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By *hagTonight OP   Man
15 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I would say that it would be pleasure, moaning, spanking and good oral.

What is your view about it, do you agree or what else would you add to it?

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Lots of kissing, exploration and most importantly fun

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By *iker JackMan
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

A pulse 🤣🤣🤣

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By *ubikslongswordMan
15 weeks ago

East Grinstead

A partner, preferably breathing but some aren't too concerned if they're not 🤣

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By *imply DeeWoman
15 weeks ago

Wherever

The after glow.

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By *dam1971Man
15 weeks ago

Bedford

That when you think about it hours later, it makes you smile, or even gasp a little at what happened

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By *ellinever70Woman
15 weeks ago

Ayrshire

A realistic attitude and expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Good sex must have…..

Photos or it didn’t happen 😅

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By *idlandiaMan
15 weeks ago

Birmingham

A couple of orgasms apiece

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By *ilva69Man
15 weeks ago

stockport

Time for everybody and notifications switched off

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By *rHotNottsMan
15 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Kissing, communication, connection are all must haves.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
15 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

genitals

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
15 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Compatibility.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
15 weeks ago

Essex

Equal desire from both parties. Communication.

Matched needs.

Fun!

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
15 weeks ago

Essex


"Compatibility."

That’s the word I wanted!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago


"A partner, preferably breathing but some aren't too concerned if they're not 🤣"
like Jimmy Saville he wasn't fussed

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
15 weeks ago

Ends

Mutual pleasure. Kissing. Good communication.

I think that’s all I need for good sex.

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
15 weeks ago

Port Talbot

The desire to wank about it the following morning

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By *uttercupWoman
15 weeks ago

Borders

I like bad sex

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By *ucka39Man
15 weeks ago

Newcastle

Great body chemistry

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By *unthum62Man
15 weeks ago

Benidorm

Connection and mutual agreement.

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By *ozzybear1981Man
15 weeks ago

preston

Connection, trust, communication, honesty, that beautiful spark and countless orgasms

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By *ife NinjaMan
15 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Make you both happy

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By *oodmessMan
15 weeks ago

yumsville

Laughter, intimacy enough to forget and enjoy each other, rhythm, muscle aches, something out of the ordinary.

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By *eliWoman
15 weeks ago

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For me... I'll start with after it. Behaviour that doesn't make me regret it. If that happens? I struggle to see it as good, even if I once thought it incredible.

During? A myriad of things. The level of connection with another, how that plays out. Sexual and personality compatibility, when it doesn't need to be scripted, when laughter is free flowing as the sex and we can relax in each other's company. Reciprocated desire and a good feedback loop. Those kisses that switch from lust filled to soft and tender.

And really good sex is where I can forget about everything, lose track of time because I've lost myself in the other.

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By *ozzybear1981Man
15 weeks ago

preston


"For me... I'll start with after it. Behaviour that doesn't make me regret it. If that happens? I struggle to see it as good, even if I once thought it incredible.

During? A myriad of things. The level of connection with another, how that plays out. Sexual and personality compatibility, when it doesn't need to be scripted, when laughter is free flowing as the sex and we can relax in each other's company. Reciprocated desire and a good feedback loop. Those kisses that switch from lust filled to soft and tender.

And really good sex is where I can forget about everything, lose track of time because I've lost myself in the other. "

Oh Meli….

You’re descriptive nature has pretty much all men quite literally covering their crotches with those words you put down

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By *erfHerder74Man
15 weeks ago

Greenock

Kissing and communication

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Build up

Hunger

Thirst too

Desire

Moreish kissing

Communication including listening

Mutual exploration

Arousal

Tactility

Bodies that connect - some bodies just don’t fit together right despite attempts to try

The ability to relax and have fun

No expectations

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By *arkAndDeliciousMan
15 weeks ago

Reading


"I would say that it would be pleasure, moaning, spanking and good oral.

What is your view about it, do you agree or what else would you add to it? "

Great communication, high level of trust, no judgments, no shame, free expression within the bounds of everyone’s limits … with potential to push limits - but only with absolute consent.

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By *arkAndDeliciousMan
15 weeks ago

Reading


"For me... I'll start with after it. Behaviour that doesn't make me regret it. If that happens? I struggle to see it as good, even if I once thought it incredible.

During? A myriad of things. The level of connection with another, how that plays out. Sexual and personality compatibility, when it doesn't need to be scripted, when laughter is free flowing as the sex and we can relax in each other's company. Reciprocated desire and a good feedback loop. Those kisses that switch from lust filled to soft and tender.

