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By *iker Jack OP   Man
17 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Would you turn someone down on the way they dressed?

No snobbery involved to designer labels but more if someone turned up in crocs or sandals or 3/4 length trousers on a man?

What’s the smallest thing you’ve ever turned someone down for?

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By *obilebottomMan
17 weeks ago

All over

Flip flops in January

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Yes.

His name as I couldn’t see myself saying it in the throes of passion.

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By *imply DeeWoman
17 weeks ago

Wherever

If I like their shoes, we’re fucking.

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By *a LunaWoman
17 weeks ago

South Wales

No. If they matched that persons vibe that’s cool. So long as clean and tidy.

Once past the social stage they won’t be wearing their clothes for long anyway.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Yes.

His name as I couldn’t see myself saying it in the throes of passion. "

It was a Keith wasn't it?

I just can't with that name.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
17 weeks ago

Essex

It’s more about lack of effort. Style is personal, but if someone clearly hasn’t tried then I find it quite rude.

Eg - gym gear, work gear (unless we’ve agreed it’s straight after something like that as a quick meet up because we happen to both be there..)

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Yes.

His name as I couldn’t see myself saying it in the throes of passion.

It was a Keith wasn't it?

I just can't with that name."

It was!

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By *mmaleiaWoman
17 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire


"Yes.

His name as I couldn’t see myself saying it in the throes of passion.

It was a Keith wasn't it?

I just can't with that name."

Neither can I, it’s my dads name

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
17 weeks ago

Essex


"Yes.

His name as I couldn’t see myself saying it in the throes of passion.

It was a Keith wasn't it?

I just can't with that name.

It was!

"

Are we supposed to ask for names?

🤣🤣🤣

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By *eroLondonMan
17 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Nø, because I expect that we would align perfectly on more important things like personality, their quirks and idiosyncrasies, stimulating conversations and so forth. What they wear or how they dress would be of much lower importance as long as they are presentable (fresh, clean, and not threadbare).

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By *iker Jack OP   Man
17 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"Yes.

His name as I couldn’t see myself saying it in the throes of passion.

It was a Keith wasn't it?

I just can't with that name.

It was!

"

What about if they brought Orville 🤣🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Yes.

His name as I couldn’t see myself saying it in the throes of passion.

It was a Keith wasn't it?

I just can't with that name.

It was!

Are we supposed to ask for names?

🤣🤣🤣"

You'd have to remove the duct tape from their mouths in that case!!!

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By *he love catsCouple
17 weeks ago

South Wales

No we wouldn't turn down people on the way they dress, we dress as we want and don't follow fashion we have our own taste in clothes that probably wouldn't appeal to most.

We would turn down people who we weren't compatible with though but nothing to do with their clothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Yes.

His name as I couldn’t see myself saying it in the throes of passion.

It was a Keith wasn't it?

I just can't with that name."

You probably did not like him shouting out "Wake up you beggars, it's Cheggers!”

(^ you are way too young to know what that is about!)

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
17 weeks ago

Essex


"Yes.

His name as I couldn’t see myself saying it in the throes of passion.

It was a Keith wasn't it?

I just can't with that name.

It was!

Are we supposed to ask for names?

🤣🤣🤣

You'd have to remove the duct tape from their mouths in that case!!! "

Fun sponge 🤣🤣🤣

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By *eliWoman
17 weeks ago

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I find crocs kind of sexy. Paired with scrubs they can skip the foreplay.

I turned someone down because of their voice before. It was too... irritating. Not sexy. Let's leave it at that.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

As to clothing, couldn't really care less. If someone shows up in a tailored suit or tracksuit makes no odds to me, as long as they're confident and comfortable in how they look and the hygiene is up to scratch.

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By *erfHerder74Man
17 weeks ago

Greenock

I’ll be undressing them anyway so it doesn’t matter

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

East Sussex

Yes I would turn someone down for the way they dressed and have done so. How you dress is how you represent yourself to the world. I'm fairly certain people have turned me down for the same reason.

I guess the smallest reason I've turned someone down is for a certain look in their eye. It's not small to me but might be to other people

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By *imi_RougeWoman
17 weeks ago

Portsmouth

The crocs might be a no... Not exactly sexy are they?

I've had people turn up for socials in scruffy shorts and t-shirts, which was disappointing when I've made an effort with a nice summery dress.

It's more about matching effort.

I've had similar as Meli... The voice has been off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Yes.

