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"It maybe I'm incredibly naive but I don't know the answer to this question. As you can probably tell I have not woken up from a dream orgasming. This morning for example, I was having a very nice dream, I could feel myself tingling, I was getting there, I was getting there, I was getting there......and then I woke up on my own really really unsatisfied! I wondered if my brain was stopping me, but I've never experienced one before. So my question is, is a wet dream for women a thing? If so is it lots of women who have them and do they have them often?" I can obviously only speak to what I've seen/read on the subject, lacking as I do the capacity for personal experience, but I did find this: In 1953, sex researcher Alfred Kinsey estimated that about 70% of women had had sexual dreams at some point in their lives. By age 45, 37% of the women in his study group had had a sexual dream that brought them to orgasm. The women who had nocturnal orgasms tended to have them about three or four times a year. | |||
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"It maybe I'm incredibly naive but I don't know the answer to this question. As you can probably tell I have not woken up from a dream orgasming. This morning for example, I was having a very nice dream, I could feel myself tingling, I was getting there, I was getting there, I was getting there......and then I woke up on my own really really unsatisfied! I wondered if my brain was stopping me, but I've never experienced one before. So my question is, is a wet dream for women a thing? If so is it lots of women who have them and do they have them often? I can obviously only speak to what I've seen/read on the subject, lacking as I do the capacity for personal experience, but I did find this: In 1953, sex researcher Alfred Kinsey estimated that about 70% of women had had sexual dreams at some point in their lives. By age 45, 37% of the women in his study group had had a sexual dream that brought them to orgasm. The women who had nocturnal orgasms tended to have them about three or four times a year." Thank you for that information  not quite at 45 yet, but even then just more than a third chance.....! So not fair!
It's just a subject that I haven't seen on here before, I woke up REALLY frustrated this morning and I thought that surely I couldn't be the only one? | |||
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"Thank you for that information not quite at 45 yet, but even then just more than a third chance.....! So not fair!
It's just a subject that I haven't seen on here before, I woke up REALLY frustrated this morning and I thought that surely I couldn't be the only one?"You're most welcome! Yeah, it's funny how many things we just never really talk about as a society, where you wonder if it's even a thing because you never hear any discussion about it. | |||
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"But is it piss?" :p :p :p It's the dreaming and waking up experiencing an orgasm and the wetness after :p not any squirting that I was wondering about! All the ladies who have, I salute you and wish to join your number soon! | |||
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"Yes - I’ve had a few xx " But then again too few to mention? | |||
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"Like you, I’ve never orgasmed from my dreams and wake very frustrated and extremely turned on. I find I have the best dreams if I nap during the day. " Dreams can cum true. | |||
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"I’ve orgasmed in my sleep from a hot dream. Not ever woken up wet though. Which is weird because usually when I orgasm I’m dripping wet for ages beforehand. I guess the mental aspect of the dream is so strong it happens quickly before that can happen Mrs. X " If you’re asleep how do you know you’ve had an orgasm? Have you any dreams you’d like to sell? | |||
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"I'm not sure I believe this happens to over a third of women..." They could be California dreaming? | |||
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"People might not believe me... But the best sex I ever had in my life was during a wet-dream when I was 18. I was having sex with a beautiful woman at a waterfall. She had a black bodysuit on and I pulled it to one side at the crotch and slid in her... I still remember her (sniff)." Was it a neoprene shorty ? | |||
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"I’ve orgasmed in my sleep from a hot dream. Not ever woken up wet though. Which is weird because usually when I orgasm I’m dripping wet for ages beforehand. I guess the mental aspect of the dream is so strong it happens quickly before that can happen Mrs. X If you’re asleep how do you know you’ve had an orgasm? Have you any dreams you’d like to sell?" The orgasm wakes me up and I remember the dream I was just having! I’ve had all sorts over the years. Best ones are with sex partners I have never ever met in real life before. I wonder where on earth that sexy person manifested from!!!!! | |||
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"I’ve orgasmed in my sleep from a hot dream. Not ever woken up wet though. Which is weird because usually when I orgasm I’m dripping wet for ages beforehand. I guess the mental aspect of the dream is so strong it happens quickly before that can happen Mrs. X " That is a point, I didn't even think about that. The speed of a dream can be so quick, so yes, I can imagine that you may not get time to get wet. | |||
