FabSwingers.com forum: sober or tipsy

By *aytime78 OP Man
29 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I prefere a few beers b4 getting down to the business end last longer especially with an enhancer and I genrally become more talkative and funny but the main part is lasting longer and I can push my boundries further and confidence

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By *ocksareoffMan
29 weeks ago

Out n About

There could be some interesting responses to this thread...

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Chichester

I am tea total

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By *ocksareoffMan
29 weeks ago

Out n About

"I am tea total "

I prefer coffee

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By *ivilised matureMan
29 weeks ago

Barnes sometimes Dulwich Village

Tipsy was my intro but I'm happy either way

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By *ensuallover1000Man
29 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I prefer no alcohol prior to the dirty deed.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
29 weeks ago

Tamworth

I don’t drink much anyway and stick to one at most to be sociable in a club or on a meet.

Different if it’s someone I know and we’re spending an evening together and fancy splitting a bottle of wine but even then 2 or 3 drinks are my max unless I fancy a nice nap.

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By *illy IdolMan
29 weeks ago

Midlands

"I don’t drink much anyway and stick to one at most to be sociable in a club or on a meet.

Different if it’s someone I know and we’re spending an evening together and fancy splitting a bottle of wine but even then 2 or 3 drinks are my max unless I fancy a nice nap. "

It's okay, your doctor probably isn't reading this.

Just be honest.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
29 weeks ago

somewhere

I'm as shy as they come but get me a few rosé down me and I become a talker but call me old fashioned but if I'm on a meet I would much rather be sober, just my preference.

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By *d mirerMan
29 weeks ago

lost

Unless we were going for a drink together it would definitely be sober for me .

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
29 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Sober for me. I'll have one drink but I much prefer to know that everyone is in control of their decisions.

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By *stwoCouple
29 weeks ago

anywhere

Does an enhancer mean drugs.

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By *aytime78 OP Man
29 weeks ago

Huddersfield

"Does an enhancer mean drugs."

no no defo not usually a viagra gel I dont do drugs

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By *eyond PurityCouple
29 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We don’t drink much when potential for playing is on.

Wouldn’t ever want to be in a situation where thoughts or judgement can be impaired.

Much prefer to remember it all.

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By *ripfillMan
29 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

A social drink - wine or a G&T in effect to break the initial ice but then no more till after perhaps afterwards

I think it’s more about respect for the meeting

Plus I want my body on peak performance wanting to give and give some more

😈😇🤫

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By *bi HaiveMan
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29 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I don’t drink much anyway and stick to one at most to be sociable in a club or on a meet.

Different if it’s someone I know and we’re spending an evening together and fancy splitting a bottle of wine but even then 2 or 3 drinks are my max unless I fancy a nice nap. "

This.

I drive most of the time so have developed a taste for alcohol free cider. Plus I'm chatty enough without booze.

And it's never advisable to mix alcohol with any kind of 'enhancer'. 🤔🤦‍♂️

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By *aytime78 OP Man
29 weeks ago

Huddersfield

"I don’t drink much anyway and stick to one at most to be sociable in a club or on a meet.

Different if it’s someone I know and we’re spending an evening together and fancy splitting a bottle of wine but even then 2 or 3 drinks are my max unless I fancy a nice nap.

This.

I drive most of the time so have developed a taste for alcohol free cider. Plus I'm chatty enough without booze.

And it's never advisable to mix alcohol with any kind of 'enhancer'. 🤔🤦‍♂️"

I'm not a raving piss head I alway turn up sober just like a drink or two helps me relax as gor the gels they work for me

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
29 weeks ago

City Centre

A social drink is fine, I enjoy a drink, good food, good company etc. I would steer clear of those who rely or need alcohol to have sex with me.

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By *vaRose43Woman
29 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I prefer someone I meet to be able to consent and not need to drink in order to sleep with me.

I’m not a huge drinker and even if I know the person I stick to a couple of drinks max if we are making a night of it

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
29 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I prefer sobriety.

With someone I know well and trust I might get a little tipsy now and again.

But for new people I would always prefer sobriety. Consent is important and can't be granted properly under the influence. Without the foundations of knowing the person well it's wobbly ground for me.

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By *erfHerder74Man
29 weeks ago

Inverclyde

"I prefer someone I meet to be able to consent and not need to drink in order to sleep with me.

I’m not a huge drinker and even if I know the person I stick to a couple of drinks max if we are making a night of it"

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
29 weeks ago

Tamworth

"I don’t drink much anyway and stick to one at most to be sociable in a club or on a meet.

Different if it’s someone I know and we’re spending an evening together and fancy splitting a bottle of wine but even then 2 or 3 drinks are my max unless I fancy a nice nap.

