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"I thought this was going to be about me. "Ha ha | |||
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"My dear fellow the venerable women on here are borderline Walter Mitty fantasists, harbouring such traits that would leave Baron Munchausen in the shade. We men are but a speck of sand in their Gobi Desert of hot desire, they raise their standards but lower us to sub zero when it comes to affording any modicum of attention. Their souls are icy-cold and their hearts require defrosting. They breadcrumb us incessantly, ghost us, torment with uncanny skill and flair, shriek like the loudest Harpies when things don't go their way they lament about lost opportunities and broken hearts, which are of their making. Don't bother with these insouciant harlots. Let them whither until the ends of time." I only posted it because of guys that may be lacking in confidence, and when someone is rude for what appears to be no reason other than to get off on it, it could knock them further, fortunately it will never happen to me as I do keep a grip on the real world
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"My dear fellow the venerable women on here are borderline Walter Mitty fantasists, harbouring such traits that would leave Baron Munchausen in the shade. We men are but a speck of sand in their Gobi Desert of hot desire, they raise their standards but lower us to sub zero when it comes to affording any modicum of attention. Their souls are icy-cold and their hearts require defrosting. They breadcrumb us incessantly, ghost us, torment with uncanny skill and flair, shriek like the loudest Harpies when things don't go their way they lament about lost opportunities and broken hearts, which are of their making. Don't bother with these insouciant harlots. Let them whither until the ends of time. I only posted it because of guys that may be lacking in confidence, and when someone is rude for what appears to be no reason other than to get off on it, it could knock them further, fortunately it will never happen to me as I do keep a grip on the real world
I did enjoy reading your post though, very articulate and funny "Rudeness on here or anywhere is not kept to one gender or sex. The difference is that on here it’s mostly faceless and you can say what you want within reasons. Having been on and off here for years I have seen a wide scope of rudeness and white knighting and all sorts from all spectrums of the site | |||
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"Prima Donna’s is one of the best Kebab shops I know. The chilli sauce is on fire and the medium Donna is as big as most shops large. "Nice review. You should put that on Google 🤣 | |||
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"What have they done that’s not polite OP? " Because I misread her bio she was very rude and blocked me, I only knew this because I replied apologetically and thanked her for pointing it out, I know it’s not earth shattering, but still not necessary | |||
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"What have they done that’s not polite OP? Because I misread her bio she was very rude and blocked me, I only knew this because I replied apologetically and thanked her for pointing it out, I know it’s not earth shattering, but still not necessary " Ah well. These things happen. They have saved you making the same mistake again by blocking. Every cloud and that… | |||
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"I thought this was going to be about me. "I did wonder if this applied to all Donna's but it seems it's just Prima Donna's  | |||
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"The ability to say no thank you is for everyone and not just for the woman on here. The truth is that people constantly quote statistics but as someone who is not good looking, overweight, balding and grumpy I find that being respectful is without doubt the best quality on here and then people will engage nicely with you If these people you allude to are what it what seem you are implying not up to a supposed standard that you’d normally engage with off this site then why engage with them here? The beauty of the internet is you can just scroll on by " I’d like to state it has nothing to do with how they look, I’ve met lots of women in my life that to some would think are attractive but because of their personality I wouldn’t give them a second look | |||
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"What have they done that’s not polite OP? Because I misread her bio she was very rude and blocked me, I only knew this because I replied apologetically and thanked her for pointing it out, I know it’s not earth shattering, but still not necessary " So it’s just *one* woman? Thanks for tarring all of us desperate, ugly women with one brush. I will echo the sentiment though. If they’re not good enough for you to interact with off fab, why are you messaging on fab? Don’t drop your standards. | |||
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"Prima Donna’s is one of the best Kebab shops I know. The chilli sauce is on fire and the medium Donna is as big as most shops large. "How big is the large? | |||
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"What have they done that’s not polite OP? Because I misread her bio she was very rude and blocked me, I only knew this because I replied apologetically and thanked her for pointing it out, I know it’s not earth shattering, but still not necessary So it’s just *one* woman? Thanks for tarring all of us desperate, ugly women with one brush. I will echo the sentiment though. If they’re not good enough for you to interact with off fab, why are you messaging on fab? Don’t drop your standards. " | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude..." ...probably for the same reason some men seem to think they have the right to be rude | |||
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"What have they done that’s not polite OP? Because I misread her bio she was very rude and blocked me, I only knew this because I replied apologetically and thanked her for pointing it out, I know it’s not earth shattering, but still not necessary " Female half here ah don’t worry about it men are all the time blocking me
On a serious note maybe you’re only messaging a certain type of person. Cast your net wider, and I see you mentioned the site isn’t helping self confidence. It does that to us all I have been to parties or events where no one talks to me. It’s not just an issue for men it’s for everyone.