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"I have very vivid dreams. I can wake up either of very frustrated or very satisfied when it wanders into that area 💜" I can have the vivid dreams, I get tingly almost there im on the precipice.....and the I wake up or the dream changes to something random and I wake up feeling very frustrated. I have the dreams, I get the feeling but my mind just seems to block itself from the big o. Weird how the mind works | |||
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"People might not believe me... But the best sex I ever had in my life was during a wet-dream when I was 18. I was having sex with a beautiful woman at a waterfall. She had a black bodysuit on and I pulled it to one side at the crotch and slid in her... I still remember her (sniff). Was it a neoprene shorty ?" I dont think so... i distinctly recall that the vag was easily accessible! | |||
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"Granted this was for women, but I have to add that I have not had a wet dream ever in my life, despite many erotic dreams, some lucid. Just to add context " Ohhhhh thank you for that. Another misconception wiped away. I thought men did when teens and it was just a biological function that happened on occasions as they grew up and was as necessary (Im not sure that's the right word) as going for a pee. | |||
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"Granted this was for women, but I have to add that I have not had a wet dream ever in my life, despite many erotic dreams, some lucid. Just to add context Ohhhhh thank you for that. Another misconception wiped away. I thought men did when teens and it was just a biological function that happened on occasions as they grew up and was as necessary (Im not sure that's the right word) as going for a pee." I have heard that if a man doesnt cum for a long time the body has to clear itself out and apparently wet dreams are one of the means to do so. I have no idea if that's true or not either. Could be some truth to it though. | |||
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"Granted this was for women, but I have to add that I have not had a wet dream ever in my life, despite many erotic dreams, some lucid. Just to add context Ohhhhh thank you for that. Another misconception wiped away. I thought men did when teens and it was just a biological function that happened on occasions as they grew up and was as necessary (Im not sure that's the right word) as going for a pee. I have heard that if a man doesnt cum for a long time the body has to clear itself out and apparently wet dreams are one of the means to do so. I have no idea if that's true or not either. Could be some truth to it though." This did make lol ! | |||
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"Granted this was for women, but I have to add that I have not had a wet dream ever in my life, despite many erotic dreams, some lucid. Just to add context Ohhhhh thank you for that. Another misconception wiped away. I thought men did when teens and it was just a biological function that happened on occasions as they grew up and was as necessary (Im not sure that's the right word) as going for a pee. I have heard that if a man doesnt cum for a long time the body has to clear itself out and apparently wet dreams are one of the means to do so. I have no idea if that's true or not either. Could be some truth to it though. This did make lol !" Whatever gets you giggling is fine by me | |||
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"Granted this was for women, but I have to add that I have not had a wet dream ever in my life, despite many erotic dreams, some lucid. Just to add context Ohhhhh thank you for that. Another misconception wiped away. I thought men did when teens and it was just a biological function that happened on occasions as they grew up and was as necessary (Im not sure that's the right word) as going for a pee. I have heard that if a man doesnt cum for a long time the body has to clear itself out and apparently wet dreams are one of the means to do so. I have no idea if that's true or not either. Could be some truth to it though. This did make lol !" Are you ridiculing here and through out this thread. You'll have to bare with me as I don't often pick up social intentions or can often misinterpret them. I asked this question as it's not often discussed on the forum and as this is a swinging site and people on here tend to have in general an open mind, they may humour me with my query as I honestly didn't know. Anyway, I hope you are having a good evening. | |||
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"Granted this was for women, but I have to add that I have not had a wet dream ever in my life, despite many erotic dreams, some lucid. Just to add context Ohhhhh thank you for that. Another misconception wiped away. I thought men did when teens and it was just a biological function that happened on occasions as they grew up and was as necessary (Im not sure that's the right word) as going for a pee. I have heard that if a man doesnt cum for a long time the body has to clear itself out and apparently wet dreams are one of the means to do so. I have no idea if that's true or not either. Could be some truth to it though. This did make lol ! Are you ridiculing here and through out this thread. You'll have to bare with me as I don't often pick up social intentions or can often misinterpret them. I asked this question as it's not often discussed on the forum and as this is a swinging site and people on here tend to have in general an open mind, they may humour me with my query as I honestly didn't know. Anyway, I hope you are having a good evening. " If you look at my responses you will find a common theme...... | |||
