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"I might have a problem, there might be someone at my work with some files that reveal I'm a total slut, I'm afraid he might let people know and could cause me to lose my job, I'd rather he come to me and we can sort an "arrangement" out for him to give me the flashdrive, has anyone else had this issue x" Isnt it illegal or something? Should be if not | |||
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"Thanks for the comment i'm hoping he does, I misplaced a flashdrive with some porn, loads of pics/vids of me dressed being filthy and it also had some other files on that confirm the drive is mine, if they look at it and put 2and2 together I hope they come to me. " I hope they come to you also. Why you should worry about that that you are proud of confuses me. I know no one wants to be the subject of malicious gossip but if people gossip then allow their tiny minds to do so... You shouldn't be fazed | |||
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"That sounds like a really silly thing to take to work with you." My thoughts too but shit happens .... shit happens | |||
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"That sounds like a really silly thing to take to work with you." I know but it was in my bag from the night before, I keep my work and life as separate as I can, there is a no porn policy at work, gross misconduct, but just having it on a drive cant hurt | |||
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"That sounds like a really silly thing to take to work with you. I know but it was in my bag from the night before, I keep my work and life as separate as I can, there is a no porn policy at work, gross misconduct, but just having it on a drive cant hurt" Uhmmmmmmmmm I think it can and has | |||
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"I hope they come to you also. Why you should worry about that that you are proud of confuses me. I know no one wants to be the subject of malicious gossip but if people gossip then allow their tiny minds to do so... You shouldn't be fazed" It's just some people i work with live in my local area. | |||
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"I might have a problem, there might be someone at my work with some files that reveal I'm a total slut, I'm afraid he might let people know and could cause me to lose my job, I'd rather he come to me and we can sort an "arrangement" out for him to give me the flashdrive, has anyone else had this issue x" If he releases this it’s revenge porn. Unfortunately doesn’t stop any embarrassment but will fuck him over. | |||
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"I hope they come to you also. Why you should worry about that that you are proud of confuses me. I know no one wants to be the subject of malicious gossip but if people gossip then allow their tiny minds to do so... You shouldn't be fazed It's just some people i work with live in my local area." I don't see the problem ? Are you ashamed of being who you are ? | |||
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"That sounds like a really silly thing to take to work with you. I know but it was in my bag from the night before, I keep my work and life as separate as I can, there is a no porn policy at work, gross misconduct, but just having it on a drive cant hurt" I mean, honestly it just seems an odd thing to carry around at all. But then I live alone and can keep my porn and photos wherever I like, so. | |||
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"I might have a problem, there might be someone at my work with some files that reveal I'm a total slut, I'm afraid he might let people know and could cause me to lose my job, I'd rather he come to me and we can sort an "arrangement" out for him to give me the flashdrive, has anyone else had this issue x If he releases this it’s revenge porn. Unfortunately doesn’t stop any embarrassment but will fuck him over. " Revenge for what ? | |||
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"I might have a problem, there might be someone at my work with some files that reveal I'm a total slut, I'm afraid he might let people know and could cause me to lose my job, I'd rather he come to me and we can sort an "arrangement" out for him to give me the flashdrive, has anyone else had this issue x If he releases this it’s revenge porn. Unfortunately doesn’t stop any embarrassment but will fuck him over. " Yep , you are right , any sexual material without consent is covered by this law | |||
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"Are you ashamed of being who you are ?" Not realy it's just I'm not out and have a couple of kids and I dont want them to get hassled by the local biggots | |||
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"Sorry, but the way you've worded the OP makes it sound like you're excited. It's either bollocks or you 'misplaced' it on purpose, because there is absolutely no other reason to take it to work as I'm sure you know that you can't attach a non-encrypted USB to your Work computer with out prior consent, and no one in their right mid would do so with that type of material on it If if it true, and you get sacked, it has nothing to do with it being you, or you being outed. You've brought pornographic material into work on a mass storage device. It's just foolish. " I understand what you say but it was in my bag from the night before, I dont have a desk or computer at work to plug it into and hadn't intended to use it at all, it's just that I emptied the contents of my bag to find a pen at the bottom and it must have fallen out, the idea of me being excited to be sacked is daft. | |||
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"Are you ashamed of being who you are ? Not realy it's just I'm not out and have a couple of kids and I dont want them to get hassled by the local biggots" You look pretty much out to me Em.... | |||
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"Sorry, but the way you've worded the OP makes it sound like you're excited. It's either bollocks or you 'misplaced' it on purpose, because there is absolutely no other reason to take it to work as I'm sure you know that you can't attach a non-encrypted USB to your Work computer with out prior consent, and no one in their right mid would do so with that type of material on it If if it true, and you get sacked, it has nothing to do with it being you, or you being outed. You've brought pornographic material into work on a mass storage device. It's just foolish. I understand what you say but it was in my bag from the night before, I dont have a desk or computer at work to plug it into and hadn't intended to use it at all, it's just that I emptied the contents of my bag to find a pen at the bottom and it must have fallen out, the idea of me being excited to be sacked is daft." Question ........ What type of bag was it. It's important . | |||
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"I understand what you say but it was in my bag from the night before, I dont have a desk or computer at work to plug it into and hadn't intended to use it at all, it's just that I emptied the contents of my bag to find a pen at the bottom and it must have fallen out, the idea of me being excited to be sacked is daft." Why were you carrying it around? Especially completely unsecured? | |||
