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"Yes/No Explain your reasoning ..... Aunties, Uncles, Parents , Siblings, Workplace, Leisure time..... That time you were inside " No because we shouldn’t just judge each other like that for it’s own sake , it has no purpose to form internal opinions about others. At best It’s gossiping to yourself , but it invariably spreads across your network. Should we make decisions & take actions about others based on they the company they keep? I think the context / reason and impact is important. Maybe you’re supporting that person ? Or doing the right thing through loyalty. Doesn’t mean you let their values run off on you. I’ve kept some very bad company in the past when I needed to get something done I believed was so important and worthwhile | |||
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"I've got no choice with some of the company I keep therefore I should not be judged on that. I choose to keep company with my dad. My brothers choose not to. People are judging us all on that favourably and not so. " Family can be a really tough one. I think it’s important to do the right thing by our family, while limiting and negative impact on ourselves. Obviously depends on what has gone on in the past, and your capacity to forgive | |||
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"I've got no choice with some of the company I keep therefore I should not be judged on that. I choose to keep company with my dad. My brothers choose not to. People are judging us all on that favourably and not so. Family can be a really tough one. I think it’s important to do the right thing by our family, while limiting and negative impact on ourselves. Obviously depends on what has gone on in the past, and your capacity to forgive" I agree. People are judging the individual actions of my family without knowing the dynamic. | |||
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" That's when they run with the hare and hunt with the hounds. " I like this saying....I may steal it | |||
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"Yes, we should. What a bracingly simple question. Thanks Granny." A yes or no is simple. A little explanation of how you arrive at your decision makes it less so. | |||
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"Yes/No Explain your reasoning ..... Aunties, Uncles, Parents , Siblings, Workplace, Leisure time..... That time you were inside " Judge not lest ye be judged. No. Much Less judging of people is needed until you actually know the individual. Even then... And if we are going to judge someone... Probably best to judge the individual rather than whoever they have around them. | |||
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