FabSwingers.com forum: At what point does the police intervene?!

By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

So, my ex & I have been split for a bit now.

I’m happily single, she keeps belling my phone out CONSTANTLY! Turned up to my work, even to my house where my children live.

I’ve contacted the police, because my house is for my kids & myself and that’s our safe place.

Tonight I’ve had 64.. yes 64 NO CALLER ID missed calls.

Becoming a joke now, like the girl seriously needs to get some help (without being harsh) like she needs to realise, this sort of behaviour is vile & disgusting???? 😤🤯

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By *onkeynutWoman
24 weeks ago

somewhere

Have the police been in contact with you? Report every contact your ex makes and don’t engage at any point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"Have the police been in contact with you? Report every contact your ex makes and don’t engage at any point."

Hi Lucy, I’ve replied directly. Hope you don’t mind hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Have the police been in contact with you? Report every contact your ex makes and don’t engage at any point."

Agree

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By *onkeynutWoman
24 weeks ago

somewhere

"Have the police been in contact with you? Report every contact your ex makes and don’t engage at any point.

Hi Lucy, I’ve replied directly. Hope you don’t mind hun. "

I do actually, you post on the forum don’t dm a response that you could have just posted here. Otherwise it looks like you just made a thread as an excuse to message women.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I have had this is in the past, I ended up moving away and changing my phone number

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"Have the police been in contact with you? Report every contact your ex makes and don’t engage at any point.

Agree

Honestly mate, not once replied or contacted her back. Like I just said to Lucy, if the shoe was on the other foot. A woman would have every right; to feel intimated & scared. I’m just angry at this point, scared for my kids mate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"I have had this is in the past, I ended up moving away and changing my phone number"

Honestly mate, I’ve had the same phone number for nearly 8 years now. My children’s nursery, doctors, child minders, you name it. If I’ve got to change my number & that, I’ll be livid bud.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"Have the police been in contact with you? Report every contact your ex makes and don’t engage at any point.

Hi Lucy, I’ve replied directly. Hope you don’t mind hun.

I do actually, you post on the forum don’t dm a response that you could have just posted here. Otherwise it looks like you just made a thread as an excuse to message women."

Apologies Lucy.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Have the police been in contact with you? Report every contact your ex makes and don’t engage at any point.

Agree

Then report it now or ring the non emergency number now while it’s happening

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"Have the police been in contact with you? Report every contact your ex makes and don’t engage at any point.

Agree

Then report it now or ring the non emergency number now while it’s happening "

Gonna probs pop into the station, in the morning mate. Show them everything.. again. Just feel like when you speak to them on the phone, don’t bother unless you show up.

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By *arley QuimWoman
24 weeks ago

Somewhere

What did the police say OP? They're the ones you really need to speak to again. If you could have a word with your work manager too if applicable? Regarding if she tries to contact you there. Ask them not to give any information out, change your phone number, and contact police if she rocks up at your house again

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"I have had this is in the past, I ended up moving away and changing my phone number

Honestly mate, I’ve had the same phone number for nearly 8 years now. My children’s nursery, doctors, child minders, you name it. If I’ve got to change my number & that, I’ll be livid bud. "

I understand, luckily no kids involved on this side so it was easy for me to just move

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By *alleysBoiMan
24 weeks ago

Newbridge

"So, my ex & I have been split for a bit now.

I’m happily single, she keeps belling my phone out CONSTANTLY! Turned up to my work, even to my house where my children live.

I’ve contacted the police, because my house is for my kids & myself and that’s our safe place.

Tonight I’ve had 64.. yes 64 NO CALLER ID missed calls.

Becoming a joke now, like the girl seriously needs to get some help (without being harsh) like she needs to realise, this sort of behaviour is vile & disgusting???? 😤🤯"

Turn off no caller id calls

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"I have had this is in the past, I ended up moving away and changing my phone number

Honestly mate, I’ve had the same phone number for nearly 8 years now. My children’s nursery, doctors, child minders, you name it. If I’ve got to change my number & that, I’ll be livid bud.

I understand, luckily no kids involved on this side so it was easy for me to just move"

Sorry you had to go through that mate, hope you’ve come out better on the other side 🤝

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"So, my ex & I have been split for a bit now.

I’m happily single, she keeps belling my phone out CONSTANTLY! Turned up to my work, even to my house where my children live.

I’ve contacted the police, because my house is for my kids & myself and that’s our safe place.

Tonight I’ve had 64.. yes 64 NO CALLER ID missed calls.

