FabSwingers.com forum: being to nice is seen as a weakness with woman?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have always been "Mr nice guy " ! ,im very clean and always pleasant and lisen to people ,im not forceful but filthy and rude when needed!,so why do people think this is a weakness ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we don't

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Has anyone actually suggested it is?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Seems perfectly reasonable to me!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

treat em mean, keep em keen

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Nahh I like nice men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have always been "Mr nice guy " ! ,im very clean and always pleasant and lisen to people ,im not forceful but filthy and rude when needed!,so why do people think this is a weakness ? "
I hate rude and filthy, forceful men and I bet a lot here are like me .... Mr nice win s hands down ....... rest can take a run and jump.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes some ladies dont like "nice" just some one who fucks and goes ok i suppose but not my style x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"treat em mean, keep em keen

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and boot there bum out the door , lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"treat em mean, keep em keen

and boot there bum out the door , lol

I didn't say they get in the door...

I do dogging in my drive

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I think I have a different definition of 'Mr Nice Guy'.

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

there are certainly some women on here who do appreciate good manners and intelligence and i am sure that being nice on here will win you more friends than enemies anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the level of niceness.

Personally I like strong respectful men. I can't be doing with men who are so 'nice' that they want to do everything for me bar wiping my Arse though. And I don't like men who don't know what they're doing in the bedroom, to the extent of constantly asking me 'is this ok' every few minutes

So respect me, pay me compliments every now and then and take control of me in the bedroom and I'm happy

...... Oh and flowers, buy me flowers lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I think I have a different definition of 'Mr Nice Guy'."

a decent lad until they bow and scrape their way along the road to vaginaville....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's nice to be nice, but depends in what way you see yourself as Mr Nice ???

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I wouldnt entertain anyone who wasnt decent and respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"treat em mean, keep em keen

and boot there bum out the door , lol

I didn't say they get in the door...

I do dogging in my drive"
you all in them animal masks , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have always been "Mr nice guy " ! ,im very clean and always pleasant and lisen to people ,im not forceful but filthy and rude when needed!,so why do people think this is a weakness ? "

It's not a weakness your just not talking to the right people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldnt entertain anyone who wasnt decent and respectful"
your right .He can be a bit dom in the bed room .... that's it , lol ok little kinky too ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IMHO, sometimes being nice can come.across as being needy and desperate.

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By *o1mrtlcMan
over a year ago

cannock

"I wouldnt entertain anyone who wasnt decent and respectfulyour right .He can be a bit dom in the bed room .... that's it , lol ok little kinky too ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They is a very fine balance.

Too nice and you're in the friend zone.

Too far the other way and you're a knob. (Even though women seem to love a knob)

You've got to be nice plus confident plus have a bit of edge.

I was always too nice and eager to please, I'm a lot more successful with women now I ain't afraid to have a laugh and take the pee out of them a lot more. And not really care what they are thinking all the time.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

its nice to be nice .. and also nice to be appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like men who are nice, some men just say they are nice, they arent realy that nice though, bit like men who keep telling you how honest they are, they are the exact opposite.

if your too nice then some people will take advantage of you.

i like a man to be assertive, its not good to be too nice.

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

"i like men who are nice, some men just say they are nice, they arent realy that nice though, bit like men who keep telling you how honest they are, they are the exact opposite.

if your too nice then some people will take advantage of you.

i like a man to be assertive, its not good to be too nice."

I'm nice. Honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like attracts like. If you are as nice as you claim to be would you really want to meet with someone who doesn't find those traits appealing?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Who says being nice is a weakness???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see it as a weakness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what he means I have been told I am too nice and ppl walk over me because I bend over backwards for ppl and go out my way for them because they know I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like attracts like. If you are as nice as you claim to be would you really want to meet with someone who doesn't find those traits appealing?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like attracts like. If you are as nice as you claim to be would you really want to meet with someone who doesn't find those traits appealing?"

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"yes some ladies dont like "nice" just some one who fucks and goes ok i suppose but not my style x"

Some do. Some don't. Focus on the ones compatible with you. Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you a Pisces by any chance ? ;-p

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"treat em mean, keep em keen

i am almost willing to bet that use more by women on men, than men on women....

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"treat em mean, keep em keen

i am almost willing to bet that use more by women on men, than men on women...."

oops

you are right

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

define nice anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"treat em mean, keep em keen

i am almost willing to bet that use more by women on men, than men on women...."

Damn right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its alwaz good to be polite and nice. Id rather chat to guys that are. Too many on here are arrogant, pushy and cannot strings a few sentences together

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

politeness and respectfulness seems like a good idea to me

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"treat em mean, keep em keen

i am almost willing to bet that use more by women on men, than men on women...."

More fool the men/women that stay keen then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

noone fancies a pushover.Its all about confidence and treating people well,but with assertiveness.Not being a doormat.

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By *ukus 62Woman
over a year ago

Essex

"It depends on the level of niceness.

So respect me, pay me compliments every now and then and take control of me in the bedroom and I'm happy

...... Oh and flowers, buy me flowers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't!!

My Dad's favourite quote, which he must've said at least twice a day while I was growing up.lol

IT'S NICE TO BE IMPORTANT, BUT IT'S MORE IMPORTANT TO BE NICE!!

Reckon you just fine as you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know what he means I have been told I am too nice and ppl walk over me because I bend over backwards for ppl and go out my way for them because they know I will "

Hmmm..........yes! Sometimes wonder if I have M U G written on my forehead!!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"I have always been "Mr nice guy " ! ,im very clean and always pleasant and lisen to people ,im not forceful but filthy and rude when needed!,so why do people think this is a weakness ? "

initially,being nice is seen as a good thing,eventually,it's seen as a weakness,to be taken advantage of.

usually my reply to the nice guy post is.

many females claim to want a nice guy,but after while they just think,this guys a wank.

then i get pure pelters from irate females,so i'm happy i didn't give my usual reply.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"No we don't

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"No we don't

you know it.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Theres being nice, and theres being a doormat.

I like nice manners, and a nice clean guy or lady... but I do not like someone who agrees with every word I say, just because they think its the polite thing to do.

I want someone who is honest, and straightforward, and sometimes that means saying things I might not want to hear, but if its done in the right manner, with respect, then thats way better than being nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been nice, has got me nowhere.

I could try the opposite but being small, skinny, doesnt seem right and end up being laughed at more.

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