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By *eeliciouschaos OP   Woman
22 weeks ago

Wherever

For me, I like busy places. I’ve been known for meeting in ALL busy places. Busy coffee shops. Art galleries. Chinatown. Busy beach. Hyde Park Winter Wonderland. Camden. Oxford Street. You name it, the busier the better. Most of them were a great success.

Made me wonder. How about you?

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By *asterMeliodasMan
22 weeks ago

Newmill

I always ensure it's in a public place and that they're able to leave under their own steam if they want to go at any point. Last time I met up with someone for the first time I lined it up with bus times because she doesn't drive, so that if she wasn't feeling it she wouldn't be counting on me to drive her somewhere. Providing as much reassurance of safety as possible is important to me.

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By *eeliciouschaos OP   Woman
22 weeks ago

Wherever


"I always ensure it's in a public place and that they're able to leave under their own steam if they want to go at any point. Last time I met up with someone for the first time I lined it up with bus times because she doesn't drive, so that if she wasn't feeling it she wouldn't be counting on me to drive her somewhere. Providing as much reassurance of safety as possible is important to me."

Yes. Safety is paramount. I do that too, I don’t drive so always have a plan B and route planned.

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By *WB85Man
22 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Pub / restaurant.....somewhere nice.

Even meeting someone for a walk can be quite nice.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
22 weeks ago

north of lincoln

We only ever meet someone in a pub or bar first . We also find sharing a few drinks together helps you realise if you want to go further or not

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

The only 1:1 social I've done was in Costa and that was because it was clear that we were friends only, not friends thinking about doing the sex!

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By *et and WillingCouple
22 weeks ago

Nuneaton

We always ask the lady we are meeting where she is happy to meet and go with that after all we are a couple shes a single lady

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By *irwanksalot69Man
22 weeks ago

Birmingham

As public as possible, so the lady feels safe.

(As a bonus, it's also quite fun subtly talking about naughty things in a public place )

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By *ealitybitesMan
22 weeks ago

Belfast

Always a public place. I don't mind if it's busy or quiet but it has to be someplace we can have conversation without having to shout.

That's what puts me off so many group socials. The environment isn't very social.

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By *ea monkeyMan
22 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

In my basement, at the axe shop, abandoned warehouses… the options are limitless

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"In my basement, at the axe shop, abandoned warehouses… the options are limitless "

👀

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Public places.

Never a restaurant. I like to be able to swallow my drink fast and say right lovely meeting you but must go if it’s not for me.

Luckily, I’ve never had a bad experience.

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By *edstockings2Couple
22 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

We like our social between rounds of fucking. Halftime cuppa.

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By *cedGemWoman
22 weeks ago

your dreams

Nice quiet pub so we can talk freely-ish over a drink.

Wouldn't go for a meal as others have said it's far easier to down a drink & go if you're not feeling it

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By *cLovin2Man
22 weeks ago

Reading


"Public places.

Never a restaurant. I like to be able to swallow my drink fast and say right lovely meeting you but must go if it’s not for me.

Luckily, I’ve never had a bad experience. "

I got strangely aroused when I read

"I like to be able to swallow" and fast

Drink was a bit of a let down Bella.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"Public places.

Never a restaurant. I like to be able to swallow my drink fast and say right lovely meeting you but must go if it’s not for me.

Luckily, I’ve never had a bad experience.

I got strangely aroused when I read

"I like to be able to swallow" and fast

Drink was a bit of a let down Bella. "

Don’t worry I’m a let down too. Boring also. 😊

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
22 weeks ago

Newcastle

I prefer a bar somewhere central. A nice quiet and cosy corner where you can talk without being overheard and maybe have a few subtle touches or kisses without being noticed.

I have done coffee shops but find they don’t really make for a sexy atmosphere.

Kx

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
22 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Quiet n secluded, lime behind Asda's bins

Mr

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By *2000ManMan
22 weeks ago

Worthing

Local coffee shop then walk and chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

We prefer a local walking routes, mini golf, you know, just somewhere casual. No stress, no fuss. Xx

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
22 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I've had socials in the past in a nice coffee shop or bar.

