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By *aren_nylons OP   Woman
18 weeks ago

Great Dunmow

If you knew now about the lifestyle what you knew in your 20’s / 30’s perhaps, would you have taken the advantage of potential opportunities more, or done anything different?

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By *eroLondonMan
18 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Yes. And yes.

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By *avexxMan
18 weeks ago

cheshire

yes and no

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
18 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Maybe.

I don't understand the question.

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By *ony MannMan
18 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

I would have jumped in sooner. Went I went to my first party I had no idea what to expect. Thank Sandy and husband for my first group sex.

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
18 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

I found it first when I was 31!!

It had its good points and bad points, bad enough to leave for 9 years!!

Hopefully a little wiser for the experience now 🤞

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By *ansoffateMan
18 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I think I did 'know' in my 20s, certainly 30s.

I had less of the understanding and vocabulary to explain what I felt. I certainly took my time to understand demisexuality and poly.

However, I was in open relationships from early 20s. Then a monogamous relationship till late 20s, which was more about nesting and having children. We still openly talked about attraction to other people, and as we got more time it moved into swinging as a couple.

Perhaps the conversations would have been smoother. Possibly not though, I tend to be drawn to women with feisty temperaments and often a degree of territoriality.

I've had some amazing relationships where we've explored and grown together, as partners and individuals. I hope I can say the same in 10 years time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
18 weeks ago

East Sussex

I knew nothing in my twenties and only slightly more in my thirties.

However I don't view this as a lifestyle, more a hobby

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Central

I've been swinging since I was 21, so no

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Yes and yes

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Well i probably wasn't ready then - too much social conditioning from my family

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By *ucka39Man
18 weeks ago

Newcastle

Highly Possibly, understanding the value. It was a lot easier

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By *ealitybitesMan
18 weeks ago

Belfast

No,because as already said above this isn't a lifestyle choice for me. It's nothing more than a hobby.

I also had zero knowledge of anything like this in my 20s, 30s, or 40s and when I signed up here aged 52 I had very little sexual experience and therefore nothing to compare and contrast with or consider doing differently.

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