Becoming a joke now, like the girl seriously needs to get some help (without being harsh) like she needs to realise, this sort of behaviour is vile & disgusting???? 😤🤯

Turn off no caller id calls "

GP / kids nursery etc tend to call on no caller id pal. Otherwise I would

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"What did the police say OP? They're the ones you really need to speak to again. If you could have a word with your work manager too if applicable? Regarding if she tries to contact you there. Ask them not to give any information out, change your phone number, and contact police if she rocks up at your house again "

I’ve spoken with the police, they asked initially at first do I want to press any charges or just want them to speak to her. I am “presuming” they’ve spoken to her.. or I’d like to think they have. That was 3 weeks ago, in the space of them 3 weeks, 100’s of voices mails, missed calls & not to mention emailing my work email. To the point, I’ve had to change my email at work. Think I’m just going to go into the station in the morning, after printing everything off & just show them.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"I have had this is in the past, I ended up moving away and changing my phone number

Honestly mate, I’ve had the same phone number for nearly 8 years now. My children’s nursery, doctors, child minders, you name it. If I’ve got to change my number & that, I’ll be livid bud. "

Changing the phone number is simple. Much easier than getting the police involved (which you've already done) and they would tell you to do the same if it's really harassing you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"I have had this is in the past, I ended up moving away and changing my phone number

Honestly mate, I’ve had the same phone number for nearly 8 years now. My children’s nursery, doctors, child minders, you name it. If I’ve got to change my number & that, I’ll be livid bud.

Changing the phone number is simple. Much easier than getting the police involved (which you've already done) and they would tell you to do the same if it's really harassing you."

It’s more the fact, the amount of people I’d have to contact. Not just family, friends, work, nursery, school, gp everything else.. Just shambolic people behave like this, I just wish she got the help she needs & when I say that, I mean it in a genuine way. Apart of Me, does feel sorry for her. But she needs to understand, that sort of behaviour isn’t acceptable or right.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"So, my ex & I have been split for a bit now.

I’m happily single, she keeps belling my phone out CONSTANTLY! Turned up to my work, even to my house where my children live.

I’ve contacted the police, because my house is for my kids & myself and that’s our safe place.

Tonight I’ve had 64.. yes 64 NO CALLER ID missed calls.

Becoming a joke now, like the girl seriously needs to get some help (without being harsh) like she needs to realise, this sort of behaviour is vile & disgusting???? 😤🤯

Turn off no caller id calls

GP / kids nursery etc tend to call on no caller id pal. Otherwise I would"

You're expecting them to call at these hours?

It's easy to stop receiving these calls between certain hours.

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By *till gameMan
24 weeks ago

Oldham

So do your kids live with you full time ?

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By *ffervescentMan
24 weeks ago

winfrith

"So, my ex & I have been split for a bit now.

I’m happily single, she keeps belling my phone out CONSTANTLY! Turned up to my work, even to my house where my children live.

I’ve contacted the police, because my house is for my kids & myself and that’s our safe place.

Tonight I’ve had 64.. yes 64 NO CALLER ID missed calls.

Becoming a joke now, like the girl seriously needs to get some help (without being harsh) like she needs to realise, this sort of behaviour is vile & disgusting???? 😤🤯

Turn off no caller id calls

GP / kids nursery etc tend to call on no caller id pal. Otherwise I would"
Its no big deal to change your number ,if its important that some still contact you advise them of new number .

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
24 weeks ago

Leeds

The police intervene when a crime gets committed, right now they couldn’t give a fuck if you get stabbed.

The mr

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By *aTina HeadTurnerWoman
24 weeks ago

Travelling

Is that your kids mom

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
24 weeks ago

Central

Pixel phones have call screening, so that the caller has to speak and identify themselves, which is recorded and changed to text, for you to see before deciding whether to answer the call or not. It may be on other phones now as an option.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
24 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Is she called Martha by any chance?

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By *avexxMan
24 weeks ago

cheshire

"Is she called Martha by any chance?"

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By *eedsmale36Man
24 weeks ago

Leeds

"Have the police been in contact with you? Report every contact your ex makes and don’t engage at any point.

Hi Lucy, I’ve replied directly. Hope you don’t mind hun. "

Stalker alert !!

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By *eedsmale36Man
24 weeks ago

Leeds

"Is she called Martha by any chance?"

Very good

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By *icecouple561Couple
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24 weeks ago

East Sussex

Can you block her number?

Obviously I have no idea of the circumstances, if she's your children's mother, how long you were in a relationship etc. Our son had a similar problem and was reluctant to involve the police but we encouraged him to. I'd encourage you to contact them again, this isn't acceptable

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
24 weeks ago

Hell

I had this when I left my ex husband.

