FabSwingers.com forum: Missing opportunities

By *ake_or_death OP Man
26 weeks ago

Manchester

Do you find that you miss opportunities, especially in terms of Fab, and if so, were you aware they were opportunities at the time and just couldn't take them, or did you not realise they were opportunities until later when it was too late?

Either way, why do you think this is - lack of confidence, unable to read signals, worried about rejection, etc?

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
26 weeks ago

Ends

I don’t miss opportunities.

If someone is interested in me, I take the opportunity. That’s how I have had sex with half the forum

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
26 weeks ago

Next Door

I think I've missed a few opportunities in the past, mainly due to lack of confidence.

🤷‍♀️

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By *parkle1974Woman
26 weeks ago

Leeds

You can't miss what you never had

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
26 weeks ago

North West

We don't have many opportunities to miss

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
26 weeks ago

Ends

"We don't have many opportunities to miss

Same girl

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By *mmaleiaWoman
26 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I take my opportunities & MAKE them happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Opportunities presented aren’t always opportunities desired. I choose orotundities I wish to explore. Those I don’t, I do not feel I’m missing out on. I have zero FOMO in general in life though.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
26 weeks ago

North West

"We don't have many opportunities to miss

Same girl

Maybe we have the same opportunities?!

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
26 weeks ago

Essex

I’ve missed a few trains…..

But opportunities waited 😇

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By *ellhungvweMan
26 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I have definitely gotten better with age at working out that something is an opportunity. That has meant that I have become much more comfortable in taking the risk in seeing if it will work out - life is too short to sit and wonder “what if”.

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By *idssissyTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Birmingham

Nerves and guilt helped me miss many opportunities

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By *ozzybear1981Man
26 weeks ago

preston

I thought I had missed an opportunity but it turns out I was completely wrong.

It may have taken some time but I’m completely blown away 😃

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By *affron40Woman
26 weeks ago

manchester

No. I believe I’m exactly where I need and want to be. Those I’ve wanted to meet I’ve met and others I will meet in time. Fabs such a small part of life it fits in where I want it to.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
26 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Who knows? I have some lovely chats with people from all walks of life, could they develop? Dunno. Are they a missed opportunity if I don't seize it? Mibbies. Mibbies by going for it I would blow that chance.

The dichotomy of stick or twist (with a chance of bust). (Tee hee I said 'bust')

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By *weetCherryWoman
26 weeks ago

London

I’m sure I am missing opportunities due my pathological fear of rejection and heartbreak…however, I’d rather live peacefully than risking any of those scenarios happening again

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By *altandPepper24Couple
26 weeks ago

Liverpool

Shy kids get no sweets as they say 😉

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By *ell GwynnWoman
26 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

If I want something I ask.

Trying to deduce if there are "signals" is never going to be my strong point, so I skip that stage altogether. If that's the way someone functions then we simply aren't compatible, so nothing is lost. Fortunately, I can take rejection on the chin.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
26 weeks ago

Ends

"I’ve missed a few trains…..

But opportunities waited 😇"

Trains. I like trains

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By *rBobbMan
26 weeks ago

Birmingham

I had an amazing opportunity a while ago. I took it and it is the best thing that I have ever done

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By *riar BelisseWoman
26 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

I've missed quite a few on purpose, trusting my gut on something that just doesn't feel right. It does sometimes however get duped, which leads to regrettable opportunities...

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By *eyond PurityCouple
26 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We tend to go for what we want hence why we’ve enjoyed some amazing experiences on here and vanilla life.

Missed opportunities? Nothing/no one comes to mind as opportunities lost - they’d come round again if they were meant to be anyway.

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By *rHotNottsMan
26 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I don’t miss them but timing is e everything on here , lots of people are attracted to each but it can sometimes take a year or 3 to get together. I don’t buy the ‘liked you for ages’ if you really did you would at least let them know. I think it’s a line used.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Central

I miss out because I don't find within Fab, the ability to organise how I need to.. Eg, I can't organise people by location or type of contact, such as already shagged, seems interesting or into Manchester, London etc

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By *HUSH-Man
26 weeks ago

London

I’ve passed on a social/meet with a couple because after having spoken to them over the phone I could tell it just wasn’t right for me. It was the dynamic. Wasn’t a case of low confidence or failing to read signs and I definitely don’t feel like I’ve missed an opportunity.

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By *elix SightedMan
26 weeks ago

Cloud 8

No. If I didn’t know it was an opportunity then I haven’t really missed it. And if I did but decided not to pursue it, there will have been a reason and I firmly believe you have to do what’s right for you at the time.

Do I wish I’d met more sexy people? Of course. But they were never an opportunity. And there’s still time….

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By *he KakapoMan
26 weeks ago

A nice rock

I mean there seems to be opportunities in the UK but seems like a bad time to steal the locals supply

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"I don’t miss them but timing is e everything on here , lots of people are attracted to each but it can sometimes take a year or 3 to get together. "

^^ this !!

I'm not a fast mover

a 4 year connection just ignited

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By *essTTWoman
26 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I don’t miss opportunities.

If someone is interested in me, I take the opportunity. That’s how I have had sex with half the forum"

Which half?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
26 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Don't think I've had any missed opportunities on here

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By *ea monkeyMan
26 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

There have been a few people where the stars didn’t quite align and the situation slipped past. A few where signals were mixed and our ducks were at a rave instead of in a row…

It’s part of life though and you can’t turn back time

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By *asterMeliodasMan
26 weeks ago

Newmill

"It’s part of life though and you can’t turn back time"

...OR CAN YOU?

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By *WB85Man
26 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Lots of you ladies miss opportunities when you don't reply to my wonderful messages.

Jokes.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
26 weeks ago

North West

"I don’t miss opportunities.

If someone is interested in me, I take the opportunity. That’s how I have had sex with half the forum

Which half?"

The female half

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