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By *66.94 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Brentwood

Hi all,

Just curious as someone who has been on and off this site for a while .

What makes a good profile and what stands out as an obvious bad one?

Would be interested to hear from experienced members.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
25 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

A bit of humour is always good.

It simultaneously serves to show that the person has a sense of fun whilst also making them more approachable as opposed to those stringent list of demands type profiles which feel more like a scolding upon merely perusing them.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
25 weeks ago

Newmill


"A bit of humour is always good.

It simultaneously serves to show that the person has a sense of fun whilst also making them more approachable as opposed to those stringent list of demands type profiles which feel more like a scolding upon merely perusing them."

This is why I recently rewrote my entire bio; I was not at all showcasing my sense of humour with the one I had before.

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By *naswingdressWoman
25 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Good profile has a variety of pictures and an informative bio

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Informative bio

A selection of pictures that allow one to see the person’s style, body type, not their bits though

Something to grab one’s attention. This can vary and there isn’t a single answer.

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By *ir tootMan
25 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"A bit of humour is always good.

It simultaneously serves to show that the person has a sense of fun whilst also making them more approachable as opposed to those stringent list of demands type profiles which feel more like a scolding upon merely perusing them.

This is why I recently rewrote my entire bio; I was not at all showcasing my sense of humour with the one I had before."

I might have to do what you did with tree barking, had some strange messages this past month off some guys.

My bio is wip progress though it's slowly getting there.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
25 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"A bit of humour is always good.

It simultaneously serves to show that the person has a sense of fun whilst also making them more approachable as opposed to those stringent list of demands type profiles which feel more like a scolding upon merely perusing them.

This is why I recently rewrote my entire bio; I was not at all showcasing my sense of humour with the one I had before."

I’ve just had a ganders and it’s a brilliant profile 😀😀👍🏻 I believe that humour is a very useful tool in putting people at ease and thus is excellent at facilitating communication.

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By *66.94 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Brentwood

That’s a really good point ! Do read some profiles be think that sounds very serious when this site should all be about fun

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By *66.94 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Brentwood

I’m certainly lacking in both areas ! I’m not one to take the camera out in social settings or on my own which really isn’t good for showing a good online presence

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By *he KakapoMan
25 weeks ago

A nice rock

Titties!!!!!

Non political titties!!!

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By *asterMeliodasMan
25 weeks ago

Newmill


"A bit of humour is always good.

It simultaneously serves to show that the person has a sense of fun whilst also making them more approachable as opposed to those stringent list of demands type profiles which feel more like a scolding upon merely perusing them.

This is why I recently rewrote my entire bio; I was not at all showcasing my sense of humour with the one I had before.

I’ve just had a ganders and it’s a brilliant profile 😀😀👍🏻 I believe that humour is a very useful tool in putting people at ease and thus is excellent at facilitating communication."

Thanks man! I appreciate the compliment.

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By *rispyDuckMan
25 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

For me:

-it’s short and to the point

-comes across as friendly and warm not angry and moody lol

- variety in pics 😉

- bit of personality and humour 🥳

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By *66.94 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Brentwood

Tbf could never be offended by titties haha

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By *66.94 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Brentwood

Yeah your profile seems spot on ! I stupidly didn’t ask for verifications which doesn’t help

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
25 weeks ago

Ends

A good bio. I recently made an effort on my bio and it helps.

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By *naswingdressWoman
25 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’m certainly lacking in both areas ! I’m not one to take the camera out in social settings or on my own which really isn’t good for showing a good online presence "

Doing a solo photo shoot, I think most of us feel a bit silly, but it pays off

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By *ittlebirdWoman
25 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Tbf could never be offended by titties haha "

Hey OP. If you press reply + quote everyone will know who you’re replying to. Welcome to the forums

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By *ir tootMan
25 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"A good bio. I recently made an effort on my bio and it helps. "

I'm very bad at writing about myself, but it's better then it was when I first joined lol.

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By *he KakapoMan
25 weeks ago

A nice rock


"A good bio. I recently made an effort on my bio and it helps.

I'm very bad at writing about myself, but it's better then it was when I first joined lol."

That bio is better than 90% of them to be fair buddy

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By *66.94 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Brentwood


"Tbf could never be offended by titties haha

Hey OP. If you press reply + quote everyone will know who you’re replying to. Welcome to the forums "

Thanks !! You can tell this is my first post haha

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
25 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Dic pics galore, thank me later

Mr

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By *ittlebirdWoman
25 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Tbf could never be offended by titties haha

Hey OP. If you press reply + quote everyone will know who you’re replying to. Welcome to the forums

Thanks !! You can tell this is my first post haha "

It’s no problem at all. Enjoy the lounge. It’s full of good people having a laugh… mostly ♥️

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
25 weeks ago

Coventry

I'm going to say pictures first. Don't need many, just a few really well selected ones. For couples, of both of you. Ideally ones that also express a bit of personality. Because for most people I think that's what they check first. After all I think as a baseline we want an element of physical attraction.