I blocked his number but he could still call me no caller ID. So I changed my number. Then the emails started.

I won’t go into the rest, but I went through 18 months of hell to get that man convicted and the magistrates gave him a £120 fine and sent him on his merry way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"So do your kids live with you full time ?"

No mate, but that’s besides the point. Have them enough, to the point their safety is a priority.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

I’ve been up all night, just printing everything off. Legit have a file; of all the evidence now. But yeah, going to get myself to the station. Change my number, hopefully (🤞) that will be the end of it.

In regards of it’s the mother of my children, no it isn’t.

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By *agerMorganMan
24 weeks ago

Canvey Island

Record every time she rings, voicemails left, time she turned up to your work, home, place where the kids are etc.

The better the picture, the easier it’ll be for the police.

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By *till gameMan
24 weeks ago

Oldham

"So do your kids live with you full time ?

No mate, but that’s besides the point. Have them enough, to the point their safety is a priority. "

Is their safety in danger from your ex ?

If so , you need the police right away

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By *icecouple561Couple
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24 weeks ago

East Sussex

I hope the police take this seriously.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"Record every time she rings, voicemails left, time she turned up to your work, home, place where the kids are etc.

The better the picture, the easier it’ll be for the police. "

I have mate, I have a ring door bell. CCTV beside the house, all call logs, voice mail recordings. Like I said, I’ve for a hard copy & I’ve got a digital copy. So they can listen to the + 360 voicemails.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"So, my ex & I have been split for a bit now.

I’m happily single, she keeps belling my phone out CONSTANTLY! Turned up to my work, even to my house where my children live.

I’ve contacted the police, because my house is for my kids & myself and that’s our safe place.

Tonight I’ve had 64.. yes 64 NO CALLER ID missed calls.

Becoming a joke now, like the girl seriously needs to get some help (without being harsh) like she needs to realise, this sort of behaviour is vile & disgusting???? 😤🤯"

I had a crazy ex in hollinwood lol…same person? She “deleted” my number and blocked me lol yet somehow still one bells me. How???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

I’ve given them a call this morning, going in at midday. But just want to say thanks, for the genuine support from everyone. It is appreciated 👍🏻 🙏🏻

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"So, my ex & I have been split for a bit now.

I’m happily single, she keeps belling my phone out CONSTANTLY! Turned up to my work, even to my house where my children live.

I’ve contacted the police, because my house is for my kids & myself and that’s our safe place.

Tonight I’ve had 64.. yes 64 NO CALLER ID missed calls.

Becoming a joke now, like the girl seriously needs to get some help (without being harsh) like she needs to realise, this sort of behaviour is vile & disgusting???? 😤🤯

I had a crazy ex in hollinwood lol…same person? She “deleted” my number and blocked me lol yet somehow still one bells me. How???"

Oh dear mate, yeah my ex claimed she “deleted my number”. Then proceed to tell Me; on one voice mail she knows it off the top of her head. Which is great; because even I don’t know it off top my head 🤣

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By *hawn ScottMan
24 weeks ago

london Brixton

This is harassment and is most certainly now a police matter! Suggest you report ASAP if you haven't already.

If he has made any type of threat to cause you harm to you or take your kids away (don't know your arrangement regarding access etc but that's your business) but assuming you have custody then that takes things to a new level.

It's certainly grounds for a restraining order and if it is broken and threats of harm conti ue then it could be 6 months in prison.

Obviously txt messages are proof but although all phone conversations are stored for 3 months they require a high level access request and will only usually be granted if its a threat of terrorism.

Record any phone conversations and if he confronts you in person then record him. You don't need to make it obvious and video record him but the voice recorder with your phone in your pocket or open handbag is surprising sensitive

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
24 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Why won't you answer her calls ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
24 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"So, my ex & I have been split for a bit now.

I’m happily single, she keeps belling my phone out CONSTANTLY! Turned up to my work, even to my house where my children live.

I’ve contacted the police, because my house is for my kids & myself and that’s our safe place.

Tonight I’ve had 64.. yes 64 NO CALLER ID missed calls.

Becoming a joke now, like the girl seriously needs to get some help (without being harsh) like she needs to realise, this sort of behaviour is vile & disgusting???? 😤🤯"

OP really confused by your thread, since in an earlier thread you ran you said "after having someone break you, your heart, your spirit.. Everything you stood for" so clearly you had not wanted to lose her, you also said she had taken the children, and you had another thread on mediation, and you were going for that (so clearly wanting to get back with her), but after one session she was not prepared to meet again.

