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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

Hey everyone not really sure how this whole things works any advice would be appreciated

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By *uke OzadeMan
25 weeks ago

Ho Chi Minge City

He’s the 97th most hung and fun guy on fab ^

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
25 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

What kind of swinging?

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
25 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Hey everyone not really sure how this whole things works any advice would be appreciated "

Tap it on the head twice and feed it sausage.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

What are you unsure of? You’ve been verified, you’ve found the forums, you’ve sorted your profile. What’s left that you don’t understand?

It’s not true what they say, pussies won’t fall onto your cock simply by joining Fab.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
25 weeks ago

Newmill


"What are you unsure of? You’ve been verified, you’ve found the forums, you’ve sorted your profile. What’s left that you don’t understand?

It’s not true what they say, pussies won’t fall onto your cock simply by joining Fab. "

Wait, why am I even here then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

Looking to try new things and have fun, I’m quite kinky and open to try things but I’m more of an impulsive person and am happy to make sure the meets are fun and extremely pleasurable

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
25 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Hey everyone not really sure how this whole things works any advice would be appreciated "

You've been here 3 months and verified, your doing alright son....

If you expecting gash every night....then I'd say I'd manage your expectations a wee bit better...

Mr

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
25 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

If your status is right, I'd suggest you should get to a club

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

I’m looking to try things with couples and women mainly hense why joining the site

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"Looking to try new things and have fun, I’m quite kinky and open to try things but I’m more of an impulsive person and am happy to make sure the meets are fun and extremely pleasurable"

Okay, perhaps making others aware of that is the bit you’re missing. Consider using your profile to let others know this about yourself.

Otherwise, I’d suggest making a massive sign to hang around your neck and stand on the street corners in hopes of finding people to try new things with on an impulse.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"I’m looking to try things with couples and women mainly hense why joining the site "

As yourself what you’ve done to make that a success for yourself over the last few months? If you haven’t done anything to work towards that then what would you need to do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

Thankyou for the advice I appreciate this

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
25 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Keep it on the forum.

There are a lot of different dynamics, especially when engaging with couples.

If you don't know what you want people are more likely to go with people who do know what they want and it aligns with their wants.

Get to clubs, get to know people in the scene, work out what works for you.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
25 weeks ago

Newmill


"Looking to try new things and have fun, I’m quite kinky and open to try things but I’m more of an impulsive person and am happy to make sure the meets are fun and extremely pleasurable"

Unless you're under the impression that everyone else tries to ensure their meets are dull and devoid of enjoyment, I don't see why you think that sets you apart from any of the other several thousand guys here. :P

Joining the site allowed you to connect with the people who potentially tick your boxes, but that's no guarantee of anything coming of it--you have to tick theirs, too.

What have you actually tried doing, so far?

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
25 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Looking to try new things and have fun, I’m quite kinky and open to try things but I’m more of an impulsive person and am happy to make sure the meets are fun and extremely pleasurable"

Impulsive is dangerous, as it often negates the ever so important, consent....

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

I’ve only just now even realised about forums or anything like that all I really do is search profiles and try start a conversation and organise something if they seem interested but thought there might be more ways to get my profile seen or set up In a way that’s easy to understand if that makes sense

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By *arley QuimWoman
25 weeks ago

Somewhere

Try a club

Try a social

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By *affron40Woman
25 weeks ago

manchester

Don’t think it’s all about your sausage. Lots of women don’t care that much about how big it is, it’s way more about how you interact with women as humans.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
25 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"I’ve only just now even realised about forums or anything like that all I really do is search profiles and try start a conversation and organise something if they seem interested but thought there might be more ways to get my profile seen or set up In a way that’s easy to understand if that makes sense "

Clubs and organised socials then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

I’ve never been to one or really know anything about them or how it all works as don’t really know anyone really who’s into swinging so trying to understand it all more to get more involved in it all

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By *uckyNineMan
25 weeks ago

prescot

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By *uckyNineMan
25 weeks ago

prescot


"What are you unsure of? You’ve been verified, you’ve found the forums, you’ve sorted your profile. What’s left that you don’t understand?

It’s not true what they say, pussies won’t fall onto your cock simply by joining Fab. "

Are you joking me!! I’ve just signed up for gold membership believing that this was most definitely the case

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By *arley QuimWoman
25 weeks ago

Somewhere


"What are you unsure of? You’ve been verified, you’ve found the forums, you’ve sorted your profile. What’s left that you don’t understand?

It’s not true what they say, pussies won’t fall onto your cock simply by joining Fab.

Are you joking me!! I’ve just signed up for gold membership believing that this was most definitely the case "

There's a fiver you'll never get back 😭

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By *asterMeliodasMan
25 weeks ago

Newmill


"What are you unsure of? You’ve been verified, you’ve found the forums, you’ve sorted your profile. What’s left that you don’t understand?

It’s not true what they say, pussies won’t fall onto your cock simply by joining Fab.

Are you joking me!! I’ve just signed up for gold membership believing that this was most definitely the case "

They reeled me in too, man. No shame whatsoever. We should start a class action lawsuit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

Thanks everyone, what’s the best way to go about socials etc like see what’s happening where

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By *eyond PurityCouple
25 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

You put three pics up and included your cock in each pic - this alone would mean we wouldn’t reply if you messaged, as it suggests that’s all you think this site is about.

Guess how many hung guys are on the site? - pretty much every other guy is hung, according to them so it’s not the selling point you think it is.

It’s more than likely going to get you less responses.

If you are more than a cock then portray that in your pics.

Good luck

K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

Thankyou for the advice, I’m wanting to learn more about the whole swinging scene and become part of the community abit so apologies if I’ve pissed anyone off

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
25 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Thanks everyone, what’s the best way to go about socials etc like see what’s happening where "

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/meets

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Central


"Looking to try new things and have fun, I’m quite kinky and open to try things but I’m more of an impulsive person and am happy to make sure the meets are fun and extremely pleasurable"

You sound fun. Just be aware that many can't meet, without advanced planning.

Search for people who may share your interests, read their profiles, to evaluate if you are the type of guy theyd like to meet

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