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Are gay men more promiscuous than straight?

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020 OP   Man
26 weeks ago

Stourbridge

Don’t shoot me, a gay friend of mine actually posed the question , his answer is an emphatic yes, although he really isn’t, I’ve known him since he was a lad involved with football, he came out at 16 and he’s had 3 partners in 12 years but his gay do have that in a week (his words! )

Discuss !

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By *entlemanFoxMan
26 weeks ago

North East / London

Not my thing, but I am sure the answer is: some are, some aren’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Always difficult to speak about whole groups of people without coming across as prejudice but certainly the image of gay men is that they are more so. Like with any group, there will be some that live up to that image and some that won’t

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By *rHotNottsMan
26 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I shared a house in my 20s in Auckland with some gay men & they would often tell stories like jogging by the canal bumping into guys and ending up fucking in the bushes. Also after a night out when everyone else went home at 2-3 in the morning they would go cruising around public toilets, so they had this real reputation of being super promiscuous compare to the straights in the house.

Looking back now I think they were just like any other guys in the 20s , horny as fuck ! but the ways of meeting and getting laid was different because of the stigma of being gay

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

At 50 I’m invisible to gay men. Probably have been since about 30. The gay scene despises anything not Uber masc (toxic masculinity was a product of the gay scene first). So there is a bell curve.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
26 weeks ago

Newmill

You have no idea how tempting it is to seize on the linguistic ambiguity of the question to answer "Yes, of course gay men are more promiscuous than they are straight; they're not straight at all." :P

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By *electableicecreamMan
26 weeks ago

The West

Can only speak to what I know firsthand. I have a few gay friends and they can basically get sex on tap. Just fire up Grindr and it's delivered to their door or head to a cruising spot.

My take on this is that horny gay guys who choose promiscuity have much easier access to other like minded men.

Horny hetero guys would absolutely be just as promiscuous if they could.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
26 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Don’t shoot me, a gay friend of mine actually posed the question , his answer is an emphatic yes, although he really isn’t, I’ve known him since he was a lad involved with football, he came out at 16 and he’s had 3 partners in 12 years but his gay do have that in a week (his words! )

Discuss ! "

Would you say they're more promiscuous than swingers OP?

I think personally the answer is that some people are more promiscuous than others.

I know plenty of monogamous gay couples. Some married, some not. I know some straight and bi couples that are monogamous too.

Equally I know plenty of straight people that would be classed as highly sexually active with frequent multiple partners.

I've always found it funny that sexually active people (of whatever gender and sexuality) are called promiscuous in the 'outside' world when in swinging they'd probably just be classed as 'active'.

Terminology and semantics I guess. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ash0000Man
26 weeks ago

Southwest

Of course, more choice.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020 OP   Man
26 weeks ago

Stourbridge


"Don’t shoot me, a gay friend of mine actually posed the question , his answer is an emphatic yes, although he really isn’t, I’ve known him since he was a lad involved with football, he came out at 16 and he’s had 3 partners in 12 years but his gay do have that in a week (his words! )

Discuss !

Would you say they're more promiscuous than swingers OP?

I think personally the answer is that some people are more promiscuous than others.

I know plenty of monogamous gay couples. Some married, some not. I know some straight and bi couples that are monogamous too.

Equally I know plenty of straight people that would be classed as highly sexually active with frequent multiple partners.

I've always found it funny that sexually active people (of whatever gender and sexuality) are called promiscuous in the 'outside' world when in swinging they'd probably just be classed as 'active'.

Terminology and semantics I guess. 🤷‍♂️"

It was a question posed by a gay friend and I thought I would throw it open to the masses of FAB

As you will see from my original post, my friend is a monogamous gay man, the reason I’m asking is to get opinions , I think the access to opportunity is the main reason that it appears to be the case, grinder having been mentioned earlier

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By *electableicecreamMan
26 weeks ago

The West


"

I've always found it funny that sexually active people (of whatever gender and sexuality) are called promiscuous in the 'outside' world when in swinging they'd probably just be classed as 'active'.

Terminology and semantics I guess. 🤷‍♂️"

Would you consider promiscuous a negative word?

I've always just considered it a descriptor in the context of sex and see no problem describing myself as promiscuous.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
26 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"

I've always found it funny that sexually active people (of whatever gender and sexuality) are called promiscuous in the 'outside' world when in swinging they'd probably just be classed as 'active'.

Terminology and semantics I guess. 🤷‍♂️

Would you consider promiscuous a negative word?

I've always just considered it a descriptor in the context of sex and see no problem describing myself as promiscuous. "

Me personally? Not at all.

But wider society does and has for years, perpetuated largely by the media.

And stereotypes about certain sectors of society.

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By *ark n kimCouple
26 weeks ago

Durham

Men are promiscuous so it makes it that much easier when it is a man looking for another man,as apposed to a man looking for a woman.

But saying that my best mate is gay and has been with his partner for over 20 years.neither straying from each other.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Central

I think it's fairly standard across sexuality, with context changing things

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By *as4121Man
26 weeks ago

dartford

Maybe more opportunity? But overall I suspect like all groups there will be a mix.

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By *ad NannaWoman
26 weeks ago

East London


"Men are promiscuous so it makes it that much easier when it is a man looking for another man,as apposed to a man looking for a woman.

But saying that my best mate is gay and has been with his partner for over 20 years.neither straying from each other."

My gay, married friends have been together for decades and they haven't had sex with each other for 15 years, nor anyone else.

As someone said, it's easier for men to find other men for sex, but that doesn't mean all gay men are promiscuous.

I've probably had more partners than my gay friends.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think we're looking at it the wrong way.

If some straight guys could get as much sex as some gay chaps, would some of them take just as much advantage of this?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
26 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I think we're looking at it the wrong way.

If some straight guys could get as much sex as some gay chaps, would some of them take just as much advantage of this? "

Some do......😂😂😂😂

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By *one_maverickMan
26 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford

I've just always seen them as women with a man's sex drive. Plus they have the availability to sex as a woman so that's why they're seen as more promiscuous

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By *4bimMan
26 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

who we picking on today?

just get on with your own business

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"who we picking on today?

just get on with your own business"

No one is picking on anyone.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020 OP   Man
26 weeks ago

Stourbridge


"who we picking on today?

just get on with your own business"

If you bothered to read then you will see no one is being picked on.

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
26 weeks ago

belfast


"Not my thing, but I am sure the answer is: some are, some aren’t. "

The answer to all these stupid questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Ye. Generaly men as a whole are very forward with sex. A lot more than women are (generally)

Gay gays are very very forward.

What does it mean? I dunno, but that’s how I see it.

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