If the site is impacting you then take some time out and get and about socialising with people not a screen xxxx | |||
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"Prima Donna’s is one of the best Kebab shops I know. The chilli sauce is on fire and the medium Donna is as big as most shops large.
How big is the large?"Think ryan air carry on luggage big. | |||
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"Prima Donna’s is one of the best Kebab shops I know. The chilli sauce is on fire and the medium Donna is as big as most shops large. "How dare you hijack my post to further your comedic career Very funny though | |||
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"And it’s not just “some” women who wouldn’t get a second look off Fab. Some men wouldn’t either. It’s not just a woman thing. Fairs fair." Why wouldn't they get a second look off fab? Do you all just leave your standards at the log in page? | |||
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"Prima Donna’s is one of the best Kebab shops I know. The chilli sauce is on fire and the medium Donna is as big as most shops large.
How big is the large?
Think ryan air carry on luggage big. "🤯 | |||
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"What have they done that’s not polite OP? Because I misread her bio she was very rude and blocked me, I only knew this because I replied apologetically and thanked her for pointing it out, I know it’s not earth shattering, but still not necessary Female half here ah don’t worry about it men are all the time blocking me
On a serious note maybe you’re only messaging a certain type of person. Cast your net wider, and I see you mentioned the site isn’t helping self confidence. It does that to us all I have been to parties or events where no one talks to me. It’s not just an issue for men it’s for everyone.
If the site is impacting you then take some time out and get and about socialising with people not a screen xxxx"Tbh I’ve had far more success on dating sites than I have had on here as a single guy, I do spread the net far and wide, I just expect to be spoken to as I speak to them, honest but polite | |||
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"Prima Donna’s is one of the best Kebab shops I know. The chilli sauce is on fire and the medium Donna is as big as most shops large.
How dare you hijack my post to further your comedic career
Very funny though "Apologies couldn’t resist. Carry on. | |||
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"And it’s not just “some” women who wouldn’t get a second look off Fab. Some men wouldn’t either. It’s not just a woman thing. Fairs fair. Why wouldn't they get a second look off fab? Do you all just leave your standards at the log in page?" Yep! So long as they’ve got a pulse and a cock the rest is just window dressing   | |||
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"Prima Donna’s is one of the best Kebab shops I know. The chilli sauce is on fire and the medium Donna is as big as most shops large. "Will they accept my Donner card? Or is it cash only? | |||
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"And it’s not just “some” women who wouldn’t get a second look off Fab. Some men wouldn’t either. It’s not just a woman thing. Fairs fair. Why wouldn't they get a second look off fab? Do you all just leave your standards at the log in page? Yep! So long as they’ve got a pulse and a cock the rest is just window dressing "I’d like to state it has nothing to do with how they look, I’ve met lots of women in my life that to some would think are attractive but because of their personality I wouldn’t give them a second look | |||
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"Prima Donna’s is one of the best Kebab shops I know. The chilli sauce is on fire and the medium Donna is as big as most shops large. "Do you know if they do small? Sounds like their medium is more than enough for me. | |||
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"If I had a quid for every time someone is rude to me I could probably order something off the Prima Donna menu and still have enough left for a Fanta. " | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience "Yet you feel you have the right to be impolite about some women. I get it. People are rude on here, they lie, ghost people and some are actually abusive (report them if they are) but suggesting that some women wouldn't get a second look in 'the real world' is rude in itself. | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
Yet you feel you have the right to be impolite about some women.
