FabSwingers.com forum: Is age important

By *oxychic OP Woman
30 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Just going on a recent chat , nothing pacific, but do men prefer the much younger woman , or does age not come into it ?

thoughts?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
30 weeks ago

Leeds

Some like younger

Some like older

Some like the same age.

Everyone's different

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
30 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Age matters to some and not others.

Equally big age gaps matter more to some than others.

Also....some will adjust age preferences based on individuals.

There's no one size fits all.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
30 weeks ago

Next Door

Age matters to me.

I don't want to play with or date someone near my kids age or someone a lot older than me.

When dating

We will have different needs. Older will be retiring and I will be still working and vice versa with younger.

Just wouldn't work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Just going on a recent chat , nothing pacific, but do men prefer the much younger woman , or does age not come into it ?

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Why are you excluding the Pacific? Is it a watersports thing?

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By *oxychic OP Woman
30 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

"Just going on a recent chat , nothing pacific, but do men prefer the much younger woman , or does age not come into it ?

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Why are you excluding the Pacific? Is it a watersports thing?

Haha of course x

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By *iker JackMan
30 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

There are some really mature 20s and immature 60s and everything in between

I like to meet people around my age or older

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have a hard lower limit. Otherwise no

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
30 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I tend to find I connect best with people a couple to about 10 years older than me.

But I don't particularly care about age. There are people well outside of that range either side that I adore.

I wouldn't say men are all about the younger women. I get plenty of attention from all age groups both here and out in public.

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By *ealitybitesMan
30 weeks ago

Belfast

It very much matters to me.

I have zero interest in any woman even close to my daughters ages which is why I adjust my lower filter every year so it is always 10 years above my eldest's age.

I'm not attracted to younger women regardless of how mature or hot they or others may claim they are).

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By *eordieJeansCouple
30 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If I like someone I like them. Their age is irrelevant but I will add that my wife is six years younger than me. I don’t think I’d have anything in common with most people younger than her.

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By *luecornCouple
30 weeks ago

North West

I think everyone has preferences. I couldn’t be with someone very young, that’s just not what myself or my husband are into. I’ll only play from late 30’s upwards. With that said whatever consenting adults choose to do is up to them.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
30 weeks ago

North Wessex Downs

Of course. But under what conditions and which circumstances?

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
30 weeks ago

North Wessex Downs

"Just going on a recent chat , nothing pacific, but do men prefer the much younger woman , or does age not come into it ?

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Durely it depends on so many other things?

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By *eliWoman
30 weeks ago

It does matter to some. For some you'll be too old, others too young and others the right age/they don't care.

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By *irkby coupleCouple
30 weeks ago

Kirkby

I like an older chick if I’m honest, where Mrs like meets around the same age.

Age isn’t really that important to me, it is for her. But then I don’t expect someone to lie about their age either. If you are 40, say you’re 40, don’t say 37.

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By *ife NinjaMan
30 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I prefer age appropriate. Too young don't work for me

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By *.hrisMan
30 weeks ago

Bath

If it were for a relationship, I'd look for someone around my own age. If it were just for a bit of fun, then I'd choose older, rather than younger.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
30 weeks ago

Wherever

I have age limits set up purely for message filters. In fairness, it doesn’t really matter much to me as soon as there’s mutual attraction.

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By *rHotNottsMan
30 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Generally prefer younger, quite a bit younger. Although I went significantly older recently and was pleasantly surprised

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By *egends 89Man
30 weeks ago

Waterlooville

It's down to the persons preference

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Just going on a recent chat , nothing pacific, but do men prefer the much younger woman , or does age not come into it ?

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Why are you excluding the Pacific? Is it a watersports thing?

Haha of course x"

For me age comes into it - so I set my criteria with age restrictions. I tend to think those putting 18-99 show no discernment (or maybe they just could not be arsed to changed the default position), suggestive that their thinking might be 'any hole's a goal'.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
30 weeks ago

Ends

I think 21+ is fine with me.

But I like confident women. Women that are confident being their age and don’t get worry about what other people think about people their age. And that goes for older, younger, people similar ages to me.

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By *ffervescentMan
30 weeks ago

winfrith

"Just going on a recent chat , nothing pacific, but do men prefer the much younger woman , or does age not come into it ?

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Its a sea of years .

