary but would people not feel safer if they knew any potential red flags before meeting "

Jack can you list me 3 red flags you might write about someone ?

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By *hilloutMan
25 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Some people state they don't do veris, positive or otherwise.

I think in a general sense if people were unsatisfied with a meet they wouldn't leave a verification to begin with.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
25 weeks ago

Maidstone

I think verifications should just be a tick someone gives you to confirm you were as expected. All the words are pointless drivel.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
25 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"I think verifications should just be a tick someone gives you to confirm you were as expected. All the words are pointless drivel. "

TICK

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By *iker Jack OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"If you wanted to eat out and there was a verification from wayne and waynetta slob

telling you how wonderful the local greasy spoon was - would you book your night out there?

A verification only needs to verify that if you have said you are a 45 year old bloke with all your own teeth and hair then that is true.

Some of the explicit verifications on here aren't a good selling point either

People should make their own minds up "

Maybe that’s the answer. Verifications based on who you are in reference to your profile.

As an example many years ago I met someone who said they were 43, they were actually in their 60s.

I don’t have an issue with the age. The issue I have is not being told the truth in advance so I then have a choice to meet or not

Also was very early days for me and I should’ve done a video call

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
25 weeks ago

chichester


"I think verifications should just be a tick someone gives you to confirm you were as expected. All the words are pointless drivel. "

Based

I don’t list my details nor do I look at others. It’s just the tick volume I look at

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By *iker Jack OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"So we are all assuming that all verifications are firstly real, also accurate and always positive

I’m just thinking that there are many reasons why something could not always be positive and would you not want to be aware of something before a potential meet

On eBay if neutral or negative feedback is left both sides have a right to answer it before it’s published.

I know it would be a lot of work for the admins which are voluntary but would people not feel safer if they knew any potential red flags before meeting

Jack can you list me 3 red flags you might write about someone ?

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Noticeably older or younger

Look nothing like their profile

Don’t respect given boundaries such as a social meet first

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
25 weeks ago

somewhere

I don't think negative feedback is needed, how would this be policed? Would we have to show every veri? Instead of a few (I know when we ran a social for a year, we racked up alot).

I do think there should be a function for time wasters though, I'm not sure what though but again, not sure how that could be policed and still could be open to abuse.

Probably leave it as it is 😂

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By *arley QuimWoman
25 weeks ago

Somewhere


"So we are all assuming that all verifications are firstly real, also accurate and always positive

I’m just thinking that there are many reasons why something could not always be positive and would you not want to be aware of something before a potential meet

On eBay if neutral or negative feedback is left both sides have a right to answer it before it’s published.

I know it would be a lot of work for the admins which are voluntary but would people not feel safer if they knew any potential red flags before meeting

Jack can you list me 3 red flags you might write about someone ?

Noticeably older or younger

Look nothing like their profile

Don’t respect given boundaries such as a social meet first "

But those are all things we as expected adults should check out ourselves first, no?

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By *neeyedwillieMan
25 weeks ago

Darlington

Firstly, Verifications are simply to prove youre a real person. They're not trust pilot reviews and plenty of people do not show them already.

Secondly, appart from the abuse it would obviously receive from some, who would acctually show a negative review?

It's as good as it can be.

That all said, I think the club reviews could do with a bit of an overhaul but that's club reviews not verifications.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
25 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Veris just mean someone turned up and was the right gender

Any additional info is optional and subjective. That woman that 'sucks like a dyson' might only be an old Electrolux in someone else's eyes.

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By *r MzchiefMan
25 weeks ago

Derbyshire

Dont put too much emphasis on veris. Its purpose is to establish from a third party source that this profile has been confirmed as a real person either by cam or more importantly to me by a meet in person. I dont look to the veris for a character reference I prefer to make that assessment myself. Everyones likes and dislikes are different and just because they didnt hit off with the author of the veri doesnt mean they wont with me or visa versa.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Central

It wouldn't work, especially as a huge free site, without the resources of the likes of Trip Advisor, eBay etc, who can manage it.

Plus people would just ditch a profile with anything that's a deterrent to others. And we have more than enough who come and go like cockroaches, as it is.

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By *he KakapoMan
25 weeks ago

A nice rock

Have you read some of the 1* Google and TripAdvisor reviews.

People with chips on theor shoulders cannot be trusted to write accurate accounts of their experiences.

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By *uckyNineMan
25 weeks ago

prescot

Everyone has there own likes and dislikes someone’s 10 could be somebody else’s 1 so negative reviews would definitely be unfair

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By *ornycougaWoman
25 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"I met someone years ago and I suggested we should both give each other joke anegative verification...that were so daft that no one would believe them..but they bottled out of doing it.. which was a shame.."

I have one that just says "She's a fucking nightmare" It's displayed as I am. Only fair people should know!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
25 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

*Insert name here* was absolutely crap at the sex and clearly couldn’t differentiate between their arse and their elbow.

Treat them with respect 👍🏻

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By *parkle1974Woman
25 weeks ago

Leeds

All verifications need to say is the person is genuinely who they say they are.....all other points are mute as what one person liked other's may not x

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By *ornycougaWoman
25 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat


"I met someone years ago and I suggested we should both give each other joke anegative verification...that were so daft that no one would believe them..but they bottled out of doing it.. which was a shame..

But if you leave a negative feedback and don’t display the text then it will be automatically assumed it’s positive, a lot of profiles will say they’ll only meet verified people and we all assume it’s positive feedback "

I wouldn't verify someone if it was a shit meet. I have been asked for a veri when the meet was a bit 'meh' and I have no desire to repeat. You can tell those as they are short and focus on a positive thing about the person, but anyone that read a range of veris I have given would know that it wasn't a top drawer experience for me

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By *vaRose43Woman
25 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I don’t put much emphasis on them, I don’t display mine because I’m a private person and who I meet is my own business.

However I have seen some that while not negative definitely left me with the impression that the reviewer didn’t have the most wonderful of times.

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