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"Messages asking if I'd like to chat always seem pointless to me - message me with something that interests me enough to want to reply and keep the interesting conversation going. It always feels a bit like the chat will be a bit stilted and contrived. Second only to 'can I ask you a question?" How does it go? Would you like to chat? Sure. How are you? Fine, thanks. " I agree... even when I state how someone's profile has captured my interest, amazing pictures.. want to know more and would love to grab a coffee / social to chat about our interests / experiences... seems dull too. maybe I just cock everything up with the first message! | |||
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"...maybe it's not about the Profile text, nor the images we share on here.." It maybe that the location you are in..." • It's true: Mayfair seems to drive them wild. Especially those from Tamworth. | |||
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" maybe I just cock everything up with the first message!" With a dick pic ? | |||
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" maybe I just cock everything up with the first message! With a dick pic ? " Dick Pics are there to look at, but I don't send them, especially if people say "please don't send a dick pic etc." More in my friends gallery, so I can work out who to share what with. | |||
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"Profile advice threads have me torn. If the poster is genuinely interested then some generic info can be useful. If they try to recreate their profile based on what a handful of posters suggest then it probably won't appeal to the masses anyway. And nor should it. Every profile should reflect the owner, be about them rather than what they think others want to see/hear, and come from their own idea of what it should contain. It needs to represent them in their own words and portray their personality in the images used. Otherwise it just becomes one of many and a carbon copy of dozens of other profiles, which makes it harder to work out who you may/may not be interested in. " Exactly this ^^^ It's why I revise my profile.. not based on others and Carbon Copy them, but sometimes to reflect my mood, wants and needs. The "just Ask" used to actually get more messages than anything, but always something akin to "what are you looking for?" "whats your type?" etc. | |||
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