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
30 weeks ago

Ends

As for men in general, to answer your OP in a different way, I think men like women of all ages. Both are seen as socially acceptable for men. Less stigma means less care

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By *hilloutMan
30 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've met women in their 20's through their 50's.

Attraction and personality is what matters most, not age😁

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
30 weeks ago

Rushden

Not at all as long as it's above 24

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By *ricktop321Man
30 weeks ago

wickford

If ya mentally connect,age no boundary really tbh most of us men but immature 🤣🤣🤣

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By *exySenseiCouple
30 weeks ago

"Just going on a recent chat , nothing pacific, but do men prefer the much younger woman , or does age not come into it ?

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Pacific (as in the ocean) is specific? These things matter.

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By *haiababeWoman
30 weeks ago

North devon

I know everyone is different. I personally have an approximate 10 up or down rule. As i basically, outside of role-playing scenarios (ie naughty school girl or seductive milf) i dont like the idea of being intimate with someone who is old enough to be my parent or i am old enough to be there's

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By *punk n gushCouple
30 weeks ago

deal

Tend to prefer people our own age or bit older but definitely not people as young as our kids or older enough yo be our parents

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By *1876Man
30 weeks ago

Dudley

I don't really have a preference...I've played with younger and older women.

It's more about the connection between two (or more) people

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

To me age is not important at all I am 23 and I have dated a guy in his late 60s for 4 years… best relationship I ever had

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By *ifestyle1Man
30 weeks ago

me171

"Just going on a recent chat , nothing pacific, but do men prefer the much younger woman , or does age not come into it ?

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Why are you excluding the Pacific? Is it a watersports thing?

Haha of course x"

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By *ifestyle1Man
30 weeks ago

me171

Agreed

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
30 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

There's no answer to this not specific question......

How much younger is much younger ?

How old is the man ? the younger person?

It's the age/maturity and outlook of each that matters not the age gap.

I'd need to know the age of each before even beginning to think of an answer

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By *ib.Man
30 weeks ago

Hampshire

"There's no answer to this not specific question......

How much younger is much younger ?

How old is the man ? the younger person?

It's the age/maturity and outlook of each that matters not the age gap.

I'd need to know the age of each before even beginning to think of an answer"

I'd deffo bang her ^

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I finally went younger.. I liked it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
30 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"There's no answer to this not specific question......

How much younger is much younger ?

How old is the man ? the younger person?

It's the age/maturity and outlook of each that matters not the age gap.

I'd need to know the age of each before even beginning to think of an answer

I'd deffo bang her ^"

He would

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By *luemoon12344Man
30 weeks ago

Bedfordshire

For me I think age goes against me , at 56 most people think I’m over the hill too old to keep it up or just not sexy enough… all wrong by the way ! Going the other way I find the more mature people / couples know what they want without any ties or hassle .

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
30 weeks ago

Maidstone

Eurgh. Just stop over analysing already. Confidence is sexy. Worrying about crap you can't do anything about isn't. Being direct and abrupt also isn't. I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I Don’t find younger women remotely attractive. Just my take on life.

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By *ubikslongswordMan
29 weeks ago

Rubiksville

Age is but a number as long as you're not early 20s then if you're attracted to someone what's the problem?

LB is 6 years older than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"I finally went younger.. I liked it

I did too and was certain I’d never do it.

Shocked and pleasantly so.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"I finally went younger.. I liked it

I did too and was certain I’d never do it.

Shocked and pleasantly so. "

Snap!! The energy in the room was electric 🔥🔥

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By *am_OconnellMan
29 weeks ago

south east

Is age important

Depends on the end goal. For something hyper casual, I’d say age has nigh on no importance

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"I finally went younger.. I liked it

I did too and was certain I’d never do it.

Shocked and pleasantly so.

Snap!! The energy in the room was electric 🔥🔥"

Literally! So hot the fire alarm starting blaring 🔥 🔥 🔥

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I find it’s the other at least for me I prefer an older woman

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
29 weeks ago

somewhere

I always have a perchant for the younger gentleman, 28 and over is perfectly acceptable, if I wasn't in retirement of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

"I finally went younger.. I liked it

I did too and was certain I’d never do it.

Shocked and pleasantly so.