I don't mind as long as its in a neutral place ie not theirs or at mine.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
22 weeks ago

Stratford

Public but quieter. Good transport links

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By *eroLondonMan
22 weeks ago

Mayfair

In a Caffé Nero™, a city branch, because they often have high vaulted ceilings; an art gallery or a museum where we can walk and talk at length and get to know each other, less focused on the objet d'art or the relics but more immersed in each other. The artworks always serve splendidly for those comfortable silences and the interludes.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
22 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I don’t mind where at all. As long as I’m being a social butterfly I’m happy

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By *hrista BellendWoman
22 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

Ranging from cuppa tea socials, going shopping, dinner, themepark, museum, walking the dog, cemetery (in daylight) sex club, to watching fireworks, I've met so many people, in loads of different places, over the 5 years I've been on here

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By *ookie46Woman
22 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I don’t mind as long as it’s not too noisy

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
22 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

A nice place that's fairly busy so we can get straight into the subject of 'worse meets ever' laugh out loud without drawing too much attention, then maybe a little flirting. No PDA but maybe a little tactile touch every now and again.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
22 weeks ago

Wirral

Don't mind where, as long it's quiet enough to chat but busy enough to not feel overheard.

If I'm meeting at the weekend (which I normally am) I have found that meeting in a pub of an evening can be misconstrued, so tend to play it safe with coffee shops these days.

I had a great social a couple of months ago in the cafe at a museum. We had coffee and then went to see the show at the planetarium. It was a very happy afternoon!

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By *affron40Woman
22 weeks ago

manchester

Nice big pub that’s not overly busy.

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By *a LunaWoman
22 weeks ago

South Wales

Somewhere with good parking, toilets, public but not too peopley. And lastly, informal.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
22 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Pub. Pub? Pub! 🍺

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By *ady LickWoman
22 weeks ago

Northampton Somewhere

Pub or coffee shop for me, not too close to home. Never a restaurant in case I want to get out of there! Have burnt my tongue on a coffee before because he wasn't for me and was doing sex talk

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By *orphia2003Woman
22 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Pub, cafe, organised socials.

Preferably somewhere not too busy where we can chat without needing to shout.

These days, it's places where I don't need to travel, so usually pub / coffeeshop near work. That way, if they don't show, I've not wasted time.

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
22 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

It's been coffee shops or at organised socials.

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By *edstockings2Couple
22 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

At the swinging club after all that is a neutral place where it doesn't matter if you are taking about fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Pub, waffle restaurant, pastry shop, cafe, park, but the worst was a McDonalds (I know that might be sacrilege for Little Bird - and it was not her - but the seats are uncomfortable, the lights are too bright, the conversation was not private)

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

In a nice vaulted crypt. Surrounded by my acolytes. And all the dolls.

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By *enk15Man
22 weeks ago

Evesham

Graveyards, preferably after dark.

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By *amanthabWoman
22 weeks ago

Somewhere

Has to be somewhere busy for me with lots of people around - this tends to put off most of the married men unless they’re working away from home!

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"Has to be somewhere busy for me with lots of people around - this tends to put off most of the married men unless they’re working away from home!"

Doing it wrong if they consider it to be 'work'

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By *ansoffateMan
22 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Wherever we can talk and there's the potential for for sustenance.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
22 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Has to be somewhere busy for me with lots of people around - this tends to put off most of the married men unless they’re …"
… wanking away from home!

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Big social events or decent pubs that are not packed solid and really loud or I can't hear you!

Not a bad thing with some people though

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
22 weeks ago

Reading


"I always ensure it's in a public place and that they're able to leave under their own steam if they want to go at any point. Last time I met up with someone for the first time I lined it up with bus times because she doesn't drive, so that if she wasn't feeling it she wouldn't be counting on me to drive her somewhere. Providing as much reassurance of safety as possible is important to me."

Thank you for putting womens safety so high.

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