It's okay, your doctor probably isn't reading this.

Just be honest."

It’s true, some people require more alcohol to cope with… 🤨

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By *aizyWoman
29 weeks ago

west midlands

"I don’t drink much anyway and stick to one at most to be sociable in a club or on a meet.

Different if it’s someone I know and we’re spending an evening together and fancy splitting a bottle of wine but even then 2 or 3 drinks are my max unless I fancy a nice nap. "

I'm the same 😴😴

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
29 weeks ago

Hell

There’s nothing worse than turning up to meet someone and they’ve been drinking, especially beer. Aside from all already mentioned, I hate the smell and taste

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By *onkeynutWoman
29 weeks ago

somewhere

I’ve had sex with someone new after a few too many, I’m definitely better sober but I’m never so dr*nk that I can’t consent or regret it the next morning.

I don’t generally drink for meets though.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
29 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We only go to clubs now so we always have a few drinks but other than one occasion I can think of we’ve never been out of it. We would never do that again.

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By *red010171Man
29 weeks ago

South West ish

Sober all day long, I enjoy a pint or 2 but not when playing as that can lead to bad decisions being made.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
29 weeks ago

There and Here

I prefer both parties to be sober, even more so if it's someone new

There's also little worse than a bloke who's impeded by alcohol pounding away thinking it's great that he's lasting ages, all the while totally oblivious to the fact that the enjoyment is totally one sided.

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By *aytime78 OP Man
29 weeks ago

Huddersfield

best bring me thermos flask full of coffee reading these if I get a meet anytime soon lol

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
29 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Sober for me, if I drink I break out in handcuffs 🤣🤣

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By *elix SightedMan
29 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I haven’t had an alcoholic drink in 11 years (through choice) and don’t miss it.

If I’m meeting someone I down a case of that isotonic lucozade John Barnes used to drink and I take jelly beans for mid-shag snacks.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
29 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I haven’t had an alcoholic drink in 11 years (through choice) and don’t miss it.

If I’m meeting someone I down a case of that isotonic lucozade John Barnes used to drink and I take jelly beans for mid-shag snacks."

But can you do his rap?

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By *olfandtazCouple
29 weeks ago

Bristol

Taz drinks on a meet, I stay sober, especially considering I'm the driver

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By *erfHerder74Man
29 weeks ago

Inverclyde

I met someone who said he didn’t drink or smoke… guess what, he was almost pissed , we went a walk and ended up in a bar so he could drink. I asked how come he was d*unk, he burst into tears, I tried to talk and said to calm the nerves cause he fancied me. He then took cigs out and started smoking and tried to kiss me… horrible

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
29 weeks ago

Hell

"I haven’t had an alcoholic drink in 11 years (through choice) and don’t miss it.

If I’m meeting someone I down a case of that isotonic lucozade John Barnes used to drink and I take jelly beans for mid-shag snacks."

Have I told you my John Barnes story?

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By *elix SightedMan
29 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"I haven’t had an alcoholic drink in 11 years (through choice) and don’t miss it.

If I’m meeting someone I down a case of that isotonic lucozade John Barnes used to drink and I take jelly beans for mid-shag snacks.

But can you do his rap?"

I haven’t tried but he’s such a talented artist I doubt I’d get near him…

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By *asterMeliodasMan
29 weeks ago

Newmill

Sober, for sure. I don't even drink particularly much normally.

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By *elix SightedMan
29 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"I haven’t had an alcoholic drink in 11 years (through choice) and don’t miss it.

If I’m meeting someone I down a case of that isotonic lucozade John Barnes used to drink and I take jelly beans for mid-shag snacks.

Have I told you my John Barnes story?"

Did he swap ends at half time?

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By *ozzybear1981Man
29 weeks ago

preston

I enjoy sobriety to be honest, I will very occasionally have a couple but sober life is fun in many ways ☺️

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By *ad NannaWoman
29 weeks ago

East London

I like a couple of drinks before and during sex.

It relaxes my muscles and acts as a painkiller.

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By *eliWoman
29 weeks ago

Sometimes it can be fun. Not often. I find that I'm not as erm... wet after a couple of drinks? More flirty, body responds more slowly though.

I love sober sex where I can feel how much they've wanted me without the confidence of alcohol. Like they really want me if they're going in dry so to speak.

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By *ealitybitesMan
29 weeks ago

Belfast

I've never tasted alcohol in my life and while I don't have an issue with anyone having a drink I've no interest in meeting someone who needed alcohol to meet me.

That's before I even consider the issue of consent and impaired judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

No drinks, I prefer to enjoy the experience of meeting to the max.

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