Snap!! The energy in the room was electric 🔥🔥

Literally! So hot the fire alarm starting blaring 🔥 🔥 🔥

I'd throw water on you, but it will turn to steam 😈😈

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

There was a more mature chap who purported to be a swinger

Perhaps on Fab he should not linger

Probably time to leave this to those with abundant youth

As some see age as being old hat and even uncouth

And I should point out this morning I’ve been called an old minger

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By *oxy jWoman
29 weeks ago

somerset

on this scene a select or reject scene then everything is important that includes age ... we are all here for what we want not what we dont want

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By *avexxMan
29 weeks ago

cheshire

im over that hill but keep climbing back up again

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By *arkSovereignMan
29 weeks ago

Lancashire

It depends on what you are looking for. I tend to gravitate towards women that are older than myself as I have found them to be more mature and easier to talk to. But at the same time, there are many in their early and mid twenties that are very mature too. So I go mainly based on how the conversation flows and whether we get on, rather than solely based on age.

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By *oiluvfunMan
29 weeks ago

Penrith

I prefer my ladies genuine, and willing.

Other than that; we're all the same age lying down...

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By *gent CoulsonMan
29 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

At my age most are younger than me

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By *he KakapoMan
29 weeks ago

A nice rock

Generally being able to sting a few sentences together is the first priority, then having titties, then being attracted to their face.. so age no not so much.

However I find via other apps I have very very little on comman with most women under 30

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By *hong80321967Man
29 weeks ago

Wakefield

Doesn't matter to me as long as they are old enough legally, quite fancy playing with men, women, couples 70+

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
29 weeks ago

Maidstone

"Generally being able to sting a few sentences together is the first priority, then having titties, then being attracted to their face.. so age no not so much.

However I find via other apps I have very very little on comman with most women under 30"

I read that as tits attached to their face😂😂

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By *he KakapoMan
29 weeks ago

A nice rock

"Generally being able to sting a few sentences together is the first priority, then having titties, then being attracted to their face.. so age no not so much.

However I find via other apps I have very very little on comman with most women under 30

I read that as tits attached to their face😂😂"

If you find them please refer me

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By *mmaleiaWoman
29 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Blokes in their 40’s early 50’s does it for me

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By *aizyWoman
29 weeks ago

west midlands

"Generally being able to sting a few sentences together is the first priority, then having titties, then being attracted to their face.. so age no not so much.

However I find via other apps I have very very little on comman with most women under 30"

Wahey! I've got one out of 3, ain't bad!

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By *1876Man
29 weeks ago

Dudley

"Generally being able to sting a few sentences together is the first priority, then having titties, then being attracted to their face.. so age no not so much.

However I find via other apps I have very very little on comman with most women under 30

Wahey! I've got one out of 3, ain't bad!

Aww you have three for sure

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By *aizyWoman
29 weeks ago

west midlands

"Generally being able to sting a few sentences together is the first priority, then having titties, then being attracted to their face.. so age no not so much.

However I find via other apps I have very very little on comman with most women under 30

Wahey! I've got one out of 3, ain't bad!

Aww you have three for sure

Well, I can definitely string three sentences together!

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By *1876Man
29 weeks ago

Dudley

"Generally being able to sting a few sentences together is the first priority, then having titties, then being attracted to their face.. so age no not so much.

However I find via other apps I have very very little on comman with most women under 30

Wahey! I've got one out of 3, ain't bad!

Aww you have three for sure

Well, I can definitely string three sentences together!"

WOW that's two more than me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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29 weeks ago

East Sussex

Many men prefer younger women than me. I'm not sad, unhappy or regretful about it, it's human nature. If I was a man I'd go for younger women

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By *1876Man
29 weeks ago

Dudley

"Many men prefer younger women than me. I'm not sad, unhappy or regretful about it, it's human nature. If I was a man I'd go for younger women"

That's true, but people have different tastes, and some guys prefer an older lady.

For me personally, I don't have a preference either way. It's more about the attraction between two (or more) people is more important.

All I know is that I wish you weren't so far away

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By *ausage1970Man
29 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Older women for me I have on fwb who is 76 and extremely sexy

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By *1876Man
29 weeks ago

Dudley

"Older women for me I have on fwb who is 76 and extremely sexy

Does she come to the Moon or do you descend from the Lunar surface for meets? 🤔

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By *elboy1978Man
29 weeks ago

Jarrow

I don’t have a preference as long as it’s the legal age limit

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By *oss and slutCouple
29 weeks ago

Wigan

18+ age doesn't really matter if you like each other

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

All about the quality for me. Age doesn’t matter too much within reason

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