I get it. People are rude on here, they lie, ghost people and some are actually abusive (report them if they are) but suggesting that some women wouldn't get a second look
in 'the real world' is rude in itself. "I’d like to state it has nothing to do with how they look, I’ve met lots of women in my life that to some would think are attractive but because of their personality I wouldn’t give them a second look | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
Yet you feel you have the right to be impolite about some women.
I get it. People are rude on here, they lie, ghost people and some are actually abusive (report them if they are) but suggesting that some women wouldn't get a second look
in 'the real world' is rude in itself.
I’d like to state it has nothing to do with how they look, I’ve met lots of women in my life that to some would think are attractive but because of their personality I wouldn’t give them a second look "Then it's lucky that these prima donnas reveal their personality to you early on. | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
Yet you feel you have the right to be impolite about some women.
I get it. People are rude on here, they lie, ghost people and some are actually abusive (report them if they are) but suggesting that some women wouldn't get a second look
in 'the real world' is rude in itself.
I’d like to state it has nothing to do with how they look, I’ve met lots of women in my life that to some would think are attractive but because of their personality I wouldn’t give them a second look
Then it's lucky that these prima donnas reveal their personality to you early on. "For me it is yes, but for some it could have a very negative impact | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
Yet you feel you have the right to be impolite about some women.
I get it. People are rude on here, they lie, ghost people and some are actually abusive (report them if they are) but suggesting that some women wouldn't get a second look
in 'the real world' is rude in itself.
I’d like to state it has nothing to do with how they look, I’ve met lots of women in my life that to some would think are attractive but because of their personality I wouldn’t give them a second look
Then it's lucky that these prima donnas reveal their personality to you early on.
For me it is yes, but for some it could have a very negative impact "In that they get frustrated and angry? | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
Yet you feel you have the right to be impolite about some women.
I get it. People are rude on here, they lie, ghost people and some are actually abusive (report them if they are) but suggesting that some women wouldn't get a second look
in 'the real world' is rude in itself.
I’d like to state it has nothing to do with how they look, I’ve met lots of women in my life that to some would think are attractive but because of their personality I wouldn’t give them a second look "So how is it any different to people irl? | |||
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"I think fab is quite often a humbling experience for men who are used to throwing their weight around and generally getting what they want. Put them somewhere where men have less power and some just really can’t cope. " Why does it have to be about power and who holds more or less I really don’t get this side of it, it’s not a negative comment at all, surely everything is about being equals | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
Yet you feel you have the right to be impolite about some women.
I get it. People are rude on here, they lie, ghost people and some are actually abusive (report them if they are) but suggesting that some women wouldn't get a second look
in 'the real world' is rude in itself.
I’d like to state it has nothing to do with how they look, I’ve met lots of women in my life that to some would think are attractive but because of their personality I wouldn’t give them a second look
Then it's lucky that these prima donnas reveal their personality to you early on.
For me it is yes, but for some it could have a very negative impact
In that they get frustrated and angry?"I know it does impact some men’s confidence, I consider myself fortunate that it will not impact mine | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
Yet you feel you have the right to be impolite about some women.
I get it. People are rude on here, they lie, ghost people and some are actually abusive (report them if they are) but suggesting that some women wouldn't get a second look
in 'the real world' is rude in itself.
I’d like to state it has nothing to do with how they look, I’ve met lots of women in my life that to some would think are attractive but because of their personality I wouldn’t give them a second look
Then it's lucky that these prima donnas reveal their personality to you early on.
For me it is yes, but for some it could have a very negative impact
In that they get frustrated and angry?
I know it does impact some men’s confidence, I consider myself fortunate that it will not impact mine "Yes fab does impact on men's confidence, you are indeed lucky it's not having a negative effect on yours I think it behoves us all to be a little more considerate of others feelings. | |||
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"I think fab is quite often a humbling experience for men who are used to throwing their weight around and generally getting what they want. Put them somewhere where men have less power and some just really can’t cope. " Not all men,i pm'd you yesterday, i didnt expect or receive a reply.... Am I upset or thinking less of you? (Clue: no). But your hypothesis makes a lot of sense and made me think | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
Yet you feel you have the right to be impolite about some women.