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"I often have erotic dreams and wake up very wet and horny but cannot say if I orgasm" Not often but I have had the odd wet dream or two lol | |||
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"Granted this was for women, but I have to add that I have not had a wet dream ever in my life, despite many erotic dreams, some lucid. Just to add context Ohhhhh thank you for that. Another misconception wiped away. I thought men did when teens and it was just a biological function that happened on occasions as they grew up and was as necessary (Im not sure that's the right word) as going for a pee. I have heard that if a man doesnt cum for a long time the body has to clear itself out and apparently wet dreams are one of the means to do so. I have no idea if that's true or not either. Could be some truth to it though. This did make lol ! Are you ridiculing here and through out this thread. You'll have to bare with me as I don't often pick up social intentions or can often misinterpret them. I asked this question as it's not often discussed on the forum and as this is a swinging site and people on here tend to have in general an open mind, they may humour me with my query as I honestly didn't know. Anyway, I hope you are having a good evening. If you look at my responses you will find a common theme...... " Songs! | |||
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"Granted this was for women, but I have to add that I have not had a wet dream ever in my life, despite many erotic dreams, some lucid. Just to add context Ohhhhh thank you for that. Another misconception wiped away. I thought men did when teens and it was just a biological function that happened on occasions as they grew up and was as necessary (Im not sure that's the right word) as going for a pee. I have heard that if a man doesnt cum for a long time the body has to clear itself out and apparently wet dreams are one of the means to do so. I have no idea if that's true or not either. Could be some truth to it though. This did make lol ! Are you ridiculing here and through out this thread. You'll have to bare with me as I don't often pick up social intentions or can often misinterpret them. I asked this question as it's not often discussed on the forum and as this is a swinging site and people on here tend to have in general an open mind, they may humour me with my query as I honestly didn't know. Anyway, I hope you are having a good evening. If you look at my responses you will find a common theme...... Songs! "Yesssssss | |||
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"I've never had a wet dream. I've woken up a few times after a more erotic one and felt that slight almost throbbing sensation and between my thighs has been slick like I was close to one. Then proceeded to erm.... make sure I have one. Or two. Or three. You get the idea. " Roger that. | |||
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"I've never had a wet dream. I've woken up a few times after a more erotic one and felt that slight almost throbbing sensation and between my thighs has been slick like I was close to one. Then proceeded to erm.... make sure I have one. Or two. Or three. You get the idea. " Yes! That is what I get and that is what I do. Buttttt, those first few seconds of 'i was soooo nearly there, why did I wake up?!' really annoying me. But I sort myself out and am pleased I had such good dreams. But initially, I'm so annoyed that my mind didn't let me finish. | |||
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"Ooh yes, a few. It doesn’t happen often but yes they’re wonderful or frustrating… depending on when you wake up " I ALWAYS wake up at the wrong time 
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"Yes it’s a thing. It happens quite often for me 👍🏻" I salute you, I'd ask for handy tips to get me over the precipice, but unfortunately it's impossible. However, the frustration can soon be resolved. | |||
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"I read online that women cant dream anyway "blowing a raspberry emoji to be inserted here! | |||
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"Sweet dreams are made this..........?" Who am I to disagree? But it's a no, I've never sleep orgasmed. I've had sexual dreams but nothing more than nice thoughts. | |||
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"Becoming aroused wet and reaching orgasm are two different things. This NEEDED saying " It’s three actually. | |||
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"Sweet dreams are made this..........? Who am I to disagree? But it's a no, I've never sleep orgasmed. I've had sexual dreams but nothing more than nice thoughts. " I think we’ve all been there. | |||
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"Becoming aroused wet and reaching orgasm are two different things. This NEEDED saying It’s three actually." What if aroused wet was put in as a phrase . eh ? eh ? what then Bait Oven ! | |||
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"Becoming aroused wet and reaching orgasm are two different things. This NEEDED saying It’s three actually. What if aroused wet was put in as a phrase . eh ? eh ? what then Bait Oven !" Nah it’s still three. Rock Manenough | |||
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