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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see it every day on the forums with tales of woe and being messed about, well today was my day

Meet cancelled, so I thought ok fair enough, meet then wanted to talk to me on the phone so I said call me at 8.30, like a prat I try and call 3 timers to phone ringing out

I really feel like a prized fool now. To think I wasn't meeting but made an exception to this person. Never again

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

These things are sent to help us out the tossers....

did you have your chines for one?? x

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

I wouldn't dwell on it .. worse things happen at sea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"These things are sent to help us out the tossers....

did you have your chines for one?? x"

We've been speaking for ages, honestly thought he was sincere but having just spoken to someone else who was meeting this person and it turns out he did the same!

Lesson learned methinks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't dwell on it .. worse things happen at sea "

But I had my nails done lol

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By *obthebuilderMan
over a year ago

Trowbridge

the guy is an idiot!

message me...be in chudleigh soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well for a month uptill 2 weeks ago i had a "companion" to my social im holding, 2 weeks ago, i send a message to him saying is everything ok as not heard from him which was unusual....the message is still sitting in unread messages ...yet hes been online numerous times..gave up in the end, but no explanation to the sudden avoidance :/

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


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But I had my nails done lol "

you never said that .. who was it .. firing squad at dawn and I will personally seek the pesky devil out .. fooking nails done !!

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I think us women go to so much effort for a meet...can leave u really pissed off if its canceled

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well for a month uptill 2 weeks ago i had a "companion" to my social im holding, 2 weeks ago, i send a message to him saying is everything ok as not heard from him which was unusual....the message is still sitting in unread messages ...yet hes been online numerous times..gave up in the end, but no explanation to the sudden avoidance :/"

That's what I hate

It was so urgent he couldn't meet me but was only on here 60 mins ago arghhhhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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But I had my nails done lol

you never said that .. who was it .. firing squad at dawn and I will personally seek the pesky devil out .. fooking nails done !! "

PMSL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve all been messaeg about move on dont dwell on it xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't dwell on it .. worse things happen at sea "

My nan says that and I hate it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

christ i hadn't thought about doing my nails for a meet lol .... no wonder they dont come back pmsl ....or could be the fact my loft of tied up men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see it every day on the forums with tales of woe and being messed about, well today was my day

Meet cancelled, so I thought ok fair enough, meet then wanted to talk to me on the phone so I said call me at 8.30, like a prat I try and call 3 timers to phone ringing out

I really feel like a prized fool now. To think I wasn't meeting but made an exception to this person. Never again "

Having looked at your profile all I can say is defo his loss oh and what a tit he his x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here was asked if free was all set to set off then nessages stopped so asked if change of plan no reply so thats another one gone lol.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"I wouldn't dwell on it .. worse things happen at sea

My nan says that and I hate it! "

were a fishing family and we know the harsh reality of it .. but it was just meant as a daft banter like comment .. didn't mean to offend anyone by it and sorry if I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give up on here in last two months been let down 3 times with the messages stopping when arranged a meet.. One guy even drove past me apparently then messaged half hr later saying he had bottled it but not a newbie and then said he has a g/f !! Latest I had lots of phone chat with then when he kept texting and I said I can't chat I'm at work all went quiet. I messaged back that evening no reply so said sorry I'm not meeting you now as being ignored isn't a nice quality ... He eventually said we would clash as both Dom !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't dwell on it .. worse things happen at sea

My nan says that and I hate it!

were a fishing family and we know the harsh reality of it .. but it was just meant as a daft banter like comment .. didn't mean to offend anyone by it and sorry if I did "

You never offended me

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


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You never offended me "

phew !! and I hope your nails look great and seriously I am sorry that you got messed about .. it goes with the territory unfortunately but im sure they will be few and far between who do it to you .. chalk it up to experience

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By *scariMan
over a year ago

Taunton

So, a lesson perhaps! guy catches your eye and talks the talk," oooh, he's loverly" yurns out to be a timewaster and a player!

genuine guy sends a message and you delete and miss out on a great meet or a great friend or both!

The Fab life of a fickle woman huh?

cie la vie!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"So, a lesson perhaps! guy catches your eye and talks the talk," oooh, he's loverly" yurns out to be a timewaster and a player!

genuine guy sends a message and you delete and miss out on a great meet or a great friend or both!

The Fab life of a fickle woman huh?

cie la vie! "

or alternatively just exercising her choice to engage in conversation with guys who interest her .. same as everyone else does

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, a lesson perhaps! guy catches your eye and talks the talk," oooh, he's loverly" yurns out to be a timewaster and a player!

genuine guy sends a message and you delete and miss out on a great meet or a great friend or both!

The Fab life of a fickle woman huh?

cie la vie!

or alternatively just exercising her choice to engage in conversation with guys who interest her .. same as everyone else does "

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Women fall for the crap just as much as the men do.....

Never been let down myself, if I had I wouldnt be complaining about it in here....

It happens.......

Sharpen your nails and shout "NEXT"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys just talk shit.. Sadly!!

Just block and move on, thats exactly what i did.. Can't be arsed with idiots who talk the talk!!

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By *scariMan
over a year ago

Taunton


"So, a lesson perhaps! guy catches your eye and talks the talk," oooh, he's loverly" yurns out to be a timewaster and a player!

genuine guy sends a message and you delete and miss out on a great meet or a great friend or both!

The Fab life of a fickle woman huh?

cie la vie!

or alternatively just exercising her choice to engage in conversation with guys who interest her .. same as everyone else does "

I don't disagree! just saying, a lesson learned.

not everyone on here are as they seeem!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women fall for the crap just as much as the men do.....

Never been let down myself, if I had I wouldnt be complaining about it in here....

It happens.......

Sharpen your nails and shout "NEXT" "

Like your style

I wouldn't usual moan but tonight I felt like it on here

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

get it all off your chest zira .. we should rename this thread .. bitches with PMT and hit them pesky fellas with double barrelled shot guns .. yeh !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys just talk shit.. Sadly!!

Just block and move on, thats exactly what i did.. Can't be arsed with idiots who talk the talk!! "

Know exactly how u feel I've had 4 today blocked them all due to talking shit and being time wasters! Spent weeks sharing messages etc!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

It seems to be a "It'll never happen to me" thing. XD

We only meet people who have been verified through meeting. There have been a few people with multiple verifications who we've met for a social first, they've said they like the look of us and cant wait to meet. - Contact them on the day to see if they're still up for it, they say yes and then when it comes to meeting, no show, no contact, no excuses... And we've never heard from them again.

Some people will still insist that we must be doing something wrong / not doing enough to out the timewasters though!

Can't always be helped, I'm afraid.

- VincentandAmy. x

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