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Women Only: Tidiness of your Box

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How tidy do you keep your box?

Does a heaving, full box bother you?

Do unread messages bother you?

Must they be read swiftly?

Do you dedicate only a certain period in the time in which you spend on Fab sorting your box? Outside of that, do messages sit and wait for the next time you’re sorting your box?

Do you treat your Fab box any different from your email box in real life? (i.e. your Fab box is always tidy, but your email box has thousands of unread messages and one bothers you but the other doesn’t).

I specially only ask women because I’m making an assumption here and jumping to conclusions that women are more apt to have full boxes heaving with messages as compared to most men on Fab.

Voluminous boxes matter to me.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Super tidy..read and either immediately delete, or answer then delete.

Only need to check once a day or so thanks to filters, so not a chore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it being tidy, but there’s 1500 unreads at the moment, my email is the same 5000 unread. WhatsApp I have 30 unread messages.

It used to be so tidy, I think I’m having a midlife crisis or something

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I have to keep it tidy but I am ruthless: delete most if not a block as well and report the ones that should be reported.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Delete, it used to be overwhelming, but now I’m brutal

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Mines very easy to manage, strict filters hide me well from the depths of fab, so any messages are forum/social related and answered as soon as I notice them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess when you do not get that many messages it’s very easy to control lol

So …. Check my profile out !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess when you do not get that many messages it’s very easy to control lol

So …. Check my profile out ! "

There had to be one. 🙄

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Mine was a chaotic mess last week so I did pledge to tidy and maintain it. Back down to zero and feeling pretty good about it. I am going to attempt to keep this up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like it being tidy, but there’s 1500 unreads at the moment, my email is the same 5000 unread. WhatsApp I have 30 unread messages.

It used to be so tidy, I think I’m having a midlife crisis or something "

I’m the same way. I presently have 88577 unread messages in my personal email, 9654 in my work email, and several dozen in WhatsApp that I hide in archived to feel better I guess.

On Fab, I immediately delete, block, or read messages. Some I take some time to respond back to, others I do straight away. Last night, I spent way too much time deleting all my sent messages, and old messages too. It was almost cathartic.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Bedford

I'm quite happy to come and tidy your boxes up for you ladies.

If only to make some space for mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It only annoys me when i want to find a message from a particular person

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Bedford


"It only annoys me when i want to find a message from a particular person

"

A search filter option would be handy, then you could just type in 'chunky'.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Very tidy and always all read.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It only annoys me when i want to find a message from a particular person

"

This is why I ended up spending way too much time last night cleaning my box. I could not find a message I needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it being tidy, but there’s 1500 unreads at the moment, my email is the same 5000 unread. WhatsApp I have 30 unread messages.

It used to be so tidy, I think I’m having a midlife crisis or something "

Dear lord 😳😳😳😂😂😂

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
over a year ago

North West

Even with relatively tight filters they come in a couple every minute that I'm online. And there are some nice imaginative ones in there that I feel like I should reply to. But I don't know when I'll get the time. 🤯

I might just have to shut filters completely.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

My box is as tidy as my life right now….

Full. With no intent of reading any of it. Just like my brain ♥️

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It only annoys me when i want to find a message from a particular person

This is why I ended up spending way too much time last night cleaning my box. I could not find a message I needed. "

It suddenly dawned on me that i could look in my sent box 🤣🤣 and as I type this i remember you can click on someone's profile now and see the last message 😂😂

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it being tidy, but there’s 1500 unreads at the moment, my email is the same 5000 unread. WhatsApp I have 30 unread messages.

It used to be so tidy, I think I’m having a midlife crisis or something "

I have hundreds of unread emails

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Bedford

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Bedford


"I like it being tidy, but there’s 1500 unreads at the moment, my email is the same 5000 unread. WhatsApp I have 30 unread messages.

It used to be so tidy, I think I’m having a midlife crisis or something

I have hundreds of unread emails "

do know you can filter out 'friends' messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Even with relatively tight filters they come in a couple every minute that I'm online. And there are some nice imaginative ones in there that I feel like I should reply to. But I don't know when I'll get the time. 🤯

I might just have to shut filters completely."

I did that recently switched off the ability for anyone and everyone to message me. It wa as quiet few weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it being tidy, but there’s 1500 unreads at the moment, my email is the same 5000 unread. WhatsApp I have 30 unread messages.

It used to be so tidy, I think I’m having a midlife crisis or something

I have hundreds of unread emails

do know you can filter out 'friends' messages. "

Yeah it wasn't a friend I was looking for

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By *igi25Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

Mine was tidy till I decided to come back and now it’s a minefield, shame you can’t just group delete instead of bulk, as there’s some msgs I want to reply to when i have the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it being tidy, but there’s 1500 unreads at the moment, my email is the same 5000 unread. WhatsApp I have 30 unread messages.

It used to be so tidy, I think I’m having a midlife crisis or something

I’m the same way. I presently have 88577 unread messages in my personal email, 9654 in my work email, and several dozen in WhatsApp that I hide in archived to feel better I guess.

On Fab, I immediately delete, block, or read messages. Some I take some time to respond back to, others I do straight away. Last night, I spent way too much time deleting all my sent messages, and old messages too. It was almost cathartic. "

Snap. I’m actually considering a new email address and starting from scratch 🙈

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

It's a mess and I struggle with the tools that Fab gives for organisation overall, including mail. My email and contacts organisation outside of Fab is much easier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like it being tidy, but there’s 1500 unreads at the moment, my email is the same 5000 unread. WhatsApp I have 30 unread messages.

It used to be so tidy, I think I’m having a midlife crisis or something

I’m the same way. I presently have 88577 unread messages in my personal email, 9654 in my work email, and several dozen in WhatsApp that I hide in archived to feel better I guess.

On Fab, I immediately delete, block, or read messages. Some I take some time to respond back to, others I do straight away. Last night, I spent way too much time deleting all my sent messages, and old messages too. It was almost cathartic.

Snap. I’m actually considering a new email address and starting from scratch 🙈"

I did that two decades ago. Biggest regret ever. I lost so many messages in the transition.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a mess and I struggle with the tools that Fab gives for organisation overall, including mail. My email and contacts organisation outside of Fab is much easier."

Tbf, there’s a massive void in tools available for organisation on Fab for all I reckon.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I like it being tidy, but there’s 1500 unreads at the moment, my email is the same 5000 unread. WhatsApp I have 30 unread messages.

It used to be so tidy, I think I’m having a midlife crisis or something

I have hundreds of unread emails "

Email sweep midnight!!! It’s the best thing ever watching them all disappear at super speed!!!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

^ Forum posts can disappear too.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Mine was tidy till I decided to come back and now it’s a minefield, shame you can’t just group delete instead of bulk, as there’s some msgs I want to reply to when i have the time"

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The @wickedwitch is still waiting for my reply.

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