FabSwingers.com forum: Open relationship

By *reealtcouple OP Couple
24 weeks ago

Stockton On Tees

We are interested in an open relationship , in particular me the female , was wondering if anyone does this on here ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
24 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"We are interested in an open relationship , in particular me the female , was wondering if anyone does this on here ?"

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You're wondering if anyone on a swingers site has an open relationship?

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By *hil most chillMan
24 weeks ago

South East & Europe

I think it would be a first for anyone on here

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By *bi HaiveMan
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24 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Yes. Plenty do. I have poly partner and we're ENM.

The key thing is that you BOTH need to be happy with it. If one of you is more keen than the other then avoid.

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By *illan-KillashMan
24 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"Yes. Plenty do. I have poly partner and we're ENM.

The key thing is that you BOTH need to be happy with it. If one of you is more keen than the other then avoid. "

Wise words.

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By *eliWoman
24 weeks ago

"Yes. Plenty do. I have poly partner and we're ENM.

The key thing is that you BOTH need to be happy with it. If one of you is more keen than the other then avoid. "

Yep. And also, make sure you have clear and open communication. If you're not telling the truth about meeting others, it's not ENM. But enjoy it OP! Hope it works for you.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
24 weeks ago

Newmill

I totally agree with Obi Haive on this one. If there's an imbalance in desire to be open, it *will* eventually bite you in the arse. You both have to be on board with it, or it probably won't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I was in one last time I was part of the lifestyle.

For me, it differs from swinging in that for us, we met non-swingers.

It worked well for us at the time but, like swinging, requires honesty and open communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Yes, us!

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By *xfordjohnMan
24 weeks ago

Oxford

Yes, I had an open relatioship with my first wife which would be called ENM now (that's how I started swinging), and again with my late third wife. I would have liked to have moved to poly which I think would suit me best but never found the right other person/s.

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By *ragonscoupleCouple
22 weeks ago

Dublin

Definitely we are in an open/poly relationship. Open communication is key, because it’s not open when one in the couple does it and the other doesn’t know

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By *hirley147TV/TS
22 weeks ago

Blackpool

I would love a poly relationship. Have a wife who saw other men, and possibly threesome.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
22 weeks ago

somewhere

We dabbled with this, first Rubik had another partner and worked well, I went on to find someone, however that's where the problems started, one thing I would say communication is absolutely everything, be very clear on everything, if something isn't sitting right with you, don't just let it slide, say something that kind of means what you want it to say but doesn't, you have to say exactly what you mean because sometimes, the person in the other relationship, may have blinkers on and not grasp everything going on around them. I speak from experience here x

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By *hirley147TV/TS
22 weeks ago

Blackpool

Another advantage of you all live in the same house is lower housing costs, convenience, lower food bills. Etc. Less sexual boredom and frustration. Should have put this to my ex wife.

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By *erfHerder74Man
22 weeks ago

Inverclyde

It’s up to you s as no your partner to discuss

Muse I’ve always been monogamous but I guess it would be ok if I met someone in an open relationship

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