And really good sex is where I can forget about everything, lose track of time because I've lost myself in the other. "

YES TO ALL OF THIS. Spontaneity, fun, laughs, raw passion, tenderness… and losing yourself in the other. Transcendence! Wonderful.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Kissing, foreplay, all parties getting enjoyment and cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

And laughter

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By *oo..Woman
15 weeks ago

Boo's World

Good communication

Connection

Kissing

Touching without the sexual side (to start with)

Passion

Intense moments

Exploring each other slowly

Tease/build up before it happens

Laughter

In no particular order

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
15 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"Lots of kissing, exploration and most importantly fun "
That is good

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By *lfa RomeoMan
15 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

A good cuddle and kisses and the end

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
15 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"The after glow."
Hi simply, yes, the after glow too

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By *andynecklaceWoman
15 weeks ago

West Brom

Talking and kissing mainly

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By *avexxMan
15 weeks ago

cheshire

chemistry,,connection.. defo kissing

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By *affron40Woman
15 weeks ago

manchester

Another person apparently…

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By *uilder.funMan
15 weeks ago

Bristol

Good communication and chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Mutual fun x

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By *londebiguyMan
15 weeks ago

Southport

Some connection.

Tactile and body contact.

Good kissing helps too.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
15 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Verifications.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
15 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Verifications."

I’m KIDDING. Not really.

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By *eakfitMan
15 weeks ago

Mayfield

Built up anticipation

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By *herry delightWoman
15 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Good sex must have been what most men like.

Great sex must have anal, spanking, fisting, toys and being used.

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By *inxy777Woman
15 weeks ago

essex


"Lots of kissing, exploration and most importantly fun "

This

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By *929Man
15 weeks ago

newcastle

Lots of kissing before and during

Prolonged oral both ways

Likes having her ass eaten

Spits in my mouth a few times while she’s on top in a passionate not degrading manner

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By *illy IdolMan
15 weeks ago

Midlands

Comfort around each other

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By *ickshawedCouple
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

A penis. Two are better.

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By *iddlesticksMan
15 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

Crisp butties on the buffet.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Anyone else read the title in the style of Yoda? No? Just me? 😅

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By *ookie46Woman
15 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"Anyone else read the title in the style of Yoda? No? Just me? 😅"

Me too young Jedi

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By *yorks4couplesMan
15 weeks ago

doncaster

Both as keen as each other. Not rushing a gooddthing

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

You're supposed to say 'love'.

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By *weet6Woman
15 weeks ago

East Riding

Moistness

Sxx

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By *itygamesMan
15 weeks ago

UK

On here a condom

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
15 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

[Removed by poster at 05/08/24 17:07:38]

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
15 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"A realistic attitude and expectations "
Yes, it have to have that too

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By *astpoetMan
15 weeks ago

where the world takes me

A brain! Seriously the brain is the sexiest organ we all have and if you don’t engage it then even the most traditionally aesthetically “sexy” person is a turn off

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By *ilthycouple24Couple
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

Lots of time good sex isn't in just 5min slam sessions

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By *eordieJeansCouple
15 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

3 people.

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By *hunky GentMan
15 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Another person in the room helps.

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By *hunky GentMan
15 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"3 people."

Greedy sod.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
15 weeks ago

Tamworth

Good chat. Good oral. Kissing.

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
15 weeks ago

District 13

Two or more people 😉

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By *eordieJeansCouple
15 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"3 people.

Greedy sod. "

That was supposed to say a minimum of 3 people.

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By *P994Man
15 weeks ago

Travelling

Great communication

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By *obby3264Man
15 weeks ago

Cambridge

Sharing laughs before as I think if you can laugh together there is a better connection.

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By *ornyperv100Man
15 weeks ago

Tunbridge wells

The biuld up/flirting always make the sex hotter

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By *hunky GentMan
15 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"3 people.

Greedy sod.

That was supposed to say a minimum of 3 people."

What's your limit?

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By *8on33Man
15 weeks ago

winfrith

kissing and great kissing.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
15 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"3 people.

Greedy sod.

That was supposed to say a minimum of 3 people.

What's your limit? "

I’ll let you know when we get there.

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By *orthern BeardMan
15 weeks ago

Lancashire

Kissing and vast amounts of it

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By *hunky GentMan
15 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"3 people.

Greedy sod.

That was supposed to say a minimum of 3 people.

What's your limit?

I’ll let you know when we get there."