Are you stringing us along?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"So, my ex & I have been split for a bit now.

I’m happily single, she keeps belling my phone out CONSTANTLY! Turned up to my work, even to my house where my children live.

I’ve contacted the police, because my house is for my kids & myself and that’s our safe place.

Tonight I’ve had 64.. yes 64 NO CALLER ID missed calls.

Becoming a joke now, like the girl seriously needs to get some help (without being harsh) like she needs to realise, this sort of behaviour is vile & disgusting???? 😤🤯

Are you stringing us along?"

Mediation was in regards of my children’s mother, not my ex.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
24 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

I deleted my earlier post because I'd assumed she was the mother of your children and I'd assumed that you had your children full time.

The rest still stands though..

Have you told her not to call her?

Do you have something of hers she needs back?

Do you keep ignoring her calls to annoy her ?

Do you have an injunction against her already ?

Has she threatened either you or your children ?

Seems like a waste of police time to me if YOU haven't asked her to stop calling you. Or you haven't spoken to her to find out what she wants

Why does she keep calling ? Why won't you answer ?

Calling someone thousands of times a day is not illegal nor is mailing them or turning up at their place of work when they don't respond to calls

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"I deleted my earlier post because I'd assumed she was the mother of your children and I'd assumed that you had your children full time.

The rest still stands though..

Have you told her not to call her?

Do you have something of hers she needs back?

Do you keep ignoring her calls to annoy her ?

Do you have an injunction against her already ?

Has she threatened either you or your children ?

Seems like a waste of police time to me if YOU haven't asked her to stop calling you. Or you haven't spoken to her to find out what she wants

Why does she keep calling ? Why won't you answer ?

Calling someone thousands of times a day is not illegal nor is mailing them or turning up at their place of work when they don't respond to calls

She’s been informed it’s over, she has nothing at my house.

I’ve told her I don’t want any contact, she should respect my decision. To constant harassing, ringing, voicemails, emails & turning up with any consent is most definitely a police matter & stalking.

If the shoe was a on the other foot, a male doing this to a female. It would be uproar, police would more than likely intervene a lot quicker..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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24 weeks ago

East Sussex

^^ I don't know at what point the police can legally intervene.

I suspect on fab at least you would be getting a great deal more sympathy if you were a woman on the receiving end of this from a man.

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By *itygamesMan
24 weeks ago

i guess it comes under harrasment and stalking , both illegal.

why dont you block her number for starters..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"^^ I don't know at what point the police can legally intervene.

I suspect on fab at least you would be getting a great deal more sympathy if you were a woman on the receiving end of this from a man. "

The 100’s of missed calls, voice mails, turning up unannounced is class as a harassment. Already spoken to the police, they’ve already spoke to her.. Apparently. Been 3 weeks since then, still no changing and more times she’s tried to contact. So yeah, I’ll be going to the station & now pressing charges. Got enough evidence to get something put into place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"i guess it comes under harrasment and stalking , both illegal.

why dont you block her number for starters.."

The number is blocked, she’s ringing on unknown. Leaving voicemails, as stated already in the forum.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
24 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"I deleted my earlier post because I'd assumed she was the mother of your children and I'd assumed that you had your children full time.

The rest still stands though..

Have you told her not to call her?

Do you have something of hers she needs back?

Do you keep ignoring her calls to annoy her ?

Do you have an injunction against her already ?

Has she threatened either you or your children ?

Seems like a waste of police time to me if YOU haven't asked her to stop calling you. Or you haven't spoken to her to find out what she wants

Why does she keep calling ? Why won't you answer ?

Calling someone thousands of times a day is not illegal nor is mailing them or turning up at their place of work when they don't respond to calls

She’s been informed it’s over, she has nothing at my house.

If the shoe was a on the other foot, a male doing this to a female. It would be uproar, police would more than likely intervene a lot quicker.. "

Thanks for answering.

If you've told her you don't want contact then she should stop.

If the children are not hers and nor is the house. I'm curious as to why she doesn't stop but only SHE knows that.

The police treat complaints in exactly the same way and don't apply the gender bias you suggest.

It doesn't sit well with me that you've questioned her sanity twice in your threads... it's a ploy often used to discredit women ( and sometimes men ) when they are seeking fairness or justice or something they are owed.

I hope you get peace from it O.P.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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24 weeks ago

East Sussex

"^^ I don't know at what point the police can legally intervene.

I suspect on fab at least you would be getting a great deal more sympathy if you were a woman on the receiving end of this from a man.

