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"Personally many of the pics are way too gynecological for me. There's a lot of ranty capitals which would put me off. I like a positive profile that shows the people not the genitals. Although what I like and what others like will differ vastly. Mrs " thanks for input the reason we have them is we can’t do face pics etc due to nature of our jobs , but thanks anyway will try to find out how to resolve this .(S&C) | |||
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"Personally many of the pics are way too gynecological for me. There's a lot of ranty capitals which would put me off. I like a positive profile that shows the people not the genitals. Although what I like and what others like will differ vastly. Mrs " also can I ask why you view bold as rants? When I just put it there for emphasis not to seem like we are shouting is that the view it gives off | |||
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"Personally many of the pics are way too gynecological for me. There's a lot of ranty capitals which would put me off. I like a positive profile that shows the people not the genitals. Although what I like and what others like will differ vastly. Mrs also can I ask why you view bold as rants? When I just put it there for emphasis not to seem like we are shouting is that the view it gives off" Generally capitals are used to shout, so it comes off shouty & negative. Mrs | |||
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"Personally many of the pics are way too gynecological for me. There's a lot of ranty capitals which would put me off. I like a positive profile that shows the people not the genitals. Although what I like and what others like will differ vastly. Mrs also can I ask why you view bold as rants? When I just put it there for emphasis not to seem like we are shouting is that the view it gives off Generally capitals are used to shout, so it comes off shouty & negative. Mrs " thanks for input will try to figure out how to make those bit stand out but not seem shouty | |||
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" The pictures show way too much for me personally. I didn’t read your profile as have zero interest in reading a load of text that’s in capitals." thank you for the input | |||
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"Personally I think the pictures are too graphic/close up. Profile is too long for me to bother reading and like others have said capitals come off as shouting. But everyone sees things differently, so what may be an issue for us won't be for the next person. Miss S x" the reason o have done this as no matter what we do seems like profile is wrong if we shortn it we are asked for more about us if we take away pics or verifications we have been questioned as to even being legitimate | |||
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"Personally I think the pictures are too graphic/close up. Profile is too long for me to bother reading and like others have said capitals come off as shouting. But everyone sees things differently, so what may be an issue for us won't be for the next person. Miss S x" also explained we don’t have anything else to take pics of as we can’t do face pics etc etc and Il be honest I know less is more but I dno how to capture that . Thanks anyway | |||
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"From your statuses and profile it seems you might do better on another site that is more about the FETish life side of things. Also, you might not mean to be shouty but a wall of text, all in capitals, is really hard to read. It hurts the eyes and brain. J" we are already on fetlife too | |||
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"You're getting meets so it must be working for you "yeah it does work but as an adult you have to realise your failing in order to improve yourself and become in sense a smarter human than when you failed or was failing upwards | |||
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"From your statuses and profile it seems you might do better on another site that is more about the FETish life side of things. Also, you might not mean to be shouty but a wall of text, all in capitals, is really hard to read. It hurts the eyes and brain. J" ok better question would be how to break it up then and share same amount of info in a smaller space not to lose any of the info I wanna convey but making it more legible and helpful to the reader | |||
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"You're getting meets so it must be working for you "wait arnt yall all getting meets? | |||
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"Hey guys over the last few years,my girl and I have both went from singles profiles to couples . we both wonder what do you think of our profile now? Is it too much? Are there any mistakes? Would you say fix it, I did this I tried take everyone criticism on board and know we can only get better by accepting what we had wrong so please I would kindly take any criticism and ways to improve our profile (S&C)" Upper case text is internet speak for rant/shouty. Your profile is too loud. You're supposed to be in your pictures. The vast majority of Fab users can't show their faces, but still manage to show more than their genitals. A few easily fixed spelling mistakes. Upper case words mixed in with lower case sentences make it a hard read. But..... If you're happy with it and you're reaching your target audience, my observations aren't worth shit. 2 pence spent. | |||
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"Personally I think the pictures are too graphic/close up. Profile is too long for me to bother reading and like others have said capitals come off as shouting. But everyone sees things differently, so what may be an issue for us won't be for the next person. Miss S x also explained we don’t have anything else to take pics of as we can’t do face pics etc etc and Il be honest I know less is more but I dno how to capture that . Thanks anyway" You can take pictures that show other things than a face and still be classy. But each to their own, only offering my thoughts as you asked for opinions. | |||