I get it. People are rude on here, they lie, ghost people and some are actually abusive (report them if they are) but suggesting that some women wouldn't get a second look
in 'the real world' is rude in itself.
I’d like to state it has nothing to do with how they look, I’ve met lots of women in my life that to some would think are attractive but because of their personality I wouldn’t give them a second look
Then it's lucky that these prima donnas reveal their personality to you early on.
For me it is yes, but for some it could have a very negative impact
In that they get frustrated and angry?
I know it does impact some men’s confidence, I consider myself fortunate that it will not impact mine
Yes fab does impact on men's confidence, you are indeed lucky it's not having a negative effect on yours
I think it behoves us all to be a little more considerate of others feelings. "Well said  | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
Yet you feel you have the right to be impolite about some women.
I get it. People are rude on here, they lie, ghost people and some are actually abusive (report them if they are) but suggesting that some women wouldn't get a second look
in 'the real world' is rude in itself.
I’d like to state it has nothing to do with how they look, I’ve met lots of women in my life that to some would think are attractive but because of their personality I wouldn’t give them a second look
Then it's lucky that these prima donnas reveal their personality to you early on.
For me it is yes, but for some it could have a very negative impact
In that they get frustrated and angry?
I know it does impact some men’s confidence, I consider myself fortunate that it will not impact mine
Yes fab does impact on men's confidence, you are indeed lucky it's not having a negative effect on yours
I think it behoves us all to be a little more considerate of others feelings.
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
Yet you feel you have the right to be impolite about some women.
I get it. People are rude on here, they lie, ghost people and some are actually abusive (report them if they are) but suggesting that some women wouldn't get a second look
in 'the real world' is rude in itself.
I’d like to state it has nothing to do with how they look, I’ve met lots of women in my life that to some would think are attractive but because of their personality I wouldn’t give them a second look
Then it's lucky that these prima donnas reveal their personality to you early on.
For me it is yes, but for some it could have a very negative impact
In that they get frustrated and angry?
I know it does impact some men’s confidence, I consider myself fortunate that it will not impact mine "Nice of you to create a post for those men OP. I'm sure they're very grateful. J | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
Yet you feel you have the right to be impolite about some women.
I get it. People are rude on here, they lie, ghost people and some are actually abusive (report them if they are) but suggesting that some women wouldn't get a second look
in 'the real world' is rude in itself.
I’d like to state it has nothing to do with how they look, I’ve met lots of women in my life that to some would think are attractive but because of their personality I wouldn’t give them a second look
Then it's lucky that these prima donnas reveal their personality to you early on.
For me it is yes, but for some it could have a very negative impact
In that they get frustrated and angry?
I know it does impact some men’s confidence, I consider myself fortunate that it will not impact mine
Nice of you to create a post for those men OP. I'm sure they're very grateful.
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"...many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look " So this is... what? A comment on looks, yes? Because you wouldn't know someone's personality with a first look and it make you think eurgh, fuck no, no second look for you. But you would notice their appearance. "it takes nothing to be polite " You're absolutely right OP. It really doesn't but it's something people can lack at certain times. Oft out of frustration and then transferring that to everyone else. "when the same politeness is Bering offered to you." Ah yes. It's great when it's offered to you. People shouldn't be dicks. Regardless of gender. Of appearance. "I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience "Keep a grip on reality is such a polite and truly lovely sentiment. I think I'm going to start saying that to my friends when they're a bit low - fills a person with warm, fuzzy feelings. One person is a bit of a throbber to you OP? It's rubbish. Really, it is. To then go on and make some fallacy laden statement about women, their delusional state compared to the real world is... well, it's not polite. It's good you were able to get some frustration out though. Think I'll go and use my wand in a bit, tad more effective and less tiresome generalisations. | |||
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"...many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look So this is... what? A comment on looks, yes? Because you wouldn't know someone's personality with a first look and it make you think eurgh, fuck no, no second look for you. But you would notice their appearance. it takes nothing to be polite You're absolutely right OP. It really doesn't but it's something people can lack at certain times. Oft out of frustration and then transferring that to everyone else. when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. Ah yes. It's great when it's offered to you. People shouldn't be dicks. Regardless of gender. Of appearance. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
Keep a grip on reality is such a polite and truly lovely sentiment. I think I'm going to start saying that to my friends when they're a bit low - fills a person with warm, fuzzy feelings.