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By *rispyDuckMan
15 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

“Primal lust” for ur sex partner 😈

U need to crave their touch,

Get the urge to rip their clothes off & pounce on them like a jaguar on an antelope 😂

They arouse a throbbing cock/ dripping wet pussy when they message or u see them!

Then u know it’s gonna be amazing fuckery in the sheets

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
15 weeks ago

Durham

Overall, a great sexual experience is one that is consensual, communicative, pleasurable, and emotionally fulfilling for all parties involved.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Central

It's varied but ideally a meet that's truly connected, a man who's fired up, whether he spanks me or not - if he does, it could move things up a notch. Intense lust works well. When I'm truly fucked well and have felt it. Where is he?

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By *injaprincessWoman
15 weeks ago

herehere


"“Primal lust” for ur sex partner 😈

U need to crave their touch,

Get the urge to rip their clothes off & pounce on them like a jaguar on an antelope 😂

They arouse a throbbing cock/ dripping wet pussy when they message or u see them!

Then u know it’s gonna be amazing fuckery in the sheets

"

So this ⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️

💜😈

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By *rispyDuckMan
15 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"“Primal lust” for ur sex partner 😈

U need to crave their touch,

Get the urge to rip their clothes off & pounce on them like a jaguar on an antelope 😂

They arouse a throbbing cock/ dripping wet pussy when they message or u see them!

Then u know it’s gonna be amazing fuckery in the sheets

So this ⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️

💜😈"

Girl you know it’s true 😈😉

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By *ell GwynnWoman
15 weeks ago

North Yorkshire


"“Primal lust” for ur sex partner 😈

U need to crave their touch,

Get the urge to rip their clothes off & pounce on them like a jaguar on an antelope 😂

They arouse a throbbing cock/ dripping wet pussy when they message or u see them!

Then u know it’s gonna be amazing fuckery in the sheets

"

This!

But I have to add post-sex cuddles and tenderness to make it truly amazing. Lying intertwined in a gloriously fuzzy afterglow.

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By *lakeyMan
15 weeks ago

Teesside

I find when it’s unexpected it’s always good.

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By *injaprincessWoman
15 weeks ago

herehere


"“Primal lust” for ur sex partner 😈

U need to crave their touch,

Get the urge to rip their clothes off & pounce on them like a jaguar on an antelope 😂

They arouse a throbbing cock/ dripping wet pussy when they message or u see them!

Then u know it’s gonna be amazing fuckery in the sheets

So this ⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️

💜😈

Girl you know it’s true 😈😉"

😈😈💜💜 all day and night long!!! 🫣😈💜

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By *jj2012Man
15 weeks ago

Barry


"I would say that it would be pleasure, moaning, spanking and good oral.

What is your view about it, do you agree or what else would you add to it? "

a good connection the rest comes naturally with it

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By *ddie1966Man
15 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Someone other than your right (or left) hand there.

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By *olfandtazCouple
15 weeks ago

Bristol

A lots of giggles before hand, good company leads to amazing sex

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By *yorks4couplesMan
4 weeks ago

doncaster

Being comfortable, similar interests. Moving on if something ain’t right before anything physical or thered no point unless someones insecure not good x

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By *ucka39Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

Equal amount of effort

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Very wet sheets xx

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By *yorks4couplesMan
4 weeks ago

doncaster


"Equal amount of effort "

Spot on especially joining couples

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By *essica FlabbitWoman
4 weeks ago

west midlands/shropshire

Lots of foreplay and being vocal for me please

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
4 weeks ago

South West London

The right connection and foreplay

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By *itygamesMan
4 weeks ago

UK

Eastenders on in the background

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By *ayjay1369Man
4 weeks ago

Preston

Already a fan of yours lol 😆 totally agree x

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By *orphia2003Woman
4 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Connection

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By *andadbodMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

Connection of the minds first and foremost

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By *cott14Man
4 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

Fun

( with a liberal dose of shenanigans)

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By *iandti2023Couple
4 weeks ago

Wokingham

An amazing connection, foreplay that isn’t rushed and being in the moment…being selfless

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By *sWyldWoman
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Chemistry!

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
4 weeks ago

Ends


"Mutual pleasure. Kissing. Good communication.

I think that’s all I need for good sex. "

And my face in her coochie

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By *insBadMan
4 weeks ago

& around


"I would say that it would be pleasure, moaning, spanking and good oral.

What is your view about it, do you agree or what else would you add to it? "

Stockings, preferably fishnet and heels

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By *enk15Man
4 weeks ago

Evesham

Passion, communication and chocolate.

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