The woman our son had a problem with caused criminal damage eventually and it was dealt with that way. He's moved.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
24 weeks ago

Hell

"If the shoe was a on the other foot, a male doing this to a female. It would be uproar, police would more than likely intervene a lot quicker.. "

As I said earlier, from personal experience that is not true.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
24 weeks ago

Reading

Im glad you have custody of the kids so she can't use them against you.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
24 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Log everything.

Use the non emergency police contact form and make sure you include evidence of what is happening.

My ex got to over 200 calls in one night. I had to record answering one to prove it was him because private number bull means the logs alone don't count.

Make it known that this is an ongoing issue. If you only report it when something big happens they'll take it as a one off otherwise and dismiss it.

If it gets to enough then you can file for a non mol3station order. Then a restraining order. It doesn't necessarily stop them, but at least means the police might pick them up when they do it again.

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By *riel13Woman
24 weeks ago

Northampton

"I deleted my earlier post because I'd assumed she was the mother of your children and I'd assumed that you had your children full time.

The rest still stands though..

Have you told her not to call her?

Do you have something of hers she needs back?

Do you keep ignoring her calls to annoy her ?

Do you have an injunction against her already ?

Has she threatened either you or your children ?

Seems like a waste of police time to me if YOU haven't asked her to stop calling you. Or you haven't spoken to her to find out what she wants

Why does she keep calling ? Why won't you answer ?

Calling someone thousands of times a day is not illegal nor is mailing them or turning up at their place of work when they don't respond to calls

She’s been informed it’s over, she has nothing at my house.

If the shoe was a on the other foot, a male doing this to a female. It would be uproar, police would more than likely intervene a lot quicker.. "

They don't

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By *abioMan
24 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Ask your telephone provider for an itemised bill of everything coming in and out of your phone … then take that to the police as proof if you need to……

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Do not private message a reply.

Is this the ex your having problems with?

Should I or shouldn’t I?

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By ChunkyDadBod OP Find posts by ChunkyDadBod Man

4 weeks ago

Failsworth

Me & my now (ex) partner broke up recently, we were together 4 years. The relationship was really great, intimate & very sexy! Relationship cut off due to both of us battling with our own inner demons, both came to an agreement to call it off on good terms.

She has suggested we have “ONE MORE NIGHT” together, of fun, intimacy & everything in between.

I feel slightly conflicted??? We both clearly got feelings for one another, but both far too stubborn to admit it.

Do I give her a good seeing too & a goodbye or is it a bad idea?

FYI I feel like I’m writing to Dear Deidre here

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

The police can take your devices to gain evidence, they would have suggested this in such a case especially where children are at risk.

You need to get an injunction end of.

Fab can't do anything other than pay you attention and give you feedback.

Get the police fully involved and get this stopped.

If you think keeping your number is less stressful then I do not believe you.

A few inconveniences over harassment that's endangering your children's safety and yours is no comparison!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Female online of the couple

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By *icecouple561Couple
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24 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Im glad you have custody of the kids so she can't use them against you. "

They aren't her children

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

OP, your threads are really confusing and contradictory. It starts sounding like you enjoy the attention.

Change your phone number.

It's simple and however many contacts you have it's not difficult to give them a text telling them of the new number.

I don't think you're getting /taking anything from this thread.

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By *ricktop321Man
24 weeks ago

wickford

Buy new phone leave old one on chuck it in draw

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By *ornucopiaMan
24 weeks ago

Bexley

No wonder the police are too busy for doing much else.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I’ve given them a call this morning, going in at midday. But just want to say thanks, for the genuine support from everyone. It is appreciated 👍🏻 🙏🏻"

How did your police visit go yesterday, were the police helpful in stopping this harassment?

We hope so for you and your endangered children

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"So, my ex & I have been split for a bit now.

I’m happily single, she keeps belling my phone out CONSTANTLY! Turned up to my work, even to my house where my children live.

I’ve contacted the police, because my house is for my kids & myself and that’s our safe place.

Tonight I’ve had 64.. yes 64 NO CALLER ID missed calls.

Becoming a joke now, like the girl seriously needs to get some help (without being harsh) like she needs to realise, this sort of behaviour is vile & disgusting???? 😤🤯"

I have just now copied and pasted his not wanted message. I had to take out the word for non mole...... order due to fab banning part of it. Seems he's gone shy on here

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Reply to forum post "At what point does the police intervene?!"

Will be pushing for a non mole order.

I’m taking a few days away, from everything. Been far too overwhelming.

Thank you.

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