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"Personally I think the pictures are too graphic/close up. Profile is too long for me to bother reading and like others have said capitals come off as shouting. But everyone sees things differently, so what may be an issue for us won't be for the next person. Miss S x the reason o have done this as no matter what we do seems like profile is wrong if we shortn it we are asked for more about us if we take away pics or verifications we have been questioned as to even being legitimate " There is a really really easy fix for this. Stop listening so much to all the feedback. Make a profile you like. If it works keep it if it doesn't tweak it slightly and maybe ask people you have actually met and liked what elements of your profile they did like. If you try to please everyone you will fail miserably | |||
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"Personally I think the pictures are too graphic/close up. Profile is too long for me to bother reading and like others have said capitals come off as shouting. But everyone sees things differently, so what may be an issue for us won't be for the next person. Miss S x the reason o have done this as no matter what we do seems like profile is wrong if we shortn it we are asked for more about us if we take away pics or verifications we have been questioned as to even being legitimate There is a really really easy fix for this. Stop listening so much to all the feedback. Make a profile you like. If it works keep it if it doesn't tweak it slightly and maybe ask people you have actually met and liked what elements of your profile they did like. If you try to please everyone you will fail miserably " thank you that’s what we are doing we like how our profile is we just wanna have understanding on how its viewd and how we can improve both outsells and it to seem just like nice people instead of the asumptions but maybe your right maybe I shouldn’t ask other for help or opinions and just live in a state of being regardless of what other think | |||
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"Personally I think the pictures are too graphic/close up. Profile is too long for me to bother reading and like others have said capitals come off as shouting. But everyone sees things differently, so what may be an issue for us won't be for the next person. Miss S x the reason o have done this as no matter what we do seems like profile is wrong if we shortn it we are asked for more about us if we take away pics or verifications we have been questioned as to even being legitimate There is a really really easy fix for this. Stop listening so much to all the feedback. Make a profile you like. If it works keep it if it doesn't tweak it slightly and maybe ask people you have actually met and liked what elements of your profile they did like. If you try to please everyone you will fail miserably thank you that’s what we are doing we like how our profile is we just wanna have understanding on how its viewd and how we can improve both outsells and it to seem just like nice people instead of the asumptions but maybe your right maybe I shouldn’t ask other for help or opinions and just live in a state of being regardless of what other think " I think ita OK to ask for feedback but if you try and react to every bit of contradictory advise you will be going in circles ad you describe above. I'd just suggest being more selective in who you ask | |||
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"Hey guys over the last few years,my girl and I have both went from singles profiles to couples . we both wonder what do you think of our profile now? Is it too much? Are there any mistakes? Would you say fix it, I did this I tried take everyone criticism on board and know we can only get better by accepting what we had wrong so please I would kindly take any criticism and ways to improve our profile (S&C) Upper case text is internet speak for rant/shouty. Your profile is too loud. You're supposed to be in your pictures. The vast majority of Fab users can't show their faces, but still manage to show more than their genitals. A few easily fixed spelling mistakes. Upper case words mixed in with lower case sentences make it a hard read. But..... If you're happy with it and you're reaching your target audience, my observations aren't worth shit. 2 pence spent. " true will need find the mistakes but thank you for your input and no as I stated above I understand the concept of less is more just dno how to apply it as I have in my mind zero or little to offer other than what I show, but thank you all for the input on where we have went astray | |||
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"Personally I think the pictures are too graphic/close up. Profile is too long for me to bother reading and like others have said capitals come off as shouting. But everyone sees things differently, so what may be an issue for us won't be for the next person. Miss S x also explained we don’t have anything else to take pics of as we can’t do face pics etc etc and Il be honest I know less is more but I dno how to capture that . Thanks anyway You can take pictures that show other things than a face and still be classy. But each to their own, only offering my thoughts as you asked for opinions." like what though? | |||
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"Personally I think the pictures are too graphic/close up. Profile is too long for me to bother reading and like others have said capitals come off as shouting. But everyone sees things differently, so what may be an issue for us won't be for the next person. Miss S x the reason o have done this as no matter what we do seems like profile is wrong if we shortn it we are asked for more about us if we take away pics or verifications we have been questioned as to even being legitimate There is a really really easy fix for this. Stop listening so much to all the feedback. Make a profile you like. If it works keep it if it doesn't tweak it slightly and maybe ask people you have actually met and liked what elements of your profile they did like. If you try to please everyone you will fail miserably thank you that’s what we are doing we like how our profile is we just wanna have understanding on how its viewd and how we can improve both outsells and it to seem just like nice people instead of the asumptions but maybe your right maybe I shouldn’t ask other for help or opinions and just live in a state of being regardless of what other think I think ita OK to ask for feedback but if you try and react to every bit of contradictory advise you will be going in circles ad you describe above. I'd just suggest being more selective in who you ask" yeah but then just mean JFS out here secretly judging on profiles when ats just not how I am nor how I expected the lgbtq+ community to be I thought was all about acceptance | |||