One person is a bit of a throbber to you OP? It's rubbish. Really, it is. To then go on and make some fallacy laden statement about women, their delusional state compared to the real world is... well, it's not polite.
It's good you were able to get some frustration out though. Think I'll go and use my wand in a bit, tad more effective and less tiresome generalisations."A look is a generic term, it’s not necessarily visual, I judge people by what they say and how they say it. But thank you for your contribution I feel enlightened | |||
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"To be fair though op, do you know how many people can't be bothered to read a profile or read the bits they like only?. So some do get frustrated after numerous messages that day that have shown they've not read their bio properly. If someone's rude, just block them, but make sure you do read a profile before you send other people messages. There's no need to use the good old insult that they wouldn't get looked twice at in real life. If that's the case, it makes me wonder what the motive for messaging them is. " So nice to read a polite alternative view, and I thank you, but I’d much rather they just delete the message rather than take the time to reply rudely | |||
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"...many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look So this is... what? A comment on looks, yes? Because you wouldn't know someone's personality with a first look and it make you think eurgh, fuck no, no second look for you. But you would notice their appearance. " This is the bit I don't understand about the OP's later assertion that he's not talking about looks. How would you know someone's personality irl at first look and therefore deem them worthy of a second look? 
I'd suggest OP if you can tell someone is a cunt irl just by looking at them, then apply that same skill here. That way you'll avoid messaging people to whom you wouldn't give a second glance to irl, right?
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"I think fab is quite often a humbling experience for men who are used to throwing their weight around and generally getting what they want. Put them somewhere where men have less power and some just really can’t cope. Not all men,i pm'd you yesterday, i didnt expect or receive a reply.... Am I upset or thinking less of you? (Clue: no). But your hypothesis makes a lot of sense and made me think" I’ve got to be honest, I don’t check my messages all that often. It’s more to do with how I spend my time on fab and less to do with being a prima Donna | |||
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"It's like you started this and it didn't go the way you expected. 🤔 So now you are back-pedalling on what you mean by 'look' and also made it on behalf on all the other guys. Not you though, you're immune to those prima donnas and their confidence knocking ways. J" This is about politeness, nothing more, but I’m sure you’ll have a different view and of that I have no problem at all | |||
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"I think fab is quite often a humbling experience for men who are used to throwing their weight around and generally getting what they want. Put them somewhere where men have less power and some just really can’t cope. Why does it have to be about power and who holds more or less I really don’t get this side of it, it’s not a negative comment at all, surely everything is about being equals " All about being equals, just like it is in the real world | |||
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"...many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look So this is... what? A comment on looks, yes? Because you wouldn't know someone's personality with a first look and it make you think eurgh, fuck no, no second look for you. But you would notice their appearance. This is the bit I don't understand about the OP's later assertion that he's not talking about looks. How would you know someone's personality irl at first look and therefore deem them worthy of a second look?
I'd suggest OP if you can tell someone is a cunt irl just by looking at them, then apply that same skill here. That way you'll avoid messaging people to whom you wouldn't give a second glance to irl, right?
And perhaps treating this as a "fuck site" might have an impact on a person's response to an approach."A look is a generic term, it’s not necessarily visual, I judge people by what they say and how they say it. | |||
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"...many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look So this is... what? A comment on looks, yes? Because you wouldn't know someone's personality with a first look and it make you think eurgh, fuck no, no second look for you. But you would notice their appearance. This is the bit I don't understand about the OP's later assertion that he's not talking about looks. How would you know someone's personality irl at first look and therefore deem them worthy of a second look?
I'd suggest OP if you can tell someone is a cunt irl just by looking at them, then apply that same skill here. That way you'll avoid messaging people to whom you wouldn't give a second glance to irl, right?