Then a good bio. Not war and peace, because we can't really know until we meet in person anyway. Just a little something to give a vibe of who you are personality wise and maybe briefly what you're down for.

And don't pick a shit username is also a top tip. Sometimes you read a usernames and it's over before you've even looked at the bio.

So you don't need volume, just be conscientious of the selected content you put in and username. Just enough to entice people to want to find out more.

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By *66.94 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Brentwood


"I’m certainly lacking in both areas ! I’m not one to take the camera out in social settings or on my own which really isn’t good for showing a good online presence

Doing a solo photo shoot, I think most of us feel a bit silly, but it pays off"

Yeah I think I just need to dedicate more time to it

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By *66.94 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Brentwood


"Dic pics galore, thank me later

Mr "

The dick pic is the most controversial. I have had woman request it straight away and others that really don’t want to know haha

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By *66.94 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Brentwood


"I'm going to say pictures first. Don't need many, just a few really well selected ones. For couples, of both of you. Ideally ones that also express a bit of personality. Because for most people I think that's what they check first. After all I think as a baseline we want an element of physical attraction.

Then a good bio. Not war and peace, because we can't really know until we meet in person anyway. Just a little something to give a vibe of who you are personality wise and maybe briefly what you're down for.

And don't pick a shit username is also a top tip. Sometimes you read a usernames and it's over before you've even looked at the bio.

So you don't need volume, just be conscientious of the selected content you put in and username. Just enough to entice people to want to find out more."

This is sound advice. Thanks ! Aside from face picture would semi nude / nude be expected?

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By *66.94 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Brentwood


"Tbf could never be offended by titties haha

Hey OP. If you press reply + quote everyone will know who you’re replying to. Welcome to the forums

Thanks !! You can tell this is my first post haha

It’s no problem at all. Enjoy the lounge. It’s full of good people having a laugh… mostly ♥️"

❤️

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By *eyond PurityCouple
25 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Intriguing bio and pics which get the mind working.

They regularly update pics to keep interest and show off different parts of them.

K

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
25 weeks ago

Coventry


"I'm going to say pictures first. Don't need many, just a few really well selected ones. For couples, of both of you. Ideally ones that also express a bit of personality. Because for most people I think that's what they check first. After all I think as a baseline we want an element of physical attraction.

Then a good bio. Not war and peace, because we can't really know until we meet in person anyway. Just a little something to give a vibe of who you are personality wise and maybe briefly what you're down for.

And don't pick a shit username is also a top tip. Sometimes you read a usernames and it's over before you've even looked at the bio.

So you don't need volume, just be conscientious of the selected content you put in and username. Just enough to entice people to want to find out more.

This is sound advice. Thanks ! Aside from face picture would semi nude / nude be expected? "

Something that shows the body I'd say. Doesn't have to be nude or even semi nude, can happily be fully clothed. Just something that gives people an idea of your physicality.

General rule of thumb be very wary of cock shots, you really don't need them to catch a bite. You probably going to turn more people away with a cock shot than you are going to entice with one. That I believe is the maths on that one.

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By *66.94 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Brentwood


"Intriguing bio and pics which get the mind working.

They regularly update pics to keep interest and show off different parts of them.

K"

Thanks ! Did you find including videos made much of a difference ?

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By *66.94 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Brentwood


"I'm going to say pictures first. Don't need many, just a few really well selected ones. For couples, of both of you. Ideally ones that also express a bit of personality. Because for most people I think that's what they check first. After all I think as a baseline we want an element of physical attraction.

Then a good bio. Not war and peace, because we can't really know until we meet in person anyway. Just a little something to give a vibe of who you are personality wise and maybe briefly what you're down for.

And don't pick a shit username is also a top tip. Sometimes you read a usernames and it's over before you've even looked at the bio.

So you don't need volume, just be conscientious of the selected content you put in and username. Just enough to entice people to want to find out more.

This is sound advice. Thanks ! Aside from face picture would semi nude / nude be expected?

Something that shows the body I'd say. Doesn't have to be nude or even semi nude, can happily be fully clothed. Just something that gives people an idea of your physicality.

General rule of thumb be very wary of cock shots, you really don't need them to catch a bite. You probably going to turn more people away with a cock shot than you are going to entice with one. That I believe is the maths on that one."

I always think a gym photo is quite cringe but that might be the best opportunity. I do have a cock shot so I’m going to turn that private after reading this

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By *eyond PurityCouple
25 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"Intriguing bio and pics which get the mind working.

They regularly update pics to keep interest and show off different parts of them.

K

Thanks ! Did you find including videos made much of a difference ? "

It depends - ours aren’t graphic or porny

If a video on a profile is just of a guy wanking or people fucking then it’s not going to enhance anything (in our eyes) but it might for others.

K

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