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"From your statuses and profile it seems you might do better on another site that is more about the FETish life side of things. Also, you might not mean to be shouty but a wall of text, all in capitals, is really hard to read. It hurts the eyes and brain. J ok better question would be how to break it up then and share same amount of info in a smaller space not to lose any of the info I wanna convey but making it more legible and helpful to the reader" Get rid of the reasons for not responding. All of them. You don't need to justify your reasons for an instant delete. The your text will look shorter, more readable and less negative. J | |||
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"From your statuses and profile it seems you might do better on another site that is more about the FETish life side of things. Also, you might not mean to be shouty but a wall of text, all in capitals, is really hard to read. It hurts the eyes and brain. J ok better question would be how to break it up then and share same amount of info in a smaller space not to lose any of the info I wanna convey but making it more legible and helpful to the reader Get rid of the reasons for not responding. All of them. You don't need to justify your reasons for an instant delete. The your text will look shorter, more readable and less negative. J" can’t do that 1 if we do then we just be rejecting people on wim without them understanding I get that we don’t need to just we feel it’s Curtis’s to treat humans like humans and not just ignore and block them rather have them see or understand why we didn’t speak but it’s way to one’s own . | |||
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"I didn't bother to scroll to see if you're interested in guys, just saw the caps and clicked back.. I'd say put things into paragraphs as info gets lost. Put some info about what Mr's likes and what Mr likes. Who/what you're looking for from people and meets, if you attend any clubs and what you're not into, maybe some outside interests if you want to share that kind of thing." we have done that one recently and the reason we consider it is getting too long lol. . Thanks for the input and help | |||
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"From your statuses and profile it seems you might do better on another site that is more about the FETish life side of things. Also, you might not mean to be shouty but a wall of text, all in capitals, is really hard to read. It hurts the eyes and brain. J ok better question would be how to break it up then and share same amount of info in a smaller space not to lose any of the info I wanna convey but making it more legible and helpful to the reader Get rid of the reasons for not responding. All of them. You don't need to justify your reasons for an instant delete. The your text will look shorter, more readable and less negative. J can’t do that 1 if we do then we just be rejecting people on wim without them understanding I get that we don’t need to just we feel it’s Curtis’s to treat humans like humans and not just ignore and block them rather have them see or understand why we didn’t speak but it’s way to one’s own ." Those people wouldn't bother to read your profile anyway. I personally find your profile negative and somewhat repetitive. A lot of people avoid others who do bareback for the safety reasons, so the line about cum running down her legs is probably not helping you get more meets either. K | |||
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"Also guys I just realise your right the posting of our meets being one paragraph then 10.point bullet point in capitals show like 1st half of profile just all block capitals it’s not suppose be like that sorry and thanks for the input " When there's lists and lists, or seems to be, it's a bit off putting as it doesn't seem a relaxed meet, more a tick box exercise.. Just look at a few profiles and see what layout appeals | |||
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"From your statuses and profile it seems you might do better on another site that is more about the FETish life side of things. Also, you might not mean to be shouty but a wall of text, all in capitals, is really hard to read. It hurts the eyes and brain. J ok better question would be how to break it up then and share same amount of info in a smaller space not to lose any of the info I wanna convey but making it more legible and helpful to the reader Get rid of the reasons for not responding. All of them. You don't need to justify your reasons for an instant delete. The your text will look shorter, more readable and less negative. J can’t do that 1 if we do then we just be rejecting people on wim without them understanding I get that we don’t need to just we feel it’s Curtis’s to treat humans like humans and not just ignore and block them rather have them see or understand why we didn’t speak but it’s way to one’s own . Those people wouldn't bother to read your profile anyway. I personally find your profile negative and somewhat repetitive. A lot of people avoid others who do bareback for the safety reasons, so the line about cum running down her legs is probably not helping you get more meets either. K" OK what parts are repeats? | |||
