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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago

I've enjoyed the lifestyle with a partner previously and the conversation and subsequent journey was prompted by something on TV. Back then it didn't matter whether she wanted to try or not.

Now, I find myself single and whilst I'm not particularly looking for another LTR, these things creep up out of nowhere.

So how have others broached the subject during dating as if it's to progress, I'd want someone interested in exploring swinging.

Thoughts?

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By *eordieJeansCouple
26 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I just kept turning the pineapple in the fruit bowl upside down until she took the hint.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
26 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I'm pretty open amd up front about what I want from life from the start.

I don't think anyone who's got as far as a date hasn't known at least the majority of my lifestyle preferences.

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By *ellinever70Woman
26 weeks ago

Ayrshire

My thoughts are that if you've met someone in real life or on a regular dating site, be prepared for things to end if you bring up the subject of swinging

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
26 weeks ago

East Sussex

If god forbid I ever had to date again I'd have certain things that I brought up almost as soon as I thought it might progress beyond dinner, drinks and a good evening out and I'd encourage them to do the same.

I don't have time and certainly don't have the inclination to find six months down the line that he doesn't like holidays abroad, wouldn't like the idea of me talking to men on the internet and kept the thermostat at 15°c whatever the weather.

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By *naswingdressWoman
26 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I always confront controversial but non-negotiable topics early on. I'd rather burn bridges than waste time.

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By *oxychicWoman
26 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire


"My thoughts are that if you've met someone in real life or on a regular dating site, be prepared for things to end if you bring up the subject of swinging "
this is so true

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By *injaprincessWoman
26 weeks ago

herehere


"I always confront controversial but non-negotiable topics early on. I'd rather burn bridges than waste time."

Kinda this …. If I click and we are chatting it will always come up or maybe it’s me that brings it up …. But always state what I enjoy and don’t enjoy !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago


"If god forbid I ever had to date again I'd have certain things that I brought up almost as soon as I thought it might progress beyond dinner, drinks and a good evening out and I'd encourage them to do the same.

I don't have time and certainly don't have the inclination to find six months down the line that he doesn't like holidays abroad, wouldn't like the idea of me talking to men on the internet and kept the thermostat at 15°c whatever the weather. "

Too right... 15 is way too high...

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
26 weeks ago

Essex


"If god forbid I ever had to date again I'd have certain things that I brought up almost as soon as I thought it might progress beyond dinner, drinks and a good evening out and I'd encourage them to do the same.

I don't have time and certainly don't have the inclination to find six months down the line that he doesn't like holidays abroad, wouldn't like the idea of me talking to men on the internet and kept the thermostat at 15°c whatever the weather.

Too right... 15 is way too high..."

I set my boundaries out early

Don’t touch my ears

Don’t touch the thermostat

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By *bi HaiveMan
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26 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Date via Fab.

Cuts out the awkward subject of raising the idea of swinging for the first time with someone, given they're already here.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
26 weeks ago

Wherever

I don’t ever consider dating anyone. Problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago


"I don’t ever consider dating anyone. Problem solved."

Might actually be the solution.

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