FabSwingers.com forum: Acceptable lines of questioning

moira

Hello everyone, what do you think is a question that can seem innocent but below it is a red flag when you think about it?

So many people looking for the same experiences so what lines just make you go for the block button …. Other than how are you etc…

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
24 weeks ago

Tamworth

I wouldn’t block over it but I’m not keen on asking how many meets I’ve had. And I have blocked someone who kept asking what I’d done on meets even after I said it wasn’t fair to the other person to be discussed.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
24 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Can I stick it in your bum dry.....

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By *asterMeliodasMan
24 weeks ago

Newmill

"I wouldn’t block over it but I’m not keen on asking how many meets I’ve had. And I have blocked someone who kept asking what I’d done on meets even after I said it wasn’t fair to the other person to be discussed. "

Yeah, those do for sure read as rather invasive.

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By *4bimMan
24 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

People who ask about my business.

What the hell does it matter, you here to fuck or fuck around.

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By *naswingdressWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Can I ask you a question? is often code for "I want to ask you something diabolical but I want to soften you up first"

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By *issmorganWoman
24 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Those who ask where abouts I am or work first message.

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By *issmorganWoman
24 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Also if I've said I'm not into a particular thing and they keep trying to come back to it, I block.

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By *naswingdressWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Those who ask where abouts I am or work first message. "

I used to get messages like "oh, Generic Female Name, what do you think our boss will think when I tell him you're such a filthy slut?"

I'm self employed so 🤷‍♀️ but I imagine that would be scary if it could be real

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
24 weeks ago

East Sussex

Anything starting 'does she?'

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By *eliWoman
24 weeks ago

"Anything starting 'does she?'"

Does she not like it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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24 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Anything starting 'does she?'

Does she not like it? "

She does not! 🙃

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By *issmorganWoman
24 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Those who ask where abouts I am or work first message.

I used to get messages like "oh, Generic Female Name, what do you think our boss will think when I tell him you're such a filthy slut?"

I'm self employed so 🤷‍♀️ but I imagine that would be scary if it could be real"

I had similar to this years ago from a bloke I turned down, he made new accounts and kept sending similar messages.

It's horrible.

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By *he KakapoMan
24 weeks ago

A nice rock

Asking me about my experience on here, not so much initially but after I've given a few vauge answers and given an indication that it's not something I talk about then it's a definite red flag

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By *ittlebirdWoman
24 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

When I was looking for just NSA I found incredibly personal questions about my life way way too much. I didn’t want to date the person just fuck. It also came across as the person was way too connected to me and wanted more than I was offering. It was an instant red flag and I backed off immediately. There is a fine line and that particular one crossed it

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
24 weeks ago

Wolvo

Any questions about work, specifics about where i live, nosy questions about my dating history. All feel a little invasive to me personally

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