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"What kind of bag was it ?" I'm going for a hello kitty backpack ...  | |||
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"Are you ashamed of being who you are ?" I find that such a silly question. You can lead a happy & private life at the same time, they're not mutually exclusive. | |||
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"Are you ashamed of being who you are ? I find that such a silly question. You can lead a happy & private life at the same time, they're not mutually exclusive." I didn't ask if it was possible to lead a happy and private life. | |||
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"What kind of bag was it ? I'm going for a hello kitty backpack ... "I was thinking L.V...... Doesn't look like i'm finding out soon | |||
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"Are you ashamed of being who you are ? I find that such a silly question. You can lead a happy & private life at the same time, they're not mutually exclusive. I didn't ask if it was possible to lead a happy and private life. " I know. I saw what was asked. OP is someone who is concerned about having their sex life inadvertently exposed. It's not an identity crisis issue. | |||
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"Are you ashamed of being who you are ? I find that such a silly question. You can lead a happy & private life at the same time, they're not mutually exclusive. I didn't ask if it was possible to lead a happy and private life. I know. I saw what was asked. OP is someone who is concerned about having their sex life inadvertently exposed. It's not an identity crisis issue." I never suggested it was an identity crisis issue either. Best I wait for the O.P. to tell me what he thinks about himself. Thanks for trying tho Betty x | |||
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"I don’t know whether I’m right or wrong here, but I think if you have that kind of content, I think you should save it in a cloud service as you can access that anywhere you are and download just what you need, memory sticks are just so easy to lose or misplace and if your life story is on there, it’s on there for everyone to see unless right protected" Good idea.... But the horse has bolted in this case  | |||
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"I never suggested it was an identity crisis issue either" 🤔 "Are you ashamed of being who you are ?" You're welcome  | |||
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"Sorry, but the way you've worded the OP makes it sound like you're excited. It's either bollocks or you 'misplaced' it on purpose, because there is absolutely no other reason to take it to work as I'm sure you know that you can't attach a non-encrypted USB to your Work computer with out prior consent, and no one in their right mid would do so with that type of material on it If if it true, and you get sacked, it has nothing to do with it being you, or you being outed. You've brought pornographic material into work on a mass storage device. It's just foolish. I understand what you say but it was in my bag from the night before, I dont have a desk or computer at work to plug it into and hadn't intended to use it at all, it's just that I emptied the contents of my bag to find a pen at the bottom and it must have fallen out, the idea of me being excited to be sacked is daft. Question ........ What type of bag was it. It's important ." A medium cycling backpack drybag with role top, why ? | |||
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"I wondered if it was a flimsy thing and the USB slipped out unnoticed .. Or if it had so many pockets the stick could still be in there" Thanks, I've checked about ten times lol | |||
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"I've worked in coms before and the "cloud" ain't safe at all." On a related note, any Android users who has the Google Photos app installed, should disable or uninstall it immediately if you care about your privacy. It automatically uploads anything in your to gallery to some kind of Drive account/cloud storage you never knowingly set up, and you have to opt out of it, rather than opt in. | |||
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"Well I guess it could be classed as black mail. " No one has done anything yet or even suggested they have it | |||
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"I might have a problem, there might be someone at my work with some files that reveal I'm a total slut, I'm afraid he might let people know and could cause me to lose my job, I'd rather he come to me and we can sort an "arrangement" out for him to give me the flashdrive, has anyone else had this issue x" Don’t think you know who it is? | |||
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"I might have a problem, there might be someone at my work with some files that reveal I'm a total slut, I'm afraid he might let people know and could cause me to lose my job, I'd rather he come to me and we can sort an "arrangement" out for him to give me the flashdrive, has anyone else had this issue x" 'arrangement' do tell ? What do you think he'd ask for. Presuming it is a bloke .... | |||
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"I might have a problem, there might be someone at my work with some files that reveal I'm a total slut, I'm afraid he might let people know and could cause me to lose my job, I'd rather he come to me and we can sort an "arrangement" out for him to give me the flashdrive, has anyone else had this issue x" Make it crystal clear you’ll hospitalise him off the record if anything gets outed. Ask for the drive back . | |||
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"BTW, Whoever is controlling the bot or python script who PMs me whenever I write something even remotely disagreeable in a thread, I'm just not going to waste time engaging in a messages back & fourth with you on a Saturday afternoon. It's ridiculous that you think the OP is a fantasist, when they have more more frequent and recent meet verifications than you 😂 Have a day off.." I would just like to apologize for the above comment, referring to a PM I got regarding this thread. I didn't read it properly at first, and as it turned out you weren't explicitly agreeing with the idea that OP was a fantasist. So I apologize for that. You have done this to me on a number of occasions before, where you message me just to tell me you disagreed with something I wrote, & my knee jerk reaction when i saw you in my inbox was "fuck sake, you again?" and wrote the above rant before really reading the message. On this occasion though I was wrong. However in future... I don't really want to be PMd with your (or the person controlling your account) takes on forum discussions, if for whatever reason you can't write it in the discussion itself. I don't care which participant you think has the right or wrong opinion, or any of that stuff. My message box is primarily for talking with people who know me, or wish to get to know me, for recreational purposes. It's things like this why some people believe there is a forum clique. Please refrain from sending me those kind of messages going forward 🙏🏽 | |||
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