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"From your statuses and profile it seems you might do better on another site that is more about the FETish life side of things. Also, you might not mean to be shouty but a wall of text, all in capitals, is really hard to read. It hurts the eyes and brain. J ok better question would be how to break it up then and share same amount of info in a smaller space not to lose any of the info I wanna convey but making it more legible and helpful to the reader Get rid of the reasons for not responding. All of them. You don't need to justify your reasons for an instant delete. The your text will look shorter, more readable and less negative. J can’t do that 1 if we do then we just be rejecting people on wim without them understanding I get that we don’t need to just we feel it’s Curtis’s to treat humans like humans and not just ignore and block them rather have them see or understand why we didn’t speak but it’s way to one’s own . Those people wouldn't bother to read your profile anyway. I personally find your profile negative and somewhat repetitive. A lot of people avoid others who do bareback for the safety reasons, so the line about cum running down her legs is probably not helping you get more meets either. K" that's miss quote or you've miss interpretations of the quote those actions was before we was a couple as of now chloe is only doing safe sex with others . Sorry for confusion | |||
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"I would get rid of the 10 points, a lot of that can be rectified through using the block filters, ie. You can block newbies, unverified and those without profile pics. Some parts are a contradiction, I.e you don't want people who sleep around...it's a swinging site, that's the nature of business. I enjoyed reading how you describe each other, it shows you both have personality
"thank you and I've never said we don't like people who sleep around if whe have please show us so we can rectify this | |||
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"I would get rid of the 10 points, a lot of that can be rectified through using the block filters, ie. You can block newbies, unverified and those without profile pics. Some parts are a contradiction, I.e you don't want people who sleep around...it's a swinging site, that's the nature of business. I enjoyed reading how you describe each other, it shows you both have personality
"just saw it that's supposed symoblise that of yiu already sleeping and are in relationships with people we have blocked then we show zero interest to get know yall as we've had bad experience with other yiu consider friends etc that's all also isn't that allowed as a choice | |||
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"I would get rid of the 10 points, a lot of that can be rectified through using the block filters, ie. You can block newbies, unverified and those without profile pics. Some parts are a contradiction, I.e you don't want people who sleep around...it's a swinging site, that's the nature of business. I enjoyed reading how you describe each other, it shows you both have personality
"thank you for the personality bit we both wrote each others glad yiu like them or taken time to read them maybe I should have that at start of profile instead of rules | |||
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"As others have said, too many cum shots and close ups and the caps are very hard to read. " thanks for input will try to create a profile with these but in tasteful way so everyone can enjoy them | |||
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"As others have said, too many cum shots and close ups and the caps are very hard to read. " I meant to say also, the reasons for not replying, coming up front, come over very negative. There are lots of typos which combined with the caps, make it difficult to read. One thing you can’t do anything about but might be awkward for some, is C’s age. | |||
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"As others have said, too many cum shots and close ups and the caps are very hard to read. I meant to say also, the reasons for not replying, coming up front, come over very negative. There are lots of typos which combined with the caps, make it difficult to read. One thing you can’t do anything about but might be awkward for some, is C’s age. " OK can you show me some typos to fix and sorry can't do anything about chloes age | |||
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"As others have said, too many cum shots and close ups and the caps are very hard to read. I meant to say also, the reasons for not replying, coming up front, come over very negative. There are lots of typos which combined with the caps, make it difficult to read. One thing you can’t do anything about but might be awkward for some, is C’s age. OK can you show me some typos to fix and sorry can't do anything about chloes age " No, as I acknowledged. For you to take a bit of ownership, the best thing to do is for you to put it into Word and spellcheck. | |||
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"As others have said, too many cum shots and close ups and the caps are very hard to read. I meant to say also, the reasons for not replying, coming up front, come over very negative. There are lots of typos which combined with the caps, make it difficult to read. One thing you can’t do anything about but might be awkward for some, is C’s age. OK can you show me some typos to fix and sorry can't do anything about chloes age No, as I acknowledged. For you to take a bit of ownership, the best thing to do is for you to put it into Word and spellcheck. " thank you I've just done this a found a couple of mistakes | |||
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"Hey guys over the last few years,my girl and I have both went from singles profiles to couples . we both wonder what do you think of our profile now? Is it too much? Are there any mistakes? Would you say fix it, I did this I tried take everyone criticism on board and know we can only get better by accepting what we had wrong so please I would kindly take any criticism and ways to improve our profile (S&C) Upper case text is internet speak for rant/shouty. Your profile is too loud. You're supposed to be in your pictures. The vast majority of Fab users can't show their faces, but still manage to show more than their genitals. A few easily fixed spelling mistakes. Upper case words mixed in with lower case sentences make it a hard read. But..... If you're happy with it and you're reaching your target audience, my observations aren't worth shit. 2 pence spent. true will need find the mistakes but thank you for your input and no as I stated above I understand the concept of less is more just dno how to apply it as I have in my mind zero or little to offer other than what I show, but thank you all for the input on where we have went astray " You have a picture that doesn't show either of, that breaks site rules, if I were you I'd delete it. | |||
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