And perhaps treating this as a "fuck site" might have an impact on a person's response to an approach.
A look is a generic term, it’s not necessarily visual, I judge people by what they say and how they say it.
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience "I’d like to congratulate you on your decision not to have sex again. | |||
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"And perhaps treating this as a "fuck site" might have an impact on a person's response to an approach." My comment was going to be exactly the same... For the men who attempt to use this site to 'get a leg over' approaching those of us who actually swing, IMHO I feel that you're going to get shot down quite a lot. I'm sure there are plenty of people on here for a quick fumble, but the whole idea of this site was not that. | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience "So all unsolicited messages should constantly be met with politeness? Better get into your email spam box and start replying to all those unsolicited emails you've been receiving then, and don't forget to be nice and keep replying when they do. Also, all that spam mail through your letterbox, better get writing back  | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
So all unsolicited messages should constantly be met with politeness?
Better get into your email spam box and start replying to all those unsolicited emails you've been receiving then, and don't forget to be nice and keep replying when they do. Also, all that spam mail through your letterbox, better get writing back "Wait... People don't reply to those? | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
So all unsolicited messages should constantly be met with politeness?
Better get into your email spam box and start replying to all those unsolicited emails you've been receiving then, and don't forget to be nice and keep replying when they do. Also, all that spam mail through your letterbox, better get writing back "Perfect, call a moderator this thread can be closed now! Very well said | |||
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"If these people you allude to are what it what seem you are implying not up to a supposed standard that you’d normally engage with off this site then why engage with them here? " This | |||
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"...many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look So this is... what? A comment on looks, yes? Because you wouldn't know someone's personality with a first look and it make you think eurgh, fuck no, no second look for you. But you would notice their appearance. This is the bit I don't understand about the OP's later assertion that he's not talking about looks. How would you know someone's personality irl at first look and therefore deem them worthy of a second look?
I'd suggest OP if you can tell someone is a cunt irl just by looking at them, then apply that same skill here. That way you'll avoid messaging people to whom you wouldn't give a second glance to irl, right?
And perhaps treating this as a "fuck site" might have an impact on a person's response to an approach.
A look is a generic term, it’s not necessarily visual, I judge people by what they say and how they say it.
I think you'll find that's what people are doing in this thread. "Ok with me | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
So all unsolicited messages should constantly be met with politeness?
Better get into your email spam box and start replying to all those unsolicited emails you've been receiving then, and don't forget to be nice and keep replying when they do. Also, all that spam mail through your letterbox, better get writing back "Unsolicited, makes me wonder how I was able to message in the first place | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
So all unsolicited messages should constantly be met with politeness?
Better get into your email spam box and start replying to all those unsolicited emails you've been receiving then, and don't forget to be nice and keep replying when they do. Also, all that spam mail through your letterbox, better get writing back
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People don't reply to those?"Too late | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
So all unsolicited messages should constantly be met with politeness?
Better get into your email spam box and start replying to all those unsolicited emails you've been receiving then, and don't forget to be nice and keep replying when they do. Also, all that spam mail through your letterbox, better get writing back
Unsolicited, makes me wonder how I was able to message in the first place "You're out of our filtered age range thankfully, but Just because someone is on here you think you have an automatic right to get in their pants then? | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
So all unsolicited messages should constantly be met with politeness?
Better get into your email spam box and start replying to all those unsolicited emails you've been receiving then, and don't forget to be nice and keep replying when they do. Also, all that spam mail through your letterbox, better get writing back
Unsolicited, makes me wonder how I was able to message in the first place
You're out of our filtered age range thankfully, but Just because someone is on here you think you have an automatic right to get in their pants then? "Oops I do apologise if that’s what I’ve said, I must get my eyes tested or perhaps a new thumb | |||
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"I can’t understand why some women on here seem to think they have the right to be rude, I think it’s because this is a fuck site and they’re suddenly getting lots of attention they forget that in the real world many of them wouldn’t get a 2nd look, it takes nothing to be polite when the same politeness is Bering offered to you. I guess I’m trying to say, keep a grip on reality while you’re in this world of what should be a pleasant experience
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