His name as I couldn’t see myself saying it in the throes of passion. "

Good job my name is

Farouk Meharder

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"As to clothing, couldn't really care less. If someone shows up in a tailored suit or tracksuit makes no odds to me, as long as they're confident and comfortable in how they look and the hygiene is up to scratch."

Absolutely this. But then, if someone were to show up in a suit I'd definitely be 😜😍

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By *d mirerMan
17 weeks ago

lost

A Bon Jovi tshirt could be potential knob flopper !

I did turn someone down due to her tattoos , not the fact of having tattoos , I like tattoos !

The subject matter was just beyond coping with .

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes, I probably would, more so because of lack of effort/dirty clothes than sense of style.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Would you turn someone down on the way they dressed?

"

Given some of the responses, it would be best not to meet me when I am walking the dog (trakkie bottoms, T-shirt, crocs) - though the dog is adorable and well presented so they might overlook my scruffy appearance.


"

What’s the smallest thing you’ve ever turned someone down for?"

She was missing her front teeth!

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By *hristopherd999Man
17 weeks ago

Brentwood


"If I like their shoes, we’re fucking. "

Just taking photos of my shoes

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By *herry delightWoman
17 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

It's what they wear in bed is more important.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Would you turn someone down on the way they dressed?

Given some of the responses, it would be best not to meet me when I am walking the dog (trakkie bottoms, T-shirt, crocs) - though the dog is adorable and well presented so they might overlook my scruffy appearance.

What’s the smallest thing you’ve ever turned someone down for?

She was missing her front teeth!"

That's not a small reason

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By *imply DeeWoman
17 weeks ago

Wherever


"If I like their shoes, we’re fucking.

Just taking photos of my shoes"

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By *imply DeeWoman
17 weeks ago

Wherever


"Would you turn someone down on the way they dressed?

Given some of the responses, it would be best not to meet me when I am walking the dog (trakkie bottoms, T-shirt, crocs) - though the dog is adorable and well presented so they might overlook my scruffy appearance.

What’s the smallest thing you’ve ever turned someone down for?

She was missing her front teeth!"

I met a few times for a dog walking social and it was delightful!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
17 weeks ago

Coventry

Mrs Misfit on our first social meet did not take to what I was wearing and nearly call it a day before it had even started. I was looking a bit of a nerd that day (but fashion has never been my thing). We were going our seperate ways after spending an awkward hour over a pot of terible tea (Mrs Misfit chose the tea rooms). Then just I kissed her. It was hot and passionate and a total suprise. That changed everything and turned into a really fun, sexy all day date for the next 6 hours (more sort of three dates in one). From a terrible start to getting most intimately acquainted in my car. I don't think we'd have ever stopped if I didn't have to get home to my kids. We finished the meet holding hands. And here we are together six years later.

So be careful what you discard based on your fashion tastes. At least before you've kissed (I find kissing is very telling).

Mr

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By *nnCeeWoman
17 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell


"What about if they brought Orville 🤣🤣🤣"

Then I'd purely converse with the lil green fella "I wish I could fly!!"

As others have said, if someone turned up dirty and scruffy, then it would likely be a no thanks, not again (although I did once meet a chap who'd just finished work, so I was aware he'd be in scruffs, although we've never met again, but that's another matter).

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By *iddlesticksMan
17 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Yes.

His name as I couldn’t see myself saying it in the throes of passion.

It was a Keith wasn't it?

I just can't with that name.

It was!

What about if they brought Orville 🤣🤣🤣"

I hate that duck 🐥🦧

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
17 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

If his clothes were unwashed yes.

If he lacks fashion sense no ......

I don't follow fashion .... thank God/Goodness/Fuck

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

East Sussex

We turned a man down because he arrived in his work clothes. It wasn't purely down to that it was the fact that taking a clean shirt to work would have aroused his wife's suspicions and he'd told his colleagues he was nipping out to the post office.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
17 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"We turned a man down because he arrived in his work clothes. It wasn't purely down to that it was the fact that taking a clean shirt to work would have aroused his wife's suspicions and he'd told his colleagues he was nipping out to the post office."

... I'll make you a badge. MrsN.C. Always Worth a Nip Out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

East Sussex


"We turned a man down because he arrived in his work clothes. It wasn't purely down to that it was the fact that taking a clean shirt to work would have aroused his wife's suspicions and he'd told his colleagues he was nipping out to the post office.

... I'll make you a badge. MrsN.C. Always Worth a Nip Out."

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